[How to change your diaper]

1 hour ago, incondl said:

Me parece extraño que hayas dicho que nunca has usado un pañal pero que eres un DL y no sabes cómo ponerte uno. No lo sé ... tal vez solo soy yo.

I'm a dl level 1

[How to change your diaper]

Hello 

Well I want to ask how to chage your diaper by yourself. I'n a diaper lover but I've never wore one and if someday I can do it I want to know how to change it alone, if is with pee or poop or both.

So how do you guys do it?

I would be so grateful if you could help me

Thank you

[How to be a DL in secret?]

2 hours ago, baker7 said:

@vernet:

Having a need/feeling  for diapers is not bad - I understand what you mean  - The only thing I can say is if you are living with your parents, this may be harder for you to achieve.  You don't say how old you are, so I can only advise you to use caution - They might find out your secret, and then you would have to tell them something.  Hiding diapers would be hard at home if your parents do not know of your fetish/need.  If you are "found out" you would have to "come clean" and let them know what is going on.  They may react positively, or they may react negatively - You would have to be the one that has to decide how to handle this.

If you live on your own, you could indulge more freely in your "experimentation."  I like disposables, because of the ease of disposing of them, and the feeling that they give me - wearing them can be a little strange at first, and if you have the proper protection over your diaper, you should be OK, but you should be prepared for the ocasional  accident or leakage if your plan on using the diapers.  If you are just wearing them, and NOT using them, then you should wear them, then dispose as quickly as possible, to avoid bad smells in your residence or your room.

Now, about wearing diapers and incontinence:  Using or wearing diapers for longer periods DOES NOT cause incontinence.  Think of a diaper as another form of "Underwear,   You choose to wear/experiment with:  You don't just lose all control because  you have a diaper on:  You MAY lose some control  if you use for long periods, as your body may learn after a long while to just "let go" in the diaper when you feel the need to go:  I don't think a diaper is a bad thing, and I have been disabled all my life, and have had problems with incontinence on and off.

NO: prolonged use of diapers does NOT cause incontinence - I would consider 2 options:

1.  ONLY tell people about what is going on if you feel the need to disclose it to them.  Parents usually find stuff out very easily, so eventually you would have to tell them IF you are doing this and living at home.  Use your judgement on this one, as you are the one that knows your parents and the way that they may react.  You may be  able to just tell them outright what is up, or you could talk to a friend and see what they think:  I tell you this, because in some cases if you tell the wrong person, it can backfire, and cause you to have problems.  For others, it is None of their business why you are wearing/using diapers and other products

2.  If you want to wear diapers, there are ways to hide the diaper(s) and the sounds that they make:  Encase the diaper in something like Garywear Vinal Pants (https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00B8N95SQ/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_asin_title_o06_s00?ie=UTF8&psc=1)

Once You put a pair of these on, you usually just make sure that you have them pulled all the way up and BAM, the diaper is unseen and unheard:  Only those that KNOW you wear will know - and these look like underwear.  Next, put a pair of pants on, and pull them up so that it covers the Garywear Pants, and if necessary, use a BELT to keep your pants up.  If you have to USE the diaper, these  things usually keep you dry as you use the diaper.  The trick is to point your "assets" DOWN and make sure that the diaper is tight:  Loose taping of diapers can cause them to open up. or for pee/poo to escape the diaper and wet the inside of your pants:  usually, if they are wet after use, it it because of overflow. 

Remember:  if you wear diapers, you should always make sure that if you are CLEAN EVERY TIME you change one, and that means wipe yourself down, keeping yourself shaved, and DRY, and make sure to use cornstarch based powders.  DO NOT use talc, as that has been linked to cancer I believe.  Have Powder, wipes, Diaper Rash Cream and Diapers with you if you are traveling, and if you USE a diaper, dispose of it ASAP, as the smell will give you away, and that would NOT be good if you want to keep it secret.  Also, I recommend that you shower regularly, and this will help you with rashes - You have to keep yourself clean, or this may be something your parents will find out about.

The BEST Diapers are those that work for you:  I use NorthShore Megamax:  They work well, but they are expensive.

 

Let me know if there is anything else I can help you with, and Good Luck!

Brian

 

Thanks for the advices you really help me. I've been thinking of telling my parents about my fetish but it really scares me because I cant imagine how they could react 

Thank for answer me

[How to be a DL in secret?]

Hi im new in this site, actually is the first site of this kind i've ever been. 

Well I want to experiment the feeling of wear diapers, I have a fetish with see people in diapers and I want to try, I'm just intereset to wear and mess diapers not be a baby, but I live with my parents and I don't want they discover it, so can some one give me an advice to hide the diapers and throw them?

And a extra cuestion. Use diapers can cause incotinentinence?

I would appreciatte your advice

Sorry if my inglish is mad Im from other country