![[DD] Boards & Chat](https://www.dailydiapers.com/board/uploads/monthly_2021_11/DDweb-02.png.0c06f38ea7c6e581d61ce22dffdea106.png)
 |
 |
Wayz2PlzU
-
Posts
102 -
Joined
-
Last visited
-
Days Won
1
Content Type
Profiles
Forums
Gallery
Articles
Store
Posts posted by Wayz2PlzU
-
-
Christine, maids are used to much worse in so-called "Five-star hotels". Believe me what AB/DLs do is not even the worst of what maids deal with.
-
$300 a night was just a kick around figure. I didn't say it was set in stone. Though there people in the ABDL community who spend hundreds more just to go some annual ABDL meet someplace in either New England or Canada. I can't remember which. Just thought I'd point that out.
-
I think there ought to be two divisions.
-
What would everyone's thoughts be about an AB/DL hotel service?
-
You may be right on the mark with that. Men, for the most part even gay men, are not looked at in the same sort of "cuteness" as most women. We just don't get that kind of treatment due to the fact that we men are viewed as strong, non emotional, not showing any weakness whatsoever, even if we had peed our pants in broad view of others while we men vehemently deny such occurrence. We'd rather get ridiculed in shame than to admit having pissed our pants or having crapped our pants.Males are not allowed to be "cute" in anything past the age of 5. We are supposed to be big strong manly mans, not running around in a diaper. Girls can get away with anything, being the supposedly weaker sex. (I'll get trashed for that comment) That's just how society views us males, we are not supposed to show any weakness.
Given the choice, we'd rather women take all of the blame than admit any sort of weak spot.
-
So I had this crazy idea in my head, but bear with me here. A sort of thought experiment popped into my head. Why is it when a guy dresses up in diapers (whether in full baby-like gear or otherwise) get looked at as "weird", " unstable ", "off his meds", etc, perhaps even bipolar while a woman who does the same is looked upon as "misunderstood", in her own fantasy world, or has quite fully grown up in the world of adults"? So why is it that men are looked at with such shame while women who do the same (wear diapers) are viewed much differently? What makes women less " looney"compared to their male diaper wearing counterparts? Seriously. When was the last time someone said "Oh doesn't he look cute in that diaper and T-shirt?" vs. "Oh she looks adorable with those diapers, a nice summer dress and a pacifier" If you can't think of when (notwithstanding the ABDL community), it just doesn't happen. Even women who have no sexual attraction to men get more "Ooohs" and "Aahhhhs" than men ever will. Are all men labeled the same!? Do we forever get the Stamp that says "We'll never be considered cute compared to women, even if some of them are lesbian." Anyway, that's just my random thought for the (late) night. What do you think? Constructive feedback appreciated.
-
Fetlife seems to be the ABDL site of choice, but I'm still hesitant to use it for anything other than extending my ABDL horizons.
-
I would take it relationship at a time. If you are in a community and someone is in that community and is active. Odds our they are a real person. If they are a lurker you'll notice they don't comment in threads or chatrooms, and tend to email copy n paste rhetoric. You should be able to tell by the generic emails they send. Your best way to find someone that isn't a scammer is to be active yourself in the community, and you'll be able to find people that are active in turn. This is how I have been able to meet so many great kinky friends over the years without having some scammer ask for my credit card.
-
So I did some searching, but there's just way too much data to sift through.
-
There's an old saying that people who go looking for trouble find it. The same goes for people who go looking for anything "offensive". They're gonna find it whether it's there or not.
-
I've dropped under 200 lbs this past couple of weeks. It's becoming easier to get my diapers on by myself. I'd say that's excellent improvement! Hooray!! I credit the fact that I put my diapers on myself fairly regularly. It's an exercise all itself, believe it or not.
Someone should do a diaper exercise video. Has worked wonders for me. lol
-
Y'all are too much!! LMAO
In all seriousness, thanks for the tips. I've already dealt with the issue, but it would have been like being under surveillance by the FBI or something. Again I've done nothing wrong in my posts, but they'd always be looking for something to report me for, even if it was a non-issue involving a child.
-
Indeed, that's why I went and blocked them on Twitter. I don't want them thinking something that is not true about me. I have three nieces whom I love very much and would do anything to protect them. The last thing I'd ever do, EVER, is to harm them in any way.Tell them nothing.
Remember your words can be used against you.
They sure won't be used to help you.
~The Diapered Birdie 2014
Sent from my Nexus 7 using Tapatalk
-
High road time:
-
Kick em out- it's your account and they can go to...wherever.
Best to avoid that place and farcebook too if you like flying under the radar as neither respect your privacy one bit
If you've got either or both, your door is wide open to trash ilike this no matter what your settings are. -
I was wondering if anyone heard of these people, and if I should at all be worried.
-
My weight keeps fluctuating between 195 and 205. But I'm keeping tabs on just how much I eat out vs. how often I stay in and "cook". But I gotta tell ya, the problem is when I'm on my way home after class at night, and I don't feel like "cooking" at home. Still, I try to keep my portions small.
I'm also hoping to get some good custom orthotics for my shoes to help with my plantar fascitis problem, and in turn will help get me motivated enough to go to physical therapy and exercise. It's an uphill battle, but my goal isn't to lose weight fast, it's to lose it semi-permanently.
-
Cant decide between Selena Gomez and Jessica Alba...
Why choose? lol :-D
-
Admittedly I stopped using EP. I figured I'll stay on ABDL-friendly sites. Kinda sad though. I mean spankings could be (in a round about way) considered pedophilia, but it has been becoming more mainstream over the years. I don't know how I'd feel about the AB/DL community going mainstream, but there are practical reasons for diaper wearing beyond sexual and non-sexual pleasure.
*shrugs* I hope one day society won't have to hide its (within appropriate limits of) fetishes from the world. Personally, I hate having to hear all the disgusting things my male friends do to women just for fun. But whatever gets him off, to each his or her own.
-
Don't know if this has been asked, but I thought it would be fun. If you could date any celebrity, and hypothetically speaking, they were okay with wearing diapers with you, even do the whole adult baby thing (mommy/baby, daddy/baby), who would you want to date? And would you want it long term, or just to have a short period of fun?
Mine? I'll admit as a self-proclaimed "Trekkie", I'd go with Jeri Ryan (Star Trek Voyager, "Seven of Nine"). I think that she'd look freakin' HOT I'm diapers!
As for animated characters, I'd go with Turanga Leela from Futurama or Francine Smith (American Dad!).
Who'd you pick? No explanation needed.
-
Way2Plz:
You aren't ever going to be "average", what you are going to do is to be able to cope well enough, be comfortable, to find a few friends, to enjoy yourself.
And that is what I would consider as average. Being able to feel comfortable with myself, find a few MORE good friends, and enjoy myself when I can and when my medical conditions are screaming painful agony.
Don't take this the wrong way, but it seems like we're talking the same language, but we're both misinterpreting each other. That said, let's just agree that I have issues to work on. Both with myself and how I form friendships/relationships with people. :-)
Sent from my Nexus 4 using Tapatalk
-
Dill,
That's a really good suggestion on reading up on body language and facial expressions.
My point though was that for the better part of my entire life, I've been anti-social. Going from that to being socially average is not going to be an easy process. And certainly not an expedited one either. It will take time, patience, and slow progress.
Sent from my Nexus 4 using Tapatalk
-
I've been meaning to get back into counseling. It's been about three months since I last went to a therapist. But that's when my schedule got a little crazy taking care of my disabled mother, going to school and doing my assignments well into the night, and going to both hers and my own doctor appointments because she doesn't want to waste the gas I pay for (well, 90% of it) on the truck I paid in full for (and all subsequent repairs). But I know the school does have a partnership with a local mental healthcare provider that gives 6 free sessions a year. Once finals are done next week, I intend to get that set up. I have to say though, it is extremely difficult (based on my own research and reading on the subject) for an extremely introverted guy to turn into ... Well, even an average social extrovert. But it's something worth trying for sure. This is not the life I had hoped for growing up (assuming at the time I was 12 I'd be alive at the age of 34). Sent from my Nexus 4 using Tapatalk
-
Watch this, hopefully it will help you.
http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=X7PAYhmoKkA
just have confidence
I did watch that video. Thank you. But it's never been so much about not having confidence, it's been about just having issues with social interaction in general, regardless if that person is male or female, and as I said before, my parents weren't exactly the best role models. Neither were some relatives and friends. But I do appreciate the video. That was helpful.
Sent from my Nexus 4 using Tapatalk
This may have already been brought up, but...
in Our Lifestyle Discussion
Posted
I believe it.