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Hi. I was in the same boat as you for a while before I found my hubby. The one thing you need to tell yourself is to just go with whatever life throws at you. If you meet a fantastic girl and you are really into her, go that direction. if you meet a fantastic guy, don't lose his number. Don't stress out about it at all since it will all come out in the wash later on for you.

Hi. Thanks for sharing your experience. I thought it was pretty interesting. I am wondering if what you decided at the end, that gay sex wasn't right for you, meant that you decided you were not gay or that you just decided you didn't like having sex with a guy? I definitely feel like enjoying gay sex is a part of BEING gay but it's not all there is to being gay. What are your thoughts? Also, remember I'm not making the assertion that you didn't do it correctly the first time, do you think you might have gone too fast with it your first time? If you took it a bit slower would your feelings about it be the same?