andyfloss

Hi diaper fox I have been reading your initial post at the beginning of this post, I myself currently live at home ( am a little older than you but that's a side issue) I hot found out I say found out as I was not home at the time when my family decided to take advantage of the nice day out side and put my sheets in the washing machine, and at that time I kept 21 nappies between my mattress and bed base, my family also turned my mattress over! My cover was blown!. That event. Happened about 8 years ago, it dosent make It at all easier as I do not walk around the house with an exposed nappy/ diaper even if. family did see those products and my younger family member was home to receive a nappy supply from the freight truck that I had ordered online( when I had not planned on her being home and me to have been out and away from the house. As you know it is t easy to keep the equilibrium while at home. It Is doable to wear a nappy around family but a tad hard. Could I maybe suggest you go to the doctor (gp) if you really are up to this and saying to your doctor hey I have to go to the toilet every 15-20 minutes and hourly over night and asking them what they can offer, if the gp says a catheter ( it is a great idea it would fix your real problem of over active bladder ) the other thing is you could depending on the time the catheter stays in have tempory incontinence. Or even if you just mentioned about the frequent trips over night and just making it to the toilet before a full accident your dr may suggest an absorbent pad over night. Then you have drs backing to use if questioned by parentals! If you dont want to go down that path please as another poster said be carefull and discrete. Tip one while around family in close proximity to them ( unlesss they are really deaf and don't use hearing aids) Dont wear a crinkly/ noisy nappy - use a material outer shell product, in noisy places in public you can afford to wear plastic outer shell productes that offer better leak protection more noise around less chance the tell tale crinkle will give your secret away. Tip two: don't do like silly me did some ages ago and wear a plastic backed product around my mother in close range in a quiet house and hey make sure the product/ nappy is not really thick variety as if your mother is anything like mine ( even though I maybe a guy) she is for ever observing from a distance my general appearance - a sudden change to how your butt looks in a pair of pant you wear regularly can make them suspicious as to why my butt just got big and a day or so later look more slender. Maybe try cloth diapers/ nappy and plastic pants that if you could wash and dry them regularly cloth dosent make a noise and plastic pants are pretty quiet. With clever dressing of your outer street wear clothing you will find a nappy will disappear nearly under clothing. I use to use bike shorts( spandex/Lycra cycle / exercise pants shorts not long legs under trousers and that reduced the crinkle noise and I found cycle pants tend to be high waisted so they came up a long way to covering any nappy that may want to have peeked out of my trousers, yourself ding female I have read where other females have used to good effect control top pantyhose and it has cut down the noise nd compressed the nappy to hide a bit of its bulk. With the use of trousers a size bigger and more garments that are not skin tight and mega short you should have no problems wearing a nappy all day and around family - lucky females get that extra two options of dresses or skirts if. They are not form hugging and loose cut can hide a multitude of poofy puffiness of any size and thickness of diaper/ nappy. Just remember to practice at home your walking style ( don't duckie waddle) it is easy to especially with a thick nappy on and that extra thickness between the legs - take what you think is an exaggerated stride and look in a full length mirror you will find that you will then be walking more normal to how you would without all the bulk between your legs! By from Andy