I just recently told my husband about me being an ab and basically just accepted that fact about myself at the same time. I have been living in denial. My husband was extremely supportive and wants to participate. He's asked me what I like and what I want. It was hard to get it across, but I basically want to be submissive to his dominant. When I want to be a baby, I want to have no say in decision like any baby would. I want him to make all the calls, which I suppose is what makes it difficult for him because he doesn't know what to decide.