[My partner isn't throwing his soiled diapers away.]

I really appreciate everyone's replies. I did mention it to him last night and he immediately said, "I know, I know, I'm sorry. I know I need to throw them away."

@warpiper Thank you especially for this suggestion. I've just ordered the Dekor Diaper Pail Plus. It also looks like from a quick Google search, it can double as a cat litter pail as well!

 

[My partner isn't throwing his soiled diapers away.]

I'm not sure how to bring this up without making him embarrassed. I am obviously aware of his diaper fetish. He has recently started to wear the largest size of Pull-Ups.

I went under the bathroom counter yesterday to get something and there were like 4 or 5 of them in there! Judging my the smell - he had definitely wet them.

I feel awful - he must really, truly, feel like he has to hide them if he's stuffing them away down there. Diapers aren't my thing, but I have no issue with him wearing them and I thought I had made that pretty evident. I don't know why he doesn't just throw them in the normal trash can that gets emptied far more often.

How can I bring this up with out embarrassing him or making him feel bad? I don't care if he wants to use a diaper / pull-up and mess in it, just throw the freaking thing away after!

Is this normal or part of the whole thing and I'm missing that somehow?