All very interesting replies. For me I was a AB/DL when I was single, but when in a realtionship I felt way more comfortable being the Daddy. I dated lots of women after my divorse and found so many of them accepting being diapered and liking it. My present partner loves the feeling diapers gives her while having sex so much so it's all she wants. The new presure sensations she gets drives her wild. Pulling the diaper to the side works, and I agree that any loose absorbent can't be good to have inside you. I've gone as far as putting two very close sewing machine stitches side by side and then using a razor type knife or scissors to cut a slit. This really helps keeping the fluff intact. It's a bit of work but it can get the jucies going just making all the sets for the coming week. My g/f is wanting to take over the job, maybe a business idea is looming???? I'd like to hear from others of ideas that work well for them.