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Hi all I have been a little slow due to illness and a havy work load (pretty much been working and sleeping), so my plans for doing something a little more specal have kind of fell apart, well I my make a nice cake but that is about it lol. But the normal munch is still on. The pub we had it in last time was quite nice but got very full with rugby fans after a bit and seeing as Tigers are at home again this weekend I think we will give that a miss (as friendly as they all where it makes it a little hard to talk). As it is sort notice and all I am going to go with the safe opton of saying this one will be at the firebug. I will post the address etc tomorrow but for those that dont know it is about 2 mins away from the market in the city, so prtty ceteral. well good night and hope to see some of you there

cool I look forward to seeing you there is there anything that you can think you would like to happen other than the normal siting in a pub talking that you would like to do?

Just to get ahead of the game for once I would like to ask you all, yes I mean all of you about the Munch for Dec. for those that don't know a munch is and informal get together of like minded people in a normal setting to sit and chat and what have you. I am wondering if people would Like to keep it too the normal day it would full on (Dec 18) or move it forward so to give them more time for other stuff near to Christmas? Do let me know.

Hi there all just a quick post to say that the munch will be on the 27th (If you have not heard about the munch yet more about what it is will follow shortly). I will post more at another point as I am thinking of doing a little more than normal for the munchs running up to Christmas, not sure what yet could be anything from making a cake for every to renting so people can let there little side out more... I have not really looked into it much yet so that is why I am a little late posting about it and I am posting about it in such a vage. So if any on has any ideaof what they would like to happen then let me know otherwise I will post more about it soon and hope to see you there, oh and if you think you are coming please post so others know they will not be left alone with me

sorry for not replying as soon as I side I would with more details. same as the norm really 12 o'clock to around 5 or when the last people want to leave. I am looking at new places just to mix it up but this time it is at The Old Contemptibles (176 Edmund Street, Birmingham, B3 2HB) again. if any more info is needed then just ask orcheck out the last topic about the munch. and yes there should be one in december and it will be in burmingham... maybe a little eairly in the month... have to think about that one.

Hi I will poat the proper post a little later, just to say that the munch will be on the 4th weekend this time as I am away on the 3rd (well you can all meet up on the 3rd if you like as well ) so it will be on the the 23rd for you people that need to plan ahead

Well I look forward to seeing you what ever time you make it there for

Hi I just read my last post and noticed I seemed a little unsure so with a little more than a week to go I thought I would just say for sure that we will be meeting at 'The Pub' (http://www.thepubleicester.co.uk/) incase any one was waiting for a final decition o see if parking etc will be an issue. Hope to see some of you there

Hi this is not set in stone yet but I think for this munch we will be meeting in 'the pub' on new walk. if any one has any reason not to go there let me know and I will be happy to talk about it, if not I hope to see you there

well we are normally there untill 4-5ish so if you get there for 2:30 then we will be there fo a little while. And we sometimes go for something to eat etc after. We are trying to sort out some more fun things to do after so if you have any ideas that you think would make your rush triped more worthwiled let me know.

Well I am sure we can sort something out like that. Ice skating sounds fun, not done it in a while. Pian balling could be fun... anyone know when Bear season is And they have the normal munch at firebug and it is not to busy then but that is on a sunday so not sure what it would be like on a saturday. And I never found the drinks there to bad. I am planing on popping into to the cafe some time soon... not wanting to make any one sound like an alcoholic but would anyone mind having the munch some where that doesn't serve alcohol... sorry about the spelling, I will edit this in the morning as I should have left for work already.

The keen eyed among you may have noticed that there is no venue. As the current venue has changed somewhat. It is fine as long as we make sure there is never more than 6 people there at a time lol, plus it is a little pricy. So I am currently looking for a new venue. The front runners are FireBug (http://firebugbar.net/) and The Darkside cafe. So if anyone has any view on ether of these places or any other options feel free to let me know. Oh and seeing as it is one of the big differences, would any one mind not being able to have an alcoholic drink at the munch. Also we are always looking for things to do after the munch when everyone has turned and settled down so again any ideas are welcome.

Hello all that time again... the time to say, the next Leicester munch be happening and it will be on the 25th of September. The munch starts at 12 and ends when everyone decides to go home, which is usually about 5. All are welcome, be they ABs, littles, DLs, Mummies/Daddies or just curious and interested people. The purpose of this munch (as with most munchs) is to be a place for people to come together and chat and hopefully have a good time. It is not intended to be a dating service, of course if you make some friends there that is great and if that friendship turns into something more I am sure we will all be happy for you but that is not the intend function of the event and you would certainly be ill advised to come expecting anything more than a friendly conversation. And it may go without saying but this is not a play party and will be taking place in a public setting. Due to the fact that we will be in public and therefore for the sake of others at the event, the general public and yourself there are a few rules. Firstly dress in ‘street cloths’, nothing AB or overly childish. No AB/DL play. And no photos unless you ask everyone first (and watch out for anyone in the back of the shot). Now you are welcome to wear nappies if you choose to or need to but please do so as discreetly as possible, and of course wearing is not mandatory If there is anything I have left out or if you need any more detail feel free to ask. Oh and there will be and A-Z map on the table with an apple on it so you can tell it is us. I forgot the map last time but got one on the way home that will now stay in my bag so it can’t happen again

glad you had a good time. There was 5 people there in totle, I am pretty sure every had a good time (and the other two never post on here so they can't contradicted me lol)

thanks for the indorcment and I don't see tom other than at the munch as he lives a little way away and he does post on any where as far as I know due to family stuff. I keep in tuch with him thought e-mail. no dought he will read you post soon enough but if you like I can ask if he wants me to pass on his e-mail address.

Ok cool, I will look forward to seeing you if you do manage to get yourself to come. I know the feeling well but we are not normaly a scary lot. If you like I would be happy to have a quick chat and answer any qustions you may have about what nomraly goes on.

it would seem my power to kill of a topic is alive and well

ok something hope you do decide to come and I will let you know if I hear that any one I think you may want to see is coming... and as much as I don't like the idea of it, let me know who the people that would stop you from come are so I can let you know about that too, nope point in you coming if you will not enjoy it so I guess I am ok with doing that... as long as one of those people isn't me of course lol. And picking the right name for it is hard. when it was AB/DL munch then people wrote asking if it was just for ab's or could LG's come to. I didn't want to have a long list of letters there so I couldn't just put them all up and AGe-play is pretty genral. I guess I could go with age-play/DL munch in future if you think it is a better fit. And yes you are right there is no AB play going on there but there is not a lot of DL stuff going on there ether and you don't go to a spanking munch and expect to see lots of people bent over, it is a place where you are free to talk about AB stuff and that is the point of a munch. and beside I would say I am at most 1/10 DL and I am not leaveing most of me at home just to come

he next Birmingham munch will be on the 21st of Aug (there was a little confusion over the date what with the BBB being the weekend before this time) at The Old Contemptibles (176 Edmund Street, Birmingham, B3 2HB). The munch starts at 12 and ends when everyone decides to go home, which is usually about 5. All are welcome, be they ABs, littles, DLs, Mummies/Daddies or just curious and interested people. The purpose of this munch (as with most munchs) is to be a place for people to come together and chat and hopefully have a good time. It is not intended to be a dating service, of course if you make some friends there that is great and if that friendship turns into something more I am sure we will all be happy for you but that is not the intend function of the event and you would certainly be ill advised to come expecting anything more than a friendly conversation. And it may go without saying but this is not a play party and will be taking place in a public setting. Due to the fact that we will be in public and therefore for the sake of others at the event, the general public and yourself there are a few rules. Firstly dress in ‘street cloths’, nothing AB or overly childish. No AB/DL play. And no photos unless you ask everyone first (and watch out for anyone in the back of the shot). Now you are welcome to wear nappies if you choose to or need to but please do so as discreetly as possible, and of course wearing is not mandatory . If there is anything I have left out or if you need any more detail feel free to ask. Oh and there will be and A-Z map on the table with an apple on it so you can tell it is us

I have went to a very general fetish club which is more your wips and spanking type place in my footed PJ's and it was cool. most people ever pay no real attention or make a little coment to test the water and that is about it. If I made it clear I was happy to talk some of them talked a little more ask a question or two and that was about it. I guess it helped that I kind of know the people that run it so felt a little safer but as a tip if you are thinking of going to any more general place just write a head to say what you intend to wear etc to give them a heads up. most people that run things like that will be fine with most anything legal but do tend to like it if you let them know about anythinga little different as, as much as it is unlikely there will be any trouble they like to know so they can keep an eye out and make sure every one is safe and happy and that is my tip for the day lol

Hi just wanted to say again I am always open for ideas and suggestons on what to do after people get bored of the pub and for those people that just don't want to go home

Hello all that time again... the time to say, the next Leicester munch be happening and it will be on the 24th of July at ‘The Marquis Wellington' (139 London Road, Leicester, LE2 1EF). The munch starts at 12 and ends when everyone decides to go home, which is usually about 5. All are welcome, be they ABs, littles, DLs, Mummies/Daddies or just curious and interested people. The purpose of this munch (as with most munchs) is to be a place for people to come together and chat and hopefully have a good time. It is not intended to be a dating service, of course if you make some friends there that is great and if that friendship turns into something more I am sure we will all be happy for you but that is not the intend function of the event and you would certainly be ill advised to come expecting anything more than a friendly conversation. And it may go without saying but this is not a play party and will be taking place in a public setting. Due to the fact that we will be in public and therefore for the sake of others at the event, the general public and yourself there are a few rules. Firstly dress in ‘street cloths’, nothing AB or overly childish. No AB/DL play. And no photos unless you ask everyone first (and watch out for anyone in the back of the shot). Now you are welcome to wear nappies if you choose to or need to but please do so as discreetly as possible, and of course wearing is not mandatory If there is anything I have left out or if you need any more detail feel free to ask. Oh and there will be and A-Z map on the table with an apple on it so you can tell it is us. I forgot the map last time but got one on the way home that will now stay in my bag so it can’t happen again

Well not the biggest turn out but I think every one that was there had a nice time and a fun chat so I am happy with that Sorry to does that where there that I was not able to put in the time writing to people that I normaly would do to get people to come. Oh and to the guy that joind use a little way through and said he sort of came to the December one (sorry I am bad with names and I don't know if you would like me posting your name on here) I don't know if you have a profile on here or just check it from time to time but feel free to say hi and you are more than welcome again... new face are nice but it is always good to see that some one had a good time and wants to come again

Ok this may not be the best written post as the general acceptance of discrimination against male is one of the topics I get very riled up by so sorry if I get a little ranty but that is a loud of rubbish. To say that you can't do a certant role just because you happen to be in a social group that is statically more likely to do something wrong is indefinable whatever that social group is. You can't blame all men for the action of a few. Also I will dig up the report on this at another time if I can find it but I know that in the UK at least the number ration of abuse against children by men and women is massively miss reported. Which then feeds in to the problem because the number of (mainly) boys that are abused by woman and wait over 20years to report it is much high than that of children abused by men due to the general social view of such things making them feel more ashamed. And farther more as much as I would never wish to give any excuse for the truly horrible things some men do but how do you expect to have a society of men how have healthy relationship with children if you try to keep them apart all the time and any interaction there is it is made to feel stressful and uneasy because they feel (rightly or wrongly) that they are being judged. And this feeds into the next generation as you have a generation of boys growing up with near minimal contact with adult males so they never learn how that relationship is meant to work. Normally I am all for people having their own views regardless of how much they differ from mine but discrimination is discrimination. And doing one evil to hopefully stop another can never be right.

Hi there all. Not long now until the munch so just letting you know how it is going, failing anything going wrong we have 6 people confered as going so should be about 8 there with any luck I often write to some people personal to let them know it is coming up but this month my time is a little short so bumping this post up and hoping they read it is the best I can do for now (I really need to learn to be less honest lol) And just to say it really does help people make there mind up if they are going to come or not if they see that people are saying they are coming so if you are thinking of coming please post to say so. If in the end you can't make it no one will hold it agaisted you and it will help