[Who Are You?]

I answered yes to many of these questions. Although I sometimes play "Mommy" I do not see any conflict with my relaxing as an adult big baby girl. A whole bunch of urologists, gynecologists and other distinguished medical specialists confirm I am medically bladder incontinent, meaning I am both a pants and bedwetter. It is only my 24/7 wearing of diapers that protects my bed and prevents stains showing on my adult day clothing. Any number of my friends, my kid sister and especially my loving husband will assure you I always need a good spanking.

Fair is fair, so when my kid sister comes over to our house, or I go visit her, sooner rather than later we will change the other's diaper. Snacks will include a baby bottle or two, filled with milk, juice or an adult formula (think strawberry shake that is thin and warm). Whichever of us acts like a brat gets her bottom spanked, or at least smacks on the diaper. Perhaps once a week several couples living near us get together for a big baby brunch and afternoon. Stories are read, hissy fits managed, tantrums spanked and wet diapers get changed. Good times for one and all. Today we met at 9:15AM and while I am answering these polls some of our friends are still napping while working pacifiers and wetting their diapers.

[Poll 2: You Kinky Bastards!]

Although I was seldom punished growing up, and never spanked, I became hooked on spanking as sexy from reading romance novels. That was before I reached puberty. It is no secret I began to wet my bed after puberty, so I wore cloth diapers when sleeping. Still, I did not discover the joys of big baby games until I was about 27.

Instead, I began participating in spanking for pleasure parties when I was still in high school. My timing had to be perfect, since I was attending those parties without a diaper. A few times I dribbled on the lap of my disciplinarian, who just thought I was excited.

While I was away at law school my youngest sister, also incontinent, discovered the joys of being a big baby. When she told me I nearly giggled, but after she showed me an adorable ruffled dress she made for herself, I started to see the benefits. Lucky for her the slightly older guy she fell in love with facilitated her big baby side. They have been happily married 21 years. She has an extensive collection of AB outfits, a changing table and adult crib.

The guy I married at age 27 also facilitates my own big baby side. We do not have a crib my size, but our changing table gets lots of use, was does my play-pen with a reinforced floor.

For sure I agree with my parents that it is not necessary to spank kids. However, big baby play is based on fantasy. So, if I play like a big baby brat, I get spanked. Over my husband's lap is the most fun. The wooden hairbrush to me is anti-erotic, but supple straps and leather paddles really turn me on, even when I am playing big baby. When our scenario is more adult I get turned-on even faster.

Swinging and group sex is outside my limits, which could be my loss. However my husband and I often get together with my kid sister, her husband and some other local couples into both spanking for pleasure and big baby games. We hardly consider this sexy, but I suspect outsiders would think it unusual, maybe even perverse.

The old saying is what is kinky good fun to me is perverse fetish to someone else with a narrow mind.

[Wetting Questions]

After answering the poll questions I read all the posts and especially loved the sharing of Wet Staci.

I have absolutely no independent memory of my own toilet training, but I was aware of my next two younger siblings and paid close attention when our youngest sister (almost 6 years younger than me) was growing up. When I asked Mom told me she remembers me being dry at 23 months during the day, and at 26 months in bed. For years I took pride in being dry, although I knew my bladder was small. Mom explained this discreetly to my teachers and I just was carefull to use the toilet often.

Growing up I was taught there was a high probability I would have bladder control difficulties after I reached puberty. Granny and Mom never made a secret they needed diapers, as did both of Mom's sisters. Sure enough eventually my oldest sister started wetting her bed and was returned to diapers.

Since our family never considered wearing a diaper to be shamefull, and Dad got frustrated because us kids had tiny bladders, it became tradition for car trips over an hour and for exciting adventures, all of us would be diapered. Mom and my aunts did not believe in disposables, so we got used to riding in hot cars wearing pinned gauze Curity diapers, Gerber vinyl panties inside jeans or dresses. Such trips were not frequent enough it was considered necessary to teach us to change ourselves, which explains why I voted that my Mom and oldest sister changed my diaper several times when I was 12. Once I reached puberty and started wetting my bed, I was taught to change myself. Even before that I had changed my two younger sisters during trips.

I have been married happily since 1991. Just for fun last night my husband changed me for bed, although generally I do so myself. Then he also changed me again before dawn today when he felt I was soaked.

Fortunately when I was in junior high and high school I did not need diapers during the school day. Yet I was not shy going on sleep-overs. Even if Mom knew the hostess I also explained I would bring my own waterproof sheet, plus diapers and vinyl panties. I only got a little kidding. Sometimes other girls were so fascinated they asked to be diapered when sleeping at my house.

For college I did start wearing disposables since washing gauze diapers there was not practical. Far from being teased, lots of my college friends would borrow disposable diapers from me. Some of those were guys. We all know what happends after a kegger. Heck, my roomie did like me and wore a disposable to the keggers!

[Gender Questions]

I was born a girl and have always considered myself to be female. For over 9 years I had the same quality bladder control as did any girl in my class. Then with puberty I started losing bladder control.

Most of the time I think of myself as a responsible adult woman and dress accordingly. These days slip-in disposable pads are so effective outsiders do not notice.

When I relax I baby-out. Of course I prefer the comfort of pinned cotton gauze diapers worn with separate soft vinyl panties. At home most nights I go to bed wearing some type of big baby girl outfit over my diaper. Choice is a function of weather and my mood. If it is really hot I might only wear a babydoll top leaving my vinyl panties uncovered. Morse often I cover my vinyl panties with loose cloth panties that coordinate with my babydoll top to constitute a "Baby Kellie Set" In moderate weather I like Onesies, but in winter this cold I love footed blanket sleepers with a long zipper so changing is easy.

When I was a dry actual girl I thought boys had more fun. Now that I am an adult, I am sure I have the best of both worlds. At work I am as successful as the men in my profession, but when it is time to relax as a big baby, clearly I get away with so much more as a girl! Sometimes I do wear short-alls or over-alls, very much like I see real toddlers wearing. I make no attempt to look like a boy.

[Who Knows?]

I have never believed it possible or desirable to try keeping incontinence a huge secret.

When I reached puberty at age 12 in 1976 I began a loss of bladder control. My mom had virtually no bladder control then, some her sisters had poor control, and my slightly older sister needed diapers at night. Within the family none of our diaer needs was a secret, but even then mom knew outsiders might not be so accepting. I figured my diapers would be a problem when I started college in 1981. Washing cloth didees was not practical so I made do with dispoables. Much to my surprise enough of my classmates used diapers part time it was not shamefull. By law school mt friends were so open about disposables bags of Attends and Depend were in plain sight in dorm rooms.

Today I am a responsible partner in a major law firm. I specialize in corporate litigation, with enough senority I have a private lav. Yet if I need to change my disposable in a public ladies room even at the court, I do not consier it a problem.

Where I am discreet is not telling anyone without a need to know that I use adult baby games to cope with my incontinence. Yet outsiders have seen me work a pacifier and did not flee in terror.

[Quickie: Cloth Or Disposable]

There is no wrong answer! Cloth and disposable diapers have their uses.

I was born in 1964. The history section of the P&G Pampers website tells me that they were marketing Pampers in limited quantity by then. Additional research tells me several forms of paper disposable diapers for infants were being sold as early as the mid 1940's. However, my extended family hug trees. My granny, Mom and aunts would not consider any dispoable for their kids, even when the kid was sick and making runny messes. I was old enough to remember a trip when my youngest sister was not quite toilet trained and also had the runs. In a couple of hours Mom and my older sister had changed the sick baby so often they ran out of cloth diapers in the car. Mom had to stop and send my oldest sis into a supermarket to buy a bag of Pampers, a first for the family, and a secret Mom kept from her sisters for months!

The fact is younger adult babies and most incontinent adults have no cloth diaper experience. I happen to prefer pinned cloth diapers made of gauze. Just before First Years stopped making their classic Style 3200, I bought a case of those cards. Probably my stash of larger than average diaper pins will last the rest of my life. I know diaper pins are not easy to find. So I do use disposables part of most days. I can even feel babyish wearing a pull-up Depend Adjustable, and I can also feel totally adult and responsible seconds after pinning a gauze diaper on me and making sure it is totally tucked inside my vinyl panties. No problem either way!

[All I Want For Christmas Is....]

Why not have it all? Sure, I am incontinent, but I also have an active big baby girl inside.

So I was brat enough to demand New Diapers + Cookies with Milk + A Santa Visit + World Peace combined with A Diaper Change.

The fact is I wear some kind of diaper 24/7. When home I really find cloth diapers and separate vinyl panties more comfy and effective so long as I do not need to be discreet. The rest of the time I use various kinds of disposable products. This means I routinely buy disposables more than once a week. The brand of soft thin vinyl panties I wear last fairly well, so although I need 2-3 changes an evening, I only need to buy a dozen new panties a year, adding about one a month to the rotation. My adult cotton gauze diapers last even longer. I still have some adult gauze prefolds I bought in 2001. The Gerber toddler Birdseye prefolds I use as soakers I buy in quantity as necessary and add 24-36 to rotation a year, tossing then as they get worn. My newest style is using 36" square gauze flat diapers. I ordered 2 to try a couple of months ago. They worked so great I immediately bought 12 more. None show any wear yet, and I still have 4 in reserve. Still, I always love some sort of big baby gifts, perhaps a new ruffled dress or a big stuffed toy.

No big baby can have too many cookies and milk by the bottle with c super clear nipple!

Santa clearly loves diaper wearing people of all ages! Our diapers save his lap!

World Peace will be a good thing. Sure, I can change my own diapers and have done so since 1976. Still, nothing to me is as loving as when my dear husband spreads one of my diapers on the changing table, folds that with some soakers and then places me on my back over my diaper so he can tug it snug and pin it securely. After he has my vinyl panyies in place and has checked that all my diaper is inside, he signals me with a gentle pat on the base of my bottom and a kiss on my forehead.

See, I can ask for it all!

[Incontinence By Choice?]

Back in 1976 when I was 12 and just reached puberty, nobody gave me a vote or choice. Some genetic defect caused me to lose my bladder control. This was expected, because many women in my family have the same problem. For years I actually still had control during the day, when I could concentrate. My bladder even when I had control was puny, so as a kid I woke up a couple of times each night. For law school I began wearing a tape-on disposable under my skirt so I could sit through long lectures. At age 25 I realized I needed diapers 24/7. I have sisters who only need diapers when sleeping, but my youngest sis and our mom are like me, in didees 24/7.

Personally I never tried to keep my incontinence a huge secret. Honestly I do not think it possible to keep a need for diapers a secret from people you love or work with a lot. I am far mre discreet telling folks I use adult baby play to cope with my incontinence.

Funny about Karma and getting what you want. My dad did not know about mom's diapers until shortly before they married. Dad would sometimes be irritated over the time washing millions of cloth diapers required. Then a few years ago Dad sufferred prostate cancer. He had a catheter with leg bag, then disposables. Very quickly Dad learned about the up and down sides of incontinence. Trust me, he is thrilled to have re-gained bladder control, yet still keeps pull-on disposables on hand for trips.

My husband knew all about my diaper need from the moment we met. That night we fell in love so I told him about being a big baby girl to relax. That did not shock him. We had been married over 5 years when he started supervising the graveyard shift. The first time he tried sleeping during the day, he dribbled a bit. When I found out I teased him with a Depend Overnight. After a couple of other dribble incidents he asked me to teach him to put on his own Depend. Funny, he never had any trouble pinning a cloth diaper on me. Eventually he learned to pin cloth diapers on himself. This does not mean he is an active big baby boy, and he is not in the classic sense a bedwetter. When he sleeps during the night he has control, but now a few years later he finds simply wearing a diaper in bed security. When we feel romantic neither of us wear a diaper. That is why our bed has a waterproof sheet!

Okay, so this year my husband needed prostate surgery. The new robotic surgery works super. It has been nearly 6 months and my husband has even better control than before the surgery, yet he sees no reason to give up wearing a diaper when he wants.

[Movie Time!]

When they first came out my husband and I saw "Enchanted" and "Juno" which we adored. Ever since "Catch Me If You Can" we have adored Amy Adams, so loving "Enchanted" was obvious. Ellen Page is younger. A year or so back she made "Hard Candy" which is a difficult film, dealing with sexual abuse, but Ellen was marvelous. "Juno" is great.

Last night we saw "Charlie Wilson's War" with not only Tom Hanks and Phillip Seymore Hoffman, but also Julia roberts, Amy Adams and Emily Blunt (from Devil wears Prada).

First chance we get we will be seeing some of the other new films.

A real advantage to wearing diapers all the time is that I never need to miss a second of a movie, concert or stage play. I put on a dry one before it starts, and change after it is over if necessary.

[The Classic Fights!]

Hi All,

Thanks for letting me join. When I was 12 and a couple of weeks after reaching puberty I started to lose bladder control. This was not unexpected because many of the female relatives on my mom's side have a similar problem. Granny, mom and some aunts wet, as did a few older gal cousins. My older sis started wetting her bed at puberty. Since me both of my younger sisters began to wet at puberty. For mom, my youngest sis (Missy) and myself (Angela) wetting is 24/7. Although some might consider it tacky, even outlandish, my kid sis and myself have used adult baby play as a coping method. We figure sine we wear diapers all the time like a baby, we might as well have some fun. Fortunately when Missy started college she met and married John, who totally supports her diaper needs.

While in college for pre-law and then law school I did not make a huge secret of my incontinence, I was discreet about my big baby girl activities. I was almost 27 and already an attorney when I met Don Davis. He loves me as I am and treats me well. We have been married since 1991.

When I was an actual infant mom tells me she only used cloth diapers and vinyl panties on me. I do not remember that time, but did see her diapering younger siblings. Missy is young enough I got to change her a lot when she was a baby. I was already away at college when she reached puberty.

I had to learn to make-do with 1981-style adult disposables when I left for college, since I would not have easy access to a washer and drier. Honestly as soon as I married I reverted to wearing pinned cloth diapers with separate vinyl panties at home for bed. Days then and now I use various kinds of disposable slip-in pads, pull-up and tape-on Depending on the situation.

So, in the survey I answered Cloth, Vinyl and Pink. There are no wrong answers. We each need to wear what works for us and what is to us comfy. Obviously when diapers are a sexual pleasure they must be appropriate. People my age and older must have known cloth to a certain extent. Probably most born after 1970 hardly ever wore cloth.

Bummer only generic and a few styles of Depend are sold openly in stores near us. When I started college Attends were still made by P&G so available all over. I do buy some Attends on-line, but also find Depend Adjustable work fine, if not babyish. Something to consider is that traditional slip-in pads for women are not effective or comfy. What I do is buy toddler disposables, for example Pampers Cruiser Size 4. They hold lots and are not very expensive. Then I cut off the side flaps. The rest is an effective and soft slip-in that will last for me 5-6 hours. Changing is discreet in a public ladies room if needed.