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Hey fellow DD community members. I just wanted to take a minute and express how lucky I am to be where I am in life. I was born with a disability that prevents me from being able to digest food, because of this I have a Central Line I.V that gives me all the nutrition I need. This is also why you wont see much food in my written stories, because well, I don't have much experience with it so I can't really write about it. I get TPN and Stool Replacement they infuse over the span of 12 hours at night. I'm free for the rest of the day. I also suffer from diarrhea. I was constantly overprotected by my fairly religious parents and was told that I would never move out of the house and if I did get married my wife and I would have to live with my parents forever, because "they were the only ones capable of taking care of me". I often felt very sad and depressed, I was at home alone most of my life and wasn't allowed to go outside without supervision because "people would beat me up because I was disabled" even though my disability isn't very visible. I found my wife online and we started a relationship with each other over a VOIP app. She bought a plane ticket and came to live with me and my family. everything seemed good, we were shortly legally married afterwards. Unfortunately my dad died a few months before our official wedding celebration, but he was there to see us get legally married. After my dad died things became worse for us, we were given $85/mo to spend out of my > $400 disability payment, which my mom took all of. This wasn't so bad when my dad was alive, because he would often make my wife food and make sure we had plenty of food in the house, but when my mom got remarried that stopped. So we had $85/mo to spend on absolutely anything we needed and if we asked for more we would be given a huge speech about how greedy we were being. Anyway long story short we managed to get out of that situation. My wife learned to do all my medical stuff and we moved to a little apartment, which is perfect for us and our little kitty and we're living a very happy life. I did what at one point seemed like the impossible. I found a wife who didn't mind my medical stuff, or my AB side in fact she is very very supportive and interesting in AB/DL herself, but more on the mommy side for her. My life right now is so wonderful and I couldn't ask for more. I know sometimes it gets really hard and it feels like nothing could possibly get better, but from my experience, it usually does. I just wanted to make this little post to publicly show my gratitude for how lucky I am and how grateful I am for what I have. If any of you have any questions about my life, disability, living situation, wife, anything really. I'll be happy to answer you, a lot of people have questions but don't know if it's okay to ask or not. If you ask something too personal I just, wont answer. :P Here's a picture of my cat.
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Its a pretty day outside, I'm wearing a diaper and I just thought I would pop by and tell you all a little something. "Hey you, reading this thread. You're f*cking amazing. I mean, I really do appreciate everything you do. Don't let those other guys get you down, because HEY. They don't matter, and no matter what they say, you're better than that. You're YOU. So give yourself a pat on the back. You deserve it. Winner." So go put on a diaper and make yourself happy, you all deserve it ~ Alright, enough awesome talk. This is now an ab/dl motivational thread. -=This was a public announcement brought to you by Necros!=- Here's a song to get you fired up