DLmach

Diapers are very sexual for me and I masturbate with them 90% of the time. But I still enjoy sex without them (granted I've only done it with 1 girl a few times). Sometimes ill fantasize about them while having sex, but other times I won't think about it at all if the girl's personality is one in which I don't feel I could involve something like that in our sex life.

I've only ordered a few times and it was from XPmedical. They are great. One time I bought the wrong size, opened it, used 2, and they let me send it back and gave me a different size. Will always try to give them my business.

What is your point? I never said I want to expose my interests to the world. I simply enjoy testing the waters and experiencing the reactions of others, specifically people I'm sexually active with and only in my own home. Whether it is stricly for my own selfish sexual pleasure or because I care about the person and want to them to understand my desires- it doesn't matter. I made the thread to hear other people's stories and experiences/ideas.

As much as I wish that were true, I don't get the feeling she would be interested in seeing me wear one. She already has the pic, that already satisfied her curiosity. I think she just enjoys bringing it up to mess with me. Her bringing it up so often though is what gets my mind going though. I think I will try to get the relationship really comfortable while still maintaining the jokes, then when the time is right I'll try something.

So let me share what I've experienced recently. I just started using this dating site and this girl messaged me. We started talking for awhile and then she mentioned diapers at some point during the conversation. I told her that I once wore a diaper as a joke, not sure why I told her this..I guess I wanted to test her reaction. She thought it was funny, and asked me if I had a pic of it. I told her I did, and I sent her a pic I happened to have. She thought it was funny, and has been non stop bringing it up. So tonight I met her for a date, first thing she says is "have your diapers on tonight?". As we had a few drinks, she brought it up maybe 5 more times. Its become our inside joke. I joked with the idea about her wearing one, and she abviously refused jokingly. Now my question is, what do I do? She seems like someone I'd actually like to date. But now I have this guilt, yet excitement build up. Part of me wants to explain it to her eventually, but part of me wants to break the diapers out, in a joking way, when she's over my house, and see what happens. Now I don't feel like I'm using her, but I feel like it would be a waste to not bring it up as we have already broke the ice on the subject. Thoughts?

Interesting. Well I must say, I honestly never thought of it as rude or innapropriate, but I can see how one can consider it so. I've only done these thing to people I was already sexually active with, and I guess I wanted to get a sense of their reaction in hopes I could one day fully share with them. But on the other hand it is technically a selfish act, especially if I get off on it.

Thats great! I'd love have something like that with someone. What I meant by this thread though, is situations where you don't fully comne out or explain to someone.

Thought it would be neat to hear about how anyone has, in some form, either shown, talked about, or brought up diapers/the topic of ABDL's, or anything related, to others- intentionally. Example: I once felt the urge to spread my DL desire so bad that I Iinvited a female friend over, and left diapers out to see her reaction. In this particular story, she never even noticed them. I have a few other stories from real experience, I just want to see what you all got!

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Ok so I finally have an update. I mentioned switching roles again. This time she agreed to it, but only after I dominate her again once more (we haven't played in awhile). I just basically started asking her about what she would do if she decided to switch. I think just her talking about it made her get into the whole idea. I'm definitely looking forward to seeing where this goes.

I don't think I've ever seen a TV segment on this subject that didn't make me facepalm the entire time. I wish I didn't have to worry about ruining career options and stuff, as a young guy I would love to go on a show and give my thoughts on the subject. If only an idolized celebrity or well known person came out and did something like this, people may start changing their views.

I always have a few diapers that I only use for masturbating. They get all wrinkled and old and then I throw them out. But basically I just masturbate like I would without them, only I'm just sitting on it. When I do wear, I'll wet it, then undo one side and masturbate while its still half on.