legend00006 Posted September 7, 2009 Share Posted September 7, 2009 ok so today my gf and i talked about sexual fantasies. she told me hers, and she asked wat mine were. i told her bondage, and later on i said diapers. she said she didn't care that i liked diapers. So i guess this is a success for me. Link to comment
Honu Posted September 7, 2009 Share Posted September 7, 2009 Hey Brah! That's great! This is good advice for others too. The best time to talk about your sexual connection to diapers, infantialism and related role playing (spanking, humiliation, etc.) is when she brings up sexual fantasies and shows you hers. Even so, start in a general framework of dominance/submission because there is a little bit of that in most fantasies and then expand to diapers. She is "showing you hers" which means that you have to sell that what you are showing is everything. If you don't come all the way clean, you will have to sell that where you want to go is a logical step from where you confessed. The good news is that since she showed you hers, the threat of being outted is gone. She would be almost as embarassed amoung family and friends about her interests as you would about your diaper fantasies. Girls enjoy sharing secrets and it's a test of the level of your relationship. That's two gold stars for you!! Congrats, Honu Link to comment
curiositykilledthecat Posted September 8, 2009 Share Posted September 8, 2009 Congrats. Link to comment
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