My Story

[Guest]

Well my story is probably different than many here. I don't know when it exactly started (around 3rd -5th grade) when I would imagine someone wearing diapers. I didn't even know of adult diapers back then and I only did this when I masturbated. (I used to lay on my stomach and push over my panties and I still do that to this day lol) anyway it contiuned and I never understood why..and to this day I still don't understand. Its completely sexual for me. When im not horny I don't think about it. But whatever the case the thought of changing an adults diaper turned me on. A lot. Its not like I have a scat fetish. I don't get off going to the bathroom and I.myself have no desire to wear a diaper. I was able to keep my dirty little secret to myself. That was until I got married. My husband is 2 years younger than me and the urge got stronger. I didn't tell him. I was scared to. Afraid of what he would think. There was times we joked about diapers, and I many times called him my baby and I was his mommy (lol) But like I said, my story is different. Most people here are ones who wear diapers (im sure even most of the mommys and daddys do to) you try to find someone who accepts you, but my case is different obviously cuz I wanted to baby my husband who is not a AB/DL. So I kept it to myself...until last night. Its been getting harder for me to keep the secret in. Well last night (well at like 2am cuz we were both having problem sleeping) he started to rub on me. He had problems before that he would be so tired/out of it that he wouldn't remember nothing. So I took the chance. I started by saying he would look cute wearing a diaper..then said how hot it would be. I continued saying all the stuff I wanted to do and he didn't stop. I asked if I was being weird and he said no. One time he told me to keep talking. Best sex ever lol Later on (still.couldn't fall asleep, so like 5am) we were laying in bed. I know that guys say stuff or agree to stuff without comprehending it in he heat of the moment. I asked if he remembered and he said he did. I asked if he thought I was a pervert and he said no. A few seconds later I asked if he would do it and he says "ya" I haven't talked about it since we woke up, but its weird. Like my fantasy could become a reality and that my husband didn't think I was some freak and that he'd actually wear diapers and let me baby him. Sorry if its a bit long just wanted to share my story. still a long ways to go. But I feel better after talking about it.

[Diapers446]

Lucky husband or should I say baby ( have fun )

[Bonsai]

What sounds really unique in your story is that your desire is only limited to see someone else diapered.

Usually, sexual tastes tend to evolve in time by appreciating things similar to the ones we already like. It's very common also to wish to try the role opposite to the the one whe like to play in our fantasies, but this clearly doesn't work for you.

[PaddedPat]

It's interesting seeing this type of story from a female's standpoint. I wonder if men are generally more receptive to accepting an ABDL partner than the other way around. Guys can be very opinionated and set in their ways, but we tend not to resent our mates as much over sexual quirks, nor take them quite as personally.

I suppose many of the horror stories I've read about opening up can be attributed simply to the law of numbers -- more guys into ABDL than gals = more cases of fallout or relationship woes.

Still - all things being equal - it would be curious to see if women had an easier time coming out to their partners about ABDL desires than men. Furthermore -- if they've had more success integrating diaper play into their sex lives.

Paging Rosalie Bent... Have you garnered any comparable data points through your research?

[Guest]

What sounds really unique in your story is that your desire is only limited to see someone else diapered. Usually, sexual tastes tend to evolve in time by appreciating things similar to the ones we already like. It's very common also to wish to try the role opposite to the the one whe like to play in our fantasies, but this clearly doesn't work for you.

[SoakedinTexas]

I say that now that you have crossed the hard part and telling him and asking if he will participate that you take the next step. Order some diapers, get the good ones so that you don't have a disappointing experience with the cheap diapers. Diaper him, baby him a little see how you both like it. Hope it all goes well for you.