rick

It is interesting to say that we have rights as human beings. It is my view that we have absolutely no rights what so ever. We only have the grace of others around us to allow us to say or do as we wish. Look at opressed people in Countries less fortunate than ours. The only difference between them and us is the lack of grace of the people in power to allow them to be who they really are. If you take out the politics it is very similar to us. I just want to be accepted as me and that I wear nappies. I don`t need to physically, but there is a dependance for them of some kind. Getting back to the point. As a kid i used to use old terry nappies that were kept in the airing cupboard. This was going back to when I was 6 or 7. Unfortunately I could not use the washing machine at that age so I enevitably got caught when the damp smelly nappies were found in my cupboard. The second time my mother threatened to send me to school in nappies. At that time I was not brave enough to say OK then! so it was not until I was 11 or 12 that I started wearing them again. This time I could use the washing machine, and I tended to use towels as they were bigger, using bin liners as plastic pants. It was not until I went to America when I was 22 that I discovered Disposable Adult Nappies, and the rest is history as they say. It took me until I was 28 to accept myself for what I am and to admit that I enjoy wearing nappies, up until that time I had huge feelings of guilt and worthlessness Rick

I have told quite a few people now, close friends, my sisters and step brother. They are all fine about it, the only problem is that my wife cannot accept it. Itold her right at the beginning of our relationship and she seemed to be OK. At that time I did not feel the need to wear nappies much, so there was never a problem. More recently, I have wanted to wear them more and my wife cannot accept it. I have since discovered that it brings up other memeories and feelings with her, the remind her of bad times in her childhood. It can make life very difficult