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    How Do I Stop This?

    in Mommies and Daddies

    Posted

    Plenty of good options here... and the key is to remember you're in control (if that's the kind of mommy you are).

    You can talk to him about it when you're both adults, or scold him when you're in mommy mode. Personally, I think it'll come off better when you're doing it. He'll be getting changed- and wrapped around your finger... but it's all up to how your relationship is dictated.

    He doesn't /need/ to come to be able diaper him. Plenty are stimulated and aroused... you can either bend it down- which will either make it pleasurable or painful for him (depending on his threshold)... or let it go up and don't reward him, like others have said. As long as you don't let him hump/rub it- it'll go away. Heck, push it up and tease him. That'll show him ;). Honestly, it'll probably make him wayyy hornier for when he gets to enjoy it later, which is good for both of you.... I know I'm always ready to go after getting out of diapers.

    Take control, he's yours :D.

    Plastic Pants Help!

    in Diaper Lovers

    Posted

    Besides the ones labeled 'for disposable diapers' on Fetware- does anyone have any reccomendations for plastic pants used for disposables? Do they work? They sound like a fun combination, and with winter around the corner- it probably won't get too hot for them!

    Most Embaressing Moment Ever! (Office Max Fail!)

    in Diaper Lovers

    Posted

    You're honestly playing this cooler than I ever would have...Although for the actual situation with Office Max, probably very similar to what I would have- except I would have ended with a "Yes, thanks for announcing it to everyone here though". It would have let any sensible person feel a bit of guilt. That's all I could see myself saying on the spot, as we all could think of better answers after the fact.

    If you're truely not that taken aback from the situation... that's good- possibly a gift, and a sense of where to head career-wise... if you do feel violated, humilated, embarassed- you should! Your privacy was invaded, and then shared with others!

    Take the advice above and write corporate. Tell them as little, or as much as you want about the materials in the package..Personally, I'd include that they were diapers. Up to you to add that they were fetish-related... Probably a sub-disscussion, but I can see it going one of two ways. 1) They see you as a freak, and it takes away from the seriousness/sevarity of the e-mail... 2) They realize that it's a niche community, and run the chance of the issue you have spreading all over the internet because of the fact that it's a niche/fetish.

    But make sure to include as much as you can about your feelings about the situation, about how it made you feel while in-store and afterwards. Include the store number, cashier name/profile and anyone else working. Ask them if this is normal (pacakges being opened/rummaged through, then dissussed with customers while laughing at them).... Feel free to tell them that it will not only affect your business with them, but you have an online presence that you have shared the experience with. Remember, this is your chance to make an impact for yourself and others. I'm sure they (corporate officials) had the same crack-down with cashiers at drug stores years ago over adult diapers.

    Make sure to take your time while composing it, make sure you give the right attitude/feel to the email (you're the customer, the reason they're in business), you can be angry- make sure it sounds that way- just not beligerant... Think about what you want them to know about what happened, write it, read it over, save it, think about it, then come back and edit it.

    Personally, I would be completely shocked, and really- scared to order online again.... and you shouldn't be- you're the consumer. Never through them, that's for sure. Even if it was the only gig in town.

    I Wear And I'M A Mommy

    in Mommies and Daddies

    Posted

    I am a Daddy and I wear diapers also (as a DL). I never ask my bABy to change me, I feel as long as I maintain the TOP mindset wearing diapers shouldn't interfere in who is Daddy and who is bABy.

    Agreed, same here. Sometimes, she likes to help (I'll let her powder me, or hold it tight while I tape it up), but she knows about my DL side and is happy to let me wander around the house in them. Plus, I like to make sure we order Bambinos, ABUs, ect for her... while I get plain white ones and medical-looking ones (Dry 24/7s, Abena). Make sure she's ok with it, I know some girls I talked to would lose track of their role while seeing Daddy in a diaper. And when she's in little time, and I'm wearing (doesn't happen too often), I'll just put my boxers over them...but no, it's not weird, as most CTs have an affection for diapers and the toys they use on their baby... Have fun! :)

    This Whole Forum Site Sucks Ass!

    in Our Lifestyle Discussion

    Posted

    Honestly Repaid, I wanted to say a few similar things when he would say 'veggies are yucky', 'you're not my doctor, you don't know me', ect in the weight loss thread.... but I didn't want to get in trouble/discourage him from trying.... then he kinda did that himself by shooting down everyone's ideas aggressively. WTF is the point of asking a community for help on something like that if you're just going to get defensive and tell everyone they're wrong?

    I'm sorry, but the idea that this guy needed to be banned from the mods so he couldn't come back showed the amount of self-control he had in life... Was his aggravation all because of the weight loss thread? Or did it spawn from earlier threads I wasn't a part of?

    Diapered Sex

    in Diaper Lovers

    Posted

    Sorry if this thread is specialized, or doesn't belong here... please feel free to move it, mods.

    Anyhow, me and the lady both love diapers- we both wear and I'm looking for tips on diapered sex. So far, I've only tried it when she's wearing, going in through the side of her diaper (crotch area) and it ends up 'hurting her' and feels like it may compromise the condom. Even when I un-tape it on the used side- it feels strange and she doesn't enjoy it, which is first priority.

    Should I just 'feel it out', make a hole, and go in through hers? Does that make a huge mess? Is diaper fluff a health issue or danger to our privates? What if we both want to wear? Do they need to be dry?

    Thanks for the future replies, I swear I'm not a creep trying to get off on this- just genuinely interested on how to do it right, and the type of ways to do it.

    Diapers And Weight Loss

    in Our Lifestyle Discussion

    Posted

    Lol, you were the one talking about your cola intake.. which was the only thing I responded to.... You aren't even addressing the right people.

    Actually, the ones who quit are usually the ones who make a workout 'work'. If you find something you enjoy, you can take your body as far as you want. Your muscles are supposed to be sore.. all that stuff you're lifting is heavy! How do you expect to get your body stronger? Walking is barely a warmup routine... it's a normal human function. You don't know jack about pacing or 'working up to' certain exercises... know how I know that? Cause you're asking for help on a fetish site.

    and you may be listening, but you're also making EXCUSES.. 'oh I'll start working out next summer (lol)... or after asking for help from ordinary people- then telling them 'you're not a doctor wah wah wah'. Well, no crap... but we've done diet changes, exercises... and most of us have tried methods outside our own range! It's called pushing yourself, and is fulfilling.

    Not even gonna try and give you diet advice, cause you're too smug to want it.

    Diapers And Weight Loss

    in Our Lifestyle Discussion

    Posted

    You (OP) are honestly not even trying to listen to our ideas- which is why you created this thread.

    I truly hope that your methods work.... but there are quite a few posters here who have experience and know a complete diet overhaul, and more strenuous exercise than walking is necessary for significant weight loss.

    Good luck, but I'm done posting here.

    Care.Com Has Anyone Tried This

    in Our Lifestyle Discussion

    Posted

    Dude, that's not what this site is for. Don't you remember what happened years ago with the guy in Florida- faking being disabled just to be changed?

    Not sure what you expect to find on there... but they are legitimate nannies/caregivers for the elderly and children... not for people with fetishes.

    Sorry to harp on you, but if you're asking for what I think you're asking for.... you're in the wrong place.

    Question For Women What Do We Guys Have To Do To Get Notice

    in Our Lifestyle Discussion

    Posted

    At your age, you're right (to an extent). I remember not being able to land a high school girl to save my life... a friend told me 'you gotta act tough, make fun of them, ect'... and it's kind of true. Boys who were less appealing than me would 'get the girl' that I couldn't.

    Honestly, for most women... (not all)- that's a trend. Something that they enjoy in high school into their early college years. They get more attention from that treatment in the teenage years- and that's a big deal at the time. The ones who don't grow out of it aren't necessarily 'bad', but it's just a part of who they are, personality-wise. Some have a sense of humor for it, some believe that's the way they are supposed to be treated.

    Either way, (and this isn't a 'heh, I sure showed those jocks) I knew what I wanted in a girl- and I knew what my fantasy girl was. A sweetheart, and her AB side was also a 'good girl'. There was a couple times in my life where I tried to change up how I acted around women- I just wasn't good enough at pretending. Part of me always knew that I'd find a sweet girl who accepted me and it'd pay off.

    All of that isn't to say you can't act a certain way, get the girl, and then show her who you 'truely are'... but that you might miss a wholesome girl or two along the way... that's certainly possible, and most women like to see a man mature and develop for them in a relationship.

    Question For Women What Do We Guys Have To Do To Get Notice

    in Our Lifestyle Discussion

    Posted

    It's all about what you want.

    First, even on diaper-dating sites, don't settle. I talked to a few downright gorgeous girls.. and we just didn't click- so we parted. You have to think with your head! :P Also, I was one-on-one with a couple different ABs before I found one that satisfied everything I wanted in both a girlfriend and an AB... trust me in the long run, you're going to want to be picky. Not telling you to ignore opportunities because you don't think it'll work.... but after some dating, if you know you're in two separate places- you need to decide if it's worth it.

    As for the girl who worked for me :P...., we talked for a over a year, then went halfway across the country to see each other again and again- and then we finally decided to live together. . So, it's all about what you're willing and able to do for the relationship. I moved away from my entire life to be with her, and can't be happier- but I know that's not for everyone. My point here is that you need to be reasonable when you're looking for someone to be with- and if distance will be an issue. Don't look for people out of state if it is.

    As far as just courting ABs (or girls in general), you need to find common interests (besides your fetish) and lead with those. I'm sure (especially on dating sites) they get a lot of introductions that lead- or at least include the diaper discussion. On diaper-dating sites it's obvious you both like them... so leave that topic out completely in your introductions. Try talking about other things first to see how you click first. You'll have plenty of time to talk about the padding :P. Also, like everyone else has said- this isn't a dating site... you might luck out, but the odds are even worse here than on a specific dating site. Try those first.

    Rosalie is correct, even though (at first) we connected through ABDL play- now that we're together it doesn't even come close to taking up our time together. I wear less than I ever have, and we have other things to keep our attention besides baby play. It's important you find someone where this is a real scenario.... if diapers is all you have in common- or enjoy together, it will be a boring and bland relationship.

    Diapers And Weight Loss

    in Our Lifestyle Discussion

    Posted

    You being defensive after asking for tips for weight loss is kinda childish and aggravating- just from a reader's perspective, fyi. Stop blaming other, stop cursing, and stop assuming 'your body' is keeping you from getting fit. If you really believed this, you would have never asked for help.

    I'm currently on a weight-loss trend, so I've been reading a bit into everything on the subject..... and here's what I can offer to you from reading through your posts.

    You want to lose a big amount of weight, but you can't participate in high-intensity exercises (like sprints, ect). Lifting up heavy things is also a huge way to cut weight. It stimulates your muscles, and after hard workouts- makes those muscles work for hours after they've done their job, which is good for helping your body to circulate blood/burn fat... but you also probably will have trouble with a lot of these... try dumbells to start. While walking does help the metabolism- high intensity training is what can really help to burn fatvfast... Walking is obviously better than nothing, so keep doing that... but, it's not going to help you lose 15-30 pounds without some huge efforts in other places.

    Swimming is great for people in positions like yours, it's why older generations use 'water workouts'. It's really hard to pull muscles if you stretch right, and it can be as calm or intense as you make it. Swimming (correctly) is also a full-body workout... and you can do sprints in-between laps to make it high-intensity if you wanna go this route. I recommend this, don't use the 'oh but it's expensive' bit as an excuse. You're asking for help, so take it.

    Now, like I (and others) have said, if you can't do heavy workouts, you're going to have to overhaul your diet. While slowing down on cola is admirable, it's not enough. Cut it completely- you'll forget it exists after a week (I used to love Dr. Pepper, and it tasted like poo after 1.5 weeks off it completely). DRINK WATER. All the time. It's what you need to purge the crap from your system. At least 8 cups a day ( I recommend more) especially if your weight is high.

    Myfitnesspal.com can help you get on the right track for calorie counting, and http://swole.me/ is a GREAT diet planner (it actually steers away from veggies, but has a lot of fruits cause hey, they're good for you and good tasting (eat them). Stuff like protein shakes are a good idea... if you can actually use them as a meal- just use them on days you're working out. A really good read is http://brainoverbrawn.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/brainoverbrawn.pdf

    Diapers And Weight Loss

    in Our Lifestyle Discussion

    Posted

    A DailyDiapers mod turned me onto MyFitnessPal.com. It's pretty accurate at counting calories and proteins.... it'll give you a general layout at how many you need to eat to lose weight, and even if you don't stick to the goal, will show you how many you're wasting on things like soda, chips, ect. Trust me, I wasted a few yesterday at the movies :(

    I Love It When...

    in Scoop The Poop

    Posted

    ... A CD comes to the end right as I am pulling in the driveway.

    In the same vein, when the song changes with the change in intensity in a workout. I really need to start making mixes dedicated to just this.

    And another! When someone lets me in during rush hour. Sounds easy enough, but you don't know how many people will stare straight ahead and pretend you're not there... just to save a couple seconds!

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