[How do you conceal the buldge?]

I find the more you try to hide the bulge the more obvious it becomes.

[I Have Done It!]

It's good to read some success stories here.

I too have become inco out of choice.

I had been wearing diapers for about 10 years on and off and decided early this year to go 24/7. Inco had been a desire for a good few years, and with the 12 month programme as a guide i started to experiment. I also had a medical problem which caused retention and bladder infections last year and was having to use catheters several times a day. Once that was resolved I had no desire to have retention or infections again so going for inco seemed a good course of action...fulfilling a long held desire and prevention of further infections and retention problems.

After a few weeks of 24/7 wearing wetting became much easier. At first i would consciously have to wet and if walking or an unusual position I would have to pause and relax to begin wetting, after a few weeks i no longer had to pause what i was doing and could continue and wet at the same time. Within a month or so i was wetting much more frequently in ever smaller amounts. Night time I was always dry, something that continued for quite a long time.

As the weeks passed wetting became more and more normal in every situation. I would drink more and ensure that I was always well hydrated, and of course always have a diaper bag with me with the required supplies for a change. After around 4 months i was wetting unconsciously, and would only realise I was wetting during the process. This lasted a few more weeks until i was wetting more or less without any knowledge. Id have to check to see if my diaper was wet; it usually was. Nights were still dry most of the time. Occasionally I would wake to wet and would let the flow start and fall back to sleep as i did, but this was not frequent.

After 5 -6 months i began to get bladder spasms and cramps. Sometimes real painful and sometimes just a twinge. Sometimes of only a few minutes duration and sometimes they would last all day. At this point I started to reassess and decided to go on. I did try to hold off wetting but after 20 minutes or so i could no hold longer and when I did manage to hold off wetting for those few minutes it was a hell of a struggle. At this point i knew I was at the brink or no return. I was dribbling during changes and had minimal capacity to clench my weakened sphincter and my bladder could hold ever smaller amounts. Being diapered was now so normal I could not imagine being un-diapered...it felt so strange.

At 6-7 months i began to have nighttime wettings. I knew then that I was more or less inco. At first it didnt happen every night but over a few weeks it became a nightly thing. I have now not had a dry night for a good couple of months. I now consider my self bladder inco.

I now have no capacity to hold my urine or to even clench my sphincter with any success and wet more or less constantly. My diaper is always wet. I leak during changes, under the shower, al the time in fact. I am totally at ease with this situation and happy that I have achieved my goal.

I expected it to take me well over a year to get to this point but it took me only around 10 months to get to this point. I took some tips from the 12 month programme but did not follow it word for word, it does seem a little excessive and compulsive in places. The main thing is the desire and conviction you have in yourself. Wearing 24/7 made it so easy for me to become inco. I guess i could go back to being continent if i so desired but it would be very hard now and I guess within a few more months that ability will be lost.

I get through 4 or 5 diapers a day now. I have no underwear any longer...I don't wear it so I got rid of it all, I have to take a diaper bag with me where ever I go. There are plusses and minuses but for me the plusses are far greater than the minuses.

[Time Between Peeing]

There needs to be a 3rd option of "no difference" for the 2nd question.

I am incontinent and it makes no difference to me whether I am diapered or not.

My answer is:

I'm incontient, I constantly dribble all the time.

[Does Anyone Still Use The Toilet?]

Not used the toilet for almost 4 months, apart from pooping.

I started wearing 24/7 almost 4 months ago and I am more or less wet all of the time now. If i tried to hold off i doubt i could make it to the toilet now before i started leaking. Happily becoming dependent and inco on my diapers

[Are You Dependent On Your Diapers]

I've been a DL for many years but was only wearing when i wanted to, but always wet them. 3.5 months ago i decided to go 24/7. In that time i have seen a change in my bladder and wetting. I have diminished bladder capacity and minimal control for holding back, i've even had a few wet nights. When i went 24/7 i had decided that i was no longer going to use the toilet, apart from messing, and would use my diaper for its intended purpose...if i had some degree of inco then so be it. Well 3.5 months later i am heading towards inco. I can still hold for a few minutes but its not easy and getting progressively more difficult.

Last week i started getting bladder spasms, a sure sign my bladder is losing its muscle tone and function and that the sphincter is also starting to become ineffective. Since the spasms started I am wet more or less all the time. I am dribbling now during changes unless i make a huge effort not to. The thought of not being diapered fills me with fear. I'm not 100% sure if my initial desire was to become inco, but now that prospect is more or less a reality I have no problems with it and am looking forward to becoming totally dependent on diapers, which i guess will be within the next 3-5 months. I had a 3 consecutive wet nights last week, but since friday have woken up dry, so does seem that i still do have some bladder function left which i could save if i wanted to, but i really don't.

I am looking forward to having no control and needing my diapers 24/7.

[Chat?]

yep, me too several times

[Budgets]

I 'need' diapers right now, 24/7. I dont feel comfortable or secure without a good absorbent diaper and rubber pants. I don't think it will be too long before i really do NEED them though. As for the cost, I get a months supply at a time for around €75 which is pretty good value. I dont think about the cost much anymore. I need them, so I have to buy them.

[Explain Your Screen Name]

Been a lurker here and a on and off diaper wearer for a good long while now, but no longer...now a 24/7 diaper wearer.

I think my screen name is like most here quite self explanatory.