NewGuy20

Hey everyone, I'm new here, a tad shy, and I'm looking for advice. Before last month I had never told or spoken to anyone about my fetish. I have a diaper fetish but there is a lot about age play that interests me so I guess I am a little bit of an infantalist too. I don't like drinking out of bottles, wearing baby clothes, or sleeping in a crib. But I'd love for a women to change my diaper. I guess I am looking to speak to people who have had some experience in the world of dating and relationships and how everything works when you have a fetish as strange as the one we all have. I'm looking for advice because I recently told my girlfriend about my fetish. I told her that I enjoyed wearing diapers and explained that it had nothing to do with children, etc. I didn't mention my infantalist tenancies or my interest in age play. We've been dating for over a year. She was surprised to say the least but she responded fairly well even suggesting that I should wear around her sometime. I wore a diaper under some sweat pants and we cuddled on her couch and watched some television. She didn't seem to treat me any differently. Several days after that, I brought up the topic in conversation asking her if she had been okay with me wearing around her. She said that she had no problem with it and even apologized that we didn't get to "enjoy it more" or something along those lines. I also tried to explain my infantalist tendencies and my interest in age play during this conversation. She was very mature about the whole thing and essentially said "Well, we could talk more about age play but I am not sure if that is something I'd be comfortable with." So, to those who have girlfriends (especially non-AB/DL girlfriends) who participate in their fetish is this----- How can I get my girlfriend more involved in my fetish? Is there a way to gradually ease her into it? I don't want to freak her out but I think there is a good chance that someday she might be able to be more involved. I don't want to rush things. I'd like her to be more involved but, at the same time, I certainly don't want to make her uncomfortable. What experiences have you guys had with your significant other? Are there ways to introduce them to it gradually? Is it possible that, if given the time to adjust to it, some might be interested participating? Thanks in advance for all your input, guys. I've had this fetish for as long as I can recall but the relationship aspects are all very new to me.