Control

[noahVmiller]

I want to get your opinion on this, especially as it relates to Mommies and Daddies. Right now I am struggling with communicating my desire to be "controlled" as a little to my mommy. She hates the idea of being in control, yet still participates in ABDL activities. When we do RP she couldn't play the part any better, and the bond we've formed while rping is truly something very special. She is afraid that by taking the control reins it will prevent me from making decisions and ultimately from falling into the more "traditional" male role in the relationship.

[Snugglebear]

Simple, communicate your desires, give her time to assimilate the conversation, be supportive and ultimately accept she may not be comfortable with your request. You can't change someone else's comfort level; you can only create a facilitative environment.

Snugglebear