My little boomer and I are also very very very new to this lifestyle, and to be totally honest Im still a little shocked by this discovery! If anyone had ever suggested it prior to this I would have been entirely weirded out. Neither of us had ever thought about it until that bloody episode of my strange addiction or whatever it was. The more we talked about it the more we realized we both needed it. So!! Please ! Help out a new young single mother ;-) My baby is three but hes a very big strong boy...First time spankings...? Should Imake it quick or long and drawn out?