Need Advice

[dl_phpi]

Hey all,

[thickdiaperedbaby]

While I think honesty is important for a successful and happy relationship, I think that you are way too early in the game to "spill the beans" about something like this. After you are intimate for awhile, and are having a serious and regular relationship, would it be appropriate to bring something like this up. Until then, enjoy the early stages of courtship unencumbered by this burden.

[Bettypooh]

If it becomes serious on both sides, then that is the time to cross your fingers and open your heart fully If you don't have that level of affection from them there is a chance that this will end the relationship before it had a chance to get going If you wait later their heart could be broken by their perception of you not really being honest with them (and if you care about them, you don't want their heart broken like that). It's not the easiest subject to put a pretty face on, but deceit will always catch you in the end so it does need to be discussed at some point