well, after wearing the two that i got i went and got some more i've been wearing every chance that i get including at night. i'm really enjoying it for myself, but i have also discovered that i missed both wearing the diapers themselves, and wearing them with my ex. however, i'm feeling better now (with my diaper on). thanks for all the advice and positive comments. you probably know this already, but it does help. i might have to change my status from just curious to dl soon..