[New Mommie]

Those of us who wear do so for many different reasons and those of us who hide them are no different.

[New Mommie]

I had the opposite reaction with my recently ex gf. We had a similar situation of failing communication etc and when I finally opened up about my little side she told me it was my little side or her. So I hid it for another three years before we broke up. It was a terrible experience for me. She was the first 'vanilla' person I told and it was complete disgust and hatred on their part. I dont think I could ever build up the courage to bring that part of myself to anyone else.

Oh wow.

[New Mommie]

I have had this experience as well, only from your husband's POV.

Just out of curiosity...you don't have to answer if you don't want to...but what made you hide it.

[New Mommie]

So I've been married to my husband for quite a while and just recently found out he was an AB/DL.