diapers4liz

A couple thoughts on your post...During pledge week pledges were made to wear diapers as wearing them is rather humiliating to non-abdls. I was probably the only one of my sisters who only feined hating them...lol. As to your thoughts on the woman with ABENA 3 on her license plate, I have a couple comments; 1...it can be the her family's last name and 2...why does it matter. Sometimes people spend way to much time assuming that there are more abdls out there then there really are. Lets face it, there are few people out there who share our fetish. When people keep looking for "closeted" abdls out there, it seems to be an exercise in making one feel less guilty or ashamed to be abdl because many are secretly wearing. Just enjoy your diapers as I do mine...lol.

Its always better to tell the truth. Sooner or later she will realize that there is no such thing as a 3 time per month bedwetter. Its like pregnancy...either u are or ur not...lol I do hope things work out for you.

Hey, what counts is the person you are and not your screen name, which I find nothing wrong with...lol...just be yourself and let others have their pissy fits over your name.

I'm sorry that your wife is not having an easy time with your liking diapers. I also admire the fact that you were honest and told her. I am married to a great guy who I love deeply, but I told him before we were married that I liked to wear diapers sometimes. I explained my reasoning to him, but he was not comfortable with the thought of his wife wearing diapers. This left me with a dilema; diapers or soon to be husband? I of course chose my husband to be. Before anyone starts offf with the "if he loved you, he'd accept you" response, I find such a response as both gratuitous and self serving. It seems that most people here put the onous on the non-diaper wearer to accept the other's fetish. Sorry to say this, but people have their own right to either accept or reject a fetish. If my husband wanted to give me a "yellow shower", do I have to accept such a thing to prove I love him? I think not. It may come down to a simple choice for you, which I had to face; do I choose an object over a great guy? Ever try to kiss or cuddle with a diaper?...lol...So I made the choice and guess what? The sun still rises in the east and I don't shed useless tears over diapers. Believe it or not, there is a happy life after diapers. Be well and I hope everything goes well for you in the end.