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abmike83ita
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No, not a good idea... Maybe she would accept at some point, but still... By the way, look at my "I Am a". I already told about my transition, and she accepts that, probably because she can't do anything about it. I don't think she would love me as a brother
Anyway thanks for the help
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Oh god, I can't even think of what would happen if I told her. She would probably tease me to death.
So you think is not a good idea to tell to her about this thing? I mand, may she still love you like a broter...:/
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Yes, I have a sister, and she's 30... She doesn't know about my little secret though
...How do you think she would react if she would know that little secert?
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Someone that is here have a sister or a brother? s/he know about your AB side? what s/he think about it?
Please, gimme many answer
Thank you ^^
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well tomorrow is my day off and im going to be diapered all day but i have nothing to do so i need your help somebody gimmie some ideas for a diapered day more embarassing the better
If you like babyfood you should go to a mall, buy a jar of babyfood and after you paid it you should go to a place there is many people and eat it in front of everybody!
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well theres no real way to tell someone you like to wear diapers and act like a baby.
how about just "so i feel like i need to tell someone and you have always been there for me, and i feel i can trust you. Its osmething i like to do for multiple reasons. I like to wear diapers, dress like and act like a baby. i'm not telling you this so you will participate, i'm not telling you this so you will put diapers on me. i'm just telling you because for some reason i have no way of explaining i feel like i have to tell you. So now, want to get something to eat?"
Oh, this is very good, I think if I say to her this thing it may should understand...I will use this like base, thanks for the help ^^
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considering you are just two years older than her daughter is it possible she sees the relationship more as a maternal one than as a friendship? you have stated she is maternal towards you, so are you wanting to tell her because you want her to 'baby' you in some ways?
if you view the relationship as one of friendship than you will nto tell her simply so she can baby you, for that would be using her.
If you were truely accepting of yourself you wouldn't need to tell her this part of you, so i suggest you first become fully accepting of this in yourself. Just because we have close friends doesn't mean we need to tell them every single little thing about ourselves, some things are best left private to be shared with someone you are intimate with, not just a friend. Perhaps you should not tell her this side of you, until you examine your feelings towards your self, and your reasons for telling such an older woman. Again, you are only two years older than her child, in essence, you could be seen by her as another child.
I never say that i want her to 'baby' me in some way, ti would be not good. I say she is materna but it not mean that i wanna her for baby me ^^. I wanna say her about this thing because she is like a second mum for me (not for baby me LOL), I think she understand.
For the second time, I'm asking how to tell her, not if i gotta tell her about this thing -.-"
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Its like a bandage, the slower you pull it off the more it hurts. Just be Frank, honest, and up front. Dont dance around the subject and drop hints, be respectful of her and be open. Most times hints aren't picked up on anyway.
Well, i will be honest even if i will be not direct. If I say to her dirctly "I love to wear diapers" she would say to me "You're crazy", it's better starting whit let her understand a little bit my situation, don't you think?
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The most important person in my entire life is for sure my little shining star, my little sister <3
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My favourite mommy that I would get if i would have a chance?? point,set and match to Michelle Hunziker ^^
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Hi Bettypooh, thanks for the tips you gived to me ^^, I know that this thing ma should be strange but i need to let her know about my real situation because she trust of me and I trust of her plus I must to talk to her because sometimes I'm really worried about one thing... well, I can say that many times i think about this thing and I stop for a moment...
Thanks again for the tips and for remembering me that I will get some real friends here
Mike
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Ask yourself just how important it truly is that this particular individual needs to know of your diapered identity.
DO NOT DO NOT DO NOT make an outsider aware of your ABDLism by asking her randomly one random day to put on a diaper. It's so f*cking random it's just weird all the way through.
I would just try to slowly get her to see little things here and there like maybe a paci, then next day like a used bottle, then next day a set of teething rings, and a onesie, slowly work to diapers and eventally work in something like her finding one of your messies under a pile of clothes in the bathroom. Slowly is the best way.
Don't be "GODD*AMMIT WOMAN PUT ON THIS DIAPER NOW DIAPERS GIVE ME HARDONS".
She will be out the damned door faster than you can say "she will be out the damned door faster than you can say ""she will be out the damned door fatser than you can say....""""
I think she is important for me to telling to someone my real part. Hahahaha, I don't want that she change my nappy, so I don't ask anything similar ^^. By the way I can't let her see the little thing because she don't live whit me (hmmm, if i leave a paci in her hoouse i think may she would think her daughters are in this thing :/) so the paci things, the bottle things, onesie things and the diaper messy under the pile of clothes is nearly impossible ^^
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honestly I would say DONT DO IT! lol
if you want to talk to someone face to face why dont you look in our "meeting places" section and find someone from here IN YOUR AREA!
just because her age doesnt mean she'll be open minded or wont spread drama. We dont know anything about the situation. Does this friend have kids?
is she married? You dont think that a person with a family would look at us differently than someone who were single? A 43 yr old lady with possibly "impressionable" kids
wouldnt react well to her friend needing to talk about his diaper/babyish needs.
You need to actually explain the situation and more about the person you want to tell before you jump into something like that.
P.S. dude...hided isnt a word. Hidden is the correct terminology. I'm not sayin....I'm just sayin.
I don't know if I already writed, but I need someone that know me in real life so it's better. By the way she has 2 girl one of 15y.o. and other 18y.o., she is separeted but she is like somone trusted.
P.S: If you didn't noticed English isn't my language, I'm italian and I'm trying to write English dude :/
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I just tell people.
Like I just come out and say "I like being treated like a baby."I'm very reserved about who I tell... like strictly girlfriends/boyfriends. On one occasion my soon to be roommate, because she'll find out one way or another. I'd rather not try to hide it in my own soon to be home.
Basically, what I'm saying is... you're best to just say it. But make sure it's the right person to tell...
-Sophie
Hi Sophie, I know she is the right person but I don't know how to start the conversation :/
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Considering her age, I think she would at least be open and not have any high school like drama, outing you or anything. Is she a true friend or some cougar you just met? A true friend should be understanding, doesn't necessarily mean she will love it. Does she have kids of her own? Is she maternal at all? None of us know the dynamics of your relationship, just friends, romantic, mentor? Still the best bet is talk to her, be subtle and beat around the bush a bit to gauge her level of acceptance. If you think she would freak out out over it, let it go, if you get the right vibes bring it up stating how much you value your relationship and how you want to be open and honest.
I answer to your questions: She is a true friends for me and I am for her. She have 2 girl one 15 and oher 18 and yes, she is mathernal. We are just friens but she helped me many times.
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remember it's not a sex life for everyone. I don't do it for sex i do it for comfort and relaxation.
To OP: if you really are serious about telling her think hard and long before you even mention it. the changes it can make in your relationship can ruin it or make it better. There is always a chance to stay the same as well.
Actually i want to talk to her because she can understand me and because I have a "problem" that i think she can understand, I'm not afraid to talk to her because she is open minded and we are really good friends ^^
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There is no good reason to tell your friends about your sex life.
For me is't a sexual thing, I do it because i feel great in the diaper but I say again that for me is'nt a sexual thing
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Have her try wearing a diaper
Hmm, I don't think that's a good way to tell her :/
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A better question is why do you want to? If it were my friend, I would think really hard about the possible implications of disclosing that on our friendship. Telling her you're an AB will change your friendship one way or another - and not necessarily in a good way.
I wanna do it because I wanna that a person that really know me about this thing because it's a thing that is too hided, I wanna talk so someone face to face
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How can i explain to one of my friends my situation about my AB side? I'm 20 and she is 43.
Please, help meeeee
P.S: To all the people that answered me and who will answer soon I'm asking how i can tell her this thing, not if I should tell her or not...
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Hi everybody, my name is abmike83ita... (ab because i'm AB, mike for my second name, 83 my lucky number and ita because i'm italian) i'm here to find some friends to share my various experience. As an AB i use much the babysh thing so paci, bottles, babyfood... stuff like these. I hope fo find many friends here ^^
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You think she would accept it?