Hey Everyone,
My girlfriend and I have been dating for a year and a half and need some guidance on which diaper to use next. We have nearly used up all of the Depends Adjustables and need to go shopping.
Here's what I thought about the Depends:
. . +They look sexy (but a lot of diapers probably do)
. . +They were white and sort of "plasticy"
. . - They go all the way up to her belly button and over her pant line (too big)
. . - Too thin
. . - They bunch up pretty quickly (probably effects absorbency)
. . - Three tabs on each side (too many, but I like the "winged diaper" style)
She hasn't gone to the bathroom in one yet, but I hope she will soon and so we do need absorbency. I really like bulkiness and a sort of plastic feel (i would hate cloth-like) for her to wet. However, she has worn them in public before and I really like that, so they should probably be able to be disguised, but I'm not sure if I'm willing to give up bulk. Maybe the solution is to have two different brands so she can choose which one to use for the given occasion to surprise me? She is 5'5", has a waist of about 28", and is about 125 pounds.
Another problem is that I'm still at home and don't have my own credit card bill for online purchases. I have a credit card I could use but it would show up on her bill.
I've thought about Goodnites and Abena Abri Forms, but they (Goodnites) probably wouldn't be able to hold enough liquid (she doesn't go to the bathroom often, so I'm assuming each time she does, it's a lot). I really like the style of the blue-ish diaper (Wellness brief) on this page.
Any help or reviews are welcome and extremely appreciated by my girfriend and me to help us satisfy all our (my) diaper needs. Thanks!