LittleAceOh

Hello i’ve been a lurker on the site for a little bit now but i decided to make an account to ask a question. I’m looking for a good diaper to wear for my lifestyle. For context i have urge incontinence so i wear most of the time im at work or i’m out and about. i work 10+ hours and i’m a restaurant manager at a busy fine dinning restaurant so i’ve gravitated towards bigger capacity diapers since it’s nearly impossible for me to fit in a change during a shift and my options for changing locations is very limited. The past few months i’ve been using the Abu simples and they have worked out pretty good for me i’ve had slight issues but nothing major. But now that they are discontinued i’m not really sure where to go from here. I’m looking for a diaper that can 1.) hold a full 10 hour shifts worth of pee without leaking (moderate leaks throughout the day) without major odors 2.) Is relatively discreet “no super big bulges” 3.) preferably no abdl printed diapers just in case i do need an emergency change id rather not have a baby printed diaper in my work trash haha 4.) can hold up with LOTS of walking/running around, bending over, being in the kitchen/close to grills Also i’d appreciate any help or advice on wearing for long periods of time more comfortable. My current routine is just using powered on my bits and a little on the diaper itself. I’ve read about people using lotions, Vasoline, barrier cream, etc but i’m not sure when to use these and if i should with my lifestyle. My medical issues are relatively new so i’m still trying to figure out all the best ways to live life to the fullest. Id greatly appreciate any help or advice