[Diaper Lover With A Wife Without Interest In Diapers]

I also will agree with Packrat. And I can say how refreshing it is to see how many of us are in he same boat with our wife’s. After 35 years of marriage I have learned if I want something I need to pay attention to her needs and normally what I need will come my way. The exception is her wearing for me. She accepts me as I am, a DL.

Lay low man, divorce is expensive and it never ends. A few friends have do it , not fun.

PS love the panties in your first post, did she wear these for you?

Answer from Kudden: She does not like to wear panties which are not breathing because she has had some problem with rashes down there and that was not fun neither for her or for me = no sex during a period. So the answer is: No, she has not weared these panties. I would like to wear them, but she is saying - "those does not turn me on you know, so there is no idea you are wearing them". So most of the time, the panties are in the wardrobe, waiting for better times in life...

[Diaper Lover With A Wife Without Interest In Diapers]

I agree with what Packrat says. If all you want in a relationship is someone to wear diapers once or twice a week, well that's not much of a relationship.

I actually think you are a lot luckier than you think you are. Trust me, there are a lot of guys out there that would give their right arm to find a woman that even accepted them wearing diapers.........let alone wears them herself. My wife accepts my diaper wearing to such an extent that she plays mommy for me, but she has no interest in wearing diapers herself. I respect that and we go with the flow so to speak!!

One thing that stands out in your post is this. You said she was turned on by diapers, and you had sex once or twice a week. But did you only have sex when you both wore diapers? Because the thing is, if you did she may have simply become bored with you only getting excited by her when she's in a diaper. Let's face it, any woman would have a right to feel a bit pissed off if you only find her hot in a certain fetish item. Almost like you find the item hot rather than her.

Have you ever asked what else turns her on?

Beth

Answer from Kudden: No, we did not have sex just when we weared diapers, but during a period of about two weeks, we were trying different kind of diapers and that was exciting for both of us. I agree that there is for sure a negative effect on her that I rather see her wearing fetishclothing than see here naked. But my interest in diapers and PVC-clothing is really strong so of course I try the best to get her interested too. When I ask her what turns her on, the answer is;

No products or DVD:s, No special material like PVC, It starts in her minds (fantasies etc) - therefor I ask her to read sexnovelties but so far it has not happened.

[Diaper Lover With A Wife Without Interest In Diapers]

Kudden:

My thoughts based upon my 39+ years of marriage would be to suggest that if communal diaper wearing is the only thing that holds your marriage together; its already over. My wife is now openly aware of my wearing, although I rarely use them for the intended purpose. I wear diaper and plastic pants almost every night to bed. She makes the 'I don't understand' comments occasionally and will joke about my desire on rare occasion.

Our marriage is founded on much more than personal idiosyncrasies. At least your wife tried them! mine won't nor will she assist me in anything beyond occasionally laundry. But the marriage is not dependent upon my interest or hers. I offered to keep my wearing to my private time, but she did not require that.

You might try a marriage counselor if you believe that your only happiness comes from dual diapers.

Answer from Kudden: Hi, The marriage is of course not just held up by the diaper-thing. We have been together for 8 years now and there are a lot of other things I like with my wife. But the last years, I have felt that I need sex much more often than she needs / wants. Therefor I have tried to get her horny in many different ways during these years. I have tried with Adult DVD:s, Sextoys, Diapers etc. It has been working to start with, but after a while she feels its too much focus on other stuff than on us as a couple. She wants more to be close together without any preassure that it would lead to any sex. We have now tried also this out but we both are afraid that we do not have any solution for my sexneed. We are always together due to that we are both working at home, so I can not get a time for myself to masturbate either. I start to get bored and do not know how to handle this situation. I miss a wife with more sexneed and also interest in either diapers or PVC-clothing or both. Nowadays I can not get rid of my thoughts about this and that takes more or less at least 50% of my awake time to think about all this things. Sorry, but that is the truth.

[Diaper Lover With A Wife Without Interest In Diapers]

Hi friends!

I am a 38 year old good looking man, married since 2005 and I am a Diaper Lover, not an Adult Baby. Some year ago I told my wife that I like to wear diapers. Then she was first very shocked, but when she understood that I do not want to wear diapers every day and all the time, she was relaxed again and then she told me that she is curious in wearing diapers herself and so she did - together with me. This was the best time in my life. Both of us where turned on of wearing diapers and we had sex more or less every day in 1-2 weeks. After that, she told me that the diapers does not make her horny anylonger. She just see the diapers as disgusting items for babies and oldies. I was really disappointed of course and since then she accept me to wear diapers myself, but she does not like it at all. Now I am thinking of my marriage and if I have to leave my wife due to this matter. I would really like to have a wife who can share this DL-interest with me, lets say 1-2 times a week.

1. Do you have the same experience?

2. Do you think it is possible to stay in a relationship where the other person does not like to wear diapers?

3. Do you have any ideas what I should do?

Hope for some answers from all of you out there!