oh. this is how you reply. well your all mostly right on. to clarify my theory. if you think about it while you are sitting or lieing there. it won't happen. once it just becomes , like said earlier, natural, it will happen. and much like you just said, be carful what you wish for. I passed the point of no return. but I love my diapers and everyone just knows I am incon. I don't have to go telling I did it to myself. but there is not really a chance of me every being able to go out without a diaper. once it just became normal for me to release. it became out of my control. day and night, I wet with little to no warning, and there has ben quite a few times when i'll check my diaper and its full. and I never even knew I had peed.it took about eight months to train myself to just ignore the feeling. but from what I have gathered and done. that's the key to the tough wettings.