diaperedspirit

I recommend you come out then. Psychologically, hiding your true self is more dangerous than other people's reactions to it.

Thanks Kitten! I'm trying to in little ways. There are parts of my life were I will probably not be able to be out in the ways I would like to be. But where it is possible I've tried to be more and more out. I can say that in my home and in my relationship with my wife I have never had to be closeted which has been helpful. But my little side is a really important part of myself that I have come to love and it is hard to feel like I have to keep it hidden outside of that.