[Poll: Wear A Diaper Or Have A Diapered Lover?]

several diapered guys I've dated only seemed to want attention to THEIR diaper needs. mine did not count and were not even considered.

I have experienced this as well. In fact even mentioning that I have an unmet need is usually not met with understanding and caring attentiveness. Instead he just quits trying and takes care of his own needs in secret or when I'm not around. Very hurtful.