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cookiemonster23
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On 12/10/2018 at 6:08 PM, rusty pins said:
I have read that bedwetting is often hereditary, although I don't recall anyone else in my family ever talking about wetting the bed. It would be interesting for those who comment here to also mention if they are the only one in their family who bed wet or if they had parents or siblings who also wet the bed.
So I asked my mom. She did it as a kid and so did her brother. Not too surprising.
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On 12/21/2018 at 9:04 AM, Busy Britches said:
I vividly remember my mom putting me back in diapers at the age of 2, and keeping me in diapers and rubber pants until I was around 5.
Then, after that, I began stealing diapers at the age of 6 or 7. Again, I vividly remember stealing diapers off of backyard clotheslines or stealing them from the nurseries of our neighbors. Yes, I was diapering myself at the age of 6 or 7, shortly after I was in diapers until the age of 5.
A lot of people get into it very young, I think I’m almost an outlier for doing it in my teen years.
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On 12/20/2018 at 7:06 PM, PetahPetah said:
Hi. As a kid, i had few friends--played with 2 boys down the street, 1 of which was in my class, and his brother maybe 1 or 2 yrs younger. But at school, i was picked on a LOT. Told to ignore them, i could not; they sometimes made it a little physical with tripping me, poking, trying to take my stuff. the written rules say to tell the teacher, but rats/snitches are hated more. When i tried to defend myself, I got in trouble. So not fair! I cried and wanted to die, all the way through into High School. Of course it didn't help that i'm gay, too.
At home, both parents worked. Mom nagged me and Dad. No beatings, but I sometimes hid in a "fort" or someplace. So today I'm still a bit childish, sometimes or in some ways.
That’s rough. I got bullied in school as well, mainly for being quiet and not very social. It never got physical, but it definitely sucked. I’m so glad to not be in school anymore. I was told that I’ll miss it once I get a job, but I’ve had one and I didn’t miss it at all.
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On 12/14/2018 at 8:19 PM, Lil Fox Scotty 91 said:
Unfortunately I was emotionally and physically abused as a child by my parents and sexually abused by a teacher at my elementrary school. Although I had a piss poor childhood, I don't think that's 100% of the reason why I am abdl. But it is definitely part of the reason.
I’m sorry, that’s really rough. I have a friend who was sexually abused by their babysitter and their parents were totally unaware.
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On 12/15/2018 at 1:28 AM, babytom2 said:
In your 20s or whatever.Usually that group gets attached to vanillas then kinda falls into the life after.
Nah, I started it in my teens. I didn’t really participate in the community until recently, though. I created this account 2 years ago and was rarely on until about a month ago.
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On 12/14/2018 at 6:32 PM, WetDad said:
Thanks. I have my father-in-law to thank for that. He was a great example of how a father should be. I still miss him, as does my wife.
That’s so sweet!
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On 12/11/2018 at 12:56 AM, WetDad said:
I really don't like to think about that part of my life. I am proud to say that the abuse ended with me and was not passed on to my kids.
Fair enough. I’m glad you gave your kids a good life!
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I quite like diapers, especially the physical feeling of a bulky diaper and the emotional security it gives me. However, I wouldn't call myself a diaper lover as diapers are just one part of a bigger thing. Diapers help get me into the "baby" headspace. Overall, I'd call myself an adult baby.
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On 12/5/2015 at 2:53 AM, dlsafrica said:
Please excuse my ignorance, but what is the difference betweenh a suppository and an enema? I have always thought they are just different words for the same thing. I actually thought that maybe one term is used more in certain parts of the world, but now I guess I was wrong.
An enema is putting liquids in, a suppository is putting in a solid pill.
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On 12/10/2018 at 6:08 PM, rusty pins said:
I have read that bedwetting is often hereditary, although I don't recall anyone else in my family ever talking about wetting the bed. It would be interesting for those who comment here to also mention if they are the only one in their family who bed wet or if they had parents or siblings who also wet the bed.
I didn't know that! I'm not sure about anyone in my own family. My sister probably never did, but I'm not sure about anyone else. It wouldn't be too surprising if others in my family did and never talked about it.
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I'll be honest, I didn't know they existed!
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I was around 9 when my sister told me he wasn't real. I cried, but eventually, my mom convinced me he was real. One year later, my mom decided to cut the bullshit and told me. I didn't react too badly.
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On 12/6/2018 at 4:57 AM, Baby Girl Sarah said:
A well in that case id say just ask him straight up dear when YOU feel its the right time. And BEFORE you try this again you both need to talk about what YOU want and how you feel and youre boundaries etc.... Same with his side
Also the thing with adding in sexual gestures etc... Is not the right way to go as in AB /Little life for the majority is based on a NON sexual act of submission towards youre Mommy /Daddy /caregiver.
Good luck dear and above al DONT try to stress this hon let it take the time it needs
The fact that it was you that felt uncertain and had to stop should tell you it was to soon and you need to get al that straight in youre head as well before trying again . (i should ad that its perfectly natural for hesitation at the beginning ) and also you will feel it it from within youre self when the time is ready dear 
Thank you! May I DM you?
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I've heard a lot of bedwetting stories on this site, so I'd like to see if there's a correlation. I did it myself until I was 11. I was never punished for it, thankfully, but my mom did try for a while to get me to stop. She took me to pediatricians, all of whom said I'd grow out of it. She waited a few years, and when I didn't grow out of it, she started looking into programs. She had a guy come over presenting one but I was not exactly nice to him and he got angry and left. She tried buying a device to go in the pull-ups I wore, which would set off an alarm when it sensed moisture. That didn't work, either. Eventually, she threatened to make me wear cloth diapers and rubber pants. After that, I was out of them in a month. I can't remember how, I just remember I eventually woke up dry.
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On 12/7/2018 at 2:50 PM, LilLew said:
I really have no idea whether my ABDL interest stems from my childhood misadventures. I reject armchair psychology, and for that matter have a pretty dim view of professional psychology also.
That said, fuck religious schools!
I'm not into armchair psychology, either. I just think there's a possibility that it played a role for some of us.
On 12/7/2018 at 3:29 PM, rubbersheetmike said:I looked at this survey and couldnt really answer. What counts for abuse today wasnt really the case years ago. A lot of us old timers (50+) got physically punished when we were younger including at home and at school. And some of us had parents who treated bedwetting as a discipline issue which in my case I think did contribute to some of my later fetishes. Now parents I think are more enlitened but there are still a lot of younger people on sites like this so I think that theres a lot more to our fetishes than the way our parents treat us. I dont think its productive to blame others because we have to accept who we are.
I understand that. I don't think we should blame our parents for it at all. I've just read a lot of abuse stories on this site and I want to see if there's a possible correlation between childhood abuse and AB/DL.
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1 hour ago, horrorfan said:
Does he do anything that makes you uncomfortable (groan, roll his eyes, comment, give you overall impression he's kind of dragging his feet through the experience)? If you just feel awkward about the whole scenario perhaps you should ease into it, as if this is the case you're probably not accustomed to exposing this side of yourself to someone else. Talk to him about it for sure, but maybe you can mix in one of your little activities with a nonsexual activity you do with him (like wearing a diaper and watching TV). That's all I can come up with. Does anyone else that you personally know know about your little side?
He doesn't at all, and that's a good idea. We will see.
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On 10/23/2018 at 7:39 AM, rusty pins said:
Rugrats comes to mind.
Same here! That show always gets me into the right mindset.
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1 hour ago, Angela Bauer said:
I notice that you are 20, which can be a good thing. I'm not clear how old your potential 'Daddy' is? Sadly a whole lot of guys just have no interest in diapering or feeding a baby bottle. However, a lot of big baby girls your age have managed to bring around younger adult men by having them watch as you change your diaper, explaining you enjoy it more when a man does the changing. The same goes with baby bottles. Suckle a bottle while he watches as if you were performing oral sex with the bottle. If he has any imagination He will be eager to hold the bottle, perhaps hoping there is something else he wants to suckle.
I appreciate the advice, though I prefer not to sexualize it. For me, it’s more about returning to a simpler time in my life than sex.
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11 hours ago, horrorfan said:
It sounds like he does not want to participate, but as far as asking him for it, a direct approach would probably be better than beating around the bush. It may be that he just can't get into it and you'll both have to decide how to proceed with your relationship from there.
Maybe I should’ve mentioned this earlier, but the reason it didn’t go well during the daddy roleplay was my doing. I got nervous both times and ended it. He said he’d be ok with doing it again but I was too scared to initiate it.
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So, my significant other knows I'm an adult baby. He's pretty accepting of it, but I'd like to ask him to maybe participate in it. We've done "daddy" roleplay a couple of times, but it didn't last, and I took on the role of a little girl rather than a baby. How do I go about asking him for this?
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I think someone can ignore their urges, but they'll never truly go away.
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6 minutes ago, Angela Bauer said:
I was not abused in any way either as a child or teenager, so I answered #1 NO and #2 N/A
However, on my own, I started reading romance novels shortly before I reached puberty. That is how I discovered the concept of romantic spanking. When I was 15 I began to participate in spanking parties and found being spanked in the right way was my primary turn-on. Mind you I do not consider the spankings at those parties as abuse because I consented.
Of course, consensual spanking is not abuse at all! Though I think 15 is definitely too young to be participating in that kind of thing.
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I'd use Vaseline before the diaper goes on. It makes a nice barrier between the pee/poop and your skin. As for treating it after it has occurred, I'd recommend Desitin or A&D. Also, after applying said diaper rash creams, I'd take breaks between diapering. Even just 10 - 20 minutes makes a difference.
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That's horrible, I'm so sorry. At least you've somewhat learned to cope. Have you seen a therapist at all?