Relationship

[corry]

hi

ive been with my boyfriends for a half year now, and i have accept him as an adult baby.

but he wants us to move and make a nursery, so i can be he's mum fulltime..

but i was wondering... whats happens to the realtionship?

do i then stop being he's girlfriend and just he's mum?

[tiggeroo]

Hi Corry

you should sit with him and discuss your concerns

relationships are `sposed to be 2 way & I`m thinking there will be rm. for grown-up times

as well. most important to me would be to keep open & honest communications.

If you`re accepting his baby side he should accept your grown up side as well.

I know I would do that were my wife more accepting.(she does know I`m a dl).

to me that`s what love is about (accepting & respecting each others needs)

talk to him openly. good luck & best wishes to both

tiggeroo

[corry]

thanks

i wil.. but we have to move together then but maybe i would bring it up before that happens..

it not a problem now.. he lives 2 hours away so i just see him sometimes, and he lives with he's parents so theres no time for "baby all day" and i can handle him being this way at night, becase in the daytime he's a "adult"

[corry]

how is it to be an mummy/dady all the time?

can anyone who has one or are one tell theyr story?

[Dill_Pickle]

hi

ive been with my boyfriends for a half year now, and i have accept him as an adult baby.

but he wants us to move and make a nursery, so i can be he's mum fulltime..

but i was wondering... whats happens to the realtionship?

do i then stop being he's girlfriend and just he's mum?

What happens to the relationship is between you and him, and it's whatever you and him let it become. That is, you need to talk with him about it...what does he imagine it will be, what do you need for yourself, what about if you have friends over, what do you know is not fun for you? What about your current friends? And, this might sound odd, but suppose he needs a lot more baby time than is fun for you? Will he be diapered constantly? Are you willing to change poopy diapers?

As others have said, MUTUAL, RESPECTFUL, OPEN COMMUNICATIONS is key. All else is negotiable.