I will just add a few words of concurrance to the opinions stated before mine. I do accept that there will always be ignorant, tasteless idiots amoung any group. I am not an abdl, but I have come to make a number of friends here, who are more than open to discussing the abdl world to me. They are articulate and fun to chat with.
Unfortunately, everytime I join the chat, I get bombarded by unsolicited pms by
desperate, lonely and horny guys, who ask me to perform digusting sex acts on them. If I came here for the first time, and being treated in such a manner, I would come away with a negative stereotypical impression that abdls would enjoy staying overnight with Michael Jackson.
Luckily, I see them (the perverts) for what they are and just go off on them. And lo and behold, the crawl away, much chastized and I hope a little wiser. Staying away is surrendering to theidiots, and I hope most just ignore them and enjoy the site.