[What is the link between our desire for diapers and our sexuality?]

13 minutes ago, DLonly said:

I'm really the same, like I get incredibly turned on when I wear diapers. But a gf and I tried diaper sex once and it wasn't really that much more intense than usually. Now she was doing it for me cause she was great that way, but she wasn't a DL or anything. I also believe I built it up in my head to be the greatest thing ever. But I find I enjoy them more when alone. That would change If I was in a relationship where we were both DL or Abdl I imagine. But then again maybe not.

I have had the same experience with a woman who would wear a diaper just to keep me company. The diapers didn't make the sex any better. They just got in the way. I wonder if I found a lover who loved diapers if it would be better or if diaper play and sex play would be different forms of play time?

[Hi...]

Dear Elenwen, I am old enough to be your grandmother. I have many interests and would enjoy learning about some of yours. 

I thought I would outgrow my need for diapers but even though I have no excuse for wearing them I still wear diapers nearly every day. I think it is a good thing you enjoy diapers if it is necessary for you to wear them. I would like to know which things about diapers you enjoy and why. If you would like to share your story with someone nearly half a century older and half a world away perhaps others will enjoy and join in. Thank you. Sincerely, Katie

[New to DD not to diapers]

Thank you. I am delighted to find so many people talking about one of my favorite topics in a supportive and info sharing manner. 

[New to DD not to diapers]

I just discovered DD and I feel I'm in the right place. I don't know where else I could admit that I'm wearing diapers for the fun of it.

[Do you have a memorable diaper change or fantasy?]

I have often fantasized about changing a diaper lovers diaper. I would watch the eyes and face of my playmate and know how it felt to have my hands disclose  their secret self. 

I would find it harder to allow someone to change my diaper though the fantasy works just as well.

[What is the link between our desire for diapers and our sexuality?]

I read of many different reasons for wearing diapers. For me my desire for diapers is very much like my desire for sex. I can't have sex while wearing a diaper so why does putting one on cause such intense sexual desire? 

Tell me if and how your diaper and your libido connect.

[Wet diapers ok/ wet pants not. Is it just me?]

In addition to a diaper fetish I have a pee fetish. Pee is part of my diaper fetish but diapers aren't part of my pee fetish. 

[What Is Your Favorite Part About Wearing Diapers]

Diapers are a demanding fetish. They are always on my mind and they turn me on. I don't have any excuse for wearing them, I just like the way I feel when I put them on and when I wet them and when I take them off and when I buy them and when they show and when they leak and when they are dry. I like them big and bulky between my thighs. I like wearing them under my dress and I like wearing nothing but a diaper. I like wearing them in private and I like wetting them in public. I like a wet streak down my pantyhose when I wait too long to change. I like many  other things about diapers that I have no words to describe.

[Being trans and liking diapers]

I wear diapers for a number of reasons but not because I have to. I have experienced a craving for diapers all my life. I become sexually aroused at just the thought of wearing a diaper. I have trouble integrating my gender confusion with wanting diapers. It just seems wrong. To make it even more confusing I am aroused by anything relating to bondage and or disipline. I hoped my twisted complicated sexuality would subside with old age. No luck yet. I'm still chronically craving incompatible fetishes and sexual experiences.