I don't pretend to be a baby. I just am a baby stuck in an adult body and forced by life to have to pretend to be an adult. Any time of day would be a perfect time to just let go of the pretending if I had a Mommy. To make matters worse, I feel trapped in a male body when I am truly female, but I don't pretend to be male anymore.

Hiya, I just moved to Orlando, FL two weeks ago, and I was wondering if there were any ABDLs that would like to meet up with me. I'm a Transgender female adult baby girl age 44 going on 45, but newborn in baby years.

Yep.  This was something that we’ve battled. Based on symptoms and things that relieved those symptoms we believe it to have been a build-up of bacteria in the nappies. The big clue was that they smelled a little funky but only got bad after they got wet (at which point the For a while, I’d perform anti-bacterial “strip washes” on my cloth nappies using engineered quantities of bleach or simply boiling but it was brutal on the garments. Eventually, a sustainable solution was a change in washing practices. I started switching off the “eco mode” on my washer (which was re-using rinse water – a bad idea for nappies) and also, and, in line with your finding, adding some laundry sanitiser per manufacturer instructions during the rinse cycle.  Both Canestan and Pine-O-Cleen brands have worked for me here (the only two I've tried). This sorted things.   Nuking in a tumble dryer isn't an option because I don't have one. The plastic pants got better too because they got the same sanitiser dose during the wash cycle.  I only rinse the plastic pants between most uses but they go in the wash (with general nappies) around once per week. This may or may not work for you because based on what you've said, I can't be sure if it's the same root cause.  

It’s an interesting one because IRL I am a male hetrosexual but as an AB and as you can see from my nickname I consider myself female or I like to think of myself as female but I don’t think I’m transgender. Being a human is brilliant isn’t it!

I used to be so paranoid about hiding stuff and would go to great efforts to hide things under floor boards and all sorts. Then I realised that you could actually hide things in plain sight and to date nothing has ever been “found”. I just put things in a drawer and then place some clothes over the top. Not massively original I accept. I also wonder if I no longer make an effort to hide things because I want to be found out… there’s one for the psychologists…