WifeinDepends

Sorry for not posting in awhile and all the graphic details - i did explain up front that I felt guilty about taking pleasure in the fact that she needed to go in diapers - and truth be told I still enjoy the experience of being around her when she has a bad messy diaper. But at the same time her problem and my fascination with it has brought us closer sexually. In any case, thank you all for your advice - my wife LOVES her Molicares, though the expense and sheer bulk of the diapers to be disposed of are something else. She refuses to buy cloth, and insists on disposables including the right to dispose of her diapers whenever and however she wants to (parking lots, nature areas). But her diapers protect her well and have given her self confidence. She still wears pantyhose and tights to help hide her diapers, which is awesome as I do have a hose fetish and she looks incredible in them. I do still get turned on when she has a bad accident. I was driving her to work one morning when she wasn't feeling well - she loaded her molicare with complete diarrhea which quickly escaped her diaper and ended up in her favorite black tights - she started sobbing and I returned home to help change her and dispose of her tights and diaper. In any case, thanks for the assist!

Thanks for all the advice - I've ordered her some Molicare's, but she seems to be doing well with the Pampers. In fact, she's been through a ton of packages of them already - I've counted 5 big garbage bags full of her used Pampers that I've hauled down to the apartment dumpster for her - and they missed a dumpster pickup, so I'm running out of room in the dumpster! She's spening a fortune on diapers though - sure wish she'd agree to wear cloth. She'll actually quickly change a wet diaper if she thinks she feels a bowel movement coming on because she only wants to poop in a clean diaper. Like the other morning before church, she was running around in the off white sheer pantyhose I'd given her for Christmas. She didn't have her skirt on yet, so I just stood in the bathroom with her, admiring her sexy hose. She paused from doing her hair and looked down at her diaper - through the semi-sheerness of the top of her white pantyhose you could her Pampers quickly swell with yellow pee. "I have to change this - I think I'm going to #2 soon..." she said. "Why not save the cost of diaper and go in that one?" I asked. "Yuck!" was her only response, and she tossed her wet Pampers in the trash and pulled her pantyhose up carefully over her fresh Pampers. "I love these pantyhose you got me - Hanes Silk Reflections are my favorite!" She looked so incredible I embraced her and kissed her. I caressed her silky hose-covered little butt and patted her Pampers. Her stomach gurgled.."Here it comes". I kept my hand on her butt as she took a truly massive dump - it was sexy feeling her fill her diaper. But I looked in the mirror and saw that her Pampers had leaked and there was poop on her hose covered thigh! She started crying as a second wave of poop hit and her thigh got really soiled. I helped her change - carefully. Instead of trying to wash her new pantyhose she decided to flush them down the toilet. The messy diaper I put in the bag with the wet ones and took to the garbage along with a bunch of wipes. We still made it to church, but she wore tan pantyhose - I never got to see her in her nice white ones . Hopefully the new diapers will prevent her from soiling any more nice pantyhose.

Thanks, Mischa, for all the helpful advice! The good news is that the Pampers experiment went ok tonight....my wife and I were in the kitchen cleaning up after dinner when she looked worried and said "oh oh...here it comes...". I hustled her into the half bath off the kitchen as I wanted to watch. I lifted her skirt and looked at her bottom. It actually looked like someone's fist pushing through her diaper and when she finished it looked like her Pampers were really sagging into her pantyhose, but it held the load! I told her how cute her butt looked in her new diapers and kissed her - she seemed annoyed and just wanted to change, which she did. Despite the success, I will check out the diapers you mention for her, I saw Tenas on amazon..but they're very pricey and she pees/craps ALL the time. But she's worth it.. I actually suggested cloth and she got really upset - she does NOT want to give up her disposables, no matter what they cost. Thanks again!

Thanks Newborn...I surprised her with a package of Pampers 6 diapers this afternoon when she got home from work. She was skeptical, but agreed to try them. The tapes are stretchy enough to fit her well, and the pantyhose she was wearing offered additional support. I made her a nice big cup of hot cocoa and waited....she wet while still sitting in the kitchen then we went in the bathroom. Even looking thru her hose you could tell she was VERY wet, but no leaks and no leaks on the second wet diaper a few minutes later. Wife likes the fit but not the cartoon characters and is leery about "whether it will hold in the mess?" The next time she has a BM. She usually has a poop sometime after supper so we shall see...

Over the past few months, my wife has developed both fecal and urinary incontinence tied to medical issues she's had. In short, she began wetting (complete flood) and her BMs occur as a very VERY sudden urge to poop. After several devestating accidents and doctor visits she made the decision to wear diapers. She chose Depend adjustable underwear. And despite feeling guilty as hell about it, I LOVE that she's in diapers. I loved holding her on my lap to comfort her crying when she wore her first Depend and I just about lost it when just 10 minutes into putting it on she flooded it with pee and needed a change. I've long had a pantyhose fetish and love that my wife wears both sheer pantyhose and tights in an effort to compress and hide her diapers - she just looks so adorable with those frilly white Depends under her pantyhose top. And I really love it when I'm around when she poops. Last week she was standing in our bathroom getting ready in nothing but black sheer pantyhose, a white bra, and her Depend, the top of which was sticking out of her pantyhose waistband. She was irresistable but before I could get her to our bedroom she began to take her morning poop. It was incredible hearing the squishing/crackling and seeing her Depend actually bulge momentarily as her tiny body (105 pounds) pushed a massive load of poop into her diaper. I thought it'd be hard to poop while wearing pantyhose, but there seemed to be no problem - her diaper bulged then the bulge dropped down into her diaper, then again a bulge. She had me get a plastic shopping bag and by the time I returned she had her pantyhose down and had a seriously poop-filled Depend folded up and ready for the trash bag. I always thought she emptied her diaper into the toilet but she said "I spend a fortune on disposable diapers, so I want to throw them away, not clean them!" The wipes too went in the bag and before long she had a fresh Depend taped on and was carefully tugging her black pantyhose up and over it. She couldn't believe the sex we had 5 minutes later when I returned from putting her Depend in the dumpster! So I'm torn between how upsetting this process had been for her and how incredibly sexy it is to have her in diapers. Seeing her in her tan skirt and sexy tan sheer Hanes was good, seeing her in the same outfit but having her burst into tears because she just pooped again and forgot to pack enough Depends is heartbreaking and erotic at the same time. I love my wife and want to help her. Her diapers don't seem that great, and I'm sure I need to give her even more reassurance that she's beautiful, despite the diapers. Any advice on diapers (thin is what she's after - would XL baby disposables work?) And dealing with enjoying my wife's misfortune is aplreciated...