[Childhood Memories]

I know the internet isn't a very serious place, but if people refuse to give serious topics due courtesy and respect, I think I'm going to stop posting here.

It concerns me DD is losing a lot of the honesty and decency that made it great

[Childhood Memories]

"Then when I was around six, I tried wetting my pants for the first time and got a huge erection (before I even knew what one was--LOL)"

I poured my soul into that post. How dare you.

Same for all of you who mock possibly one of the most important events of my childhood.

Also, if I recall correctly, I said "do what you need to do" after her wetting/messing (not entirely sure) assuming she needed to change (maybe she didn't). Either way, that's probably what upset her.

Anyway, tiny fragment of a memory from my early childhood. I've probably always liked nappies for the comfort (I definitely had a fleeting interest in them before puberty)

[Childhood Memories]

I really need to let some of this out. I hope some of you have similar experiences. I fully understand the difficulty of talking about one's early childhood, so some discretion is obviously prudent

I have several memories relating to nappies (or accidents) from my early years

I remember (very vaguely) wetting myself when my mum breastfed me

I remember soaking my nappy/getting changed probably 2 or 3 notable times.

I remember messing one time in my nappy while I was toilet training (odd I should remember such a minor accident - that probably happened many times still)

It's odd I can remember all this from before I was 4. Most people can barely rememeber anything from that age. What's more, I remember remembering it as a middle-aged child (~9-10), before I discovered sexuality. I may have posted this a while ago but I'd love it if someone else has a similar perspective

What this post is particularly about is that I have a very important, but fairly vague) memory from when I was about 6 and with one of my (female, as it happens) friends - in addition at least 2 of my male friends (that I know of) wore at night at that age. It seems that she still wore nappies sometimes during the day, although I did not make anything of this at the time. I feel slightly bad about posting this online, and I will naturally protect her anonymity (I don't actually remember her last name anyway).

I went over to her place to play. I can hardly remember half the details, but I recall quite clearly smelling something, asking her about the odd smell (I didn't at all realize the significance of this). She had messed her nappy (which she apparently still wore sometimes).

The following dialogue I am fairly sure of. ~"What's that smell?" - She said simply "I wear nappies". I recall being taken by surprise but not wanting to offend her at all. I said "You do?... oh... okay" after some delay. I think I even might have asked her if they were comfortable, but I don't remember that as clearly (this particular episode is particularly interesting because it shows I obviously had a latent interest in nappies before puberty). She went and got changed and I don't remember what happened after that. I think my parents were called and I went home. I took her messing herself with casual indifference, as I clearly recall, but it seems she may have been upset. I only saw her probably only 2 times in our brief friendship - They moved soon after (I don't know the circumstances, and don't really want to)

I messed myself when I was 10. Case of the old 'explosive diahorrea'. I was terribly scared at the time but after cleaning myself up laughed it up and finished the day. Never used those undies again though

When I was 11 I was at my cousin's and one of my cousin's nappies was lying around. I reached for it while my mum and aunt were watching. My lame excuse was that I was lunging over to look at the picture on the wall from a different angle. I highly doubt they bought it, but both my reaching for a nappy and lunging over like that to look at a painting were both odd enough things to be doing for either to be considered the case I also had a wetting accident when I was 11 (probably because I was growing a lot)

Then the hormones kicked in. My first episode as a DL started when I was on holiday when I was 12. My cousin still wore nappies at night. I was bored, alone and about 6 months into being able to get hard. Soon I discovered I was not alone (a few forums, diapergal etc). So began my sexuality and fetish.

I don't think I've ever reflected on my childhood so much as in the last day or two. It was an important time in my life that I think truly defined who I have become.

And my thanks as always to DD for providing an outlet

[What Would You Give Up For Diapers]

Eternal Bliss.

Only Eternal Bliss.

[Peoples From Australia]

Adelaide.

City hasn't seriously changed for 30-40 years now. Boring but decent sense of community.

Haven't met anyone yet, but you never know...

[Gays And Diapers]

Guys are always fun and experimental. You're bound to find someone, if perhaps not immediately.

[So Gays Can Join The Military Now]

Frederick the Great was quite probably gay and he was one of the greatest generals in recorded history

[Drinks To Make You Pee]

Tea and caffinated drinks for me, usually.

[Question For Men.]

Solution's really obvious.

With most you can just fold the top over your junk. Problem solved.

Waistbands are great and usually work too. We need more of them.

[Rate Your Gender]

Slightly feminine man. Really hate being a man, but I'd hate being an actual woman even more. I dislike that society forces us to conform to still relatively rigid gender norms (where I live anyway). I want to be a lot more feminine but people generally laugh.

Being man still involves lots of responsibility while the other half of the human race now has most of the benefits but usually less of the expectations and responsibility (in my opinion). Fortunately that's slowly changing. Heavy responsibilities like getting shot up every 50 years or so and having to earn money the harder, more serious ways and contributing to civilisation. I guess that sounds a little sexist. Life just isn't fair.

I like good crossdressing, transsexuals and pretty guys, but society still mostly doesn't

But, I have a dick, a testosterone-soaked brain (with the downsides too, of course) and no periods. It could be worse

[Did You Guys Steal Diapers?]

Those of you that have... Very naughty. But whatever really, life is tyrrany.

Not to mention they'd be pretty tricky to steal... Imagine getting caught, too.

[Will You Ever Quit Wearing Diapers?]

Never! Never!

[How To Be A Little Less Embarrassed When Buying Diapers]

I suggest Theodore Roosevelt's advice. Pretend to not be afraid and you will soon not be afraid.

[Gender Issues Related To Being Changed]

I'm absolutely fine with either sex. In fact, I think I'd slightly prefer a guy, even though I consider myself somewhat more straight (in practice this doesn't mean much; I don't have or want a really active sex life). I think I'd rather change a guy too.

Interesting, thankyou for this thread

[Why Can'T I Sleep When Diapered]

For me it's the opposite. I sleep better than ever when nappied up. If I can't sleep it's because I need to masturbate and that's regardless of whether I'm wearing or not

[Asking Parents For Diapers]

I did, when I was 3 or 4 I asked to get into one of my sister's nappies, which my parents refused to let me do (they didn't fit anyway). I was training at that time and apparently missed them

It was the right decision on their part, although it was probably one of those things that actually caused my fetish in the first place

[My Girlfriend Just Gave Me An Idea About Her In Diapers :)]

Ya, if there's been a big break in your relationship of some months you might want to talk about it some more. If it's still an unfamiliar idea to her, getting her to wear one (even in privacy for convenience) might be pushing it. If you have talked about it some, you probably could go ahead

[Why I Think I Am A Ab/Dl! (This Makes So Much Sense!)]

psychology at best is a psuedo science. there are so few objective studies, let alone tested theorems. Freud was a nut job, however some of what was stated makes sense, however it is lacking testable data to form any kind of legitimate conclusion.

As I always say, who cares why, just rock the how.

Yes, absolutely. Especially since his was one of the very first theories

At least he tried :/

[Why I Think I Am A Ab/Dl! (This Makes So Much Sense!)]

I've dabbled in a little Freudian psych before. It's just a theory; there's plenty more to it than that.

However, I think there must have been a few episodes during the anal stage that could have caused it. I remember being changed once from around that time as well as wetting/soiling one time (so obviously I had enjoyed it... it's a bit disturbing to think about but this is how things are). My mum had run out of nappies one time and while me, being the incont 2.5 year old I was just messed to her dismay (again, I don't know how I remember these things, but since I did I probably liked it).

Also I remember when I was just trained (but still wearing at night) wanting to use my nappy but not being able to release and having to go to the toilet. I think so obviously wanting to use one intentionally could have made a difference. But then for the next few years (until I was at least 11) any desires for them went away. Perhaps they were just 'dormant'

Anyway, there are tons of theories out there. Even if you had a 100% perfect scientific understanding of life, the universe and everything, what does it really change? You still just live your life and that's just that

[Asexuality]

I have a pretty mediocre sex drive usually. I'm not overwhelmingly sexually attracted to anyone, really, and I usually judge people a lot more on their character and intelligence. There are girls I like and some guys I like, but sex is never a high priority.

So I guess I border on asexuality, but throw in the fetish and a very passive bisexual sex life. Sex sure is great and all, but there's so much more to life

[Diapers Are So Great When Swelled Up]

I like crossing my legs...

I actually prefer mine dry. If you want thick, Bambinos are already pretty thick (esp the new ones). Secures, Molicares and several others are already pretty absorbant anyway. You shouldn't want to keep a wet one on too long, particularly if you're wearing them a lot. That said, I wouldn't mind having a few more options for thick ones.

[Am I A Dl?]

If you have even the slightest desire to wear, put one on and you will soon know. It has little to do with age (for a lot of people it happens around puberty... 12 for me, but I have a few memories shortly before that from when I was 10-11.)

The easy answer is that if you like diapers (as you seem to) then you are a DL. It's simple, really.

[Today Was The Day!]

Sounds like you had one hell of a time. Thanks for sharing it!

[Finally!]

Must be a great relief. I can hardly imagine waiting that long. That would be torturous!

[Are The Next Genaration Ab/Dl'S Only Going To Be Interested In Cloth Backed Nappies?]

Probably there is some trend to that effect, but I think plenty of people will still like plastic-backed. I'm finding I like a lot of different nappies/diapers for contrast (except pullups and cheap, thin, leaky diapers like depends), including cloth occasionally.

It will be interesting to see, for sure.