rob198

I think u are getting a bit confused. Your obviously desparate for someone to change you and baby you. I think that you are better off finding a partner or someone who caters for people who are ab/dl and that you would be being extremly unfair to your mum to spring the whole thing on her ie; "Hi mum, i'm an ab/dl. By the way can you change my diaper" By all means, if you feel she will accept the idea of what you do then share it with her but don't ask her to get involved. I can't believe that ANY parent would be happy to play out their childs fantasy which is really what you are asking them to do (unless you have incontinence which i do not believe you mentioned) Try putting yourself in your parents shoes and ask yourself "Would I do it?"