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curiositykilledthecat

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  1. Simply put, if you think having a mommy/care giver means having a mate while sitting on your butt and doing nothing then that would be why you're alone.(not accusing anyone of behaving like this, just pointing out that three minutes on fetlife and you can figure out why the same people ahve personal ad after personal ad) Relationships require work and a mutual benefit to exist. there are plenty of mommy types out there but they are inundated with requests from people who have no clue how to be in a relationship. It's the same reason I don't want to full time daddy anymore, too many little girls just want to sit on their ass, be waited on hand and foot and demand my full attention. That isn't how it works, you have to be an adult and carry your fair load of the relationship too. I probably get this a little easier being a switch, ideally I'd like to find another switch or someone a bit more on the domme/big side of things for a long term relationship. I like the whole abdl side of the equation but I do enjoy being a provider, supporter and nurter for my significant other as well. I don't expect to only receive but I fully expect to have to pour back out into the relationship as well. Essentially if there isn't balance and harmony then the relationship will fall apart.

    As far as looking, the idea is to show what ytou can offer and I don't mean as far as income, housing and all that gold digger nonsense that so many think they're entitled to. The idea is to show that you are a mature adult or can pretend to be one when needed and that you have ambition in life and a plan of action. you want to show him or her that you aren't a basket case and that spending time with you is going to be of a benefit.

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