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How do BetterDry compare to other abdl diapers such as bambino or tykables diapers?

lol I think you are right forgive me. Doubled it in my head. I can’t believe I did that, I’ll edit it now thank you.

Tykables, it’s in the quote.

Tykables. It’s their random case deal. You have to atleast get 3 months and you don’t get to pick what they put in it. It’s 200$ for all premium diapers and 190$ of you want it to be half thinner diapers.

Edit: fixed the price error due to poor math skills😅. So I am trying to wear mostly 24/7 and I usually wear tykables because their bulk price of 200$ per 80 diapers is hard to beat. But I was thinking that medical diapers would be cheaper than premium abdl diapers. So my question is; Does anyone have a site/diaper recommendation to get quality medical diapers in bulk cheaper than 200$ per 80 diapers? p.s. I don’t have much experience with medical diaper brands so I’m pretty much in the dark in reguard to what brands are good.

First of all, thank you everyone that gave their 2 cents on this. So I believe me and my wife have had a large breakthrough on all of this and I thought I would give an update. In hindsight I think most of my shame came from the fact that I just took it for granted that my wife wouldn’t want me in little mode when things got hard in real life. I feel like I am being indecent for mentioning anything about diapers or little space when anything isn’t going well for the most part. But I suppose I have being treating my abdl side like something strictly sexual (with nothing deeper). So anyway my wife said that she now realizes that I am much happier when in diapers and I can be little and still help my wife with hard things. We haven’t come up with a set way we are going to go about things yet, but she says she wants to keep me in diapers as much as possible because she thinks it’s good for me. One last thing. I know I am very lucky to be in my situation and I hope I don’t ever come off like I am rubbing my situation in anyone’s face while still talking about how my life is hard. I post this stuff because I know there are others here that have experienced much more than I have and I seek wisdom in the abdl world. Thank you again everyone, and I’ll post any updates.

So first of all my wife(non-abdl) also plays the role of mommy and she has really taken to it. We are trying to find ways to implement more lifestyle baby stuff so I came up with a challenge that sounded fun and useful in my head. Please give me your thoughts and any input you might have. Also I have already approved these rules with my mommy. So the goal is to simulate actually not being potty trained and for my mommy to not trust me without diapers for real. For a week, anytime I am home, I have to go pee or poop as soon as I feel the need. I have to do this no matter what I am wearing, so I might have some messes in my underwear. One of the goals behind this challenge is to get my mommy in the mindset that I really can’t be trusted to not be diapered at all times. Last there will be both a reward (if I can keep up these rules) and a punishment (if I end up cheating at all). These have not been decided yet. Also has anyone ever tried this and how did it go?

Thank you for your long reply and it really did make me feel better to read. Thank you, you have a good heart. The analogy with drinking heavily was a very helpful way to look at things.

Ok this could get a bit wordy so I’ll try to keep it simple. If anyone wants/needs more context I can give me details. So my vanilla wife has always been accepting of my abdl side and she has also been indulging me by playing mommy. My wife is like me in the way that she will do anything for someone else but she has a hard time speaking up when something is too much for her. I have been very way into my abdl side for the past month and I know I have been a lot for my wife, and I keep telling her to tell me if I’m ever too much. I only recently got her to finally admit that my abdl has been very needy lately and it is stressing her out with how abdl needy I have been So I think I am in the binge part of a binge and purge cycle (and I thought I was years past having one of those.). So even though my logical brain has been telling me to pull back and regulate my little side, my little side tends to override my logic and I then I overwhelm my wife with texts of abdl stuff. I now realize that she is my only ABDL outlet and that’s not fair to her that I put all that on her. She has been talking about finding me a support group, which only makes me bitter because from my experience, it is impossible to find consistent people to talk to in this community that aren’t just thirsty. My shame for my ABDL side does not come from the actual shame of the fetish but rather how I act when my desires override my logic and I get too needy, especially toward the people that accept me. My question is can anyone relate this situation and how you deal with it if you do? I also wanted to know what, if any, are your abdl copping mechanisms so you don’t overwhelm your partner with your abdl side?

Lily decided in that moment that she was going to try to lean into things a little more. She didn’t have the energy to keep fighting the situation full force. Lily kept crawling, oblivious to the fact that Stacy was recording her. She just wanted to leave the room.

Lily angrily put the pacifier back in her mouth and just sat, but when Stacy kept watching her it became too much. She needed get beyond Stacy’s immediate focus. Lily tried to stand one more time, fell again, grumbled and attempted to start crawling. She was able to get her knees underneath her but not as solidly as she would have liked. She could crawl but it was very slow.

As soon as the diaper was brought up between her legs, Lily knew there was going to be a problem. The padding was so thick that is forced her legs in an outward direction. When the tapes were closed she once again felt trapped in what she now knew was babydom. On the floor she tried to stand up but her legs were so off balance that she kept falling on her thickly padded bottom. Lily pulled the pacifier out. “You can’t expect me to wear these for real?”

Lily blushed as she felt the diaper padding beneath her bum. This diaper was defiantly going to be thicker, Lily could already tell. On top of the embarrassment, Lily was also frustrated that her friend wasn’t dignifying her with an answer. And just when she was about to say something else, Stacy pushed the pacifier back into her mouth. Stacy left it there and it Lily over a minute of struggling and fussing to figure out Stacy wanted her to suck on it.

“You can’t keep me like this! Once these three days are up, I’m out of these!” She motioned to the diaper in her hands as she was unexpectedly strapped down to the table. She suddenly felt claustrophobic and the diaper in her hands felt thicker than ever. She looked down at the disposable to really inspect it but it was pulled out of her hands and unfolded in front of her.

“What do you mean if?” Lily asked incredulously, but the look Stacy gave her let her know that Stacy’s patients were running dry. Lily, her legs shaking nervously, diaper still in hand, carefully climbed up the step stool and sat her naked bottom down on the padding of the changing table.

“Where did you put my panties?” Lily was curious but the real reason for her question was to forestall her being back in diapers.

Lily blushed in indignation at the idea of her having real accident. However, Lily had a throbbing bottom as a reminder of what would happened if she disobeyed. But why is she pointing to my dresser? My pantie drawer… That bitch! All these thoughts crossed her mind as she walked across the room, saw what was in the drawer, and hated Stacy for it. It was then that she looked around the room, seeing the changing table, crib, and playpen. She’s really going to treat me like a baby. The dread filled her as she looked back at the diapers. The thicker ones on the right must be the nighttime diapers. The padding looked twice as thick as the other diapers, if that could be believed. On the front, Barney the Dinosaur smiled up at her. With trembling hands, Lily picked up the monstrous diaper. The crinkle was almost deafening. Knowing that she would soon be wearing this made her legs shake. Lily turned around with the diaper in hand. She pulled the pacifier out of her mouth. “Please Stacy I’ll do anything. Don’t make me do this.”

The pacifier being shoved into her mouth didn’t make her feel any better, nor did the diapers being referred to as “her diapers.” Lily looked over at the nighttime diapers and gulped as she saw how thick they were. Looking back at Stacy she gave a slight shake of the head, hoping that she might take pity on Lily.

Lily was bawling by the time the spanking was over. It continued even until after they got to her “new room.” Because of this Lily couldn’t comment on the redesign. But it didn’t help with her crying as Stacy carried her.

Stacy had caught her unawares, still naked from the waist down. Stacy easily spun Lily around and pulled her over her lap on top of the toilet. Lily would have asked what Stacy was going to do, but she had recently been spanked by her friend, and here she felt she had less power than before. “Stacy don’t!” Lily wasn’t ready to back down yet, then the first swat came, and the fire in her butt flared up again but her resolve remained. As the spanking continued, her resolve dipped a little. It’s only 3 days right? But the daycare…Smack! They don’t know who I am, and I can wear pull ups instead of diapers. Diapers… Smack. Diapers… Smack! Diapers…. Smack! “Stop please, stop, stop I’ll be good!”

Lily didn’t see anything that Stacy was doing. She was much too preoccupied with getting the wet diaper off of her waist. It took a bit of maneuvering with a knife but eventually she was able to cut around the tapes and she was rewarded with a plop as the diaper feel away and onto the ground. Lily picked up the diaper and threw it in the trash. Now naked from the waist down and her privates still covered in pee, Lily left the kitchen and headed for the bathroom again to shower.

“You’re not touching my butt again after all of this.” Lily hoped down and went to open the door. “I’m going to rinse my mouth out in the kitchen, then find something to cut me out me this. And after that I never want to hear the word diaper again.”

“No Stacy! You aren’t going to convince me to wear diapers!” She was still wearing the short dress from earlier but it still did nothing to cover her diaper. “If it makes you feel like you got me, I’ll pay you for the price of the daycare sessions and the diapers.”

“Fine!” Lily scrubbed the suds off her tongue. “I’ll stop swearing. But I’m not going along with this crazy diaper, daycare thing. I know you’re mad at me because I said I wouldn’t try the thing without you. But don’t you think what I’ve gone though was bad enough without you going nightmare babysitter on me.”

Lily only opened her mouth because she knew Stacy would hold her there otherwise. But after the bar hit her tongue, on reflex, she spat out the bar of soap. Spitting and gagging, Lily gasped, “That was disgusting, I can’t believe you made me do that!”