monstersmash95 Posted January 6, 2012 Share Posted January 6, 2012 my little one is also my boyfriend and hes very eager to start and so am I. we have talked about it alot but i was wonderin if any other mommies or daddys out there could give me any tip on how to actually begin..or "get the ball rolling" so to speak. Link to comment
monstersmash95 Posted January 7, 2012 Author Share Posted January 7, 2012 well he grew up in foster care n never was really nurtured or felt loved or cared for. n i noticed wen we were in high school he would gravitated to the teachers who were mor nurturing and mothering. ( we were in a small setting school with about 35 kids and 4 kids to a class) so teachers could afford to give special attention like that. n i noticed he seemed some what " at home" when i would hold him like i would my three year old brother.and he would do little things like suk my thumb or hold my hand that way small children do. Also he seemed to want to b told what to do. Like little things like wantin my permission to do things. this is how i cought on. so when i brouht all this up u could tell he was into it n wants to but is a little shy. so i guess im takkin the lead on this one.he makes comments like he cnt wait to b a good boy for mommy. so i guess i want to ease him into it. n take it slow. i dont think hes ready for diapers just yet. i jus need to find a way to introduse this to him so he feels comfortable from the start Link to comment
sharonbethlyn Posted December 26, 2012 Share Posted December 26, 2012 try cuddling, tender kisses not on the lips, cuddle in bed and pat his butt, cuddle him try to get him to take a pacifier, give in baths GIVE HIM THE BATH not take a bath, get him some nighties have him wear them around the house. Link to comment
Fulldiaper Posted March 23, 2013 Share Posted March 23, 2013 Start slow, with communications on both of your parts. Hopefully he'll allow you to diaper him and you can talk over a glass of wine or a couple of cold beers. Once you have him diapers, find out his goals, ambitions and finally where he see's the relationship going. You reflect on that too since you're accepting a HUGE responsibility. Link to comment
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