FidusGemini

An up front disclaimer:  I am married.  It is an open polyamorous relationship.  My spouse happens to be female.  She encourages my bisexual side.  With that out of the way... moving on!

I. The Basics: Who is Fidus Gemini?
"The Fidus-Geminus species is a species commonly found in urban habitats. Typically avoiding crowded and/or loud spaces one can find such a creature in quiet places with a book, sketchpad, or, when home, playing video games with a cup of coffee." ~~Kinky-Geographic Magazine

I try to be a laid back, relaxed, straight-forward, and communication heavy kind of guy. I like to keep my no drama game strong, and keep my close circles small in that wonderful "quality over quantity" mentality. As the totally real and verifiable (hopefully the sarcasm comes through here) Kinky-Geographic Magazine observed, I'm a quiet person. I like to be at home with a nice cup of coffee doing a variety of things. Reading, playing video games, building computers, watching anime, drawing, designing kinky toys (more on that later), and enjoying the peace.  Mountain biking, camping, and hiking are other activities I enjoy.

II. The Slave:
My pillars: Integrity, communication, and trust.

"A gentleman in the streets and a slave in the sheets!"

I am a masochist, not bratty, but playful slave. Started out in the Hampton Roads, Virginia Leather community, explored the Washington community, and now spend most of my time in the Hampton Roads, VA community where I feel at home.

Play-partners: Positions open! Sexual or otherwise!
I do not mind having multiple play partners to do scenes with. The overwhelming majority of scenes I have done were not sexual. I bottom for impact for the sake of impact. Same with rope and any other scenes I may engage in. I'm not the biggest fan of scening on first meetings. I want to get to know my partners as people first before the kinky fun stuff. I want to know their limits physically and mentally as well as for them to know mine.
I am only a bottom. I am not a top in any fashion.

Am I seeking a Master/Mistress?
Simple answer: No, but I am willing to find play partners.
To be brief, I was a slave for three years, but ended that dynamic myself in April of 2019. I recovered shortly after it happened and quickly established my natural independence again. I am a patient person and do not mind being on my own until the right person comes along. I am in the middle of a significant professional life change, and would never expect someone to join me in that roller coaster ride! There is a lot of conversation that can, and will, be had before I give my dedicated submission to anyone again. I temper my enthusiasm for another dynamic out of respect for finding my value as a slave and not repeat any past mistakes.

If you are a person who thinks that who I am as a person may be compatible with you on a equal individuals relationship level first, and secondly a dynamic level, then I fully invite you into my private messages with the following disclaimers:

My style of submission may not be compatible with your style of dominance. That's not saying either one is wrong. Just too different, and that is absolutely okay.
I am a long message type of person
Questions (expected both ways)
I do like hypothetical scenarios in pursuit of answers
If you are a switch... I don't mind, but your dominant side would need to be the natural primary side. (I am polyamorous and do not mind sharing, so desires can be fulfilled)