Baby Jess

So it's a personal preference I suppose. I don't hide anything from anyone and I know my best friend knows and she has even been cool with it and used to get me my tippy cup and binky for me at night. I have been very adamant about letting people find out on there own or flat out telling them. I find amusement when some people think that they know they have something the an hang over me it makes me laugh? cuz I don't care who knows or what happens it's my life and I love it. I'm pretty sure my boss knows and his wife cuz again someone I allowed to know I think sent photos of me or something which whatever it's nothing to me. I let people know so they let people know so I can be comfortable with it being public knowledge. People need to stop worrying about others opinions and I stop fearing yourself cuz that's what it really boils down too. I know everyone knows but they all wait for me to open up to them and I don't I wait for them to ask. Which isn't always the correct way to be but hey I don't care. I think most people can comprehend that abdl is definitely not pedophilia. At least most people I've known but it sometimes is misunderstood as that. I work and pay my bills And my lifestyle doesn't effect my responsibilities as a adult so f**k what anyone say. I've never had anyone worry about me with kids or anything cuz everyone knows me knows that it's nothing like that and I believe it's becoming more accepted nowadays. Just some food for thought.???