A Little Advice

[Guest curious1]

well my bestfriend told me his secret. that he is a dl. at first it was really weird, i didnt get it and didnt understand it. after many months of questions, im at the point where it doesnt bother me anymore. we hang out, but he hasnt shown me yet. he has sent me a picture of him in one, and it kinda took me for a loop for a min, but i got over it. he asked me to be his mommy and i said yes. i really dont know what that job duty is. i was reading some of the stories and it seems like alot, but interesting to try. well my bestfriend hasnt told anyone but me. and he often gets frustrated that he cant just wear them and be free, we dont live together. he shares a bedroom with a roommate. i however, have my own room in my apartment and told him he is welcome to be free at my place anytime, but i live about a hour and a half away. i want to help but i dont know how. i want him to be happy. i love him and would do anything to make him happy, but i feel like this is one area that i just cant do it.

so question one: i want to know some of the emotions you all felt when you first actually saw your loved one in the diaper? did it make you change your feelings or how you looked at them? did you laugh or giggle? i really want to know. please be honest.

question two: what can i do to help him not get so frustrated. i think he should be free to do what he wants, but this is becoming a big problem for him.

question three: do you know any places that sell onesies for adults.

thank you very much

signed

curious1

[Curiosity]

so question one: i want to know some of the emotions you all felt when you first actually saw your loved one in the diaper? did it make you change your feelings or how you looked at them? did you laugh or giggle? i really want to know. please be honest.

question two: what can i do to help him not get so frustrated. i think he should be free to do what he wants, but this is becoming a big problem for him.

question three: do you know any places that sell onesies for adults.

Hello Curious.

I cannot answer Question One because neither I or my husband wear diapers nor does he know I like this kind of thing. I guess if my husband were to ever come down with a diaper on Id be shocked, Of course, who wouldn't but I would sit them down and have a chat with them.

Its very hard for people outside of this scene to accept but there are a few that does.

Of course everyone will laugh or giggle at the sight of a grown adult in a diaper or acting like a baby because its a reaction.

I cannot come to think what my husband would say or do for that matter if he saw me in a diaper, I guess he would be stunned but if he loves me enough then he would have to accept or atleast turn a blind eye to it.

The answer to Question Two is very simple, "TALK". It doesn't hurt to talk to him. Ask how he is feeling. Ask him how he feels when he is being a adult and then how he feels when he is in a diaper. Talking is the best thing both of you can do.

Question Three.... Try ebay, They are cramed full of infantilism things. Also try cosyndry, Maybe for diapers search on amazon. There are tons of Adult Baby Services around now and they are ten a penny. Maybe do a google search or check out the links section of DailyDiapers and other top ABDL websites.