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Ok, well i know that both Lilly and I are hardly ever here....... But I'm in a bit of a predicament...... Lilly isn't behaving...... She and I have rules that we both agreed on, both for her little side and her adult side. She has rules that are specific to behaviour problems she has as both a little and an adult. Like going to the doctor even though she hates doctors, not taking a super hot bath because she has come close to fainting before multiple times..... But the biggest thing is being on the computer for too long......... We have a limit of how long she can be on and she broken the limit multiple times......... I've already spanked her twice now...... And she's already done it again....... Twice in a row........ Maybe I'm not doing it right? Maybe the message isn't coming clearly enough for her? And that's not all, she's also gotten bad at listening to me...... She used to listen fairly easily...... But now it seems she is "testing the waters".......if you know what I mean........ How should i nip this in the bud? I only do spankings, I don't do other things like forcing her to wear a wet diaper or anythnig like that. her punishments are exactly what a real child would get which is a spanking though sometimes more severe........... I'm not sure if I'm doing it wrong? or not enough? How would you other daddies and momies out there handle this? Am i being to lenient? I've tried to stay strict.........But maybe I'm starting to be soft.......when it isn't needed....? I could really use some advice, please. Thanks in advance.
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