AbsolutelyIncontinent

Wow! This turned into quite the ethical and legal discussion. The point about not exposing oneself to children is something I wish didn't need to be stated, but... Yes! Most definitely, exposing your sexual fetishes to children is highly problematic. There are times the it happens, such as Pride parades where bondage gear is worn and floggers are flaunted about. So it's societally not completely forbidden, but we should practice extreme care to protect children from being harmed by exposure to adult sexuality. I'm not a fan of the "slippery slope" argument. I don't believe that ethically-minded behavior slips into unethical, illegal behavior in some uncontrollably fashion. Many adults play on the edges of acceptability with their sexual practices and are careful to stay within safe and respectful boundaries. As such, there are many settings in which wearing clothes that make it obvious that a diaper is being worn is a fine decision. The most obvious place is fetish oriented sex clubs. But there are plenty of bars that children go to, and bars that specifically cater to sex-positive, all queers are welcome crowds. I live on the west coast, so there not hard to find. I can think of some bars that it would feel likely to creep someone out in a bad way, and other bars where, if someone was offended and expressed it to me, they'd be asked to leave. I'm sure I can think of other places where it's fine to not hide diaper wearing, but I'd love to hear if others have ideas that aren't explicitly ABDL places. Here's an idea for some really boring pants, but they're right and stretchy. The picture of the butt makes me think they'll show the diaper lines (like panty lines but thicker!) https://www.wrangler.com/shop/mens-flex-waist-outdoor-cargo-pantearth-green3330-NW788EG%3A33%3A30.html?utm_medium=cpc&utm_source=google&utm_campaign=shopping&utm_content=pla&utm_term=NW788EG:33:30&utm_medium=cpc&utm_source=google&utm_campaign=shopping&utm_content=pla&utm_term=NW788EG%3A33%3A30&gclid=Cj0KCQjw7MGJBhD-ARIsAMZ0eetdsBNa1Ghhw2Jk7b6ReCKWHder2oh_271O0GWOQYQevk05GHNgW9waAq07EALw_wcB&gclsrc=aw.ds

Love these pics! To clarify my OP, what about clothes that would pass as normal everyday wear, but really have it away that there's a diaper under them? Anyone play around with that?

What are the best pants/ diaper combination for showing off your diaper? Something that makes it unmistakable to anyone that there's a big thick diaper getting warmly filled under your pants?

I figured out a way to become incontinent. Overdoing kegels. Squeeze your bladder control muscles as hard as I can, repeat a bunch of times. It gets really sore, but I did enough that it weakened my muscles. I can slow down my flow now but can't stop it