I was wondering how are goodnites i know they don't hold much but are they comfy like a real diaper? if not then what can i buy thats a fairly small diaper and is good and comfy?(i don't fit baby diapers) i want something thats discreet no noticeable under pants doesn't have any smell to give it away and that it decently absorbent for #1 not 2. and that fits even when your excited if you know what i mean.