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Set in Scotland UK. NO REAL KIDS punished BUT the big babies still get punished…

 

Baby Suzy the Super Soaker Now At 35/36/37/38 - Big Kids Having Kids, or Is It The Littlest Little In The World? Congratulations… its both! (or from Teen Baby to Adult Baby to Mother of a Baby)

Chapter 1 -  Last 10 Years and where we stand now  

10 Years Later, even more has happened. Suzy’s  mother  is a Senior Nurse Practitioner, (other seniors left or retired so most senior Nurse in the practice ) and her father now owns 50% of the factory he has worked at for virtually all his life. Suzy is a PA for Dr Christina Reynolds , a lady doctor who specialises is gynaecology , pregnancies and the like. Her AB/DL Daddy (Jeff) is still a developer , of 16 years in total. Their house was extended a couple of years ago, for 5 extra bedrooms. One was for the room Jeff brought previously in a shed when he moved in, as well as more spare rooms).

Lisas father – having  wiped the floor with his Taxi operation’s competition (taking over 3 in Dundee (Tele, City Cabs and Ferry Cabs),   plus expanding  just beyond Dundee to Angus (Monifieth Taxis ) and Fife (Tayport Cabs) and is also  in negotiations with Perth’s biggest taxi company wants to sell out as the owners’ retiring at 70 (ABC)  make 6. With that in mind , His daughter Lisa is Manager overlooking all 5 now soon 6 Despatch Offices (her former job!) on job share with someone else doing the other 2 days a week.

With her father Brian having more money with acquisitions – even with very generous trust funds for all 3 Daughters and grandkids and future potential future  great grand kids too! everything and everyone paid at his death too and his wife), Brian has set up the Smith  Benevolent Fund. This offers Dundonians , plus 50 miles beyond City boundary, who need financial assistance. The fund is open to individuals,  community groups and charities alike. Monthly Board  Meetings (with Lisa , her Dundee based sister   Anna (was a Carer 8yo before left to train as a nurse, nights at Accident and Emergency at Ninewells Hospital Dundee), her Father and  or 2 of a Solicitor friends (usually always one or the other or the other also decide who gets what. As It is still relatively new;, only twice  did they get more applications than money, but in those instances they can try the next month.  he has no intentions of retiring and was awarded the CBE for charity and transport work  from King Charles 2 years ago in the New Years Honours list .

Her mother is still a homemaker and her AB/DL Daddy – a developer of 17 years – still works the same but for a new company.  Their home was similarly expanded with a Punishment  Room (including their very own St Andrews cross punishment frame) and spare bedrooms too.

BUT – the kids (35 on paper , 2 as Littles) are becoming Mothers! You see, Lisas middle sister (Still in Dundee)  now has three kids. So with this in mind, and during her third pregnancy, Lisa started brooding (second time in a month)! . The discussion with  her partner was agreeable, her eldest sister Lucy had suggested being on the foster care list  (all bar 1 of her kids having left home), she had more room.  Eldest sister Lucy (and her hubby  Brian) She has adopted since a Brother/sister 1 year apart  , age 8/9.  All four bodies (including Suzy/Jeff to save time if they decided too)  were checked before, and  no conditions apparent to stop pregnancy – bar their contraception! With some room spare , Lisa and Steve agreed to try fostering before trying for their own .After a couple of placements, (Subsequently more) it was agreed try for their own. 1y mo years ago Lisa’s IUD was re moved, and three months  ago she gave birth to the littlest little – a 8llb baby boy called Jayden! No decision for any more and she intends to have an IUD again in one weeks time.  With her vagina ready for sex in a couple of weeks. But never say never for a second! . She had a pretty much textbook pregnancy and regular delivery, BUT it did make her body feel sore even 2  months later (but now subsiding). Technically they are on the foster list but asked to be taken off (3 months before her due date, and 1 year after pregnancy (with only in dire emergency). She is breast feeding her kid (and yes she has expressed milk for herself and breasted Suzy one time!  The main difference in looking after AB/DLs vs their own is simple ; big babies never put themselves in danger!   She still has he job open and wants to go back  in around a month or two.  3 days in a week remaining – BUT has not ruled out being permanent Mother after trying returning to work 3 for  months later, but her own mother helping too when she is  at work as well as potentially allowing her little space time 2 days!  Despite being a baby boy, he looks more like Lisa! Jayden was Lisas mother/father  seventh grandkid of their own, plus a 2 siblings adopted by her eldest, Lucy (just turned 49)  makes nine!  Lisa and Suzy  had decided early on they be each other’s kids godparents  with their hubbies too..

As Lisa and Steve started their foster training, , Suzy and Jeff had very similar discussions . They had a couple of foster placements, and 18 months ago,  Suzy stopped her (contraceptive) Pills 18 month ago. During this time (like Lisa) she started making plans for what she  and her hubby Jeff,  when the time came.  Despite a few false alarms, 6 weeks ago Suzy finally had a positive pregnancy test. She did a second test the same day (different brand) also positive. A blood test also showed Suzy was indeed pregnant, and the pregnancy was truly happening. We are at 6 weeks pregnant; her inner Circle (her side and Lisa’s family) all know, as well as her friend Almas side down south (who now has 3 kids) . Her big boss, the doctor she is PA for (Dr Reynolds ) and a couple  of colleagues knew she was trying, and big boss also knows BUT planning to tell her colleagues following  week (NOT denying it if someone  asks/detects something). It is, of course very early days!  Her own mother and father wanted more kids were over the moon too find they would finally become grandparents!  Assuming she goes full term, both her Mother/Father  and AB/DL Daddy offering to pay for some childcare costs from first day  so no worries for going out, working or littlespace time. While Suzy sitter of 17 years ago (Covering for her mother’s  PCOS) has now has left the City, a cousin of Suzy’s father is a babysitter (Sarah) and she is happy with the work. Suzy feels something different, and morning sickness starting to take effect. Given her mothers infertility issues though,  (she was very  lucky to have Suzy) she is not bothered if it’s a boy, girl, or anything like that, as long as  its healthy and she carries the baby to full term (or at least long enough to survive).  She intends to tell the child  when old enough about her little side and their Daddies naughty  – as does Lisa! Given she still is both bladder and bowel incontinent she does not expect any issues through pregnancy re control!  Yes, she is looking forward to all the side effects too, as well as the baby when its born! (Working in doctors surgery since she was 23, she’s used to  pregnancies with patients and her mostly female colleagues 60/40pc !)  The weekend just gone Suzy and Jeff were at Lisas, having a relaxing weekend after a busy week,  and also spending time with  Lisa and Steves  baby Jayden!! ! Sunday night they returned to Suzy’s home .

Entering  Monday, (start of Suzy’s 7^th week of her pregnancy) , she was  woken up by her (AB/DL) Daddy /Hubby / Dom/ and now her babies father too “Morning baby Daddy! “Morning baby mummy” he said back, before a passionate kiss!  She was helped downstairs, taking a plastic travel bidet in case sick in car or at work. “ Morning mum,  and Dad!” she said as she sat down at breakfast. “How are you feeling --this morning, Suzy?” “Not too bad, slept  well and not too sick. Looking forward to working today!” They proceeded to the car – today a little earlier at 07.45 not 08.30 as her mother is training a couple of newbies a presentation and training from 09.00!  Being a senior nurse she’s now also training too!

Driving to work with her mother ,Suzy used this time often to discuss  things “You remember yesterday  I was at Lisa, seeing her and her lovely baby Jayden. Her and Steve seem to be such good parents already. Do you think I can be a good mother as her?” “first of all, you always put other people first. Secondly, do you remember that 18 month old temp foster kid you had? Your own nappy was visibly overflowing and leaking! One hour it took you close to an hour to stop him kicking around  and finally put a new nappy on him. Thankfully our floor is washable! Thirdly; you always end up fine. You remember similar conversations re relationships and previous friends issues”   “Thanks Mum… on the way home I will be discussing your side effects when you had me ???”

After arrival, with it being early  , Suzy had some time in the Break Room with coffee until 08.55 before  walking to Dr Reynolds , with  a cup of tea for her boss and her own coffee cup. She checked in on her weekend. Suzy’s said it went very well . “Good to hear… how’s your side effects  (from her pregnancy) ?” Not too bad although starting to have more and more”  “Well that’s good; keep me updated – as friends as well as boss!” “Will do! You’re first patient is here, shall I show them  in?” “Yes that’s fine . After doing so she went though internal mail, emails and other stuff to do and later, the snail mail. Showing many people through, she later was a bit queasy again. She wasn’t sure if standing up (now even taller 6 foot 2 ) or morning sickness; probably a combination of both – but she did make it to a bowl before a bit  came out. Taking it through the toilet, she rinsed it out in bathroom, before  ten minutes later (while changing her nappy , she vomited a bit more into the bowl! ) With her not having anything unusual that morning; and not for the first day , she put it down to the pregnancy;  at least she was prepared! When she returned “despite my baby being the size of a pea, it is certainly doing a number on me!”  She then sat down with a short time to catch her breath -between tasks. Lisa suggested Ginger supplement and sucking on Peppermints, which she was doing so. Suzy and her Mum / hubby were helping her with small And frequent meals  tool, and plain foods too (like rice cakes and sweet snacks around her part of the office, to make up when she’s been sick)  largely up to around 1pm but afternoons 3 or 4 times in the  last week. Her lunch (prepacked from  home) was in three portions, After the first one her tummies settled down.

The second half of the shift was  more straightforward, with only one queasiness and sickness episode! After work on the ride home, she was able to return home with her mum explaining all the side effects she had during her pregnancy (a few food cravings food she had never eaten those things before , and never since! They then arrived home in time for a home cooked dinner by her ABDL daddy Jeff (Who to start working from home a little earlier so having time to do it0, saving Suzy’s mum making dinner (Which he did 2-3 dinners a week) and an enjoyable Pasta Bake and ice cream, for the four  people . Suzy had not yet had to starting to eat for two!

After dinner Suzy and Jeff returned to going through baby catalogues for things for their forthcoming arrival Cribs etc). and setting up a registry gift list like Lisa did for her pregnancy. (She’s keeping her newborn stuff incase of another child of her own, or a Foster placement).  However Jeff wanted to buy most of the big  and important stuff things, before other more minor things / extra supplies later. (probably starting Gift List week 12, 4 weeks after telling those who don’t yet know!) In addition decorating things upfront and then after decorating the place with a contractor who has helped Suzy’s family over the years. The final decision on baby’s furniture etc would be with Suzy and Jeff by Friday after dinner (he’s paying)

 

Chapter 2 – 16 Week Scan… (might say if) you’re having a …  

We now jump forward to 16 weeks.  Suzy is visibly pregnant, but has only one baby in side her (found at 10 week scan)   She is happy and happier every day. However while maternity onesie’s are not  a thing, she is sizing up! The side effects from Suzy’s pregnancy  were similar to Lisa, but  a bit more severe. With things checked (blood tests) and no obvious reason. Suzy’s height vs Lisa and her heavy set (not fat body before the  pregnancy though) was the due cause. Only 1 day (a Wednesday she was working) she was unbale to keep any food down for the entire day, As this is a  possible indicator of Hyperemesis Gravidarum  (similar to Kate Middleton’s  pregnancies), Suzy’s mum told her to go home 10am/10.00 , and she  was to let her know at 3pm  However with the thing sill happening at 3pm/15.00, Suzy tested her mother as agreed to bring her a test from home. Her Mother brought her an anti-viral test with the idea being if negative, further help would be needed, but If not, she would go and get some pregnancy safe medication! When her Mum returned and Suzy had  a sickness bug! As it was an hour and a half after closing (18.30) Mum liaised with out of hours doctors, getting medication and ensuring they knew her daughter was pregnant, and she had already brought a test from her work  home at Eastgate, when she they both worked, and was prescribed and dispensed (from Out of Hours Doctors  and Nurses at Kings Cross Hospital). So they didn’t need to go to a A&E – where Lisas middle sister was working that evening! However, in passing while dispensing the medication, making conversation ,the Dr said “so its this her first” Yes and No… her first  pregnancy yes, but loves being a 2 year in her mind! See she’s doubly incontinent life long, and ]that makes her happy instead of depressed about those issues?” “Oh wow! Well glad she is used to making the best of it I guess…”  The issue was gone by bedtime the following night. 

Her and her babies scans (including Downs Syndrome test) were all fine. Her Mother had arranged additional scans though one of the Doctors at 4 weekly intervals. In the run up to having kids (and when the second pregnancy test came back positive), Suzy’s mother had reminded her she had 3 miscarriages and to check each nappy for blood (and other signs like lack of symptoms for things like severe pain.  Her daughter was told to let her know immediately – at work or not, even when asleep – to let her know more than an hour of groin pain or severe cramps , but this was generally limited to less than one  hour (10 to 20 minutes generally) – but was on alert to be aware for  all  those symptoms.

The 16 Week test (Scan) can generally be used for gender confirmation of  the baby  inside Suzy’s tummies gender, but on   occasions they might  have to wait till the next one (20 weeks) sometimes. They were looking forward to that news BUT they could wait if needed. A Thursday morning booked 16 week scan – Suzy’s off work - so Jeff (Her AB/DL daddy and baby’s father too! ) had attended every appointment, bar one where Lisa (with son too). The scans and the like were a further bonding experience, not a chore. This time, like every other time, the sonographer welcomed and introduced herself to the two parents. “All is well again. Good news is I can see your babies gender, clear as day! (Suzy smiled ecstatically) . Do you want me to tell you Mummy-to-be” “Yes please and thanks” “You’re having a Baby Girl!” “Awwh thanks very much”” (Stands up) “Hey my Daddy and Babies Daddy ,  what do your think? “ “Oh great another  Suzy….(Suzy’s mouth wide open) Nah just kidding. Nice to have another baby girl to  look  ! “ Aww thankies very much Daddy!”

 

In Other News

Lisa returned to work as planned and really loved coming home 3 day a week with her son being looked after by her mother/babies granny. However in the run up to IUD appointment, Lisa wants options of probably pregnancy (or adopting) a second little one, wanting to make a decision in a year for her own pregnancy or not ,if a foster/ to-adopt opportunity was not there… or maybe even both (I.E. 3 babies to care for! As  well as a foster-to-adopt groups, she was also told of a group (The Wil of God BUT not connected directly to a religion) that discourages abortion , encouraging Babies being kept to term, and then the birth mother hands over to new parents at birth (similar to adoption). These are more common in America ,and here are not as common. The adoptive people make a big contribution towards her maternity, pregnancy and similar  costs. They said they had a short waiting list (7) getting over 200 interested mothers a year, so probably not long to wait. The mothers then meet up with prospective parents. They did stress,  . Some may chicken out but they said Lisa and Steve would hear again nearer the time!    Their Home Visit went very well and no issues at all. They had already babyproofed their home (i.e. locks on the rooms) in run up to the fostering, so no issues there. At the same time bank statements were checked; they had 10 times the minimum they needed in the bank!  Having looked up her options online and decided they wanted a Contraceptive Implant (lasts up to 3 years) with the plan of removin it after 1 year if they wanted to have  another pregnancy of her own.

She was enjoying coming home to her son after work , so no plans to be full time Mum (like her own mother) to 4 ½ month old Jayden, her mum looking after during the day. However a plan was in place was that if Lisa had twins or more babies, the babies father would an extra sitter too. So if she has another kid, the money would not be a problem, to allow her own Mum to look after one at a time.

 

 

Chapter 3 – Suzy at 20 weeks, and Lisa’s surprise phone call

Thursday and both Lisa were ready for the regular Mummy Session, late afternoon. However while waiting for Suzy (who’s now eating for 2 ) and the Mummy she played with Jayden – now 6 months. she took a call from mobile / cell phone not on their list. This might in be surprise delivery (like surprise from her daddy).  so she always answers – a few times bill overdue ,but you take the rough with the smooth!

“Hello ,Lisa McKenzie speaking?” “Hello Lisa, its Stephanie from The Will’… can  you speak now?” “oh yeah; day off so not working?” “that’s good” Now you were second to be offered, but the first lot said no. “Oh really, something wrong with the kid or something?” “No, nothing of the sort. All scan went fine, no abnormalities or anything .Then they had 10week scan reviewing it was twins?” “So she’s expecting twins?” “Yes indeed. They are strict Catholics, no abortions, ? “. Now they are at 17 weeks,  simply cant at afford two kids – is the sad reason! . Apparently they got money from your Fathers benevolent  fund?  “”Oh yes, , I sit on that. What’s their names!” “ “Mathieson.,..   Caroline and Byron ?” “I remember… we had a very quiet month so we topped it tup the full award by 10pc , to a grand total of  55k. Not for IVF just being so short of money `  Her mother pestering her for a grandkid – only one kid in her family so no one else?  Of course we never meet the people but we always think of them .  Those two didn’t expect anything BUT you should see the  Hand Made card we got from them! . So appreciate, you know… but I digress.”  

“So with this , you have first refusal?”  I would -  in theory – have no issues with twins, yes we have a large room free.  Let  I will check with my  babies father and hubby and , Mother who helped me looking after Jayden.

After ringing hubby/ Jayden’s father  Steve first (as her mother was downstairs),  Lis a took time as it was complicated. After Steve about the for more babies – without  Lisa getting pregnant or  anything  he had no objection. After walking downstairs (with her kid) for another complicated chat with her own mother (who looks after Jayden when she is at work) she gave the same adding the couple had been in receipt of some  money for the Fathers Benevolent Money, and she was planning on ringing Dad later. She rung back Stephanie to confirm 2pm, tomorrow was at her home, she would meet them at 2pm tomorrow (texting her partner the time as discussed) Stephanie and the 2 parents would come separately.

A little while later Lisa got hold of her father… She explained the situation  adding “only reason I am ringing you, she was one of our Charity Cases Father! . She was so broke, mother pressuring  a grandkid, on  not even IVF this time… It was a quiet month for submissions so we gave her 55k instead of 50k and she sent the most appreciative hand made card   ? I don’t think she knew it is us, as now I am Mr & Mrs McKenzie. We did discuss lately If I had another kid, it would be paid half by my hubby half by you.   To the couple who asked for our help before , is there any money or other help you might be able to give them for  other things and her second pregnancy too OR can we use a bit of my money  to help, Father ?

“Aah Lisa… that’s so kind of to think of others; first possibly taking on twins and asking  for my help. Leave that with me . I am sure we can stretch out again hand of kindness, to them too. Did you say tomorrow 2pm at our home?  “Yes  it is!”  “Well yes I have  few ideas to help them… And I just hope everything tomorrow goes well and you  all get on well, you know? I means I know I’ve got a lot in the bank but… TWINS .. wow! No wonder she’s considering adoption , despite everything like having it go through US to get the ONE child you know. I am sure we can something to help all four involved?”

 

JUMPING FORWARD to Friday 2pm., early afternoon , and both parties of visitors were explained.  Lisa said to them (pointing to her father) “The reason we an extra gentleman here is that…..  Well we know you  know asked for money from the Smith Benevolent Fund?” “yes we did – how did you know that Mrs McKenzie?”

“Well … the truth is, my  maiden name is  Smith, and I’m on  the board that approved your help.  Rather than my mother being here with parenting – she’s upstairs right now with my 10 month old son – this is actually my father .. yes, Brian Smith, CBE  (twins parents somewhat in shock) Don’t worry, we don’t want it back.  . After we discuss your twins issue, he  wants to offer a couple of extra things he can help with. And its Lisa please”

“And  I thought  we had fallen on our feet with you and Steve adopting our twins Lisa!”  “Yes ,my  sister Anna as the one who spoke to you on the phone…… she’s an A&E Nurse in Ninewells working night -  and we really love the card you sent us you sent the Trust Offices …. Pretty much next morning!

Lisa and Steve showed them around before showing the spare bedroom and introducing  them to her Mother and  Lisa and Steves son Jayden “He is a wee cutie” ”Awwh thanks Caroline!” After that was said, they said formally they would be happy on adopting your twin. Then Steve  and Byron then discussing paying a weekly allowance for now (120 per cent of The Will of God project minimum times 2 for twins) and also were given Caroline’s forthcoming appointment times. Lisa and Steve would join them too at the 20 week scan in a fortnight.

Then , Lisas father Brian took the Floor “Lisa highlighted your issue and your previous application to my fund. She wanted to send you some of her own money, but I have a few other ideas to help you both!

You were only the fourth claim – in five years everyday for baby costs NOT specialist like IVF, Artificial Insemination and  the Like. Sadly , this is the world we live in. My Lisa made an assumption that you still want another baby after the twins are born, is that right. “ “Yes Brian!”

“Well I am here to help! This lot is over and above everything you agreed for the twins by the way”

There are 3 ways I can help ;

First we will send you additional money towards your next pregnancy . Our fund will be sending you TWO HUNDRED THOUSAND POUNDS next week towards your next baby. You will also get FIFTY THOUSAND POUNDS when your next pregnancy costs, and 25 THOUSAND POUNDS for a second, third and every additional child, for your next pregnancy  only. We hate that you had to come to us in the beginning , but don’t want -you to be short.

Secondly (unzips a money envelope)-  to allow to get a weekend treat or pay food, 300 cash , plus 100 Boots vouchers and 100 Tesco vouchers too.

Thirdly, I sometimes get asked where he money comes from? Its part personal savings interest and my earnings  as a taxi man of more than 5 decades  - and my drivers too. So basically ,this is another way I can help you , and my drivers too. From one office up to 6 now (started with my own office 696969 Taxis, took over Tele, then City Cabs, then Ferry Cabs, before expanding to Monifieth Taxis and Tayport Cabs. Now the sixth one is Perth’s ABC, So I give you this Taxi Account Card. Calling any of my offices, by phone,  in street or in person at the offices (Perth from Monday week ) , give them the Account Number and the password, or showing to one of my 500+ drivers from any of

our offices!” ! I am paying 100 per cent of any taxis for 18 months. Our drivers are self employed and like credit cards and other account work (NHS etc) they are squared up in 2 weeks. Tips are optional and your driver keeps 100 per cent of that too” “So you want to pay our taxis, and the rest? ” Yes Caroline; I have done the same with office staff who don’t have their own reliable transport!”

And finally – on a personal note – for once in my life at least, I am sure I speak for my wife  - Lisa’s mum Polly - that we cant wait Grandkid number 10 and 11  (7 from my 3 daughters, my oldest adopted 2 down south, and your two)  , when the time comes!

Both of twins parents gave Brian a massive hug!

Byron then stood up and said “First of all Brian; when we got money from your fund, we felt it was definitely an answer to prayer. Secondly, adopting our twins (when one other couple  said no) was definitely an answer to prayer. Thirdly; we had no idea of your connection to Lisa and  the like fund. For the third time in a year,  your benevolent help is… more than a genuine call  to prayer; you are a diamond geezer. How can we ever thank you, let alone repay you?”

“It’s a gift, not a loan!  Just keep going to your appointments up to and including twins birth. When your money is all settled, just pay it forward a couple of times? And finally, don’t be a stranger after they are born!  I would like to keep in touch with you in the future as well as allowing you to visit your kids too.. right Lisa and Steve?” “Anytime Bryam and Caroline and we can discuss how we later tell the twins etc another  day.  But we will see you both again at the scan in a fortnight?” “Yes we will do!”

This evening too was Suzy’s turn to host to Monday morning, so Lisas mother looking after Jayden for the weekend. Lisa had discussed with Suzy earlier on Thursday  during her Pro Mum afternoon after the phone call, and Lisa returned to Suzy’s  explained the successful meeting . Lisa had already agreed to be Suzy’s birth partner, partially as her BFF and her partially with her doing this before, with her own Mum planning on  coming after the birth , with 2 hourly  messages from Lisa or Steve AND if something was wrong, a video WhatsApp with Mum.. If During a working day, she was  allowed to get a sub from a junior nurse, as long as the patients were looked after although her mum had fingers crossed for being evening or weekend. When her own mother was pregnant with Suzy, her labour her lasted around 22 hour, Lisas Bown birth with Jayden being 19 hours.  Later that Friday evening Suzy said “So you know those twins   scheduled birth date is two weeks two week apart, although twins average around 34-37 weeks accordingly to my boss with single births 38-42 weeks. You may well be very busy hunney! “Yes! I cant wait to help you Complete your motherhood journey and the twins, I look forward to finding out what they are having in a fortnight” “I know so far you’ve had it  fairly  easy with Jayden , who’s an absolute angel; although he might change that later, or even like we did as teenagers  well I hope you are lucky with angels “Yes I don’t care if they are the life and soul of the party, even  screaming the house down , I am looking forward to mothering some more and I have not ruled out baby number for  4  either adopted or my own body, ,BUT time will tell!  “Lisa can I say something? “I am loosely considering a second ; partially for my Mum (although she treats you and Alma  and your own  kids like family)  Lisa replied “Well, you might fell differently after giving birth, but I think you would be a perfect mother to 2 kids as well as 1? But discuss with your daddy Jeff, and then you’re Mum” “I will do thanks Lisa!”” No objection from Jeff to a second kid or more-  he added the last two words before winking at Suzy  to which she replied “OK we could start now BUT am already pregnant!”. She then went through to her Mum, explaining the situation, ad then she said “I think that would be an excellent idea!” “Even if we get something like an adoption like Lisa did” “Yes, cause I think I am happy just to have one kid of my own, let alone a grandkid! But now you’ve made that happen!

 

 

 

Chapter 4 – Suzy at 23 weeks, Pregnancy Plans in detail and Lisa  and Steve are adopting 2 girls

 

Most of Suzy’s Pregnancy plans were pretty much ready to roll!  The half way mark  has passed!  Their  name was to be Rose (from Suzy’s mums middle name) with middle name being Vera (Steves mother) SO Rose Vera Clark! It was decided to go for a traditional vaginal birth, in hospital (Dundee’s Ninewells Hospital) with all the pain relief allowed by law, and all extra help if it came to it. Three people would be there (Suzy who was giving birth, Jeff and Lisa, with Lisa/Steve giving her Mum 2 hourly updates (plus a live WhatsApp If she was in trouble)  Some extra stuff (Like different chairs and beanbags to assist if required),  not a water birth , and no issues with students etc. Any problems  would be dealt with as required and Suzy also acknowledges plans will more than likely change with problems sometimes unable to predict! Her AB/DL daddy/ babies father offered (When the baby is born) to do every other nappy change when together, and  all when Suzy is recovering / ill /  or unwell.  A mock baby (like a reborn newborn doll but plainer from hospital or midwife)  was borrowed to allow Jeff and Suzy experience with smaller nappy changes., as well as all the other baby tasks! It was a very enjoyable bonding moment too! The plan was to breastfeed her (and any future ones too) with her sometimes pumping into bottle to allow  the sitter or others when Suzy is out needing working (pumping supplies and bottles all ready!!

Like Lisa she would leave work with 3 Months to go (28^th week) , with at everyone at her work aware. Her boss was asking the Thursday/Friday person to cover most of Suzy’s work, which was fine bar a couple of weeks, where a temp. (covering for an already booked 2 week holiday) The plan  was returning to work 3-4 months after the birth, with the date fluid because in case of any issues  with labour and complications requiring the child or Suzy’s ongoing hospitalisation. The plan was that she would be going back to work BUT (similar to Lisa) she would be able to pause things if they needed up to a year.

The baby was now making Suzy’s breasts tender and a little bigger (not quite a full cup size) . Her morning sickness was away but lower backache and  her baby was moving so very often so issue knocking off to sleep, and responds to talking and touching on the side, which both Suzy and Jeff to yet another bonding moment during their pregnancy. They were getting so close to the baby; despite the fact its around four months to go before she was born!  Plenty supplies were in for after birth (baby nappies, long life food etc). with deliveries meant (fresh and extra  frozen) coming closer to the birth.

 

Lisa and Steve found their twins would be both Baby Girls! With Caroline’s pregnancy now happening, more and more stuff  now being settled; Despite being short she was planning for a regular (vaginal) birth , with C-section only in an emergency

 

 

Chapter 5 – Suzy at 28 weeks, Suzy goes on Maternity Leave and Baby Shower evening  

Suzy has some unusual  cravings (curry sauce, pickles and sour sweets!) With her Wednesday her last day, some money was raised in the office. On the Friday a baby shower (at the doctors surgery in evening not just work) gave her almost everything she needed. 45 people were at the Baby Shower, men and women! Very well occupied and enjoyable go for both sides of the Happy Couple! After an amazing week, back home. Suzy particularly enjoyed daddy /  baby’s father Jeff rubbing her tummy up and down REALLY Enjoyed well! So when they got home and all day Saturday, she LOVED it!

 

Lisa/Steve were in 2 times a week  with Caroline/Byron in relation to the twins progress, with some stuff being delivered or dropped off for the mother and the like.

 

 

Chapter 6 – Suzy at 32 weeks, Jeff starts his Paternity Leave

With eight weeks till Suzy’s due date (now bigger than ever) her Daddy was able to have a little bit sex stuff catchup. While some were difficult, she was able to have a few climaxes. Suzy’s libido SKYROCKETED up during her pregnancy, but not always to screw as often. However, Suzy did have her favourite vibrator and a wand outside of her nappy!

Chapter 7 – Suzy at 38 weeks, Suzy goes into labour, and welcome to the world Baby Rose!

Wednesday into Thursday overnight started contractions around 01.00! Daddy/babies father Jeff said to get the rest as you will news to later ,  but wake him at every time was changing, and the plan was obviously going to go to hospital when waters break . Suzy  had little chance to relax as  The contractions  got worse around 01.30, lost her mucus plugs 03.00, and in an hour later 04.00, Suzy’s water broke! Lucky Lisa was starting over that weekend , so basically, three people (and all the bags and supplies) were ready to go to hospital by car 04.35. After arriving 04.50, Jeff went to check in them in while Suzy and Lisa were shown into a room. The established rule is for what they called Established Labour at 4cm , and Suzy was at 4.5cm.  

The first stage of labour (Dilation) lasted 6 and half hours, with Suzy’s delivery close to 7.5 hours. No problems were encountered  and apart from a lot of pain towards the last 2 hours of her labour (and Lisa s right hand being squeezed  very much!)  Her Mother had came into the hospital after her work around 5.20pm as she knew she was getting close, but staying on the in the Restaurant/Café.

Then at 18.47 and with massive final push, her and Jeffs baby, Rose Audrey Clark, was born to the world! Lisa said “Oh Suzy’s she’s absolutely gorgeous ; looks just like her mum” “Yes she is Suzy”” Steve handing Suzy’s her new baby. “Thanks Daddy”  final stage Placenta was out in just over five minutes.

Despite Suzy’s massive bump,. Rose was only a little more. Heavier (9lb 3oz) vs Lisas Jayden being 8lb.

The post birth checks were all fine before she latched on for feed, and Suzy’s changed and refreshed into   a new nappy and the baby was prepared for visitors.  19.10 Lisa, Steve and Suzy’s mum Orla were welcomed (in Mums case) / back (Lisa and jeff), to meet/return to Suzy’s new baby Rose!

Lisa said “she is so cute and gorgeous. Even more with her sucking /feeding on your chest?” “Aah thanks Lisa. And yes, now both Big Babies have their own baby” Next was Suzy’s mum Orla “Mum, what do you think???” she’s Amazing. Your Father is coming tomorrow early evening to see you both. But how’s the Mum?” “ “I’m  good. Sore , especially down there you know. But no regrets – especially looking to starting our new life; Suzy, Jeff and Rose – named obviously after my Amazing, long Suffering Mother middle name! She’s just finished feeding, Mum I will give you a cuddle for 5 or  minutes each, pass to  Jeff, Lisa  , then back to me… Could we call it a day 20.00 I got very little sleep tied/ sore you know! However, happy to see you two after breakfast Jeff and Lisa?” ” “Okay Suzy and we understand. She looks even cuter close up!”

Jeff stood up walked over to Suzy, hugging  her! “What was that for baby Daddy” I am very proud of you my Baby Girl, now a Baby Mummy too!. You stick to the rules for pregnancy, and we made an amazing Daughter for me! Also I am very, very glad we made the decision to start a family...  You have given me a beautiful daughter, who looks almost as great as you!”

 “Your Mother is proud too!” said Suzy’s mum, before giving her to Jeff!

“Oh Lisa, can I also thank you for all your help? You helped me in my pregnancy?” “Oh yes I’d forgotten about that. And you are doing this soon with the twins coming too soon Lisa, I would like to thank you for trying this myself.” “once again, you got me to try being a big baby at 19 and I’ve never looked back! My Steve is looking forward to another kid – well 2 – joining our home too!”

After a brief chat, Suzy’s asking Steve/Mum to get 2-3 things for tomorrow visit (2       Top up stuff from  house Steve and her Mum to let her boss (Dr Reynolds) know in case she wants to visit after work  … Look forward to seeing you all, and dad  tomorrow ? Now give Daddy and everyone else my love”!”  The plan was that, if no further complications to mother or baby, the birth went well so Saturday teatime home.

After checking and changing her Daughter (and her own nappy) she dozed off, woken  a couple of times by doc or nurse doing overnight observation for both Mother (and baby Rose in the cot). Both slept fairly well with Baby Rose only crying one around 4am (gave feed and changed)

 

 

 

Wednesday daytime meant Lisa going back on leave 6 weeks Adoption Leave with option of making it 8; with her Daddy on  Friday) before twins coming soon!  Anther collection was had, but no baby shower this time (Caroline had one on Friday evening after her Friday work shift 08.00-16.00, to celebrate maternity leave starting) ! However the birth Mother sent  a email to her mother,  explaining everything – money too - and she was intending in a second pregnancy too , with money for a second pregnancy enough! 3 hours her Mother sent a very apologetic one “Profuse apologies my Darling!  I am sorry if I put you under pressure my darling.. You have my support in everything and I look forward to my grand kids when the second pregnancy. Yes three times over it was call to prayer – bizarre the same family helped you all three times, of sorts?” “Mum , you have no idea how relieved  I am!”

The idea was Lisas hubby/Daddy Steve, and the day about Lisa would be looking after Suzy en route to her own pregnancy. However with that now successfully had her Daughter, Lisa would spend Mon to Wed this week with Suzy, then  M/W/F Suzy and Tu/Th/Sa/Su Caroline!

 

 

Chapter 8 – Suzy in hospital post birth Friday – 2^nd day of Baby Rose

Friday morning and her Baby (Rose) woke her up around 07.45, but she had a phone alarm set for 08.00. Lisa and Jeff are coming around 09.30-10.00.  After a gruelling birth and long sleep, she was looking forward to breakfast! She got up to feed her Daughter ,bringing her over to her bed and place her close by.

“Hey my little princess . You are the littlest littlest little of them all – and the cutest… yes you are …  (latches her on) there you are baby” Now, you remember Lisa yesterday ? Well her and Daddy visiting after we both have breakfast (Although she had already packed up a lot of food free for any time but none yet)  You look like you ned a change to now, and then mine too! Hopefully we have zero potty training issues with you like with me, my gorgeous  little baby LOL . While I know you might not understand what I am saying  to you – but I will do anyway”” 

Ladies walk in soon after both changes. “Good morning Susanna. How was your night? “ Not too bad, I got a decent sleep and only woken by my kid around 04.00 , then just now  .My own pads/nappies  not long changed too! “Today my dad and a few others who didn’t meet her last night are coming , My birth partner Lisa and hubby Steve coming after breakfast! “  Lisa will bring her Mother hopefully too!  She’s Is not  bringing her 11 month old BUT once her hubby done with work he will bring it later!  This morning she’s being babysat by the person who we hired to babysit my Rose when I return to work (Sara a family friend my side ?) All bar Lisas mum work you see ! Lisa’s Mum did work until she had her 3^rd (Lisa )When they had enough money!” Lisa works 3 days a week in a taxi office and my hubby is on paternity leave (usually a programmer/developer) and I am PA for Dr Reynolds gynae/pregnancy at Eastgate”

“Well hopefully all goes smooth…. If you need anything or your kid changes or if you need a break or a hand looking after Rose, just push the bell! “Yes I can definitely do that… in the meantime I will lie back and relax enjoying the breakfast” (which tray was dropped off during the chat) She devoured virtually everything , and asked  for another coffee! Lisa said all 3 were parking up outside, so would be 10-15  minutes away. She decided to go to the crib, and checking (she needed changing) before  , bringing her over to her  so lying down in bed cuddling her, with her daughter being very giggly and happy! Just a few minutes later “Hello Jeff, Lisa and Polly!”

Polly said first of all  “And this must be Rose… oh you look even better in person…Suzy said “this is your God mummy’s  mummy Polly” Do you want to hold her” “Oh yes please… “ Lisa and Jeff then checked in with Suzy , explaining that   she slept very well only - 2 wake ups/crying/need changed my baby! “ “now that’s great news!”  We all hope it continues, especially when she returns home” Suzy’s mother texted her from her work; everyone sends congratulations and Dr Reynolds will come at her lunch , if not little late than we do tonight, she will be around 19.30” She explained the others there; here baby was wet she asked If her Daddy would like to change her nappy, for the first time… you know we practiced ? “ Surprisingly  well for first time round, before continuing to change his  wife’s nappy” “awwwhhh thanks Daddy! I was telling my new baby earlier after she woke me this morning 07.45, hopefully we have zero potty training issues with you like my little baby like with myself lifelong! LOL”  “Very true hunney…” “But even if she never potty trains like you (looking at Rose) we will still love her, no matter what” “Yeah  that’s right!

After another round of Doctors (Lisa and Jeff went to have lunch) . After they left they returned  to Suzy, even more conversations. Suzy’s lunch came so she asked Daddy to change her baby Rose. After devouring her lunch (like breakfast) ,she fed Rose too ,just as Dr Reynolds (her work boss with a specialist, and personal , interest in pregnancies , and gynaecology etc). “Hello boss!” “After reminding all four to each other,  Dr said “Sorry as I only have around 30 Minutes. How’s Baby and Mother… “Mums fine. While I started contractions around 1am, plan was water breaking then  at 04.00 we would be then we came I was 4.5cm dilated. I will give you much  of the technical  birth when you have more time, but then at 18.47, baby Rose was born!”  “Yes your mum told me started early yesterday morning” “Last night a massive sleep; Rose  only woke me up last night twice. Do you want to have a cuddle” “ohh Suzy she’s  just like you, and she’s also absolutely bloody gorgeous!”

The afternoon came and went with Suzy rung her former BFF down south Alma (now a mother of 3) to fill her in on what happened (she had been texted by Lisa at Start and end)  and she was very happy Mummy and Daughter are doing very well!   She had planned and book to come up for a week around 2 weeks  after her due date – so 4 weekends away - and with all that in place – she looked forward to meeting Baby Rose for the first Suzy had done similar, within 1 month of her due date for  all 3 pregnancies - to her 9yo Polly, 7yo Steve – and 4yo Jayne)     too, and she looked forward seeing her again. She was saying she is an Assistant Manager now , for last 3 months as well.-

In the evening Lisa’s hubby brought her Daughter too so see Suzy’s baby (and Suzy introduced her baby to Jayden) and saw Suzy’s new baby for the first time. Afterwards, Suzy’s mother returned to see her granddaughter  again, and also Suzy’s father / Grandad  saw her new baby, for the first time. Another amazing sleep followed that night !!! 

 

 

 

Chapter 9 – Suzy heads home Saturday with her Little One.

Suzy’s baby woke around 03.45 before 07.30 too for feeds and changed baby Rose ,  and 07.30 Mummies nappy too! “ Good Morning my Princess, Rose Audrey Clark! I am really enjoying mothering you  MUCH  MORE than I ever thought! You are  really, really special to me! Looking after you is a pleasure not a chore! We are going home to Mummy and Daddies house; I might have to fight  you off him and my Mum BUT any problems, you just screech out? Your mummy was very intelligent growing up, and while you might not be able to understand me just now, you never know! Plus it saves messaging all 12 people you’ve seen during the night! In any case, all going well, yes we’re going home today to me and Daddys home, with my Mum, my Daddy (your grandparents – one day your Daddys Mum your other Grand mum and you’ll see Lisa. As she’s adopting twins she might not be always around , when she works a3 days a week like me too, There is a room for you BUT your cot initially will be in Mummy & Daddies room! However the way I am feeling, I probably never want go back to work! A lot of  first time Mums like me get depressed BUT I don’t know why I love this so much ?  

Ladies walk in (Similar to yesterday! “I see you are having fun with Rose! “ “Oh yes!  Enjoying this much more than I ever expected. I know many first time Mums get depressed BUT I love having her around  MORE than I ever thought! I have warned  her Daddy might have to fight me off later and might not want to ever return  to work , if it continues like this! I know she probably can’t understand me, but she me remember bits as I remember some of my earliest memories!

“Its great that you are happy Susanna!  Did you sleep well? “Yes just like last night, woke once 03.45 before waking up around 07.30.” “That’s good. As no further issues with yourself or Rose, yes you are scheduled heading home this afternoon. Now, you’ve got someone picking you up?” “Yes; Lisa my birth partner also her Godmummy, Steve my hubby, and my own Mother!. Some other people like my father are at home, and others will come to meet  over coming days!  I have told those who are picking me up of my amazing feelings – and like all of my 35 years they are happy if I am happy!”

Once again; Suzy devours her breakfast, and has a second coffee too! Between then and lunch she catches up with phone calls, emails and the like for those people who didn’t yet know about her successful birth to Rose this Thursday evening with some .pictures – also saying heading home by teatime tonight. Mum +  baby doing well , including  her social media with no posts since Wednesday (#StillExpecting) to now #NowAMummy! Feedback from everyone was amazingly favourable, and everyone loved the pictures!  “She looks like just like you, and so very cute!” “Congratulations Suzy well done on having a kid of your own” “Glad mother and baby are doing well! “ were 3 comments from this morning Facebook post alone!!!

During this time she was lying down similar to yesterday at one side, with her kid next to her, occasionally tickling her although her mum could see she was tired “’I’ll let you go back to sleep, as you are clearly yawning your little head off!” While Rose was dozing away, she was able to have a couple of the extra snacks packed, some fruit squash/ diluting juice and chocolate coated rice cakes – she was able to change her own nappy!  Lunch was in the soon after that, (this slightly woke Rose, but Rose was hungry too) – Suzy   devouring lunch too !

The plan is after lunch , the people collecting Suzy and Rose would be around 45mins away after lunch – catching up for an hour or so before packing away Suzy’s stuff and getting ready to take her home. As Suzy was a little sore down there, they would use  a wheelchair (one being brought when they arrived) and an ice pack in her nappy for down there for leaving her hospital bed ,and going upstairs for to her room floor. With it being a 5 seat car, first use of Rose’s car seat too! It was known before that Suzy wanted her & Jeffs

room to have the cot for a short time before later moving to her own room, and  this was ready in place (with Mum/Suzy’s recovery in mind, and for simplicity every feed and change!).

“Hey Lisa, Hey Jeff, Hey Mum” “So we got your message ; good you are enjoying motherhood!” “Yes… maybe the feelings will fade but I had worried I would struggle  not picking it up like Lisa was!  Do you think it was being babied too , or previous practice? Probably both  but feeling now like I’m doing this easily, you know? However like many of the IVF and specialist Mummies I have seen at work (and elsewhere), the job that they never thought they would have gives them the most joy. I guess similar to when Lisa started IN Little Space she was SO HAPPY?” “Indeed   I was” said Lisa”

Suzy said “I had so many doubts I would screw it up BUT mum, and my boss reminded me everyone had doubts when pregnant, you know? Going back Lisa, Rose is finished feeding… do you want to hold her again Lisa?” (gives  Rose to Lisa first) 5 minutes each then Mum then  Daddy Jeff.!”

After around an hour Mum and Lisa packed up Suzy and Roses clothes and babies things while Suzy fed Rose for the trips, while her Daddy/babies father changed Rose before putting his wife Suzy in a nappy BUT the ice pack was activated now .After being driven away and thanking all the staff who helped bringing her Baby Rose into the world   Her daddy / babies Daddy drove her wheelchair while holding her baby in her arms out to the car park. She was helped into her car seat , Suzy’s mum clipped Rose in her baby car seat, while Lisa  put the clothes etc in the back of the car.  She was driven slowly home (Trying to avoid pot holes – suggestion from Lisas heading home too! – and not too fast!) before reaching home in 25 minutes. Lisa brought clothes etc from the back and Suzy’s  mum brought her baby up to the room placing on her bed. She  was told to go slowly (no tired but sore) , 2 steps at a time, before Suzy made it to their room. Rose was a little fretting,  but Mummy Suzy said “Welcome home, my princess Rose!” (cheering and applause from the other 3) . She tickled her tummy a few times, making Rose stop fretting! At that moment  Roses nappy was  fine. She offered her to be fed, but wasn’t hungry right then!

Suzy had a choice of all takeaways or any food she wanted, she chose Dominos (pizza) for Dinner.  For that night herself all the family (all five including Suzy’s father had brought several folding tables to have it all together as a family . For following days it was said Suzy’s Mum or her daddy/baby’s father Jeff would get things for her to avoid the stairs for a couple  of days. The bottles and pumping equipment was there, although that was a Medium term priority of course – for Sunday or Monday to allow her Daddy to try feeding too! Halfway through Suzy eating  Rose was crying … “You want some too Rose? (giggles) No I know what  you want! She was fed by Suzy before her Daddy Jeff changed Rose. At the end of the food, everyone went downstairs and Daddy jeff changed his wife’s Nappy (Suzy) too Mummy (Suzy), Daddy (Jeff) and their 3 day old baby Rose having a couple of hours quality time. “Well I said on our wedding/collaring day, we’ve only gone and bloody  well done it – AGAIN  - having a little one of our own! “ “Is she getting more and more gorgeous every day?” her Daddy/Jeff asked?  “Well I would say yes Daddy, but maybe a  bit biased since giving birth on Thursday” “And yes you did SO BLOODY WELL and were TOTALLY BLOODY AMAZING!” “This is your daddy, would you like to tickle her and play with her?” “Would love to…’”  “blows on her belly before tickling her”. “I was worried I am struggling, but its almost like its going smooth! Word of warning ; she woke me twice last couple of Nights., however you will get to see tonight what I do.. feed her, change her, and back to my bed“ “Well she’s clearly a good sleeper,, hopefully  twice a night continue  I thought  she would be up more often”  “Mind you Daddy,  no nurses or doctors checking in – just Mummy, Daddy and our 2 day old Baby Rose “ (they smooch for 5 minutes or so). By this point coming up for 21.00. Suzy breastfed and changed her Daughter Rose, putting her down for bed in the cot not far away! Her Daddy changed her wife’s nappy 21.35 before cuddling round her arms before saying “Its Great To Have You Home Suzy... “Thanks Daddy smooches briefly before both fall asleep!)

 

 

Chapter 10  – Sunday – a chill day for all 3

Rose woke her Mummy up at 04.00 , with her Mummy going over to her Crib… feeding and changing her again! It didn’t wake her Daddy then, but did at 08.00 (Suzy too! “-Good Morning my Princess Rose, good morning Daddy ! “ “Hey Suzy”…so I know now that’s what you do with Rose! So I am going downstairs for breakfast for you, and I will have mine here  on a tray each! Your usual? “ “Yes but an extra coffee please Daddy!  When you are down doing that I will start pumping, to see if she takes Mummy’s Milk from a bottle ! Aiming for  6 for now, as couple today and tomorrow- If keeping more than 24-36 hrs need to freeze -  although that takes time! Could you bring me a 2l jug of fruit squash (Diluting Juice) so I have enough to drink myself??” “Anything for you, mother to  my child! But no feeding yourself” ”No that’s tomorrow – well me and Lisa you know!, and her granny tomorrow after work trying a bottle feed too!” “I’ll give her another feed now before starting pumping?”  “Yeah, good idea… see you soon hunneybunch” Lisa had her Daddy and her Baby Jayden there during the day as she was taking her home later that day, but returning to Suzy’s during the next 3 days, then day about with Caroline and Byron!

Jeff was back again in around 10 minutes, with the jug first, Suzy’s tray  and Daddy’s  trays 1 at a time. “Well Daddy pumped 3 babas for my Rose do far. So next time is  she is hungry, shall we try from the bottle, and if not in 2  mins will feed from my breast? “ “Yes we will do! A wee reminder my mother-  so Granny Clark -  is coming after lunch. She’s looking forward to seeing Rose in person. Of” course she shares the same middle name as her first one?” “Yes she does indeed Daddy!” Around 30 minutes her little one was crying, so Suzy passed a baba from the warmer” “Here you are Daddy, try now?” In around 15 seconds, she took the bottle nipple no issue . Suzy asked her to change her baby and then herself  too!

“So has it sunk in yet – were parents! “ “Yes it has.. . second best decision we ever made! You been a bit softer and more emotional over the last 12 months too” “Yes I have been haven’t I Mummy? Oh by the way, no Punishment Spankings while you are recovering    BUT never on real kids like Rose” “Thanks Daddy” I love you too…” (smooches!)  Suzy said “Actually I would now say equally happy as our decision to be collared and married… THAT DAY WAS AMAZING! Daddy replied  “No arguments there. Starting  a family AND you  successfully carrying her to term was a, once again anincredible feat. I know you are both happy and proud ,quite rightly so!” Indeed I agree Daddy . And she was named after two amazing Mothers who have always been kind and fair to us both?” “Again, true . Even when she’s unwell I know you will look after her well!” “Thanks Daddy”  “But playing things by ear; every day being a new experience and a new thing to learn, being first time parents, has worked so far so same approach when she’s ill?” 

Suzy’s mother came up at 11.30 (She was also on standby if Daddy Steve or Mummy Suzy  need a break from things) saying “Lunch is on, will be around 12.30 – my Sunday Roast!! ? How is Rose doing ?:” “Very well and she was successfully bottle fed by her Daddy a little while ago!”?   “Great news my little one and son—in-law! Now remember, let me know if you need help, okay my daughter, son in law, and  granddaughter” “Yes thanks Mum!!”

Shortly after that Lisa came in and chatted with Suzy and Jeff. “Would you like to be another play with Lisa?” She’s your godmummy you know Rose” “he said to Rose. So Lisa did some things (like blowing on belly and tickling) that  made her own child giggle and laugh  as well  as a Peek-A-Boo game (- her one loved it BUT She’s close to 1 year old (newborns take 2-3 months to properly smile and a little longer to giggle of course) BUT It did make Rose happy not sad! So how’s Mummy doing today as a parent, and also down there?? “   Not too bad so far. Down there is still sore!” . “Well you did push a kid through it 4 days ago! And it will subside sooner or later -well it did for me BUT I was sore all over , so it will pass. How’s Daddy Jeff?”  “Yes Lisa, it is still sinking in BUT equal to our collaring/wedding  day was having this beautiful baby (Daddy blows on Roses tummy!)  You know?” “Indeed it is – I never regretted Jayden, no matter how many sleepless nights or anything?”   Daddy asked “Any word from the couple ?” “Nothing but we are having in 4 hourly check-ins during the day! They know I am here BUT will  ring If anything happens. They just messaged me sending their Congratulations to Suzy and Rose for getting home yesterday!  They have some free time Monday so could they visit you as they’d love to meet Rose?” “I would have no problem Lisa, Daddy?  (he nods)  Feel free to set it up Lisa!” Will do! Anyway   Keep your fingers crossed Daddy Jeff and   Mummy Suzy too! ? “Will do”.

Sadly it was lunchtimes so they all went down for lunch .Suzy’s Daddy Jeff brought her , and his own, lunch on trays up with his own mother expected an hour later. Changing his own daughter and wife one at a time,  and taking the trays down, everyone heard a door bell “I wonder who that is?” “Its – we hope - your Mummy, Daddy ?” Daddy walked down and opened the door” “It is… Mother” (hugs her   length!). ” “Well I’ll bring you up to Suzy and your gorgeous granddaughter. (Walking her up) Do you want some tea or anything “No I am good” “Hello Granny Clark said Suzy – this is Rose” “You know she looks even better  - the pictures don’t do her justice! “Yes she seems to be getting even more gorgeous!” And it looks like Steve in the blue eyes ? “And her mother is what most have said Mother. Now sit down” … He brings her a chair next to those two and the baby  with Baby on one pillow and Mummy and Daddy sitting facing  Grandma. 

“I cant  believe I am finally a grandmother” “Thanks Mummy Clark”  Suzy said “ Birth straightforward, she’s been an absolute angel , so happy and she’s been sleeping well (waking up twice a night. We  are both happy she’s home and healthy” said Suzy “Do you want to a cuddle Granny Clark? “Of course I do!”

“So how’s Mum feeling ?” “Very good emotionally – loving being a Mum more than I ever thought . Am sore down there but it will pass . Not as sore as my BFF Lisa – who is adopting twins due in a few weeks” “Lisa walked past with baby nappies for her little one (in storage with her own nappies at Suzy’s)  “Did I hear my name… hello Granny Smith!” “Yes I heard you are adopting twins?” “Yes indeed – due in 4 weeks – but Suzy’s boss said twins often come early -   well me and Hubby Steve. Jayden getting bigger and better every day – you can maybe see  him later on too before you go”  “Thanks Lisa, I would love that too!” (hears Jayden crying) Got to Go!”

“So Suzy and Jeff, are you still thinking of another  baby?” “Yes, more than ever . might try what Lisa  got through the ‘Will or our own, or maybe both? However that’s making a lot of assumptions! We are having  a meeting with the Project with the home  visiting in 6 to 8   weeks,  to give me time getting over the birth. A lot of the stuff we did before our Foster Assessment will help in our favour! However, irrespective of that, I love being a Mum so much might have an issue giving her to others LOL ! “Really Suzy ???” “Yes indeed!. I am PA For a lady Dr specialises in Gynaecology and Pregnancies. Like so many of the IVF and specialist Mummies I have seen at work (and elsewhere), the job that they never thought they would have, gives them the most joy” “Very profound Suzy…  Having seen the way you completed Steve was life for 11 years and the way you are looking after your body in the run up to having Rose, I am sure you will do another good job, you know?” Thanks Mummy Clark” She then walked over to the spare room for Lisa/Steve and Jayden for 10 minutes or so , before she came back through Suzy/Jeffs room “Let me give my granddaughter a last hug, and we hope to see you both again in a couple of weeks , okay darling “? “Yes Mum”  She kisses Suzy, Rose then her son Jeff, before walking her downstairs. After that, Jeff grabbed another drink and 2 ice cream pints for her and Suzy! “Thanks for thinking of me daddy… I’m feeding Rose too and could you change us both??? “Yes no problem” After this could we try for a nap! Please Daddy?” “Yes, that sounds great and we can see how long Rose naps for too” And they did indeed… 2 hours later      Rose wake them up but they had an alarm 2 and a half hours later for their Dinner.

Her Daddy went down for the dinner (battered sausages and Chips), bringing it upstairs like before. After that around 20.00, Lisa said goodbye, reminding her shed In the morning my Daddy Steve will be at their in the morning, before be there in the morning , and that 14.00 is when Caroline and Byron meeting your Rose, while my Dady gets some extra supplies! Around an hour and a half later, it was time for bedtime, similar to the night before.

 

 

Chapter 11  – Monday part 1 of 2 – partly back to work  AND partially trying new things

Monday saw Suzy’s Mother and Father and working again.  In Roses mummy Suzy,  and Daddy Jeff’s case, similar  to the previous day but little tries and experiments  etc. in Suzy leaving her bedroom, Suzy drinking a bottle of her own breast milk before breastfeeding  Lisa (on her own with Mother looking after Jayden,  similar to Midweek.). The afternoon of course would be Caroline and Bryan’s visiting Suzy, Jeff  and their baby Rose. During evening her boss (Dr Christina  Reynolds) after her work, as she only had limited time when visiting on Friday.

Well 03.45 baby Rose was up crying, so Mummy Suzy fed her, “Don’t worry, mummies  here Rose!” then changed her nappy, before back in her cot. 07.55 she woke then both up! “Morning baby daddy” she said to Jeff” “Morning baby Mummy” before smooching  briefly “Jeff said “You sleep well? ”like usual you know with Rose. However only one wake up per night is a bit better than Jayden, but he’s sleeping longer and longer Lisa said”. “Too true””  “Can you bring up some breakfast like yesterday , with an extra coffee”, after changing me just now?” “Yes… lie down my darling wife . I love you (kiss mummies tummy 3 times). You make me happy everyday and even more happy since you gave me a baby girl” “And I love now even more with you making me a Mummy” , my Daddy… see you soon.” After bringing breakfast one tray at a time – she sat down with her wife. “Daddy could you grab me a couple of yesterday’s babas for after my breakfast?” “There you go sweetie!

After finishing 2 coffees and breakfast, she went to drink her own pumped milk for “ don’t know if I say in front  of Rose, but I taste GREAT  - well my milk” “well I know what you mean! “ her daddy said. “See if she will take a bottle from Lisa or yourself, or  me next feed I will try the other one”? “Good idea… Her daughter was brought over to the bed, similar to yesterday. ““We can have the rest later if needed” Her Daughter was wet and a little fretty. “Mummy takes care of you… “ changes her nappy before trying her with the bottle, which she takes after  a few seconds. She drinks all bar a tiny gulp , which Suzy then finishes herself… before cuddling her baby girl into her body, tickling her making her smile again” “Good little Rose for drinking your Milk from a baba (blows raspberries on her tummy) , “yes you are (another raspberry), yes you are (one final raspberry) . Lisa came upstairs “Hello… how’s Rose? “ Great again. Put your bag own in the spare room , as I am about to breastfeed you from the source- and I think    I taste very Good” “Ok sure Mummy Suzy!  “winks twice at Suzy, before dropping her bag and back pack (minus her phone)  before coming into Suzy / Jeffs room.  “OK Mummy will come over to my big feeding Chair so I  can line you  up right, like my Mum still does sometimes with me” “OK, latch on, you know how?” “Mmmm one of the best milks I’ve ever had; Thanks  Mummy Suzy!” (they stand up and walk over to the bed, Suzy on one side if the bed and her Daddy Jeff moving over to a seat before asking “Lisa, come lie down and play with my baby Rose?” “Anytime” “Say hello to your godmummy Lisa!“ They played for around half an hour before Baby Rose  started to cry.” “Mummy grabbed her back before latching on  for another  feeding “ Can Daddy or Lisa  help both us change ?” Lisa did both!  “Mummy Suzy says thankies Mummy Lisa!  11.45 saw coming up to lunch (a micro lasagne for 4) and  Daddy and Lisa brought things up on trays and for Suzy, and their own two both, with a little extra between the three of them!” After eating them all, the trays were taken back down before they Daddy took over the space where Lisa was , and Lisa was on a side chair.

“That’s the door, I will go get it.  Probably Caroline and Bryon?”  “ Hey Byron, Hey Caroline …  (hugs both, one at a time) Come In both of you. I’’ll walk you upstairs”! “On the bed from left my BFF Suzy Clark,  on the right is her Husband and  baby father Steve Clark – and in the middle is their new Baby Rose! “Firstly these flowers are for Mum; congratulations Suzy. She looks absolutely gorgeous doesn’t she? “Awwh thanks very much for flowers - Lisa could you please put these in some water  - ands for the compliment on Rose  She has been so well behaved. Only wakes us twice a night, and she’s  been such an angel so far. We know that she can’t understand what we are saying to her , but we did talk to her in the womb with some response! For  some reason I have really enjoying mothering her,  more than I ever thought ! And at the same time, my daddy has been enjoying fatherhood too” “Very true” said Jeff. !I wonder why we waited so long to have kids  eh baby and Mummy Suzy? “( smooches,)

Suzy replies “Looking at your tummy it looks like you might be close to due day? I looked similar just last Wednesday (but with one baby?)“ ??? “yes we think it s going to be any day. Similar to Suzy and Lisa’s pregnancies we are happy. While we do know Lisa and Steve are adopting immediately after birth, we are looking forward to our next pregnancy too!” “well I please be careful with going to sleep – your contractions might start 1 hour after you finally able to sleep after Rose moving around a lot inside me! “Noted” giggles Caroline.

“Yes we did plan everything in or pregnancies but you’ve have no idea how its going to go until after the birth. We’ve been largely playing it by ear so far , which is the only thing any new parents can do, you learn every hour ,let alone every day! I am PA For a lady Dr specialises in Gynaecology and Pregnancies. Like so many of the IVF and specialist Mummies I have seen at work (and elsewhere), the job that they never  thought they would have, gives them the most joy. Like Lisa we were big kids for years “ “I am sure Lisa has told you our story” “Parts of it “Well I am 24 he’s 30. Met three years ago a Christmas event. Married 2 years ago. He is unable to work and I  am on minimum wage plus pointing Neal's Yard Remedies as my second money.  (ED: London based retailer who does similar to Avon but remedies include things like Crystals and incense) who also sell through MLM like Avon)  but not everyone knows of  them” No, I’ve heard of Neals Yard Remedies. My former BFF now lives  in north London first got me into them, when I went down for her wedding 12- 13 years ago. I really love that stuff!” “Well I will leave you a catalogue (rumbles though her bag placing on the bed)  - Lisas got my  mobile number so next time you need it, let me know ?” “Will do…” “However, going  back to our story, Byron wanted kids always and I was unsure, but my mum wanted grandkids. I was her only Child . We didn’t think we could afford to BUT with some fund for Lisa’s fathers fund – who we have NO IDEA If was you – then, we find out its twins! Our Priest put us onto the The Will Of God! After telling my mother everything that happened by email last Friday,  she apologised for everything she’s put me through re grandkids and supports our idea of a second pregnancy. She has some money to offer us NOW we find, but Lisas father Brian helped us even bigger time! Lisa said “yes it was your worker at The Will of God that told me.” “Needless to say very surprised not to be talking to Mr and Mrs McKenzie, but that you were part of the fund  being Smith yourself years ago, you know?

CONTINUES IN CHAPTER 12

 

 

Chapter 12  – Monday part 2 of 2 – partly back to work  AND partially trying new things

Haf an hour further discuss with Suzy, including all the side effects from both pregnancies (including weird food cravings for both!)

Lisa was asked of their names for both twins. The names if she discussed Anna (after Lisas middle sister) Lisa  and Lucy (Lisas oldest sister) Susanna Mathieson  (as they were the birth parents) BUT After a month ,changes to McKenzie, so Anna Lisa McKensie and Lucy Susanna McKenzie. After the time were as up, Suzy fed Rose before trying for a nap. Her Mother was picking up  Curry House takeaway on the way home from work!

When her Hubby as downstairs for theirs (with Suzy asking Lisa to hold back in case she fell next), Suzy used the opportunity to walk around her floor , leaving her bedroom for the first time since returning Saturday with Rose. Ended  up one end of the house to the other on the same floor , for five minutes. With that being not too sore Suzy returned to her room with the intention maybe going downstairs the following day!  

After finishing Dinner, soon after Dr Reynolds (Suzy’s boss) visited Suzy and Jeff. “Yes I got your  messages. You still LOVING parenthood ?”  “Yes Doc – it’s weird – we both being Mummy and Daddy too is a great thing .Like many of our patients; the job that they never thought that they would have being parents to a child, gives them most  joy,  you know?” “Yes makes sense.. I didn’t realise you would fall that deep! , You were worried it wouldn’t work?” “Well,  mum had 3 miscarriages so she was lucky to have one, so maybe I was a little , cautious you know! “ “yes sad but true”  After going into every detail from Thursday morning to today she said “So you still considering another child  or two? “Well as we said to his mother yesterday, Yes, more than ever! Might try what Lisa  got through the ‘Will or our own, or maybe both? However that’s making a lot of assumptions! We are having  a meeting with the Project with the home  visiting in 6 to 8   weeks,  to give me time getting over the birth. A lot of the stuff we did before our Foster Assessment will help in our favour! Mind you , knowing my luck, as well as adopting one, “I might end up with triplets in next pregnancy, and they’ll have to rip me open, 5 kids looking after ?” “Actually, unless you mysteriously shrink by half, you’ll be fine with 2, 3 or more?” “Cheers doc…” “Seriously Suzy, those statistics for second pregnancies being multiple births are interesting ? Especially for those who used long term contraception before getting pregnant “Well I was 20 on the pill – mums idea to regulate my cycle heavy  and irregular periods - and Lisa was 21 her IUD.” “NO guarantees ever BUT if you end up pregnant again, my only advise to you to  take it easy – like you did with Rose – until the 10 weeks scan. BUT whether you adopt, having more of your own through however many pregnancies, the fact you enjoy it is BIG factor in your own favour you know?” (Suzy looks confused) “Suzy, however you go about a second kid;, I do know you will be an amazing mother again,. I.E. I HAVE FULL CONFIDENCE IN YOU” “Awwh thanks Boss” (hugs her standing up!)

After an amazing end to Monday, Lisa returns home,  Suzy & Jeffs’ baby Rose was fed, changed and placed in her cot, before her and Daddy fell asleep in the adult size AB/DL cot even Suzy sleeps in even now (The reason Rose one was separate than her own one was for room, plus not falling through the gaps later on. Big babies know not to fall but wee tots don’t)

 

 

Chapter 13 – Midweek with Suzy’s baby Rose Day 5, 6, 7 (Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday), - many visitor, wee Rose’s wee car ride AND Lisa’s amazing sense of Deja-Vu…

Similar to the last few days,  mostly chill days indoor for all 3 – Baby Rose, her mother Suzy, and father Jeff! With no plans to restart contraceptive pill, BUT A  few weeks away from restarting regular PIV (penis-in-vagina) Sex, with her lochia still leaving her body (Post birth discharge for month or so).  However the following week she would try oral with her daddy/baby’s Daddy following Monday. Suzy was able to go downstairs on Tuesday, however between Suzy  and her Daddy, it was agreed shed still largely spend time in her room around 2 weeks more, for both Baby Rose and Mummy Suzy’s – latter still midday napping for now -  benefit (under regular review) Her pain was dissipating more rapidly than Lisa BUT Lisa’s pain also had from a large tear in her Perineum .  After their work Tuesday late early evening, some of Suzy’s fellow PA (Personal Assistants) and other office staff  popped in, with them asking Senior Nurse Polly (i.e. Suzy’s mother) the day before to check she’d be OK,  she was caught up with office politics and work over the last wee while.

Wednesday; similar but they decided to take Rose on a short car ride, for her first. Taking to one of the drive through coffee shops in Dundee (Starbucks) Wester Gourdie, with Lisa and Steve as well as Mummy and Baby! It was a sunny day and  they ended up having cold coffee for Suzy (Frappuccino) while everyone else had something hot. Suzy breastfed her daughter for the first time out (bar Hospital)   Suzy said to Lisa “if we breastfed EACH OTHER; we might get kicked out! BUT with feeding our own little kids are fine..” lol Suzy funny again!” Also Lisa reminded us tomorrow starts day about with Caroline and Byron on route to their own babies So she would nor see the Pro Mum BUT Those two were looking forward to seeing Baby Rose!) With that in mind every day night  Lisas phone is on all night (usually on silent overnight) with Byron ringing if sights of labour or delivery  happen. However seeing them from 09.00 tomorrow.   Wednesday evening it was Jeffs turn to meet his Colleagues, with his fellow programmers and other office staff to catch up ,and more besides, and see Baby Rose in person too.

Thursday was Mummy and Daddy registering the birth. Afterwards the Pro Mummy (Mummy/Mistress Jenn and Slave Carlie (who twins were 10 years old with a couple more adopted 6 and 4 years old).

BUT Lisas day was … hectic to say the least… And very much similar to a case of Deja-vu. Staying at her own family home, all too familiar the was a 05.30 call from Byran explaining  her contractions started.  Getting in the car  around 05.55, arriving around  06.05 Caroline had lost her Mucus plug already! With the situation moving fast, the decision was to take the to hospital , putting on some pull ups she had been using with both babies doing cartwheels on  her bladder! Leaving 06.35 and  heading direct for Ninewells Hospital (5 seat car enough room for the other two and their hospital stuff packed too!)  Lisa asked her Daddy Steve “What’s the chances of me helping out two  labours starting similar time, on the same day 1 week apart? “ “Very Slim. but you did the right thing with Suzy and Jeffs  kid, now Caroline and Byron? Well; Daddy Steve thinks you doing amazing! “Wow thanks Daddy!” “How abut next Thursday, Daddy Steve and you go do something really special like a couples massage?”  Your daddy is very proud of everything you’ve done this fortnight 2 mums to finish their pregnancy journey “ “WOW thanks… Daddy!”

Arriving just shy of 07.00 during travels her waters broke, meaning the kids were well  on their way – even faster than Suzy she was a little over 5cm dilated! Dilation took around 5 hours, with first twin 5 and a half hours later her first of the twins (first born - Anna Lisa  Mathieson – with blue eyes – arrived to the world at 16.27, her Placenta was soon after. But  the second one was more to leave Carolines body; nothing preventing it or stuck! – However FINALLY born at 20.57 Lucy Susanna Mathieson was born too! The placenta was similarly quick! BUT from start to end nearly 16 hours!  After 1 hour  they left the parents in peace, with the promise “We will come and see you around 09.30 tomorrow after Breakfast!” Just after before Midnight a booking was made for a taxi to  Bryron’s  home with a plan for one back around 07.45.

Lisa had kept Suzy and others in her Inner Circles. While Lisa was meant to be visiting Suzy, now Suzy and Lisas families are visiting Caroline and Bryon to see Baby Anna and Baby Lucy too! !  

 

 

Chapter 14 – Friday conclusion to  Two Labours In One Week

Friday morning, everyone was looking forward to see the two babies Lisa and Steve are now adopting! With Suzy & Jeff having a delivery of more small baby supplies) around 3pm,  and food later on. So Suzy and Jeff took her Daddies car (with Rose also coming along for  the ride) in the shared 5 seat car, driven to Suzy’s from Lisas by their Daddy Steve, car staying  1 hour around 09.30 to 10.30 with the shared car going back with Suzy and Jeff.  After that,  Lisa and jeff would stay there most of the day. Lisas mother was looking around 14.00 separate car with Brian (Lisas Jayden being babysat by the new twins sitter) bringing Lisa, Steve , Lisas Mum Polly and Father Brian).

So upon arrival, everyone was excited to see that Mummy and both her babies was doing extremely well. One looks like Caroline (the first one Anna) with the second one (second one Lucy) looking like her mother Astrid, who would be also visiting that day. First nights can be unpredictable, but she was woken a few times. Her partner arrived around 08.00. Both babies 8lb 1oz each. The labour did result in a few tears towards the start of her labour, and even more during second delivery, however stitches were starting to heel and she was feeling Okay . Lisa was praised again saying “Yes my Daddy said after two early starts for two good friends in labour one week apart same time, next Thursday we’re having a couple’s massage my Daddy said! “Well you deserve it! And its now bought and paid for!” (Lisa kisses Daddy Steve  passionately!) BUT as well as Suzy’s Rose who you saw  on Monday, You should celebrate too AS YOU’VE ONLY BLOODY GONE AND DONE IT! No more side effects for a wee while at least! Caroline replied “Like the sound of that! But seriously looking forward to our next pregnancy hopefully sooner than later, and end  up with 1 kid ideally!  BUT God willing we have a second pregnancy . . a fourth  answer to prayer next year would be even better!  I don’t think that much damage down there, but time will tell!

Lisas father Brian and Mum Polly arrived after lunchtime. They were bought flowers for the mother, and fell in love instantly with their Grandkids 10 and 11 – who will soon be joining their home with Lisa and Steve! Brian said “Caroline, and Byron -  you should be VERY proud of yourself. We certainly are. And two grandparents are already besotted with even smaller versions of our first two girls names (Anna and Lucy) .”Thanks Brian” they said. “With adoption it is a bit more complex; with twins it is a bit more complex. We have both and we look forward to helping you as much as we can over the next few days initially, plus the rest of their life as our grandkids too! In addition to all that, my first great grandkids as  Lucys oldest Polly is pregnant at 22 ! Soon after came the arrival of Caroline’s mother, Astrid Gordon . She explained who everyone was. She hugged Brian also because of the money  and Lisa/Steve for helping her only Daughter  - and sons-in-law - cry for help!  “Your Mother is massively proud  of what you and Byron  created is absolutely AMAZING . They look just like me and you too! Caroline replied  “Thanks Mum!  But seriously looking forward to our next pregnancy hopefully sooner rather than later.   And end  up with 1 kid ideally!  BUT God willing we have a second pregnancy ,  and a fourth  answer to prayer next year would be even better!  I don’t think that much damage done down there, but time will tell!”

 

 

In Chapter 15, we jump to Suzy and Jeffs Will of God  Project Home Visit with Rose at 6 weeks!

 

 

FYI the bit about multiple birth after a single birth following long term use of contraception is  FALSE / NOT TRUE really BUT its part of  the latter story (NO Spoilers BUT… you probably see where I am going already? LOL)

Chapter 15 – Baby Rose at 6 weeks - Home visit from Will of God – and everyone else’s Updates  

Jumping forward now 5 weeks. Suzy and Jeffs baby Rose is 6 Weeks Old. She’s had her first daytime laugh a few days ago. Suzy’s lochia (post birth discharge) has finally stopped, and she is getting gradually back to normal … She is the 9 it of 10 in still happy motherhood (based on 10/10 just after the birth!) Baby Rose is getting bigger every day ,and her she left her Baby with a sitter (the one chosen for her after work Debbie for half day (with pumped bottles) with no issues.  Both Baby father Jeff and mother Suzy were pumped and buzzed, looking for another for a another child (or more) together!  

A more general  clean was had on Sunday (like normal) but the Monday morning,  they double checked everything was fine, bringing her Daughter down  to the downstairs sofa (who would occasionally pay attention to other noises and some of Suzy’s Littlespace telly shows (Chuggington, Tayo the Little Bus/ Titipo Titipo, and Bob The Builder and others!).

A  car arrived with a couple of people coming out and walking to the door “Daddy Jeff, you okay with getting it” “Yes  I will do my darling” “Hello… Jeff ?” “yes that’s me, come in…” (Walking them in) “”I am Stephanie and this is Ed, from the The Will of God” “Yes, this is my wife Suzy, and further along the sofa is our recent 6 Week old baby daughter Rose” . Oh she is a cutie pie!”  “Awwh thank you. Yes we heard about you through one of my best friends, Lisa McKenzie “Aaah yes”

“First of all its always nice to place a name to a face. Secondly we loved your application! We see here you would love to expand your family. Having had one now you after considering adoption and /or  another of your own” “ Suzy replied “Yes that’s right. We really have enjoy – more than I ever expected -looking after your own Child – 6weeks… and we want to be considered for another through your service, or through myself. Seriously every day with our  Rose has been a pleasure, not a chore.  Before trying for our own, we had a few fostering placement   for a few days, and my mother (if she wasn’t at work)  would have told you an interesting story… “ “Can you tell me the story ? “… “Now I am double incontinent all life long, so giant pads/nappies and plastic pants (as well as me being  2yo in my mind)  I just in from work, and my sitter handed over to me .  One hour it took me to an hour to stop him kicking around  and finally put a new nappy on him! My own nappy was visibly overflowing and leaking… dripping a lot of pee, all over the my mums floor… but its washable, and in that case, we got the job done! However , our own Rose has been an absolute angel so  far, hasn’t she daddy Jeff?” “Yes, that’s true. Only waking us up halfway way though night and 2 early morning. Rarely cries unless wet or hungry too!  But it does not matter of all our other kids all were the  life and soul of the party, we would still love them no mater what eh babe?” “Very true”

After the discussions, examination of rooms and looking through many things like  Suzy’s Red Cross first aid for kids and other stuff already there, and financial things. They said that they was  application was successful, and number 12 in the queue. After that, they should hear in 2-3 months.

 

 

In Other News;
The first four weeks of the new twins with Lisa and Steve went well. Adoption was granted and renaming done separately by Stat Dec (Statutory Declaration).  3 to months after this Lisa was planning on having her implant , trying again for a third pregnancy, this time her own. Jaydens first birthday party went well too! – 15 days after Suzy gave birth and 8 days after Caroline!

 

 

 

 

         

Chapter 16 – Baby Rose now 4 ½ months –  Suzy (now at 36yo) back at work – and other peoples news too – part 1 of 2

With Suzy’s baby At 3 months old (two days after Suzy’s  36^th Birthday), Suzy started going back to work… in a gradual manner. For first 2 weeks It was 1 day a week (Monday)  for 2 weeks, then 2 days a week (Monday and Wednesday) for 2 weeks . 1 month in she reverted to 3 days a week (As she had told her boss she thought it was impossible to leave her at home!) She had took advantage of previous offers from Suzy’s mother and others similar to watch her baby Rose, on a couple of occasions her and her hubby/Dady jeff were able to go clothes shopping etc. on their own, have a lunch, or massage, or something similar, 4 or 5 times.

With both Big Babies having  kids of their own, plans had been Adapted, Improvised and Overcome! Monday to Wednesday as before, but every night staying in their own home. Thursday and Littlespace/Mummy day, then staying over on one home (like before) . Friday morning was a good chunk of the day having the two Mummies (Lisa and Suzy) time with their kids. Early evening sitters take over the babies -and all 4 have some naughty play times! The following day is similar until 5pm for guests Mummies etc. on occasions – or 2pm  if nothing before planned). For the rest of Saturday and all Sunday  it was a bit of everyone and everything  together before the visiting family returns home to their own homes.

In the third  week of Suzy back to 3 days at work, Tuesday lunch break she took a call from a number not on her phone “Hello, Suzy Clarks phone” which she did at work unless her bosses phone rung;  Dr Christina Reynolds phone, Suzy speaking). Hello Suzy ,this is Ryan from The Will, Is this a good time?” “Yes no problem, at lunch!” “Well your application we have good news, you have a  Potential Adoption! Her name is  Vee (short for Veetee)  Chambers. She is 24 years old   and  13 weeks pregnant, expecting a single kid not yet sure of gender. She was with a guy  (Brian Cotter) for more than a year. They wanted a kid BUT the grannie over-ruled them sent Brian down south  (ED: this loosely happened to my sister – real life - BUT she had the kid as a single mother! Sad but true!) So would you and your other half be interested in adopting after the child is born? “ “Yeah should be good,  I will get in touch with my partner BUT sounds good, and text you back later on”“ I know you work tomorrow but we could have her Thursday morning around 10am at your home?” “That’s times fine. Leave that with me and I will message you back?” “Yes I will do. After it taking a little while to get through to her Daddy/ Baby Rose’s father Jeff who agreed this would be a magnificent  opportunity for our second baby! (Her boss too!) and they were looking forward to Thursday morning.

Wednesday was a similar working Day, and her Daddy Jeff took a half day Thursday to meet Vee  in relation to her pregnancy and hopeful adoption her forthcoming Baby (Big Baby Time with Mummy Jenn and Lisa  - a full day - was swapped for afternoon only. Suzy and Jeff allowed more than enough time to treble check from 09.00 before 10.00 arrival of Vee and her project worker Ryan. Everything was here with Suzy putting cBeebies on in the interim (with muting with subtitles when they arrive) . Their first baby Rose was in a bouncer so she could see  TV – not that concentrating yet but Mummy Suzy was! However she was also there so Mummy could keep an eye on both her baby and chat to the visitors, as well as if the guests fancy cuddling her! 09.50 Ryan arrived first before Vee at 10.00.  After Vee sat down Suzy “you know you look very familiar – I just can’t remember from where?” “Well I have seen you at Eastgate,  I am a patient there” That’s it!” “And is that your other  kid, Rose?” “yes, she is now 4 and a half months old – and growing bigger every day! Do you want me to bring her closer for a hug” “Go  on then , ooh she’s so cute, and looks like Mummy and her Daddy in her eyes Vee said.

Vee then explained her situation again, before going into more details about her family. She was the oldest of 3, but the only girl. (Steven at 21 and James at 17). She was shown round Suzy’s family home ,explaining one of the 3 spare rooms  would be for her kid – probably next to her Baby Roses room (although she still sleeps with us for now) until around 6-7 months. It was mutually agreed that Suzy and Jeff would be perfect parents to look adopt, and look after, her kid-to-be. It was formerly agreed to move that the Adoption goes ahead. She would receive 120 per cent of the Will of God minimum (like Lisa and Steve topped it up!) In addition she was given  £1,000 cash, with her bank details taken to give further £29, 000 (topping up to 30k) by way of an extra over and on top of everything.  She also exchanged her forthcoming appointments to Suzy and Jeff. Suzy said “We look forward to helping you as much as we  can. We look forward to seeing your kid soon enough. If you need any  other advice or the like, just give us a ring, or if you just need a shoulder  to cry on, here’s my numbers (gave  her work Direct Line , my mobile and my home numbers?) I will try and get an appointment next week with my boss (who specializes in pregnancies and gynaecology too?” “Thanks Suzy, Thanks jeff” (hugs them goodbye) . She left a voicemail for her boss, giving her explanation and could you book a pregnancy consultation for Vee (Veetee) Chambers ? She is my adoption match we discussed Tuesday, and – we just found out – is our patient too! (She later on texted Suzy a date &  time for  which she would message to Vee as well”)

Suzy and Jeff texted their Inner Circle of the news; to a massively positive response! “Daddy we are going to be parents… again – Adoption but still feels good Daddy” “It does indeed Mummy”

“And thank you (kisses Suzy) for getting us to do that project application. Her life story is so sad, But during this pregnancy we could at least make her feel like a VIP” “And Lisa suggested it! BUT we are having a second kid!” “Yay Suzy” (mum and Dad tongue for 2 minutes before Rose started crying for a feed and change”)

” Half an hour Lisa arrived with food before her Daddy returned to work (office day).  “Congratulations Mummy and Daddy on your second” (Hugs all round). “Thankies Lisa. We really appreciate you suggesting that place!” 14.00 and Mummy Jenni  / Slave Carlie arrived for baby session “Congrats Suzy and Jeff on you second kid!” “Thanks again… still sinking in! How’s your four little kids doing?” “Not too bad, although arguing with each other again” “Awhh sorry to hear all that! “At least something Suzy won’t be looking forward to with her second?” “we will see. However irrespective  we vowed – when we were thinking to  be able to start a family – we’d take the bad with the good, rough with the smooth ; you know???
CONTINUED IN CHAPTER 17

 

 

Chapter 17 – Baby Rose now 4 ½ months –  Suzy (now at 36yo) back at work – and other peoples news too – part 2 of 2

After the Mummy session, Friday was as planned with their kids (all together at Suzy’s home this weekend in week about, as was done for quite some time. The two twins (Anna and Lucy) had settled down like Jayden. The two parents were taking it night  apart (with more than one kid) with Lisa pumping into bottles for when she was at work ,and now night about with Daddy Steve too! Of course both parents were busy trying to make other pregnancy by their own bodies too! Of course how far Suzy falls next time for her kid is anyone's guess…

… Saturday Mistress Britanny and her Slave arrived (see Me at 25 Story, Chapters 36 and 37) with a similar day of fun but no Plugs that time! Sunday was the Kink event for the first time in some time. - the first time since Suzy’s labour and the twins birth Lisa adopted. With Suzy’s Mummy and Jenny (the sitter who covers for Suzy at work) covering 3 of Lisas and Suzy’s one too! Very similar to previous months (see Me at 25 Story, Chapter 26) “Kinky Subby Babies… But Any Guy Sex has to be with condom, as we are both trying for another Baby!”  And the best of working Mum’s life (or leaving the kids at home for similar stuff)  - coming home to their Kids!  

 

 

Chapter 18 – Baby Rose now 6 months old  - news of Vee’s pregnancy – Other Kids news and making more kids of their own

We jump forward by 12 weeks. Vee is 25 weeks pregnant and everything happening on route to Suzy and Jeff helping up to her own birth.  Most recent scans look like a quite a large baby – with her bump akin to having twins . Last time Suzy went on Maternity Leave at 28 weeks BUT it was intended to start Adoption Leave from 30 weeks with her Daddy paternity leave again at 32 weeks! They had agreed to use Suzy birth plan with both Suzy and Jeff in labour and delivery, with her mother Bridgette being on standby and helping after the birth . Suzy’s baby Rose has already started sitting up once or twice and moving around .

Lisa’s (just turned 36 too!) adopted pairs birth parents (Caroline and Byron) were expecting  too with 11 weeks gone. The most recent scan confirmed it was only one child inside her, but Lisa’s father (see Chapter 3 this story). Still paid her for twins (75k) for some reason though – he said “yeah, no mistake my end. I had the money set to one side, so it is no issue! Maybe put others towards your next pregnancy?” “Thanks Brian will do” Caroline texted back to Brian!

 

Actually, talking of Lisa… there was something else… oh yeah, she’s pregnant! At a recent weekend at Suzy’s home she could see her period was getting a little late! So it was decided if she did not have her period Monday night (which she did not - but she told her fathers work she might be late to work!) Tuesday early morning Suzy arrived, placing test 1 in her nappy (no control even less since labour!) – positive – test 2 positive  - so she   (as she had the shared car) give her a lift to Suzy’s work (Doctors surgery) and after an  hour or so a nurse got her bloods taken (as a walk in). This was sent  to the lab and Lisa continued to  her own work in her car ,getting there 11.15! Thursday she received a message when with Suzy, and ringing surgery confirmed “Congratulations ,you are pregnant Lisa!”  Suzy gave a massive hug before saying Well done and Congratulations Lisa! Hope I am next” she said, while Lisa texted her Daddy then her Inner Circle to positive response.

 

 

Chapter 19 – Baby Rose now 7  months old  - Suzy’s two surprising telephone calls on one day, with Vees baby coming early – part 1 of 2

Suzy’s baby Rose has now had her Baby Food experiment tests for a few days, since then she’s trying half milk, half baby food (some made at home like they did years ago for baby Suzy and Lisa!). Sadly and inevitably, she’s started teething too!

Vee’s child is at 30 weeks. At the beginning that week, Suzy had started her Adoption  leave. Suzy had her phone on all night for Vees number since 20 weeks. The name already chosen was  Barry Andrew  (after Daddy Jeffs late father – with middle name from Suzy’s father) . Vee wanted no reference to fathers name! Similarly to Lisa last Suzy was very late for a period too! Lisa helped her like Suzy; two positive pregnancy tests. A blood test was ordered to make sure, and Suzy called her work to here them confirm she was pregnant!
 

But never did she think that her next Motherhood journey would be so soon…when she was drifting off 23.30, her mobile went. And the number could only be one – Vee! “Hello  vee, anything wrong … so do you see blood or something?” “No … I think he’s coming, as Started contractions and my (mucus) plugs gone…” “Right, I will be over ASAP And we try and bring my Hubby” Her daddy was woken by the words Suzy spoke “Its Vee! She’s started contractions, and lost her mucus plug,. I am going over now, and are you coming too?” “Definitely.. so what’s the likelihood of survival; on work experience baby?” “9 out of 10 at 30 weeks – so will be fine! It will take longer for her baby to come home you know?” Suzy then drove them to Vees home (getting there at 23.50 . Her waters had now broken “yeah he’s on his away” With only a few things  ready to roll (some most important ones already done) it took around 35 minutes to make sure all checked, all packed, and ready at 00.40 Vee being sore and the like in pain, and Suzy told Vees Mother “I have some personal and work experience with pregnancies with one of  her Doctors at Eastgate…   , so I will do my best for your Daughter! So you go back to sleep and you can join us in the morning – because she’s started early – we will see you there? “ “Thanks Suzy”

 Suzy got her Daddy to ring advising the Hospital we have a woman who has gone into Labour  at 30 weeks, so they knew they would have extra help on standby! He had to let his Bosses on a voicemail to advise the kids on the way, so he would start Paternity Adoption Leave a little early (i.e. immediate effect tonight!)… and holy sh8t there were a lot of people waiting when they got to Maternity 15 minutes later…   Jeff went to book her in, similarly to when Suzy had her first , before joining Vee and Suzy in the labour room around 01.20.

CONTINUES IN CHAPTER 20

 

 

 

Chapter 20 – Baby Rose now 7  months old  - Suzy’s two surprising telephone calls on one day, with Vees baby coming early – part 2 of 2

The first person came within 10 minutes of Daddy Jeffs joining the women (1 only just found out pregnant again, 1 going through Labour albeit 10 weeks earlier!) A doctor and  a nurse came through to the Labour room; introducing herself as Jodie Sweetin (Jeff had told at check in that those two were adopting the child post birth through the Will of God, so they knew). It was said 8cm dilated! “Because the baby was a decent size, as we found at Vees 25 week scan, and the fact you brought Vee that quickly means I would say 99 per cent sure all will be  well . After Vee gives birth, soon after that Vee and Barry  will go the neonatal ward - don’t worry as this is standard – and Assuming no further complications or no more than minor infections, he will be allowed to go home with Suzy and Jeff around 4 weeks before his due date, so around 6 weeks! However,  Suzy you seemed to know  just what to do by ringing ahead and coming in ASAP ? “ “I work As a PA for a Doctor who specialist and personal interest in with pregnancies and gynaecology?” “Ooh , what’s their name?” “Dr Christina Reynolds, at Eastgate for 6 years “Aah I know her  VERY well… she’s a great woman full stop… one of the true legends in her field! Any kids of your own Suzy?” “A 7 month old Baby Rose, and today found I am expecting again. However, I want you to concentrate on the labour in progress?” “Yes that’s the plan we discussed with your husband checked Vee in earlier!. So for now, just stay with Vee. Someone else is coming next to  help Vee in, and they will help you through it!” (leaves 02.15).

Dilation stage of labour stopped at 07.55. Starting Delivery stage for quite a while! Vee’s mother (Destiny Chambers) arrived around 09.00,- agreed last night she would come in rather than on standby because of the fact her daughter started so early! – Suzy caught her up “Oh Suzy I really appreciate everything you’ve done and also looking after her son after that f*****g b*****d left her? (ED: Dundonian mothers are particularly defensive looking after their offspring) ” “Well, no worries. Come in and see your Daughter… “Hello Mum, thanks for coming”

After close to 9 hours Delivery Stage (partially with the size of her Baby), Vee’s baby Barry Andrew Chambers (to be Clark later)  was born to the world  at 16.45, weighing in at 10lb 4oz. Placenta was quick in  15 minutes.  She fed her Baby on route to Neonatal Unit. She and baby for around 6 weeks. It was similar to most other post birth  deliveries, although special premature baby cots -and not  quite scrubs but face masks and aprons – “A small price to pay for both Vee and Barry’s health” Suzy said She knew that Suzy and Jeff – and her mother – would visit daily. In Suzy and Jeffs case they left to go home 20.45 with Vee’s mother too! “Irrespective of everything, you should be PROUD of what you have done with giving birth!” “Yes I am” said Vee.” “We will see you around 09.00 Saturday morning!”

 

 

Chapter 21 - Baby Rose now 7  months old  - weekend overview -day after Vee gives birth early

Overnight, Barry woke up 3 times ,but more frequent  nurse check-in’s  (for first week being neonatal ward standard) woke her more! She dosed off for around 2 and a half hours when her child woke her 07.45 (She had alarm set for 08.00 with Suzy and Jeff from 09.00ish, and breakfast around 08.00. Doctors checked in with her before breakfast She explained fine-ish  - as she ‘d rather had been doing this many weeks later – and with the person who got me pregnant BUT Suzy and Jeff stepped up to the gate!   She was expecting the adoptive parents Suzy and Jeff, and  a few other guests. Despite being a boy – like Lisas son Jayden – he looked more like his mother!

When Suzy texted saying they were parking up outside (with Jeff, my Mother and Father. For just now my kid is being looked after my BFF with Lisa who has 3 to avoid any infection) for a couple of hours  with her mother  and a few family late afternoon, and Jeffs mother coming in a few days!. She used the opportunity to bring Barry over to next to her  chest (not long fed!)

Suzy and  she said “Hello Vee How did you sleep?” “Not my best. Double the 2 hourly check ins and Barry a couple extra times” “How many times did Barry Wake you up! 3 or four, but one might be with the nurses” “Now I will introduce you to the grandparents my side, I live with them still . Mum aka Polly Larsson is a Nurse at Eastgate, now so the most Senior  Nurse or Senior Nurse Practitioner in the  practice. My dad Andy Larsson has worked in manufacturing since college and is  a part owner of his factory! “Good to meet you  Andy - Nurse Polly/Larsson again “ “

After a couple of hours (and god knows how many kisses and cuddles)  they headed home to their family home “Daddy Jeff, you remember we were talking about Lisas daddy now has an 8 seat Mumtruck kinda thing” “Yes I do.” Well would you be willing to either upgrade your car or get another 8 seater? As there’s 2 of us, 2 kids now and definitely at least 1 coming”?

“Well hunney , how about I buy you an 8 seater sooner rather than later and the shared car can go to Lisa or keep spare? “ “As we certainly scraped into this second pregnancy bar the skin of our teeth, yes I would say now is the time”

Lisa had been told about food in the oven (already in freezer!) So it was already in and almost ready! Everyone was then caught up with Vee and Barry’s  progress. It was decided to give Suzy’s daughter formulae as an experiment (with Suzy going in for the last week or so of Vee and Barry before bringing Barry home to) and that was also  a success.

 

 

Chapter 22  - Vee and Barrys 6 weeks in hospital – and even more surprises for Big Kids and Mums Suzy + Lisa

Every day Suzy (and generally Jeff) visited Vee and Barry for at least 1 hour each day!  She had a tablet BUT Suzy / Jeff upgraded her TV options for  1 year (BEFORE the early start)– so plenty watch in recovery weeks, and year ahead too  - so plenty to watch or listen to ! Suzy’s  boss (Dr Reynolds) had been aware of her early labour , leaving her a voicemail  Friday. She rang Suzy saying “Well I am sorry to hear he was premature. But with the kids size, it was good. And I think I have been training you well ?” “yes – I knew what to get in ASAP, and getting  my daddy/hubby to ring ahead for a 30 week early delivery; and holy shit there were a lot of people outside! Like my labour Vee was check’s in by Jeff, explaining Will of God adoption etc. If I adopt another I will go off at 28 weeks not 30. But she got through labour well. Better down there than me, but she would really wanted to carry the baby to term!” “Well that s great that she got there, even  if it was early. How’ s the kid?” “he’s actually very well!” “Do you approve of me visiting  Vee and Barry after work ?” “Technically your patient, but yes I think she would appreciate another visitor” Suzy said, double checking she had vee’s mobile phone . “And I look forward to meeting him in you and Daddy Jeffs home one day soon, and also, hopefully your own – and your BFFs Lisa  - pregnancies go successfully! “ “Awwh thankies boss!” “As you know people living together will sync up  their menstrual cycles together… but 2 Best friends expecting 5 weeks apart is rare and special “ “Awwh thanks again boss. .. we get married two minutes apart too…” After ringing off , Suzy returned to her plans (a few extra supplies for the new Baby Barry) on Monday and most days that week! Wednesday their new car was delivered, after going round to the Car Garage on Sunday .

In the 4^th week Suzy was gradually spending more and more time with her adoptee (Barry). After a few attempts, Barry was fed by Suzy (from her breast)  Tuesday in  that 4^th week.  5^th week she stayed night about, , 6^th week entirely. Baby Rose (now  8and a half weeks) was welcomed in Vee/Barry 3rd week in hospital – no problem – and seemed to  bond “that’s your wee brother Barry!  A few times when she was staying at the hospital, Rose dint like settle as well – but a WhatsApp video call worked well ! So Baby Barry finally got home with Suzy on 6 weeks after his birth, and Vee  finally home! Towards the end ,Vees kids father had showed up and they made  peace, even though they are still separated! 2 Weeks after Barry was sent home, Suzy and Jeff returned to their work!

 

 

But their own pregnancies; their side effects were worse! While it was Lisa’s only slight surprise to find out she had twins inside her, Suzy fell off the chair, passing out momentarily, at her 10 week scan  after hearing  “Congratulations Susanna and Jeffrey, you are expecting triplets!”

The following Monday  (Suzy 11 weeks) is where we go in Chapter 23!

 

 

Chapter 23 – Suzy at 11 weeks again,  Lisa 16 weeks again , Rose 1^st Birthday

Barry was 14 weeks old, with Roses first birthday 3 days later on Thursday  (having  said her first word “mamma” the previous week).  Monday morning she met her Boss (Who knew it was triplets by text  like her inner circle) “Well I guess that explains your strong side effects… but CONGRATULATIONS on hopefully THREE more kids – your 3^rd, 4^th and 5^{th “} (hugs boss at length!)

“And when I was off with just after Rose was born, you did say I would be fine for triplets or more… so you called it right Doc R” “The chances of multiple births with two friends expecting multiples don’t exist! Lisa still looking forward to another 2 kids ?” “Yes probably a different birth plan: not decided to try vaginal birth  or c-Section but hopefully around half way through they’ll have decided”

“And how’s Rose and Barry? I am looking forward to Roses party! “And so is she! Everyone’s good. Daddys happy as we knew wanted another pregnancy, just a little  settling in were having three more! Just as well as we bought a  Mumtruck like Lisas!

I don’t know how far deep into motherhood I will fall with 5 to look after!   We are discussing options for maybe taking a up to 1 year career break - with the second kid coming so  early -  and with us 5 weeks apart due day, us both having Doulas too. In addition intend going back on the Pill, with my age and five kids meaning all room is full – however – if we get an extension or  other space for 6^th kid then never say never! However its still all early days, hopefully all kids survive for you both! “True very true “ “and your first appointments here” “Thanks again Suzy”!

Lisa day had Monday at her Fathers first office (696969), generally then Tuesday (City Cabs), Wednesday (Tele), then Thursday (by her job share  colleague Sarah) are split Monifieth and Tayport Cabs, with Friday  (by her job share  colleague Sarah) all day ABC Perth.  That Friday she was looking forward to 16 week scan on Friday (Thursday everyone looking forward to Suzy’s Rose 1^st birthday!) while also 16 week scan may or may not be able to show what’s in  Lisa’s tummy.

Thursday was Rose’s birthday – and the evening before Suzy’s mother, Rose’s sitter and her hubby Jeff – helped Suzy decorate her room suitably to her Mums orders!  She has Barry in his own room now separate after last week! Just like Lisa and Steve Daddy and Mummy take it night about with changes and feeds (plenty bottles in warmer for every night!) The main party was scheduled from 18.30 that evening. However she woke up her Daughter, having picked her out her Cot (before Daddy Jeff went to work) “Happy Birthday  Baby Rose!” With the plan a few hours littlespace   with Mummy Jenny and Slave Carlie earlier on – that evening  around 60 Adults and kids enjoyed  the party.  Friday  Mummy and kids  time at Suzy’s (with Lisa leaving her 3 for a couple of hours – their sitter came to Suzy)  while Lisa found she was expecting 1 boy and 1 girl (one of each). Then the weekend was even more  fun!                   

 

 

 

Chapter 24 – in the weeks between Suzy at 11 weeks and 16 weeks

Suzy/Jeff and their family

Suzy’s Daddy Jeff did bring up an interesting point; what if they end up three babies as  who have massive collections… And/or end up  with special equipment ?”Tight squeeze Daddy?” “Well the builder who did the extension round the back did say we could go vertically too, as we could replace loft with more bedrooms – as many as 4 rooms?” “Are you suggesting I become a Baby Pez dispenser Daddy ?” “Well, we could try the Will again, or those Foster-to-Adopt groups too?” “Well Mummy likes that  idea too. However they agreed to do get the builders back again, surveying ,before plans being submitted for planning approval. Assuming all that works well, it would be proposed to start  8 to 10 weeks after your due date, with initial process started that week. Suzy had known of Mothers of 10-12 kids – largely their own thought  Twins, Triplets, and two occasions Quadruplets,   OR more than one father 😊 she has seen through her work!

Speaking of which Suzy’s Boss (Dr Reynolds), Suzy and her Hubby Jeff had a sit-down meeting in relation to her Pregnancy. It was decided to allow a years leave, officially 1 year from her Due Date with flexibility to return earlier. This was in addition to the traditional maternity leave – in which case with multiple births both Suzy and Lisa had been recommended to leave 26 weeks not 28. They were suffering from fatigue and tiredness more profoundly – with Multiple Births this is common, said Dr Reynolds. Partially because her previous baby (adopted) came very early, so a catch up with their first two plus their three ahead! With multiple births there is more chance for complications, getting home later and going into labour early , although they are looking forward to Baby 3, Baby 4 and Baby 5 even though they will certainly keep Suzy and Jeff on their toes (on their own)! In addition  to the sitter for Rose and Barry, it was decided to hire another sitter would help if/when Suzy goes back to work, and for the first few months as an extra pair of hands! This was done (Melissa) .

A few times they did a 4 in 1 (technically) feed a couple of weekends – Suzy’s Mum Orla feeding her daughter Suzy who was feeding her granddaughter Rose (then  grandson Barry) while patting on Suzy’s tummy for the forthcoming pregnancy (triplets) ! The 16 week scan was able to show Suzy is expecting!  This showed Suzy was expecting another 2  Baby Girls and 1 Baby boy. Now – what to name them ???

Lisa/Steve and their family

Lisa and Steve were looking forward to their 4^th and 5^th too! One of the scans showed one of her Babies was upside down. With them also being a decent size a c-section (Caesarean Section) was booked for the 35^th week. Their own twins – one boy one girl expected – were to be named Edward (Steves father) Brian (middle name Lisas father first name) and their girl to be Stephanie (Steve’s sister) Polly (middle name Lisa’s mother) McKenzie! All of their children (son Jayden and twins Anna/Lucy) had been fine with a few bugs each lately becoming more common since twins arrival. 

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Chapter 25 - Suzy at 17 weeks again,  Lisa  22 weeks again – Suzy’s 17^th Week

Over the weekend the discussion included coming up with another three names for their forthcoming  children (Yes plural!) They did not want any duplication of Christian names in her home or Lisas home (as they always spend time together) and also they were both only children, so no siblings to copy like Lisa (who were not spending as much time as Lisas current home people). So they went through a baby names list on  babycenter.com and read out names until  they got a few they liked. Viz, here are the names for their next new arrivals;

1^st Baby Girl; Charlotte (Suzy liked Charlotte Church’s music 90s and now) Susanna (her name) Clark
2^nd Baby Girl; Aurora (also location of Waynes World , one of her favourite growing up Movies too as well as sounding like another perfect name for a Baby girl she thought) Lisa (her best friends name) Clark
Baby Boy; Elijah (Jeffs pick – loved the name also from Church days) Jeffrey  (his name) Clark.

Suzy was getting tired as well as what felt like twice as many baby kicks, although she did expect the third one to start  any day! Her breasts were pretty much an E cup (no quite more than a little tight in her bra from 23 weeks) – and we have five months to go! Of course she was breast feeding and feeding their previous two as well (Barry at 5 months/20 weeks, and Rose 1 year , 1 month and 2 weeks – latter more and more baby food less milk).

Suzy’s mother drove her to work. She was not training anyone new so normal nurse duties this week at 08.30 like normal.  “How’s Mum to be feeling this morning” “Like I am carrying a footballer or three with the kids inside!” “Suzy always makes the best of anything!” “But seriously, average to OK. A little less myself than with Baby Rose but three kids inside  me is the cause Mum!” “Very True! And I love the names!” “Awwh thankies Mum.  Also with this being Monday tonight DCC Planning Committee meeting is discussing whether or not they will allow us to expand, but using similar to last time round the back , we don’t think going up in the world it will be an issue. After Dinner Daddy Jeff going to meeting with our contractor to that meeting!” “So you looking forward to any more?>” “Probably foster to adopt or something similar. Given you went through menopause early 40s and I am 36 – but hopefully can fend that off as long as possible . Of course, how deeply I fall for the third pregnancy of triplets is anyone’s guess – however probably even further than Rose and Barry were born! I love being a Mummy still now, you know Mum? “ “Well that was probably means you will love them even more. Labour will be longer and you will be very sore – even more if you end up with a couple cuts like Lisa and Vee did!” “I know… glad we are that I’ve gone for the year off!” Mum (Orla) and Suzy arrived around 08.45. She grabbed coffee for herself and her Boss’s tea mug. filling It up with her favourite, before walking through to her Boss;  (Dr Christina Reynolds) “Morning Doc” (places mug on her desk)” “Morning Suzy; how was your weekend? I love the names you chose by the way!” “OK to average , feeling a little less myself than with Rose BUT I am carrying 3 times the load this time!  And thankies” They then discussed her bosses weekend too , and going through booked appointments and other plans for the day. Afterwards Suzy showed her first patient through, second patient, until breaks (post, lunch etc) up to her last one. At the end ,Suzy said “Doctor tis not like I don’t love my work with you;  I do , I love it, it’s just I am really enjoying motherhood already with 2, and another 3 will more than certainly keep me and Jeff on our toes on their own!” “I know Suzy” “I means I never really thought about doing this ever! Not just as I am a 2yo in my mind, but Lisas trying fostering before having her Jayden,  I kinda feel … difficult to tell BUT while kids always being thought not for me… but by now, it’s a given I love it SO MUCH – second happiness to our wedding/collaring day!” “Well that’s great news Suzy! I will see you tomorrow?”

Suzy’s mother drove them home for Dinner before Her Daddy left for the Council Meeting (hearing it had been approved with no conditions) before Daddy Jeff and the contractor went home separately.

Tuesday and Wednesday were similar working days . Thursday Pro Mummy Jenni and Slave Carlies  time and Lisas turn to  host that weekend!  So Suzy, Jeff (after   his work) and their two kids drove their Thursday morning till Sunday evening! Baby Supplies always take so much space; so luckily  Suzy, Rose and Barry nappies in store at Lisa’s! (3 out of 4 need nappies!!) Lisa’s mother helped her bring the kids up to the spare room for Suzy, while Suzy brought  up the bags and supplies in 2 goes!

Friday was the time for two Mommies with five kids (and five more on the way!) but their Daddies told both Lisa and Suzy that TWO pregnancy-safe surprise was on Saturday – family friendly so nothing naughty -  but we would have to go out for them.  Saturday morning at 11 for first one, and second one lunchtime, in same place – leaving  around 10.15. Then we will be doing a little shopping for you to get more maternity clothes and bras and the like! Like when you went to the Dungeon and similar weekend days out , Lisas Mum and Rose/Barrys sitter looking after all 5 kids during the time!

Saturday morning their Daddies told them their Surprises was  them being taken for  a pregnancy safe hour-long massage at Yu To Spa (also see Me At 25, Chapters 45 and 46) as well as an Afternoon Cream Tea  - but for Lunch! It was agreed Lisa would drive Mumtruck 1 so their Daddies could get  a few pints! – a small price for another amazing day their Daddies set up – plus  more fun after lunch in town!. Additional portions for both Mums-to-be,  we know you have more an appetite! Lisa knew the receptionist from school! Suzy said it made her feel like a new woman/mummy!, and Lisa loved hers! Lunch was amazing too, before they went to all maternity clothes shops, and bought a few, plus a few other odds and sods at other shops before having a KFC in town before heading home to see their kids again!

 

 

Chapter 26 - Suzy at 20 weeks again,  Lisa  25 weeks again – Suzy’s 20^th week scan and other bits and bobs both families

Suzy’s 20^th week Scan showed her triplets were in an okay position, but 24 weeks scan (on her second pregnancy 4 weekly scans arranged by her Mother/nurse and a Doctor these were still continuing with her mums miscarriage history) would give a more settled picture as to where her children’ birth plan as they had been moving around a lot. They were  a shade BIGGER than Rose was at the halfway mark, but that rate of growth might not continue – time will tell! She looked forward to meeting her triplets, irrespective of how they were delivered! After her Adoptee Vee’s child Barry came at 30 weeks she was trying to forget that moment and try and be twice as well behaved as with Rose, and having a Paws Up in bed – 4 hours 2 days a week so getting a working  days rest every week (NOT on bedrest however, her own initiative!)  The average triplets were born around 32-33 weeks. Suzy was still of the opinion LOVING motherhood despite the massive bump, all the tiredness ,and thought of it like it was a given. Suzy’s mother compared her need for nappies life long and her Motherhood is another pillar and staple of Suzy, Jeff (plus Rose and Barry’s) life! BUT the other three can vary in enthusiasm for another two sisters and a brother!

Lisa and Jeff were looking forward to her arrival of her twins, feeling bigger and bigger than Lisa has ever been! . Her Mother and Father did go south for a one week after the birth of their first great grandkid – his first Lucy’s oldest Polly had a 7lb  6oz baby girl called Rebecca (Becky)!

 

 

 

 

Chapter 27 - Suzy at 25 weeks again,  Lisa  30 weeks again – news from Suzy’s 25^th week at work (week before starting Maternity Leave and up to 1 Year Extra Leave on top)

Suzy’s 24 weeks scan showed that  the babies were in a  okay position just now with no real grounds for changing plans for delivery. Her boss reminded her several times most triplets were born around 32 to 33 weeks  but there was no real worries  or changes to her plans. Her baby Rose was of course born at 38^th week, but could be earlier or later when she spontaneously goes in to labour .However with the idea of constantly changing – with three kids all moving  and rapidly, the situation was  very fluid. So a few extra scans were to happen now 2 week intervals, not 4 weekly . This was nothing wrong with her pregnancy or the kids FOR NOW but the extra scans were to ensure it stays that way . Mother to be of  triplets Suzy had no issue with extra checks on her extra special delivery “better safe than sorry”  Suzy said!

Lisa her BFF started her Ordinary Maternity Leave at 26 weeks at Dr Reynolds suggestions, so she had  2 weeks before Suzy was leaving too!   Suzy was finishing the following week end with her adoptee Barry coming so early and also she found out pregnancy again 9 months after Rose’ s birth, an Additional 1 Year (paid) Leave was given for catching up . Also with 3 babies due soon (Charlotte, Aurora and Elijah) as her current two (Rose and Barry) giving her and  her Jeff a run for their money already, an extra  sitter hired too (Melissa)!!!

Monday Morning the 25^th week of Suzy’s pregnancy, her Mum drove to work. “Good news from your scan and I am glad maybe a few extra scans just to be on the safe side is a good idea! And I am also  looking forward to meeting your kids 3, 4 and 5 – my grandkids 3, 4, 5) when they are born, my darling daughter !”  “Awwwhhh thanks Mum, yeah me too. Indeed with Rose and Barry already keeping us on our toes Mummy, hence we have an additional sitter on top Rose and Bary’s sitter  (Sara) we now have Melissa too help us as a babysitter  and extra pair of hands for a while too! The things is, like two previous pregnancies (one mine’s, one Vee’s)  - no matter how much we plan,  we will only know their real personalities, wants and needs, after labour, you know Mum! We will learn accordingly, but with this time; with the added benefit of hindsight” “Another good point well made Suzy…… well we’re here at work” “That went by very quickly”  Suzy and Mum went in opposite directions; Suzy getting coffee and tea mugs for herself and her  boss before arriving in Dr Reynolds  .  Morning doctor and Boss!” “Hello Suzy, that was all good news from last weeks scans, but I can understand extra scans as your triplets are so frequently moving. No matter how much we plan,  we will only know their real personalities, wants and needs, after labour! This will be similar to last two but this time , we do have the benefit of hindsight… and 2 weeks extra mat leave plus an extra year, well up to it! “Its always good news when any of my assistants and other staff have kids  of their own, as it reminds me of my two pregnancies resulting in 3 kids of my own; as you know all grown up. With the AMAZING quality of your work, it will be  a hard act to replace if you decide full time mother” “Awwh thanks Boss.. (hugs her at length) “ “I mean  you have a REAL passion for the job, littlespace and Adult exploits as well… you will be a tough  act to follow!” “Thanks boss again.” She exited her bosses room before 5 mins later, she returned with her first patient  (2 women, one almost as big as Suzy was) to which Suzy said (trying to make conversation while pointing to her bump and the patients bump) ooh twinsies ”Yes they are Suzy.. you?” “Triplets actually… now boss I will leave you in peace (makes Peace symbol)!”

After a busy Monday at work, she said “Remember earlier on, you were saying a lot of nice things about  me! Are you serious? I never thought of my work as anything special?” “Two things 1. I never lie – you will be a very difficult act to follow (even for the initial 6 months. ED :See below) 2. Promise me you wont be strangers?” No … you wont get rid of me that easy Doc and Boss!”

In the car home she was telling what her boss and doc said. “She’s right; you are amazing  employee! Everything  you have done there last 13 years at work ! I’m not just saying that as your Mother, I know the office staff all really appreciate your work ethic and the fact you are an amazing colleague to more than 200 people we have now! And also you always help when a colleague is in need!- from bodyspray to period supplies, you always help your colleagues who really appreciate it!”    Obviously in planning for your second Baby Shower next Friday too!” “Thanks Mum”

Tuesday, Wednesday were similar, at work, Thursday in littlespace (Suzy hosting this weekend). However with their pregnancies resulting in  massive bodiless  3 weeks  beforehand, they swapped Naughty times Friday evening or full day with their existing babies; Rose (1 year 5 months) and Barry (7 months old)   got  an hour or so Mummy time , one on one each, before they were taken through to their playroom , Suzy’s kids have been  very well with Lisas Jayden (2yr 1 mo old) and the Twins’ Anna and Lucy (one week after Rose  of course!)   always got on well with  other houses kids. This time all was well behaved with only 2 or 3 minor telling offs  After putting the kids to bed.  Suzy said “I love the  fact our Babies get along so well, and enjoying the time with yours and mine together as a good bit of fun!” “Awwh thanks Suzy… yes they do! Like we two do  as well!

Suzy’s birth plan: at  the moment very much similar to the previous. Vaginal birth and all the pain relief allowed by law… for 3 kids the birth plan might be change if one gets stuck or something similar.  The plan is that pretty much the same  stuff as last time BUT The labour will be probably longer!  IF pain becomes too much she has twice the Tens pain Relief System, BUT she has already some extras supplies ready to take with her . if a c-section was  needed for 1 or more of the babies stuck, or indeed an emergency, Suzy’s Daddy / babies Father Jeff  or Suzy would give her no hesitation in signing anything needed to ensure Babies and Mums survival ,  c-section  if Vaginal Birth is no longer an option or if Mother loses consciousness at any time during the labour. Doulas plan no longer needed as they  both had extra sitters; who would attend birth as well . if Lisa  / Suzy was unavailable, (For example an overlapping labour) they  would act as Birth Partners too. Suzy was leaving her work on her 26th week (i.e next Wednesday) with her Baby Shower on Friday evening, similar to first time round!

As was noted above,  After Suzy goes through labour she is having 6 months at home with her five kids (in the short term) with her Daddy/babies Father then  returning to her work at the previous time. In the run up to 6 months she will make decisions whether another 6 months, going back to work, or   being a full time stay at home mummy (like Lisas mummy Polly).

 

Lisas current situation; she indeed went off at her 26^th week – like Suzy was about to be  - with all the plans still as was (the 35^th week (Sort of elective c-section). The  babies had been changing again positioning many times – and even were now back -right way round!   BUT it was decided to have  planned c-section. However she had an idea  that her twins might have other ideas than to wait that long (Edward and Stephanie / ed and Steph for short)!!!.

 

 

 

Chapter 28 - Suzy at 29 weeks again,  Lisa  33 weeks again – Suzy  on Mat leave while Lisa goes into labour  ,11 days before  planned C-section  

Suzy’s News

Suzy did indeed start its her Mat leave the following Wednesday, with a very enjoyable Baby Shower 2 days later. She was the biggest she has ever been! She had also continued the equivalent of a Working Days rest in the run up to her twins birth, and now able to make it a day and a half a week! No issues had been detected in the scans but she was looking forward to day and time they would be born , as she was feeling bigger every day… and still 11 weeks to go!

 

Lisa’s News

In this week, in the early hours of Thursday (of her 33^rd week) Lisa started feeling contractions.. . let’s not forget her first born Jayden, Suzy’s first born, her adopted twins Anna and Lucy was all Thursday “No, this is a dream…. (looks down) plug gone  04.20 … “What’s you’re problem Thursdays I used to love you…Staying at her own  home, she asked her Daddy to wake Suzy (in the spare room with jeff and her other kids) .  Between Lisa/Steve and Suzy they made the decision to take her in  , as she was having the babies a little early with a hospital planned c section being her plan , and now, no choice but to go!!!)  Suzy asked Jeffs 04.45 as a passenger advising C section was planned BUT 2  Babies decided to come 11 days earlier than the booked C section. As the was done Lisas Mumy organised  a couple of additional sitters before telling the kids that their Mums  new babies are coming, a few days earlier  . The Littlespace Mummy and Slave was postponed HOWEVER when they she was looking for sitters, mummy Jenni and Slave Carlie– or “friends of your Mummies, Jenni and Carlie” to the kids  -   when they heard they to offered to babysit their five kids of  Lisa/ Suzy instead – having an absolute ball for 2hrs -  with a different kind of little baby sitting!

As they arrived Lisa Daddy Steve/twins Daddy booked his wife / baby in. The extra sitter was woken up, and Lisa/Suzy were shown through. “As we discussed before , we will be waiting to be taken to the Operating Theatre,  to have my caesarean section. (ED: in the UK the more common option for these sections is awake and partially numb beyond a certain body point, while a less common one is General Antithetic. Lisa did not like the partially-numb option as her labour in Jayden resulted in  a  BIG stingy tear in her perineum (now just a scar of course) BUT she did want risking another, hence her asking for GA this time !)  Now I will  have you wait in the room and be ready for me to be wheeled through back ,after I have recovered!” Around  07.35 an anaesthetist took Lisa through for her section . The section itself is typically short (circa 55 minutes!), she remembers her going under 08.10 on the big clock ,waking up  around 10.05.  She was taken through to the her room 10.40, with her twins Edward Brian McKenzie, and   Stephanie Polly McKenzie! ) with a different anaesthetist bringing her through . “Well, that went fairly well. The baby boy had a minor infection, and the girl is fine. However assuming no issues with mother or babies, probably 3 to  4 days and all 3 of you can go home.” “ Good news,,, thank you!”  Lisa’s hubby/Daddy let both Lisas father Polly and father Brian too and five kids would come to see Lisa afternoon visit  2pm and 3pm  the following day (Friday). Suzy let her mother know and her boss Dr Reynolds (Lisa her patient too)  of the news …”Well great news, give Lisa all my best.”  

“So how does it feel to have the pregnancy all over and done with!” “Great thanks Suzy Not as sore but no tears down there; apart from sore from the site around my bikini area! The baby boy is just like my Daddy  and a baby who’s the spitting image of me! After a few hours Suzy and Jeff (late afternoon ) returned to Lisa’s home.

After everyone visited Lisa as planned, Lisa and her twins was indeed allowed to return home Monday after lunch.  Grandparents Polly and Brian loved grandkids 12 and 13. Lisas twins - and the two she adopted earlier – were  the first twins in more than 60 years of their family history! , they researched over the previous weekend.

 

 

 

Chapter 29 - Suzy at 34 weeks again,  Lisa twins  5 weeks old – updates from both families

Lisa’s twins were (at least initially first month) two opposite different characters. The boy baby Edward was very upset and always crying more than his twin sister Stephanie the opposite – quiet except when wet / hungry and happy than her twin brother! Suzy (helping Lisa with some post help with changes and relieving her extra baby sitter) had  drawn her likeness to her first little one – Baby Rose – BUT fingers crossed her brother did not rub off on his sister!  Her daddy was enjoying babies and  4 (Edward) and 5 (Stephanie) with Lisa getting high praise for following her rules and giving birth – even via c-Section – was another fourth pillar moment (wedding/ collaring day, Jayden birth, adopted twins birth and now Lisa’s twins now) Still happy they decide to start a family…  however no decision for any further plans until she returns to work 3 months away. While five kids all under 3 is more than enough at the moment in time, she might be open to foster – to – adopt groups in the near future.  

Suzy was still expecting her Triplets, bigger and bigger every day! However she had tried many of the suggested  online  like sex (her libido was very high like her first pregnancy!) and a couple of strong curries (with her Daddy having a shit load cold milk and ice cream on standby!) 4 or 5 other two to NO AVAIL! However she I’d not want to think about  having to induce her pregnancy because of risks BUT she seemed to be having the opposite issue from Lisas twins who came a week before her intended c-section , and Vee’s kid coming 3 months early, so she was happy that she had made it this far with no issues.

 

 

 

Chapter 30 - Suzy at 40 weeks aga… hang on first time EVER! ,   Lisa twins  11 weeks old – Suzy FINALLY goes into labour at the 40^th week – part 1 of 2

(ED: so why do I use 24 hour clock? Once a bus scheduler/timetable compiler, always as scheduler/timetable compiler!  However it is in mixed use in this Country BUT not a thing in the  States! For my Americans and  anyone else unsure,  13.00 to 23.59 are the 1pm to 11.59pm hours)

Lisas twins continued to grow and enjoying life better now , i.e .the  baby boy  Edward is now like his twin sister Stephanie , similarly behaving now .  More than likely with them getting gradually  maturing.

Suzy continued to try and do just about everything to encourage her womb, to no avail. 40^th week for triplets Monday her boss rang to check in (doing so twice a week as technically her patient too as well as boss!) Dr Reynolds advised “The latest triplets I have been involved with was 39 weeks. so congratulations, you have broken the practice record!” “Gee thanks…” “And give your hubby/Daddy Jeff my love too!”  

But Friday evening that week after her tea (Dinner in England) , she started feeling different… (Lisa staying over that weekend)… she started walking around that room before checking down to find (at  21.15) her mucus plug had gone ,thus start of her pregnancy…” 21.55 she was walked gradually down the stairs and 22.00 she was belted into her car seat (Mumtruck 2) with her Daddy/Baby father /hubby Jeff during this time she lost her waters, 22.25 she got to the hospital with Suzy, birth partner Lisa and new sitter Melissa (also hired as an extra pair of hands this time with 3 not 1 BUT Also to allow her to meet the her kids shed be looking after) The 3  were shown through to  labour room, bizarrely seeing first of all the same lady (Jodie S) who was in some months ago when adoptee Barry (Vees pregnancy coming early) around 8 months ago “Hello again Suzy… so you are in for your triplets” “Yes indeed – let me introduce me to those two not here last time!  Lisa  my best frien… ooh ow … d and Melissa the extra sitter for extra pair of hands with 3 babies! Suzy was 3.9 cm dilated herself BUT given that her waters had broken (on the car journey) – and the fact she was on 40^th week of the pregnancy – the biggest size she has ever been – she was not sent away for the sake of 1mm! She then left around 22.50.

 

CONTINUES IN CHAPTER 31

Chapter 31 - Suzy at 40 weeks aga… hang on first time EVER! ,  Lisa twins  11 weeks old – Suzy FINALLY goes into labour at the 40^th week – part 2 of 2

Suzy soon after asked Lisa come over sit next to her best friend “Well looking forward to getting this over, and your there kids finally coming?” “Well indeed I was worried I would never going into labour – very rare for multiples  to wait so long,  BUT Glad we are finally on route, however glad we are on the road now, irrespective of how long it will be tonight into morning into tomorrow evening into Sunday morning…” “I hope it wont be that long BUT  if I squeezed your hand to hell with Rose , accept my apologies in advance if I  break your hand my darling!  On Monday my boss Doc Reynolds said I had broken not only the Practice Record (previous 39 weeks here and 38 weeks at  her former work) …” “Well I love my new two babies extra special much, its like Jayden growing up from scratch too.” “Well I can keep that in mind.  And yes, in I have shit loads ready formulae on standby (ready mixed ) if problems with 5 mouths  to feed BUT Rose and now Barry starting solid food. Technically 6 with pumping for overnight or 7 for littlespace times too!” Suzy’s Daddy  / hubby / babies father Jeff asked “So hunney, since your labour with Rose , you always have a second coffee in the morning. Will it be three do you think?” “I’ll probably say just give me the whole pot Daddy LOL” “Well we could get a small one for Mummy and Daddy’s bedroom?” “Maybe… we will see”

Contractions started on the trip – 5 mins before  water broken – so 21.55 her first contractions. However whatever reason – probably triplets vs one – they were a bit more frequently and stronger than her previous labour !  However it did take longer and longer  more than eleven hours finishing 08.05.  The delivery stage was.. convoluted, to say the least! It took  5 and a half hours the first girl (Charlotte Susanna Clark) was born  at 12.37. Suzy was allowed to feed and pics to her inner circle while waiting another 5 hours her Baby Boy;  Elijah  Jeffrey Clark 17.55 (Similar pics and feeding were allowed too, with the sister already re-fed and changed twice (fed from mummies  breast, Daddy or Melissa taking turns on nappy changes!) But the third one took a bit longer; with forceps being used to get their little sister (Aurora Lisa Clark)  out her body close to 6 hours  later at 23.24, Saturday she  was born to the world!  Sio from plug going at  21.15 Friday to last birth 23.24 Saturday!  The babies were all ready prepared 23.45. “Daddy, Lisa, Melissa, thanks for being here! I am VERY sorry that took me 26 hours to get that far . However I think it was worth it for three gorgeous children” “No problem – we expected a long one!”  I will give you three babies one each for five minutes, swap around and then at midnight 30 could you return home, like  we did with Rose; and we will see you in the morning?” “Yes Lisa  Melissa and Jeff can come back tomorrow for most of tomorrow, and can everyone else be advised to text me in relation to  time and the like so when my mum etc are coming? I am sorry tomorrow is Sunday, but Lisa at least I didn’t start in Thursday like you did” “yeah, that would be grounds for BFF Divorce… “Really?” Nah just kidding Suzy! As you always make me laugh, could Yu at least let me to wind you up  ?” LOL yes very funny Lisa!” Just before Jeff he gave her  a hug “For following the pregnancy rules , all those extra scans and the like, I really appreciate and love you forever! And it will be an amazing story for the kids one day1” He took  a pic pf Mummy with all 3 babies, at her request.

00.40 she made sure all 3 kids were fed, dry nappies before her own nappy change before passing out – for once -  when her head hit the pillow!  03.55 was her first wake up with the twins;   Aurora who then set the other two one at a time!” Headed back to sleep quite quickly.  She continued sleeping until the  nurse check-ins time. SUNDAY DAYTIME IN NEXT CHAPTERS!

 

 

Chapter 32 – Suzy’s first full day with Baby Charlotte, Baby Elijah  and Baby Aurora in hospital -  part 1 of 2

07.40 Suzy was woken up by Elijah this time . Both siblings followed quick time too!  After  changing her own nappy too, the Doctors arrived soon after  - and bizarrely same Doctor as was in when Rose was newly born! “ Hello again doctors” “And hello again Susanna! Did you sleep well?” “ Tried but only 2-3 hours times 2 as they fact I went to bed 00.50 – the third came 23.45!” Yes – 26 hours delivery of triplets was probably about right!  They were big babies; first Charlotte 11lb 8oz  (Suzy’s lower lip jut as much hits the floor!),  second Elijah 12lb 1oz and third Aurora 11lb 10oz. “Well I remember one scans they were maybe a bit bigger but… that much… wow!” “ As well as a pain IV, upon the usual post birth checks you had  a minor infection  which was one of the cuts you had in one of your deliveries. So with that in mind yes  you have an IV antibiotic. Assuming nothing else goes awry with you or your babies, 5 days for the antibiotics ad you will have to take orally for a week. So you should be able to go home Friday,. And we already advised all this to your husband  AND boss/doc r so they know! The pain relief will continue throughout your stay here, with the amount of pain you endured. In addition if you need more pain relief, just let us know! “Thanks Doc I will… now I see breakfast is here so  I will go for it!”  Suzy demolished her breakfast, with a couple of additional coffees (as she knew she would need to be awake today” She went to attend to her babies, “Good Morning Baby Charlotte (up , holding and walking for a minute or so). Good Morning Baby Elijah (same) and Good Morning Baby Aurora (same) . While your 26 hour labour for you three is an interesting story for another day, it was worth it to get  you  3  BEAUTIFUL BABIES.. . yes it was ,…”

She then  texted her Daddy “Hi Daddy… look forward to seeing you soon. First morning falling for ,my 3 babies already! However, how would you feel about me restart The Pill for 1 year or so? I am very sore and while I am not saying I will ever have another baby , but I think physically I will need that length getting over the pain?” “ No problem baby Girl… I was assuming you would do something like that. Getting ready to leave with Lisa and Melissa in the next half hour or so….”

CONT . CHAPTER 33 (heids buzzing lol)

 

 

 

Chapter 33 – Suzy’s first full day with Baby Charlotte, Baby Elijah  and Baby Aurora in hospital -  part 2 of 2

Heid’s better today

Shortly after that a message through by text “ Good Morning Suzy and Congratulations! i am intending on coming in just after your lunch to discuss a few things and check on  the infection site ; if you don’t mind  ill pop down your knickers sorry nappy down, for a look under the hood. Your daddy forwarded me your Pill text /discussion but when I heard you had pushed four times the size of Rose through a very long delivery 26 hours, I had printed the referral for a hysterectomy… “ “LOL thanks boss – see you soon! And is looking under my hood not like a Busman’s Holiday for you? “ “Yes very good. Well you are my patient too!.. BUT also you are more  like a friend !

10 minutes later, her Daddy/baby’s father Jeff,  best friend Lisa, extra triplets sitter/pair of hands Melissa arrived. “Hello  Mummy, and Hello Baby Charlotte, Baby Elija and Baby Aurora!” “Hello again Jeff, Lisa and Mellissa! As i have a couple of I V/drips in could you bring all 3 over to my bed and I will nurse them”?” “No problem Baby Mummy… And while we are here, we will take it in  turns to help, especially with your pain, SO let me check your nappy now… yeah you’d be best with a dry one as there’s some mess! Budge up my baby girl. And if you need us to go for short time for you to rest, then just ask!”  While Jeff was changed Suzy,  a further alert message came in… “Do you want me to check for you baby?” “Yes would save me thanks Daddy! “ “Your mum and she wants to come around 15.00 with your father” “Yeah sounds good to me!”

“While I have only had 2 hours to get familiar with my 3 new kids, I am still genuinely happy – despite the pain! And with the infection meaning staying till Friday, that will indeed give me plenty time to get to know them and their personalities. And while I was worried I’d end up like Vee , in the end I had the opposite problem! Also like Lisa twins coming a few days early too?”   

Lunch came and was demolished again, which then meant Dr Reynolds showed up next. She starts by hugging her “What was that for Boss? Slash Doc”  “Well you deserve it after 26 hours of very hard labour I would say?” “And I also brought these flowers….” “Thanks Doc slash Boss! “Can I start now before we discuss everything else, looking down below , I promise  I will be as gentle as I can ?” “yes Boss slash Doc!”  “(Looked at vulva area) “Yes I see ; firstly your infection site looks like it will heal quickly, Secondly in the damage I can see why you need the high level of pain relief! I salute your tolerance. Three big babies all vaginally delivered, I can see and support the Pill for a year!”

“Boss – in retrospect – do you think I should have had a c-section.? “ “ Sadly there is no easy  answer to that. it’s a choice you took to deliver them vaginally – for which I take my hat off for you the rest of my life. You used the previous  birth plan as it worked well! You know the chances of issues can happen BUT- let me ask you – do you still think it was worth it? “Yes … within 30 minutes them  waking me just before breakfast, I went over to them. I do genuinely see how gorgeous they were!” “Then that’s you’re answer! However as you have not  yet ruled out, in 1 Year plus, another baby BUT if you want another one, I would say be maybe make your decision based on your last two labours how you want to deliver it. A c-section is actually safer than inducing your babies, you know? As you twice had longer pregnancy … 38.5 weeks and 40.5 weeks .Use that to make a decision, for which you would be free to make a decision what will work for all concerned!”   “Thankies boss! Said Suzy “ But if you want to become a  Nun after the last 41 weeks I could write you a reference” “No, a woman has needs Doc/ Boss! “ No problem Suzy. Speaking of which , yes I will write the prescription for your contraception tomorrow and I will pass to your mum at work tomorrow.  She can then pop up in to the pharmacist so its ready for when you are ready to restart ! Now I have to love you and leave you I am afraid *kisses Suzy*  “ Boss can I just say thanks for all your help and support during my most recent  pregnancy!” “No problem !

Soon afterwards, Suzy’s mother and father arrived (Sen Nurse Orla and eng. Dip Andy!) arrived. “Hello …. So glad for you that its all over and done with” (She puts flowers next to the others before giving you a massive hug “Aww thanks mum for the flowers and  complements, you want to hug one at a time and then pass to Dad “Yes … aww Suzy they are gorgeous…” Five minutes pass to Dad/Father?” (Dad/father during the first hug from her Mummy puts the flowers in the water with others) “How’s Mum feeling now, with the 26 hours length and 3 very heavy babies!” “Well, very sore and I picked up a minor infection; hence I am still on iv / drip antibiotics as well as being on a massive lot of pain relief Mum! Dr Reynolds not long left by half an hour; she took a look under the hood. Me and Daddy discussed with Dr R too ,that I restart The Pill for 1 year or so? I am very sore and while I am not saying I will never have another baby of my own making , but I think physically I will need that length getting over the pain? She is going to give you a prescription tomorrow; could you take it to the pharmacy so it is ready for when we get home? “ YES not a problem! More than Happy… I still cant believe the size you were towards the end baby Suzy” “awwh Mumm makes me blush again” “NO it was a good thing, as you were carrying the most special cargo since I was pregnant finally with you, my daughter and baby girl? Most people would be AT LEAST in pull ups with bladder control issues with a load that size but maybe there’s something to be said for you being in nappies for 36 years?” “Thanks again Mum””

After her Mum and father left, and after Dinner , she has the other 3 for an extra hour  after dinner . She explained if they could leave 19.30 and then she can rest, which they had no problem!

She dozed off in a couple of minutes (all babies not long fed by her and changed by the extra help mins ago sleeping around until woken by  one or more of her kids 22.50, 01.05, 04.00, 07.30 ish when she woke for her breakfast  again.

 

 

 

Chapter 34 – Suzy’s first week in Hospital with Baby Charlotte,  Baby Elijah,  and Baby Aurora – midweek in  brief, and up to getting home Friday too

The Kids

During the week , Suzy observed the following (in birth order)

Charlotte has Amazing chubby cheeks, purple eyes, quietest of the three.  Loves being picked up and played with.  Similar to Suzy’s mother (in her face)

Elijah; blue eyes,  small mark on right cheek but otherwise the Spitting Image of his father!  Loves being fed too!

Aurora; the diva of the three ! Spitting image of Suzy (face),  blue-black eyes , loves being cuddled against her mothers chest! 

 

Visitors and Suzy going home

In the midweek a few extra visitors than before. The programmers and PA’s came too (after work) , Jeffs mother (Granny Clark) alongside the Surgery Big Boss, Stephanie Schnell)  Of course Lisas mummy and Lisa brought the all 7 babies (Suzy’s Rose and Barry, Lisas earlier 3 Jayden, Anna and Lucy plus her 12 week old twins , Edward and Stephanie) to see their mummy/godmummy – on more than one occasion!

Other visitors included Vee (who Suzy adopted her son Barry) and  Caroline and Byon (the parent’s who Lisa adopted their twins) were looking forward to seeing Suzy’s  latest delivery .In Caroline and Byron’s case, they brought up their 3  month old son called Brian (A small token to Lisas father for all his  help!) A few other surprises included her former BFF before heading to London – and Assistant  bank manager – Alma Cochrane! “Are my eyes seeing things…” NO Suzy.. congratulations ! I was able to get two days off this week to come up and surprise you.” “So where’s you’re kids”! “ Bob has them 48 hours  Flew from Heathrow to Dundee; Piccadilly Line from Southgate to Heathrow Central; before flight to Dundee, and a hire car. I am staying in tonight only hotel and spending the rest of the time or other friends and the like???

In addition her boss obtained permission for her to pass  her details onto some of her favourite patients etc. These include same-sex\lesbian couple (See Ch 26 this story Savannah and Brooke (With their  recent twins 1 month old Barry and Sarah) Barry and Lisa (latter 6 months pregnant) amongst many others . She did appreciate change in friends  visiting. The doc/boss visited two more times in evenings after work, seeing that the infection site was getting better every day!

Thursday night, Suzy feed all 3 of her children in order to feed and changing them between 21.00- and 21.25, then changing her own nappy before drifting off to sleep .She was woken 02.05, 05.55 and again 07.45 when she woke up for Friday morning breakfasts. Of course she was getting home Friday after lunch. As this was a working day she was begin collected by Jeff, Lisa, and Melissa (triplets sitter) as her Mum was working the full day that day, BUT she would see her Daughter when she gets home shortly afterwards.

Same doctor again came through . At this point Suzy’s pain had reduced 50pc BUT she was being given some painkillers (Morphine, Codeine/paracetamol) in addition to -continuing her oral antibiotics, .  Her drip / I V antibiotics were done so that I V was removed. However the pain relief continued till  she was collected  , doc saying she wasn’t a monster!

Shortly after Breakfast, her Daddy/baby’s father Jeff, best friend Lisa, and triplets new Sitter Melissa arrived. After discussing things, Suzy asked Lisa to  go to the pharmacy  to collect my to take home medication ,which went quickly. During Suzy’s lunch, they were able to pack Suzy’s stuff in bags and her triplets (an extra pair of large suitcase for the triplets stuff! Alone too!) 13.55 she left the hospital ward after thanking everyone again.   Similar to previous with Rose, her Daddy had a wheelchair etc BUT Three ice packs (1 hospital taped front, 1 bottom and 1 at back). It took 10 minutes to the car park and another 10 mins or so to get Suzy sat down comfortably! They got home 14.45 and she had help with Suzy talking Charlotte, Lisa Elijah, Jeff Aurora, and Melissa helping Suzy upstairs before heading back for the bags with Lisa. Once all seven (three babies and four  bigs) and all  in  too, Suzy said “Welcome home Princess Charlotte,  Prince Elijah, and Princess Aurora ! Last times cheering and whoop whoop was augmented by Lisa, Jeff and Melissa gave a 5 minute standing ovation “For doing                  so bloody well in labour”

As with previous Suzy had a choice of any food or choice of takeaway, so a  Indian meal from Curry House  takeaway with the six Diners favourites PLUS some extra odds and sods.  They don’t do ice cream BUT after getting Suzy home they will get some of her favourite ice creams from our local corner shop by Lisa! The main Food delivery was ordered for delivery at 17.30 (but they can be early!) 

Suzy’s mother arrived  17.05 (After leaving work a shade early at 16.45) with her father arriving 17.00 too. Once again all had their Tea (curry and ice cream) as was everyone before they settled in Mum and Dads room with 3 kids before heading for he bed 21.30. The triplets sitter was away but Rose and Barys sitter was working overnight (feeding Rose/Barry formulae bottles and changing them so Suzy/jeff concentrate on their three new arrivals!

“Great to Have You Home Suzy my Darling” said Jeff as he put out the bedside lamp.

 

 

 

 

 

Chapter 35 – Suzy’s first weekend at home with her new kids;  and Jeff,  and some guests and friends (part 1: Saturday)

Overnight of course, Daddy (Jeff) was able to see first hand Suzy handle the three Babies! Suzy had  told her they have an average of 2 to 3 wake-ups per night  As they had been doing night about for the 2 babies (Rose and Barry) overnight previously, BUT with  3 new ones to look after,  tonight (and next week) Sara (Vee/Barrys sitter) overnight, handled for this week by their sitter. . This was the case from this  night for one week and one day to following Sunday (Sara) to give Suzy/Jeff a chance on the concentrate the new three (Charlotte, Elizah and Aurora) they have for the first week after Suzy’s return home and labour. The idea was restarting night about the next 8 nights with Daddy but looking after the triplets only . Suzy tonight, and  Jeff the following one (Suzy was pumping bottles the following day for her  Daddy to look after them the following night)!!!!  This time it was three times (around 01.20, around 04.30 and then around 07.30). “Good Morning Baby Mummy of my Triplets…! So very similar to Rose/Barry – feed/change them” “Good morning Baby  Daddy of my triplets…   yes that’s it in brief! “Well your Daddy loves having you back.. I missed you for the last week or so! *hugs Suzy* “Awwh yes thank you  for that,  and the hug Daddy” “Daddy changes your own nappy as you just changed the kids”…After doing that” I will bring you breakfast, like we did with Rose, shall I grab you extra coffees “ “Two  should do today, and we will see how that goes today and can  see how it goes versus 3 tomorrow???” “ No problems Dady. Could you bring me 2l jug diluting juice pumping baba so I’ve got plenty to drink?” “yes of course my hunneybunch” 

After her Daddy returned with her breakfast and his and her juice, he reminded her that Lisa / Jeff were visiting later that day. The day sitter (triplets sitter Melissa) swapped with Rose/Barry sister who was working night looking after Rose/Barry (see above) !!!!!! Lisa and Steve let themselves in, coming upstairs. “Good Morning Mummy Suzy and Daddy Jeff, how are the new’uns?” “Not too bad  last night; having a play time with them shortly .Daddy can you please line babies up against the bed ???” Daddy does so, taking one at a time, “Good Morning Baby Charlotte (puts down with a kiss), Good Morning Baby Elijah (same), Good Morning  Baby Aurora (same)!”  Mummy stands up and checks nappies finding Elijah only needs changed Daddy! “ Lisa offered to change him for her , being helping her this week similarly to Suzy helped after her twins were  born too. “Thanks Lisa. I will try pumping  shortly; just making you aware  now, so I can get a few for overnight s.. doing 2 one each side for next hour. Tomorrow we  can try them with formulae and everything…” Pausing half way though, offering her triplets more (only 1 interested) before continuing to part 2 (allowing 4 each times 3 plus a couple spare = 15 plus a few spares) . Halfway through that; , Suzy’s Mum (Orla) was there to explain today’s  lunch is Mummies special Burritos and  Tortilla Chips and Dips! How’s  my three new grandbabies?” “Yes not too bad. Daddy is playing with them while I pump for tonight?” “Thanks yes Lunch sounds great thanks  Mum. “Hows’d Mum doing  today now home again?” “Good, still sore  - more than with Rose - and infection getting  better every hour. Would you like to see and hug your  3 new grandkids again? Well give each a hug” “Yes I would love to,  definitely (Picks one up  at a time, kissing and saying “Hello from your Grandma Polly)” After finishing up she says “Suzy its amazing to have the large family I have dreamed of for years! As you know I was very lucky to have you… Anyway I love you Baby Suzy and Daddy Jeff, and all five of your babies, you know?”  “I know that Mum)(Cuddles her mother saying thanks!) As you know if you need a  break, just get your Daddy to let me know! Now putting lunch on my lovely family!”  

 

After pumping finished, her Daddy soon went down for lunch! With two wet  and one starting get fussy  - if only seconds before they started  crying  - Suzy fed and changed all three babies . Her Daddy soon after brought 2 trays up – his wife and his own – as she finished with the third” “You just fed and changed our three new arrivals did you Suzy?” “Yes one was fretty and 2 wet so fed and changed all  in one!” You took your pain meds Suzy?” “Yes all up to date with that Daddy, DON’T YOU WORRY ABOUT THAT!” After Suzy’s Daddy/babies father Jeff and Suzy were all done, he took  the lunch trays back downstairs before coming over, standing  next to the babies! Suzy walked over – and moved between the three .

“Born at 12.37 was Charlotte has Amazing chubby cheeks, purple eyes, quietest of the three.  Loves being picked up and played with.  Similar to Suzy’s mother (in her face). 11lb 8oz

Born at 17.55 was Elizjah   blue eyes,  small mark on right cheek but otherwise the Spitting Image of his father!  Loves being fed too! 12lb 1oz , makes him biggest of Lisa and Suzy’s families kids (adopted and our own!)

Born finally at 23.24 was Aurora; Spitting image of me (in the face),  blue-black eyes , loves being cuddled against her mothers chest!  11lb 10oz. She is the Diva of all three, but She does just like me – EXCEPT the  Diva part!   

 

“Well yes you can be a bit of a Diva sometimes my darling, but I have given you a free pass since we started trying of our First (Rose) . And  I still cant believe it added up to four times the weight of Rose in  three babies   through your big baby fluff – it was Doc  Renolds who reminded me! I guess it’s a bit of  disaster zone down there? “” Have a look BUT no I will recover for sure!” ((looks) “Yeah I see what you mean. Well I was going to give you another massive hug for all good work during pregnancy and the kids we have today?” “Awwh thanks Daddy (hugs)  “HOWEVER  since we came home no major arguments – us or the kids ,  disaster’s or problems” “And that’s because you are such an AMAZING MOTHER! “ Awwh daddy (tongues for 5 minutes) “Well you said it”  “As your Daddy is feeling you deserve an extra special treat Daddy is gong for some of your favourite ice creams!

After bringing back TWO Pralines and Cream and  his one Strawberry ice cream pints for them. “Two Daddy?” “Well you deserve a double treat in bringing all three of our new kids into the world!” “Thanks , that is amazing. Could I also trouble you for change on me?” “Yes of course my Baby Mummy (Changes Suzy) . “Yes you Mum was saying if its okay, Dinner is last nights Curry House all warmed up again?” “Yes well they always send us far too much! And at decent prices too!”

“But daddy, before you went for ice cream; you were saying I was an amazing Mother? “Yes well very true! That’s because I think you are the best Mother in the world!” REALLY Dady… well Mummy likes to hear that!” And if you want to be even bigger wider family; you will remember the building work starts 6 weeks on Monday i.e. 8 weeks after your due date! We didn’t want any extra noises to wake up newborns, if you remember?” “Yes daddy I do! And the work continues for around 2 weeks, depending on weather “And your Daddy knows he has told you that your Child Bearing Hips are a turn on!”  If our next one is fostered, adopted, or your own, then I will say that you will do an amazing job  - if you want more – like you did so well for five kids over 2 and a half years” Dinner was thoroughly reheated Curry House (temperature checked as Suzy has recently came home from Hospital!) Suzy found it to be even better than yesterdays!

After bed her Daddy was woken similarly three times like last night . All kids were fine with from a bottle, BUT first time Aurora wasn’t having it first time, so Mummy Suzy fed from  her breast BUT second time ,she was more than happy with a pumped Baba from her Father!

 

SUNDAY IN CHAPTER 36

 

 

 

Chapter 36 – Suzy’s first weekend at home with her new kids;  and Jeff,  and some guests and friends (part 2: Sunday)

Around 07.45 Suzy woke up herself, and could see that Suzy baby father Jeff was getting the triplets changed. Standing up and over at change table “Good morning Daddy of my triplets” “Good morning Mother of my triplets!” “How did Daddy manage, did you get all 3 with a baba in the end , as I  think I needed to feed 1” “Yes you had to breast feed Arora once, but she took the bottle second time.” “Oh wow, well done Daddy “Smooches!”  Now today similar to yesterday if you could bring my breakfast; 3 coffees to try this time! After we finish breakfast Rose and Barry are getting a wee while each with us, the sitter swapping to the Triplets.  After that my line manager said would give me a ring mid afternoon while I understand just after teatime Suzy’s doc/boss is coming to see us here at home!”  

After breakfast was over and done with, Suzy and Jeff swapped over going to see Rose and Barry ,in the playroom initially for Suzy (Then Lisa and Suzy, and now very useful for 5 real kids!) as was done by sitter. So how have things been when more concentrating on the most recent delivery  of triplets? Well, by way of recap:  Suzy’s Rose Vera Clark is 1yr 10mo. She has spoken many words (after her first word Mumma a week before her birthday) and linking many words into sentences too! She has some television shows she likes too!. She seems to be an intelligent wee girl  like  her Mother (ED: I was very similar years ago – nursery school told my mum nothing we can teach oldname as he reading at primary school level! And she trotted this out very often!! I transitioned in 2004 FYI!) Rose is also eating more and more bigger food, with her mother hoping to catch up with her progress during the next 6 months of for a massive Mummy catch up!

Suzy’s Adopted sun Barry Andrew Clark born Chambers but adopted then surname changed by statutory declaration.  (close to his first birthday – 2 weeks on Tuesday) he was of course made a very early start at the 30^th week of Vees pregnancy, but he shows no signs of that happened, as it certainly did not hamper the wee boy. He was indeed a little similar to Roses first year, but she outshines him a little. However plenty time to indeed Catch  Up! He has had some starter tastes of baby food and  is similar progress – in that level – to Rose! Family are of course in the midst of setting up his First Birthday Party – like Rose -  in a couple of weeks.

After Mummy 1 hour each with Rose then Barry, it was time for lunch (Sunday Roast) and then midafternoon  Jeff  got his planned phone call (Michael Stroud his line manager , nickname Stroudo) , with the phone call on loudspeaker. He explained the situation  with Suzy finally going off at 40.5 weeks , and three kids, and also getting home Friday past with a bug etc meaning not home earlier. His boss then offered him “Well could you use a couple of weeks extra Paternity Leave on the end ? He said to his boss “Yes, I am sure Suzy would be happy that , hold on now let will ask, she’s  sat next to me… (Suzy very excited!) Yes if you could that could be indeed amazingly good of you  Cheers Stroudo ,talk to you soon!

After that dinner (Smoked Sausages and Chips) Suzy’ s Doc slash boss popped her head round the door for 15 minutes briefly, checking om the infection site “yes that’s healing up very well my dear”. And she was happy to see Suzy plus Charlotte, Elijah and Aurora all back home, safe and sound! Was also glad to hear Jeff got an extra fortnight paternity leave after Suzy’s very elongated pregnancy!”

Bedtime similar to Friday evening with Suzy looking after feeds and changes that night.
Now, tomorrow; Monday…!

 

 

 

 

Chapter 37 – Midweek at home – Day 10 to 14 of Suzy’s new triplets and other people’s news – Part 1 of 2

Monday – similar to first Monday when Suzy returned after Rose, Barry too, both Suzy’s parents returned to work.  After being woken by her baby Daddy, she did indeed  enjoy a smooch. During breakfast, Suzy asked her Daddy Jeff “Thinking for 18 months or so ahead. If at that time if I have another multiple pregnancy Daddy, do you think I would be a chicken if I opted for a (caesarean) section? Of course single would be fine ?” “Awwh Suzy, I would NEVER use that word to describe a woman who;

1.   Accepted my collar and wedding ring

2.   Completed foster care training and got 8 children to look after for a wee while

3.   Went through so much to get pregnant with Rose then same again Triplets

4.   Gone through 2 labours in under 2 years PLUS of your one adopted; is still now talking about a SIXTH KID! “

“Awwh thanks Daddy. Lisa is doing her paperwork for a foster to adopt group (Universally Wide Parenting) so  i will see how that goes, and getting ready to go back to her work, wither twins now 12 week. However after I  did similar with my Rose, week 13 1 day, week 14 2 days., week 1 a full 3 day a week at her work. “ “And apparently the name comes from the fact that it takes a Universe – rather than a Village – generally with foster-to-adoption raising kids!

Suzy then started again “Daddy I know we have the papers already (for the aforementioned group) already. While mother isn’t here to mention, the 18 month old temp foster kid, I do have equally fond memories of 6 year old kid called Sarah . I told her I was not trying to replace he own late mummy and she may  well have heard similar foster parents. She then told me “No , you are  the first to sit down and have this discussion!” “Yes some Foster Parents are only for money BUT I remember that’s  when the time i decided; I am ready for kids! Because if I can make that difference for a child here 3-4 weeks, I would look even more oof a difference, and love.  to some of my own! “ “Yes I remember her too , but that must have been  one of days I was in work Thursday/Friday? “Yes it was . Ultimately she has been adopted by her grandparents, and is just now turned 8 – I am keeping in touch. Sad her Mum passed away (Following her Cervical cancer returned time 3) and her father had split 3 years before the cancer diagnosis. She was a patient of the surgery too and I  have kept in touch with her grandparents and S\W (Social Worker.)” “That’s kind of you”!   “Yes while each kid is unique, ON PAPER what does Daddy about getting older kids permanent, as opposed to the  adoption after birth through the Will” “If that’s what we decided, then no problem . As we already discussed adding extra space up top. Of course, some might not work permanently , we might well be able to potentially expand our family” “Yes, I  know… thanks Daddy (smooches for 30 seconds… before being interrupted by a crying baby!  (Without looking but knowing by the cry!) “Sounds like Elijah is hungry… well, proof  positive if it ever needed it; a Mothers work is never done!” Soon after that Lisa arrives does  couple of hours. As it was Daddys turn overnight she was actually pump while Lisa was there too many times before, and vice versa too! She did intend trying them on formulae the following day (during the day) too.

“So how are you feeling about returning to work , Lisa???” Suzy asked her. “Well mixed, of course they will be there for me to be when I get home ,like with Jayden” “That is true , and good news”

 

Tuesday, only Jeff Registered all three births in town (with Suzy still very sore!) Returning around lunchtime, all 3 kids were successfully fed some baby formulae! That evening after her work,  Suzy’s boss Doc Reynolds  (for pregnancies etc BUT they have more of a friends relationship than many patient / doctor ones) was popping up for a longer visit (one hour!) She discussed everything all 3 kids and Mummy had been up to! She was good to hear everything going well, and all the milestones happening since be getting home . “Night night Mummy Suzy, still can’t believe you vaginally gave birth to those 3 big kids!” “Awwh thanks!” “Well you don’t want to know how big they are now!”

WED/THUR/FRI IN NEXT PART

 

 

 

 

 

Chapter 38 – Midweek at home – Day 10 to 14 of Suzy’s new triplets and other people’s news – Part 2 of 2

Wednesday was similar but after breakfast, Suzy ordered some gifts, party supplies, with her adopted son Barry’s birthday the following Tuesday of course. They were ordered for next day delivery, so that any delays would have enough time!  In addition a  giant birthday cake from Goodies (ED: Goodfellow and Stevenson, Broughty Ferry east Dundee based Bakery who make some of the most popular party cakes in and around Dundee)  was ordered with her Daddy Jeff on Tuesday morning collection, before an early evening party  at Suzy’s home (for after work , similar to Roses first birthday).   Her own bio parents had both been told/reminded , his mother Vee was “intending on being there” while Barrys father Brian had been left a voicemail message; 420-odd miles away though he was less likely now living in Kingston-upon-Thames (now in Greater London since 1970 but home of the County HQ of Surrey County Council) (ED: lovely wee traditional English Market town and place for a day trip if  you are ever near London or Heathrow Airport! And 10 mins bus or  drive from Hampton Court Palace if you fancy a day of two halves!)   Suzy did later  that evening get a text message saying Maybe Suzy! Brian xxx” to she was unsure BUT at least he had the details and time now. Suzy had been keeping a very close eye on Vee this week and last (by phone) just in case she was looking back in  upset or anger in the run up to the kids first Birthday  , after what happened with the boyfriend before Suzy and Jeff adopting her kid, then coming at 30 weeks! – she said she was appreciating her keeping an eye on her; especially after Suzy having new triplets to look after herself!”

Thursday was of course the Pro  Mummy Day session traditionally. While both Mummy/Mistress Jenni and her Slave Carlie were able to visit Suzy and her new triplets in hospital they said they did look forward to seeing the kids again, and Suzy; once again when Suzy returned home on another Thursday  in the near future! And of course , they were there; and found Suzy’s 3 newest “Even cuter than they were last time” While both were on no punishment spankings until BOTH Fully recover , they did have some big baby games upstairs for 1hr 45 minutes with Big Babies Suzy and Lisa, before similar fun with Suzy’s triplets for the last 15 minutes before departing.  That day of course Lisa and Steve arrived (and their kids too) were staying till Sunday night.

 

Friday was traditional time for time with their kids; half an hour each after breakfast, 10.30 they started half an hour each with five of Suzy’s babies (in birth order: so Rose, Barry, Charlotte, Elijah, and Aurora) with Lisa doing the same. During  this time Suzy’s daddy Jeff was making lunch – not only for four bigs but their 2 who are trying baby food (Liquidised) and Lisas three who ware  too, with Jayden enjoying his food in chunks these days ! The plan was after lunch, a Disney movie or two. Suzy had the choice: to watch in her own nursery or downstairs on the bigger screen downstairs . Suzy decided to go downstairs, for the first time since he returned with the triplets , the previous Friday! Suzy was walked down slowly by Liisa while Jeff soon after brought his and Lisas five kids a couple at a time, before  Lisa went back for Suzy’s five, taking  a couple at a time too.  With it being Friday, it was of course Fish and Chips (with those who didn’t like fish  one of Lisas adopted twin Lucy, having liquidised Sausage and Chips instead.)  Pre-made ready babas in the warmer as the triplets ,while Lisa ha intended to breastfeed her own twins, for lunch!

With half of their kids under 3 month-old, the newest ones might not pay any attention, BUT Suzy and Lisas kids who did generally enjoyed time with each other! `The first Disney movie was The Little Mermaid , the second being Winnie The Pooh. Perhaps one of the few added benefits of both Mummy Suzy and Mummy Lisa also big babies themselves, they both already had Disney+… both with two weeks of its UK launch (Suzy always loved Disney! (ED: like my sister in real life)

Mid-afternoon Suzy’s mother texted her saying she was going to collect a selections of Pizza’s – as she had suggested she would do one day that week after her work. Suzy was given the choice of the three big Pizza Chain in the City  or Clarkie’s Pizza (Clarks 24 Hour peh (pie) supplier), with Hilltown based Luigi’s sadly now two days a week and was better years ago! Suzy said to try for a change to go for Papa John’s!  Her Mum considered she would have a click-and-collect order for all 4 bigs Suzy’s side, 2 Lisas side, and  10 kids too to include ice cream” So a selection of pizzas, drinks and pudding were all ready for her collection. Daddy Jeff said he would liquidise pizza slices for the 5 who were eating that way or mushing it up, as well as well the same for Cinnamon Sticks, and this was done immediately after Suzy’s mother arrived in the home. Her Daddy was gong up as required for the babies bottles, while Suzy Mum said to her “Good that you were able to get downstairs today Baby Suzy as I know you were hoping to” “thanks Mum…” (sitting next to rose) “Say thank you Grandma” “” Thanks Grandma” as her Mother had asked her to! A third film was put on ,with Suzy’s mum and Father watching too Snow White and The Seven Dwarves!

After everyone went upstairs – in run up to kids and other bedtimes – meant everyone went to bed eventually!

 

 

 

Chapter 39 – weekend in brief before Barrys birthday week

Saturday Suzy was a bit sore, but fine otherwise!

However, despite a full week of newt triplets first,  however highlight/ progress milestone of the MONTH - let alone week - saw Barry (Suzy & Jeffs adopted son) uttering his first word, "baba" on Saturday lunchtime (having came close a few times!) Suzy was very happy to hear, hugged her son and got him a bottle in person!

After the Sunday night into Monday the night and day 24/7 help for Rose and Barry (to allow Suzy/Jeff to concentrate on Charlotte, Elijah and Aurora. However it continues a bit differently during the day;

1.   For the first two weeks, in during the day (one of two taking day about) all day with overnight night abut feeds changes; using four  baby monitors on the person on duty side of the bed

2.   From the third Monday until the end of Jeffs Paterntiy Leave ; every other Day (Sitters) mon/wed/fri plus Saturday and Sunday. /No changes at nights .

3 .  From thereafter one sitter would help Suzy Monday to Friday all day with things such as food (for bigs) , cleaning,  laundry etc, with Suzy doing feeding/changes.  Weekend would be part Day Saturday so Suzy can get out BUT if out all weekend , or different times, they would cover that too. No changes at nights .

4. If or When Suzy did ever return to work; both Children would be sat by the sitter in question full time  Monday to Friday, no change to weekend or night plans.

 

Other pregnancies/fostering/adoption would then be taken on a case-by-case basis , alongside when Rose starts Nursery School , etc etc.

 

Next week,  was of course, Barrys birthday !

 

 

Chapter 40  – Barry’s Birthdays and other midweek News  17^th to 21^st days of the Triplets)

Tuesday was  similar to Rose’s first birthday, with her family decorating Barry’s room, before waking him up first thing in the morning “Happy Birthday Baby Barry”  ! The Party went down very well; only thing different was not only Vee (his  mother) but her father Brian , as well as many other members Vee’s and other families too made 90 people, with more people spilling out round the back extension of the Patio area too… and it was amazing weather Day for it! Jeff was able to have a BBQ too! 

 

Other News

Monday, Suzy’s boss (Dr Reynolds) was around again (at Suzy’s request this time, with her being trained by Dr R she did of course what is , or is not, all okay after labour). A further look under the hood was after Suzy was passing blood clots for  more than a fortnight  (by which time they should normally have stopped entirely. It looks like , in the Doc/Boss opinion, paper/minor stitches from the District Nurse on an ASAP basis. This was arranged for Wednesday (at home not Surgery!), and the Nurse was able to visit Suzy. After this was done the bleed (from tears in her very long labour!!)  stopped within 48-72 hours!  On another good news from Suzy’s down below , note the  her  infected scar during one gf her deliveries during her labour had gone now entirely.

Lisa started going back to work in a gradual fashion, similar to when Suzy had her first (Rose). Her Home visit from the Foster-to-Adopt group (Universally Wide Parenting) was her following Friday at Lisa’s home!

 

 

Chapter 41  – between triplets at 22 days and 42 days/6 weeks

Suzy was really enjoying every day in and around the house (aside from occasional days here and there with appointments and the like) with every day being a new adventure with her recent triplets, plus more fun with her first two as well! Daddies Paternity Leave, initially 6 weeks from her due date, ended up being 8.  After the end of the 6^th week her Daddy had intended returning to work Day About (Mon/Wed/Fri) for 2 weeks before 5 days ! Those two weeks (7^th and 8^th) also the Expansion up top (above extra floor) AND that particular month; the second of those part time weeks, was Rose’s SECOND birthday – hardly seems like days since she was born of course -  on that Tuesday! Suzy had popped into her former work once a week (generally Tuesdays) for a catch up with her boss and the Thur/Fri person covering midweek, not anywhere near deciding  after 6 months (another 6 months off or full time Mum!).

 

Rose - After seeing her Daddy, Grandma and everyone else using the Big Girl Potty, she chatted with her Mummy Suzy. A chat with her Mummy explained her Mummy had her own potty problems, and she was proud of her for asking BUT if it goes wrong,  or you wet yourself, we will still LOVE you no matter what! (hugs).  Her Daddy/Roses father (still on Paternity Leave post Triplets) was informed, come over to give Rose another cuddle, and after a few days after the chat Rose was placed in Pull-ups through the day (taking one step at a time!) which she took  to like a natural,  using a small potty or two around her Bedroom (and the playroom too), as well as a Child size Toilet Seat adaptor on the Adult size toilet on same floor near her room, as well as  one on the downstairs toilet too.  Similar to Jayden she was able to eating bigger and bigger pieces  - a little further advanced than Jayden was at the same age. However she is often chatting away happily.  One weekend she was watching her  telly shows with her Grandma, to which Grandma gave one of the characters in Bluey (her favourite telly show) Grandma called cousin Muffin actually her sister Bingo!  “Silly Granny Polly!” “I’m sorry Rose, but your  own Mummy generally loved Chuggington too, so getting used to Bluey!…”

Barry  - was developing too, saying more and more words – and it was him saying “Dadda”  - in earshot of his Daddy! – that he was most proud of! He s picked up, arms out and swung twice round the room by his (adopted) father/Daddy Jeff was most proud of! He then said to Suzy “do you remember me doing that with you Mummy/Baby Suzy” “It was a few months before I was expecting… we could do it again but I am three times the size of Barry and it’s a bit of  a tight squeeze here in! He probably had no idea yet they weren’t his real daddy/mummy, BUT because he was loving growing up with them similar to his slightly older sister Rose! He loved Rose and looked up to her; just like any sibling pair would! However, irrespective of blood, Mummy Suzy / Daddy Jeff loved him equally like their own, the biggest thing needed for any child of course; big baby or real little little’s  - is LOVE, LOVE , LOVE!

Triplets -  they were growing day by day ,  bigger and bigger ; physically and mentally too!   They still have three different personalities each other (Charlotte happy go lucky loves being picked up, Elizah loves being fed and averagely happy, Aurora is still a diva  who loves being cuddled by her mummy and others!) unlike Lisas twins who were both similar to each other these days!

 

Lisa was of course enjoying returning to work again. Her home visit with Universally Wide Parenting was successful, and on the waiting list for potential suitable kids that might be 3 to 4 months before she got the word…

 

Chapter 42  – 7^th and 8^th week of Triplets – Building work, Baby Rose’s SECOND Birthday  - and much more besides

As was discussed in the previous Chapter, Suzy’s Daddy returned to his work in a partial manner  on Monday of the 7^th week post Triplets (three days a week)  8 days before Rose’s second birthday, and the building work (on the top floor) too. The weekend Suzy told both Rose and Barry about Building Works starting 08.00 to 16.00 Monday to Friday (subject to outside weather being good) for 2 weeks, so we can build extra bedrooms for possible future Brothers and Sisters, and extra other extra rooms too! They were told not to be scared ,with the  work happening, and no ones trying to break in either! Both seemed to understand! Whie the Triplets were told too, they were partially asleep and their Mummy Suzy then said “aah ye wir telt” (You Were Told in Dundonian!) Monday morning, the work did start, checking in with Mummy Suzy and Daddy Jeff before the latter started working from home. By way of reminder,  Daddy Jeff worked from home the opposite of Suzy’s previous part time working days Monday, Tuesday and Wednesday, with office days Thursday and Friday.

Monday was of course scaffolding above and starting of making work ready for Tuesday start build. The rest of the week was intended as the first initial concrete work , with following finish off concrete Mon and then rest of week hopefully the room interior.  The folding week was painting interiors and getting the interiors ready – but only 2 weeks building work were forecast, weather permitting .  As it transpired the first week happened with no glitches or bad weather. Second week with a small delay to the first day (rain meant a 2 hr late start and finish)  but the rest of the week was glitch free!

On that second week Tuesday was of course Rose’s 2^nd birthday. Similar to Barry’s first Suzy ordered gifts, party supplies and a Goodies party cake! She reminded her little Brother the day before, who was able to sign a card (of sorts; not writing but Mummy helped him draw an X) for his sisters birthday the next day. He was told that a Birthday Party like we had for you too, tomorrow after everyone’s work, at a similar time!” “Good!” . After Rose; s bedtime Monday her Mummy, Daddy and a siter helped decorating, She was again woke up with “Happy Second Birthday Baby Rose!” with her Mother reminding her of the day she came into the world! After some extra high jinks during the day, 75 people and babies enjoyed her party!  Suzy’s work doc slash boss (at her first one too!)  also enjoyed seeing Suzy’s five kids again!

Rose’s potty training continues well during the day. If all was well from the following Monday (9^th week after triplets birth) her mummy had planned on pull-ups at night too with her plans included her telling her to approach Mummy/Daddy if she needed new pull ups at night; we take turn about at nights for feed and changes, so we will tell her which of the two to approach each night if she needs a dry pull up.

 

 

Chapter 43 – jumping forward  to the 5^th  Month (since triplets born) -   - and everyone else’s news milestones and progress (1 of 2)

As was discussed  in many previous chapters, Suzy was of course making a decision  in the run  up to 6 months to be a full time Mum, returns to work or another six months off. Her Daddy and herself (with her boss on a ‘Teams Call) that Suzy would return to work after 9^th  month post labour, however Suzy was reminding her Rose  was starting Nursery School  around 4  months after that time, she wanted her first four week off to drop her off/pick up off their first daughter , and boss said that wouldn’t be an issue as I can give you a few weeks as she requested saying  some name  like Additional Family Leave! Suzy explained her temporary use of her previous long term contraceptive pill would continue until further notice However as her BFF Lisa already had a first  match through Universally Wide Parenting (ED: see bottom half this post) two week’s previously , it was decided they would submit paperwork off fir the group too. A phone  call after arranged  their two weeks after that for their Home   Visit on a Tuesday aM, with her hubby/ babies father Jeff being granted a half day that day too) … They did discuss the idea with Rose and Barry and  if some might be a little older than they were, and they had no objections, indeed looking forward to a potential brother or sister into their home…

. … their oldest  daughter Rose (now 2 years 5 months) potty training had gone so well 1 or 2 accidents each WEEK (day / night)  The middle one  Barry (1 year 6months was catching to his sister, starting to string words together few words 1 or 2 times a day, but no interest yet on potty training. And the triplets  (5 month old Charlotte, Elijah and Aurora) were still being triplets; some might say 3 times the hassle, but Suzy  reminded everyone they were 3 times the fun!)                         

 

OTHER PEOPLES NEWS

Vee has a new man in her life (Ross Graham) for around 6 months. It was early days but loving life  more and more with her new lover!

 

As was discussed first half of this post, Lisa  had a match from UWP. One Wednesday morning , just as she was about to reverse the car onto her street  . she stopped on drive to answer the phone; just  in case someone was ill, no power in the office or something similar “Hello, Lisa McKenzie speaking” “Yes hello This is Grace. one of the Project Workers at UWP. We have a couple we require placing as soon as possible ;  4 yo called  George Steven Smith (mothers surname as they never got married ; father name Jensen) and his 3yo  sister Amellia Jayne (as above) a severe and repeated case of neglect”.  . “OK, firstly you might not know my Maiden Name is Smith ; I am texting hubby about this for his information; and also then my boss/Dad advise in late (into work) Anything else you can tell me ? ?” “Well some stuff  We  only got involved yesterday. Their 5^th time social work took them away before they (kids parents) have promised that things were  get better; but the opposite ! They were okay weight wise BUT they had previously never fed; or 1 time a day if that! Both kids have also been suffering  things like cigarette burns,  and the like again. The Dads previously squashed drinking problem, had clearly returned, we saw several empty beer and lager cans and he was drunk, and potentially high too (the smell of marijuana in the  home – first time  and some at his side of the sofa and a lit joint). Their mother had smoking and drunk during pregnancy, She had ADHD and he had Aspergers,  SOCIAL WORK DID make allowances, BUT they keep shooting themselves in the foot! Both kids – we think – both have  a point on the Spectrum (Lisa being mildly autistic herself)  , BUT as the parents have not  got as far as taking them to  a Doctor, and their young age;    however with two parents on the spectrum it Is not surprising. A few other issues further back too “All that  and not even School Age ??? ” Yes, makes you sick BUT they have not even taken  them to Nursery (School similar to Kindergarten, NOT An ABDL one!) As it stands  (with no one else locally involved) we will need a new home for them ; if you say Yes, we will review things every week, but they are very unlikely to get their kids back . So are you still interested in taking the kids’” YES;  no hesitation, BUT what’s your plans for drop off?  I finish work 17.00 home around 18.00 BUT Am still in the driveway so could reverse… My mum is home all day?”” “From 18.00 or so is fine; It will take us that time to get an additional couple pairs of hands, taking shift; 1 on 1 for 48 hours and 1 on 2 for a week as well  Afterwards we  could potentially cover occasional part time respite, full time help if the kids need it later; in the interim any additional costs you  or your husband  incur in missed work or additional sitters for your existing kids, we reimburse 100% similar to fostering” “”Thanks, will it be you we see this evening?” “Hopefully BUT if someone else come I will let you know!”

And afterwards 20 mins phone call with her daddy Steve McKenzie, giving things in every detail she had, with both ASN kids (Additional Support Needs) They had mentioned at the end additional support with the agency in question and the offering to cover Missed Shifts, Sitters and the like. Her daddy would discuss their bosses to get some Special or other Family  Leave for 4 to 6 weeks  off (in the first instances) with  a  text chat with Lisa’s father/boss would be giving her similar,. BUT Lisa was aware a rapid shift to a better time,  is the least we can do, while we the take time to find out what they have needed to have caught up with!.

BOTH KIDS (GEORGE AND AMELLIA) ARRIVAL IN NEXT CHAPTER!

 

 

Chapter 44 – jumping forward  to the 5^th  Month (since triplets born) -   - and everyone else’s news milestones and progress (2 of 2)

Lisa was finally ; (1hr 5 minutes after preparing to reverse Mumtruck 1 onto the street on which four bigs and 5 little ones live)  she able to continue  to work (Despatch Office Manager)  .  Her Dad / boss had promised her some leave and was trying to get her Thursday & Friday person to cover as much as she could with Temps too potentially  involved too! As she drove down her street ,  she was indeed a little irked, miffed AND incredulous that ANYONE could ignore ONE kid like that;  let alone TWO! Reading between the lines, they will be with us for some time  with the fact – according to the worker she spoke to a decision – more than likely permanent – looking at what America/north American foster system and child welfare  calls TPR (Termination of Parental Rights) ; they  were 3 months of rehab away from a weekly VISIT in a neutral location … both parents in rehab! “Sad, sad  , it’s a sad situation…” before then proceeding to sing the full lyrics of  Elton John's song Sorry Seems to Be the Hardest Word - Miranda style singing in to her hand, despite the fact no music was playing (or radio either!)  Both Suzy and Lisa were  huge fans of Miranda (Hart) and Suzy did sympathise with her being clumsy with height, and occasional Sir-ing …

…After arriving at work and discussing with the overall office manager for her fathers third acquisition, Tele Taxis; Stephanie who oversaw Lisa and a few others doing phone managers etc). She asked for In Confidence, before she continued to  explain Bullet Points of what happened earlier, finishing that she offered turn round and go home and /or drop them with her Mother BUT it would take them to this evening arranging for extra help. Despite the fact losing her for 4-6 weeks; initially when she was having Hubby or kid problems! “NO, were amazing. He supports me in this” “And I am so glad you said yes!” “Well, we  could not have never live with ourselves If we denied them the support, you know?”                                

After returning to her job dealing with first few things, she a went to a spare room (for privacy with the kids situation ) . Suzy phone went to Voicemail (must be another call she thought;  so she left a short message. 20 minutes Suzy returned her call, with Lisa returning to the spare room“ Sorry I was just discussing how well my former Foster kid Sarah is doing… you said the word In Confidence;  any problems with your hubby or kids? Well MY OWN kids are fine,,, BUT got a Universally Wide Parenting placing call this morning,..”  “…. Interesting., continue!”

She trusted Suzy (and she had already been foster parent training etc and knew The Score in relation  to parenting, potty problems  and the like (As well as Knowing The Score with her choice of football team in Dundee; Dundee United, being a long suffering Arab too) so she was able to go into more details than we did with her boss, so a similar level of  details to her Husband Steve/kids father, she knew that was as far as the discussion would   go, bar potential offers of help or suggestions…

…“Lisa,  great news first of for you and Steve, and I wish you well . It is a very poor situation for the kids though… wait;  did you say SMITH” “Yes?” “yes there’s irony,… “ “Yeah but its like more than likely being MCKENZIE  after a wee while; like our first twins (adopted from Caroline and Byron Mathieson) ??” Suzy was not  only openly happy for her  BFF ,she was also pissing herself laughing with the name coincidence (while never having control of bladder or bowels life long) .  “Well, I have an offer for you and yours we postponed you lot coming to me, tomorrow obviously BUT How about I look after Jayden and first (adopted) twins Anna and Lucy for a night? First use of the more floor above OR they could sleep where you usually do? We have beds all different sizes… also my boss has access to a short term / emergency babysitter network for your newest twins?

“Are you sure Suzy  I was going to send them all to my sister for one night (NOT working BUT is working the next night! She knows and is happy. ”Look, how many time did you look after my Rose after Barry came very early” “Yes, I did” “So yes, get your Mother  to bring them along. Jeff works from home today  Following day ,. You or Steve get take to see as a walk in patient ; (at Eastgate Medical Centre) tomorrow too, despite having a different practice between then and you transferring to our practice; assuming you will - and my Boss can visit after work in the evening,  if they are not yet ready to go to the doctors, like some Foster kids we had before! Additionally she likes looking after parents of those who adopted/fostered/other things (unable to have children of their own) so she will always be happy to help! Not just my boss, she is also a friend to you and your kids previous times too; so I cant see that being any different!”  “Yes well no worries; they want me to keep receipts e..” “NOT charging you Never - see above  Barry/rose!????”  

Lisa rung her Mother with the story so far; and how she wanted them to telling the existing five; and went for lunch. (at the nearby snack van 5 mins walk away but taking food back to office for time constraint/catching up she hoped!)

Granny Polly told the first three oldest kids  , with the two young ones in earshot but too young to pay attention !

“Your Mummy had a very sad phone call. No one  is dead BUT she was told about these two kids, their Mummy and Daddy treated them VERY poorly. Don’t worry or cry, they are now  safe, as your Mummy wanted to bring them to our home, so that she could look after them with your Daddy too. You might remember  around four months ago we discussed we might get a kid older than you? It is now happening;  one 4 and one 3. Now your Mummy and Daddy  , everyone on Mummy s side of the family ; a .Daddys side of the family or Godparents Suzy and Jeffs family , would NEVER Do anything bad as that to you.  It looks as though they might be permanent,  BUT until a judge decides . The judge earlier this week said they have essentially taken them from their parents earlier in the weeks. Now this is stressful for anyone and I and sure you will be extra nice where they are here. Also, we want you please wait till they  are ready to talk about what happened to them. They do have some injuries on their body, so again please look the other way. At least one of  your Mummy and Dady will be around at home a bit more for 4-6 weeks, and they kids have some additional support. You might sometimes see people like that with those who are naughty BUT  they aren’t bad kids; just  naughty parents! They do have issues too.  We will be hiring an additional sitter for the two new kids soon too, we don’t know BUT we will make sure they get on with ALL FIVE of you!

While we wont head to Suzy’s tomorrow so the new kids can get settled, BUT if everything goes well, they might come to us from Friday. Now- mid-afternoon  after lunch for all five, your Granny Polly i.e. me will take Jayden, Anna and Lucy., your godmummy Suzy is looking after you three for 1 night only with some help maybe from her husband  Jeff and Suzy; s mummy. The youngest two ; Edward and Stephanie, are heading our  Aunty Anna’s house for one night too, she picking them up around  1 hour after I take you three to Suzy’s.  

Tomorrow morning, all five Lisa kids come home and you will be introduced to them both. Their Project Worker and Social Worker will explain the full story, we will have known them this evening into overnight while we have time with their people ,and knowing them in person. If Thursday goes well, then Suzy and her family will join us our at Our House  from Friday to Sunday.

Any Questions????”  Jayden put his paw up “Yes Jayden?”

“Thanks for letting us know Granny!  Yes no problem with Suzy for a night and her kids too!

It sounds as though our Mummy is doing the right thing ! “Does Mummy or Granny know what happened”  “Well she told me on the phone it is a case of Neglect. They have cigarette burns, not regularly fed before ,their parents both drink heavily,  use tobacco and for some reason drugs being as new one .Neglect also includes not looking after them well; they were supposed  to be in nursery school; they are not!”

“Very Naughty Mummy and Daddy indeed”

A shorter version was being read to Suzy’s kids and hubby Jeff. She explained they won’t be coming here as their Mummy and Daddy have to look after two kids who’s parents did not, BUT Jayden, Anna and Lucy would be coming over mid afternoon  noon to stay until tomorrow morning, with her new twins Ed & Steph being looked after by Anna (Lisas sister).  If tomorrow goes fine, we will go to theirs (Lisas) Friday to Sunday? It was just a week after the Discussion with her kids (see previous chapter) Suzy’s oldest two  were clearly excited and looking forward to seeing them once again with them even one day early…

…Lunch came and went; Lisas current five were dropped off/picked up. Suzy gave her Boss (Doc Reynolds)  a call to advise of Lisas news and situation .She confirmed she’d be more than happy to help and also do a home visit after work. “Good news for Lisa and Steve, sad it happened like  the kids!” “Agree 100 per cent! “However, while no one can wave a magic wand and erase the past, I know from her previous kids, that Lisa, and Steve, will be able to give them both a brighter future. As you know I have help people after being unable to have kids to foster/adopt/other things too ,and would be happy to help Lisa, Steve, her five kids now, and the two new ones, and both myself and obviously Suzy are on call when the kids need  help or questions???”

Just before Lisa was getting ready to finish work, a text said that both the person she spoke to earlier (Grace Makowski) and the kids Social Worker(Margaret Duffy) heading them over The extra hands are all Ready  . 18.00/6pm still okay? “YES no problem . I am heading home  in 15 mins and hubby been working from home! If you get stuck for more than 10 minutes, please just let me know?” “ “Yes we always do that anyway as standard, no need to ask BUT kids are in the car, waiting in our  centre. That’s how happy they are to getting away from home!. When we get 18.00  their two helpers will take them their room, unpacking their stuff and will make sure their room is tidy and dress them into some new clothes.

We next all meet downstairs 18.30. so we introduce them both.  Rest half hour you , your hubby etc  and your Mother etc will meet to discuss everything so far.” No problem, you are more organized than me?” “Hardly… if I was organised I be lethal .  A 120k payment (two kids topped up from 50k each with both SEN kids) will follow for moving  in expenditure and getting them everything they need as its not a lot! (one off in addition to weekly payments similar to foster rates , at Basic SEN Level for now)  for additional things and to help you too.

ps you confessed earlier your maiden name Smith…  is your Father Brian THAT Brian Smith CBE?  - 87^th richest on the Scotland’s Rich List  as at last month ???“ “Guilty as charged” “Well I must be sure to thank him  as this money has helped us expand everyday, with post adoption Extra Outreach workers (paying for 3), and helped us when we needed it, fundraising etc, as well help with funding when kids new parents need cash. Will need to loves you and leave you as kids getting impatient”  Love and light Grace!”

16.30 ‘Lisa’s mother started a small dinner for the parents so Lisa and Steve will be

fed (and her Hubby too! ) before later on also in getting their kids any fast food, homemade or anything else, to help them get settled in ! , with Lisas hubby/Daddy helped make sure  a couple of suitable  for their age beds ( having previously had some on Standby for foster list calls) and two adult ones to their next room (for their short term help  and/or if it comes into  be full time) . If full time help continues, when the girl starts puberty etc then 3^rd bedroom will  be hers, we will keep an eye on how she feels about staying with her bother and vice-versa of course, on paper they are fine to share unto; the age of 14; Fosters being 12.  Her Daddy (during his working from home lunch) had previously a wide variety of nappies  and the like ,as neither  were potty trained. We’ll see how they do with those before getting specialised ones like Lisa has IF THEY NEED THEM!   With Lisas Mummy (Polly)  hugging her daughter upon her arrival.  “What was that for Mum?“ Well for some reason i thought you would have the biggest family, and for making a very difficult decision to bring two kids home , who have more issues than The Sunday Post! We hope all goes well with you , the and the team all get on well” “Seconded Polly” said her  hubby/kids daddy Steve., before sweeping her from, her feet (like a dance move) before putting down. “Other than everyone else ‘s issues  how was your day at work, my Mother of 7 ???” “ooh yes well but now here for a few weeks too.. Daddy of 7! (they smooch) .  Brian (Lisas father./kids grandfather) did of course give  them a Monthly 100k, he reminded them, as well as help with fundraising too as well , and new parents  through the fund. “I’d forgotten about that father  I have been recently more occupied with 5 of  my kids! “Yes  when discussing tonight’s plan, she said “She wants to thank you apparently , but do you know a Grace Makowski before Father could not find her in any help  current or previous  Recipients of Benevolent Money Lists?  “Name does not ring  a bell BUT with me going up 3 places  in Scotland Rich List last week papers,  a lot of previous benefactors are coming back people are reminding me with thanks for help in the past. It’s just as well we started a part time PA for Chairty Admin care of the lawyers Sue,  Grabbit & Run (ED: Private Eye magazine description of pretty much any lawyers BUT real name Allen, Robertson and Scott!) as my phone has not stopped ringing of the hook! With her being worked of the feet ,  she might need to be full time!“ She does know it was part time for an experiment, with more than likely continuing hopefully all day, every (working) day.

The 100k was an addition / increase from 20k. I think I helped save the charity from Bankruptcy in the first 4 months, but to gave them money,  financial advice and paid for 2 full time financial advisors( now down to 1) and they are genuinely tuning over more than enough money in returns etc BUT I have never asked for a penny back! However I hope this won’t be a conflict of Interests“ No, they know:..” “I meant if I want to increase what I give them?!” “No daddy, No one ever turns down more  money. I had to go though standard vetting checks whole family criminal  record checked and the like, Father you could make it an additional mainly for running costs or anything else?” “yeah I think that’s ,more than  fair Lisa ” Then the text message came up “Five minutes away they are   everyone!!”

 

Three cars then arrived (project worker Grace and the kids in back seats and in car seats), Social Worker, and a third car with 2 additional support until 22.00 when night shift takes over until 10.00 / 10am) The helpers in car 3   brought kids, walked upstairs by Steve kids room (Darren and Robin helping the new arrivals), and yours next for when you are here next door!  Anything else anyone else needs let us know BUT After we meet downstairs, we are going to get everything you need, Write it down but keep the lists for now …  “(Exits downstairs)  before returning to them all bigs sitting round – Steve and Lisa, Lisas mother and father ,  the kids very long suffering Social Worker Margaret Duffy and kids recent project Worker( since UW  got involved Monday). Grace Makowski.

While Steve was walking back to the Dining Table, Grace stood up… walked over to Lisa’s father… “Wel Brian it  is  good to meet you in person, me and the rest of the Team loves and appreciates every penny you’ve given us. While we’ve never met, would you please consent to a hug”” “Yes, that’s fine… (Brian stands up, Grace hugs him before stands up entirely , to chair the discussion”)

SO, the reason we are here, now we are back to 6 people; . George and Amellia!   First of all , thanks to Lisa and Steve for taking these two children. Now if I could explain, we are fairly new to the case. In those circumstances I will hand over to  who wants me to call her what both kids call her too; their long suffering Social Worker , Margaret Duffy”

“First of all,  I repeat what Grace said just now; THANK YOU for helping us out with George and Amellia. We have been trying to help them many times , and now with getting universally Wide Parenting involved with , we decided that would be better  FOR THE KIDS, irrespective of parents. You heard about Monday, this being a final chance – two extra chances with them both parents having Additional Support Needs – but they seem to be not caring about their kids any more. She painted a vivid picture  of regular police visits. When we got there, he was clearly off his face  on something; alcoholism problem quashed he said but we saw so many empty cans, and a lit joint there too. While relapsing is nothing to be ashamed of, BUT even been spotted inside or outside with weed before, BUT lots of tobacco, beer and wine, sometimes drunk with their  kids outside drinking in public  The Marijuana,  plus the booze, was the reason we had to say NO MORE! A Court decision means they are in separate rehab units (previously they would bring in bad stuff for each other!!!) , for 3 months.  The kids were lucky to get fed, and so many other things never happened  that they should be! If kids are missing them they might be allowed to go to the rehab units, otherwise they need at least a month sobriety before they might get Weekly Visitation. In a neutral place similar to Closed prison visits (behind glass or plastic screen).

The kids themselves are actually quite nice; a little behind where they should be.. … Some parents refer their kids – in jest or not –as Monsters! However  in this instance; THE PARENTS ARE THE MONSTERS !

I have had them 2 and a half years, hence we need  essentially we need a win. Thanks, once again , we will  review how the kids get on weekly for 4 weeks, after which time we would consider this permanent arrangement,  moving to Adoption proceeding starting too. However if they don’t settle or like it, we could another UWP family; BUT  we think things will go well. They were happy to hear of all the things you had in you giant play room, so many toys and games  and the like. We showed pictures and they seemed to lie things on  paper, you know”>??” “Well, the giant  playroom was started as when I was a 2yo inner child since 19; BUT useful visit for the little ones now! “They were told been told about your kids (shown pictures etc) -told meeting all 5 kids tomorrow while we  look after them only  tonight - and  love the idea of a hopefully better life with  Steve and yourself “So it seems it means we need to do;; in brief;  treat them like  human beings and NOT abuse them?  . I think we can manage it Maragret and Grace! Not being flippant , it we know it’s a tough ask both kids, but we look forward to them  staying  with us  as long as they can!” ”

Paperwork was signed with Margaret (their social worker) before Grace got her 2 signatures too, as well as one for a prepaid debit card to cover the £1,200. BUT if you lose it, there’s an online portal; if has Chip n Pin, Contactless, as well as a pin number under the scratch strip on the accompanying holder. While we have you; (get out previous paperwork) are these your Bank Details  still unchanged? “Oh yeah that’s all right and correct” “Now we pay fortnightly in arrears; not 4 weekly ; and your week Mon-Sun. you will get all day today ; not part day until Friday paid the Friday after that , and every fortnight (first Mon to 2^nd Sun) paid the following Friday.  “Now ringing Darren and Robin to bring the kids down”

“Hello again Margaret and Grace” Say hello to Lisa and Steve’ they will be looking after you, like we said, for a while to see if you gel , then permanently If all goes well! However Lisa and Steve want to say a few words, I believe  “Lisa, in your own time” first of all , we cannot turn back the clock; we can only move forward. We were could barely believe what happened to you not just Monday, but since you were born. We would like  to apologise on both of  your Parents behalf for everything they ever did.   We would never dream of ever laying  a finger on you. We do have some simple rules  (like be nice to each other) the worst you will get is an  Until Further Notice time out.   I will go through that tomorrow. Including our password if someone picks you up from school etc.

We don’t want  to call us mummy or Daddy yet, and when you are ready to talk about the things that happened, we do have really  nice people who will help. All our family  kids largely happy most of the time. I have 5 kids, and now, if you like us,  we will make you two up to 7 kids!

I have two older sisters, Lucy in England and Anna who lives in the City!  My best friend called Suzy,  who has a similar number of kids. You will meet her and other people starting tomorrow . We want you to be happy here, so please  just tell us. We met an hour ago; we trust between the two of you will let me know if you need to tell us if you are  low or are sad?

In addition we hope you will be picking some colours and  patterns to decorate your new room? . Please tell us if we  were doing or  saying anything you don’t like!  SO George and Amelia, have you got the Lists?” “Yes…” !”Right, well we will   get the extra things  you  need  and get you get some food that you like !”

As it is your first night.; we will take you to out for a meal; are you okay with McDonalds, Burger King  or do you anything  else out from as kid s meal for you two, and two would like; yes we like McDonalds… ben a while since we have been here. IS that not too much money ? “  No, we have almost as much money as you need; your Grandpa is  giving me half of all  of everything  we need for you/ both.  (Holds up Rich List paper ) We don’t; like to brag but he is now 87th richest person in Scotland – not bad for a taxi driver!” He did the same with my previous five kids! However it took 55years blood sweat and tears; still working now as management”  So basically ,between that and other money we get from Steve and the foster system, and you forget; your happiness is PRICELESS!”

You  know what Lisa and Steve ? You’re’ alright… and this is for real life?” “Yes indeed, this is for real life (Thinks to herself; why did he say In real life?”  (thinks to herself BOOM ; 10 secs later) Are you a Bluey fan too?  “Yes we both are! ”That’s nice!  My best friend Suzy’s oldest Rose is a massive fan!” “

Now  you were changed when you arrived , but I am just checking you both before we go out I will check  your nappies; yes both need changing you. Steve please get changing bags and the car seats alongside that double-check the Kids room has a Baby  Monitor (not for tonight but the near future?” With not being an Adult size, they were able to change on a Kids size travel mat in one of the downstairs bathrooms, I with supplies already.

And indeed, everyone was fed. Buying a lot of extra food (extra stuff they recognise/like) , plus paints/paper , many clothes and some order stuff they were not asking for (like some  stuffed toys) and the like till everyone ready, two kids in bed etc . and now Lisa and Steve “We definitely did the right thing  today Steve” “For Real Life…” Steve, dinnae start that all up again  .. come here and stick your tongue down my throat would you…” (Kiss passionately before falling asleep)

 

 

 

Chapter 45 – Thursday to Sunday – day after most depressing McKenzie/Smith Family phone call since Steve’s father passed away – kids settling in and other peoples news too!  - part 1 of 5

At 08.00 Lisa went to the new arrivals 4yo f2a kid George and 3yo f2a kid Amelia.” Good Morning George, good Morning Amellia… Did you both sleep well?” “Yes; thanks Lisa” said George. . “ “To let you know, after your bedtime – a bit later than normal –I phoned your two parents. I had to leave a message for your father, but I had a brief chat with your Mummy. She appreciated the call, knowing you are safe, and sends  kiss each. She was a bit quiet; this might be normal? “yes she is Lisa” said Amelia .  We had to leave  your father a voicemail,  but half a hour ago we had a text saying thanks for letting me know., and he wishes you both well.

I will change your nappies first of all; before we go for Breakfast and I tell you more about plans for today.  .Are you both okay with  going to Doctors? “..yeah no issue; but tell us before needles”  “Well this is more for a check in, and we will need to transfer you to the Doctors. Steve will take you around 11.30-111.45ish . BUT you might need to wait, so will bring a couple of Amazon Fire Kids Tablet kinda things, an plenty juice and food as well as him having Nappies ready for you two as well There is Baby Changing bench we use when we need it..… Now as well as that, today Margaret (Social worker) and your worker from UWP Grace - the lady though brought you two yesterday – 09.30. At 10.00 Suzy (my BFF) and  my middle sister Anna will go my other 5 kids will return here. I have told them that here can talk to your workers too.  Afterwards Steve takes you back to the Doctors.

Either tonight or tomorrow evening;    a lady Dr Reynolds who works with pregnancies kids etc might come after work tonight or Friday after work. She’s really nice and a friend of our family, like Suzy’s; side too. Suzy was her a secretary for her (three days a week) and she went off for her firstborn (Rose) 2 and a half years ago. She went to a Will of God Adoption BUT The kid came close to 3 months early! She was planning another kid too, hoping for 1, but she had triplets around the time I was told I was expecting twins (five new kids in under 2 years!  So she’s still Off for a wee while longer. Planning as I understand it back in 3 to 4 months in the office.  Suzy’s  mother is a Nurse at the Doctors too. Between three of them . they know a lot. So if we need  any medical advice; we can go through those two people, even if they are away. It’s difficult to explain BUT that is how much they love their job in caring for us and others too! Suzy  is all our of our kids godmother – god mummy,  along with her husband the Godfather too with you two as well!  His name is Jeff; he loves meeting our new kids and our existing 5 too.

Now you are changed, will walk you through for breakfast. Come with me … take one hand each” … sitting them down… Now we have a lot of cereal, I could cook you anything else you fancy, like eggs, bacon, sausage etc.  (points to Cereal boxes on top of Cupboard) “Lisa can I have Coco Pops ( George) and Amellia was asked by her brother “Do you have any sausages” Yes we do, flat or round ones?” “Flat please ., thanks Lisa… “ “No issue, (grabs Georges cereal, serves his and turns on  the   George Foreman grill” (ED: Flat ones are a Scottish delicacy, generally called  Lorne or Square sausage; but world-wide I under stand in McDonalds breakfast Pancakes and Sausage etc.)  Do you want hem in a roll? “Yes please Lisa!” To go with that, we have Apple and Orange Juice and Tropical, Cranberry and a few diluting juice too?” “Apple for me ( George) and Amellia wants Orange” (gets two cartons from fridge and pours two glasses” Sitting down with something for her own (Her Hubby woke up earlier – NOT working today but Admin and thing for the other kids as well  ; also with Lisa’s’ mum Polly doing a cleaning catchup with her Daddy in the office)

“We have three meals a Day, we usually start a bit earlier for breakfast from 07..00  to 08.30 some people here work or have other things) , lunch usually around 12.00-13.00 with dinner around 17.30-18.00. We do have some additional food  that you can take anytime (points to open pantry shelves) , and if  you need help grabbing things then just ask. . We have some stuff in fridge and freezer , but we need to keep it locked, So, if you are still hungry at any time then just ask! . Please ask if you need something hot, from the fridge (like yogurt) or freezer (like ice cream cups)  Now Me and Steve are home 6 weeks for you two, but a sitter will help when  we return to our work. Also  My mother Polly looks after my Jayden, and we have a separate sitter for Lucy/Anna and our new twins Ed and Steve have one too. Polly is also here every day so if you can’t get us,  just ask if you need anything food wise. Any questions you two?  “No Lisa.”

So the rules for you , and my other children, are the same. We are open to change if  you don’t like them;

 

1.   Please don’t leave the house without permission. If you want to go to out in the backyard or trampoline then please ask. Most doors are locked BUT there might be times when we get delivery etc.

2.   Please be patient; At home you might need to wait if we are dealing with another kid. If we are outside talking to a grown up or someone else, please pull one of our hands, rather  than jumping right in.  That means we know you are waiting, and we will be as soon as we can.  (ED: yes got the idea from Bluey ,why do you ask?)

3.   It’s nice to be nice; play nice with my other kids, friends you have  elsewhere; or the like.

4.   Share and share alike; unless you have anything valuable keep an eye on them just in case they run away with it.

5.   Be aware of Bullies; tell the parent/teacher in charge or whoever. Don’t copy what they do, as its not very nice.

If you see something like a fire, don’t touch it yourself; tell the first Adult you can find. In the event of the fire we met in  Car Park outside, and if that’s unavailable the Back yard.  All locked doors are setup so that you open if sensors are triggered! Please don’t pull fire alarms or the like.

If someone comes up to you anywhere and says something like “Taking you home for your Mumy/Daddy/whatever then we have password That is Oak. So If try to take you, ask for the Password; if they say Oak, you can go safely. We would usually make you aware of changes to your day to day plans but be aware just in case anyone tries taking you elsewhere”

Now we have written this down on a Card for you (hands them one each , heat laminated on a babyish lemon yellow cardstock)  Its on back of the Kids tablets as well. We have  ordered   1 each for you both  for today or tomorrow. We will be borrowing one of your siblings; them being 7 month old twins most recently, so ignore the name the tablets. We ordered one each  (tablets) and we expect today or tomorrow . Any other questions?” “No, the rules seem fair. We know you are keeping  us all  safe.

“Excuse me little ones; your project worker just texted,. I will get up and read” it” .  Awwh thanks.

Hello Lisa! Coming soon as planned BUT me and Margaret want to thank you for all that  you and your extended family and your BFFs family  did yesterday; not 48 hours, not 24 hours, but 7 hours!” “Awwh thanks. Acid test today with other Kids and docs and the like.. See you soon  Lxxx”  “okay, she’s just checking in, her time is unchanged”

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Chapter 46 – Thursday to Sunday – day after most depressing McKenzie/Smith Family phone call since Steve’s father passed away – kids settling in and other peoples news too!  - part 2 of 5

 09.25 the kids Social Worker arrived (Margret Duffy),  with five minutes later, her project worker (Grace Makowski) showed up too “ Morning George, Morning Amellia”   “Your helpers told me you had a decent sleep and other stuff. What was your take on last night and this morning , George and Amelia? “I really love Lisa’ she’s kind and patient, Steves a good guy too. They looked after  us really well,” said George “Amellia ? “We’ll, Lisa and Steve are really nice and kind, I like it (here) too!”

 “ “Lisa… oh hello Steve I sere you are siting down again… What’s Lisa‘s take on last night and this Morning!”

“Well I am Very glad, me and Steve both, to here they are happy.  Showed them round food  cart and everything else, and the like.  They seem to have settled very well. Now  before we had Jayden  and adopted pair of twins Anna/Lucy and our most recent 2 Ed and Steph, we did some fostering. My older sister recommended as a good way to get used to kids, with her down to 1 of 3 at her Luton home, and she has since adopted a sibling pair as well. She said to treat every Foster kid the same, get them settled ,and over 48 hours we will see what woks and what does not. I told them of the plans for today already   in this instance they are so pleasant to deal with, and a little happy I think the settling nerves have gone, but ee are keeping an hour-by-hour watch. They are looking forward to meeting my kids and Suzy and my older sister Anna in a bit. If that goes well.,, Suzy’s kids will come over with her hubby Jeff. Weekend, maybe her Mother/Father. BUT we don’t want to bombard them initially, but while we have things we need to do . Steve will be taking them to the Doctors after all my kids are home and  they have met George and Amellia, and Suzy and my sister Anna. So far so good, and they have been  genuinely well behaved since they arrived. I always wake new foster/F2A first day and use it to explain things (house rules etc.) and they have o objections to anything ! We aim to please!

Social Worker said first “We; ;that’s great news you love…. I think I hear cars arriving outside Lisa” “Oh yes Suzy and Anna with them being dropped off  as arranged yesterday.”

Lisa went out to the cars, with Suzy’s (Mumtruck 2) bring out Her Jayden, Anna and Lucy, before Annas car bringing her new twins Ed & Steph! “Ooh perfect timing, I will walk you through.

First of all , , my BFF Since we were in college nearly 20 years ago; Suzy Clark. She is your Godmummy; not wishes BUT we aim to Please if you have any extra stuff! (Suzy looks down at Kids”) “Nice to meet you both”

Second, my oldest, 2 and a half year old, Jaydem McKenzie “ Nice tom meet you too”

Thirdly,  my first twins, 1 and a half years old, Anna  and Lucy  McKenzie” “hewoo””

Fourth, my two most recent twins, Edward and Stephanie McKenzie, who cant speak yet but they nice people too!

Finally, my middle and older sister Anna McDonald. She works in Accident and Emergency nights at Ninewells Hospital  ”Nice to meet you two” she said to the kids.

As they all sit down “Does anyone have  any Questions for their workers and …Suzy and Anna I will come back to you at the end. Yes Jayden “We were very sorry to hear about the stuff from before. But it is nice to meet you two, as your Brother,, now and  hopefully for a  long time to come, I like you two already” (goes over and hugs kids one at a time” )  Lisa was taken back as a it emotional a little “I did wonder how this would go, BUT Jayden has clearly accepted them both. … thanks Jayden   (he gives thumbs up Mummy).

Next hand  up was Anna “Hello I am Anna, my twin sister here is Lucy next to me . No questions BUT nice to meet you  we hope you like  it here; we do! No questions  BUT we hope you enjoy being here too, for a long time to come!” ”  “Thanks you two”

Anna and Suzy had no questions, BUT agreed with Jaydens comments; even though they are Aunty/Godmother!

After all that, workers left and Anna / Suzy returned to their homes. Soon after that, Steve drove the kids to Eastgate (Health Centre).  

After arriving at the Doctors Surgery, Steve checked both kids in  (both nappies fine as changed before 15 min car ride Mumtruck 1) to Doctors surgery before  getting paperwork for Changing Doctors, as well as handing over the medical information and also a letter form the F2A UFW letter of authority. While waiting for a doctor; 15 minutes  later Suzy’s mum  (Senior Nurse Orla Larsson) left the staff room cutting across the waiting area, seeing Steve “Oh hello Steve; what,, (looks at kids ) These must be your new arrivals; Suzy did say she was saying hello there earlier “You must be George and Amellia?  Well my Daughter Suzy saw you earlier on / your godmummy, do you remember? “Yes indeed” they do “Well my name is Nurse Orla, I work as a nurse here , trying t make people feel better, when they are feeling poorly. Suzy’s five kids are looking forward to meeting you tomorrow, if everything goes well with you today. Suzy and Jeff will indeed be there too; we hope to see you come round maybe this weekend (me and Suzy’s daddy who works in a factory). We are going everything gradually, assuming all is well with you and yours. We know it’s a lo…

“Aah Orla, glad I caught you” coming out  from a Doctor Reynolds (i.e. Suzy’s boss!)  and her PA (Thursday/Friday person , every day while Suzy is on Mat leave Sarah Bryans)  (She looks at Steve “ “Hello Steve … and you must be  George and Amellia!”

Polly points to the Doctor  “ looks further at Doc” “This is the lady Doctor Reynolds who Suzy works for ,Monday Tuesday Wednesday normally, but still off after her most recent triplets “

“The reason I wanted Suzy’s mummy  was to tell Lisa I was coming to see you not tonight but tomorrow after work. BUT as Steves here..; “Hello George, and hello Amellia, I am Doctor Reynolds! I help people who want  a baby and when they are expecting a baby, and after babies are born. Did your Mum say this morning or did she forget “”No she did” “Well i am coming round to you not tonight, but tomorrow; one of my grandsons playing the Harp in a school  event. Nice bumping into you like this, and we will see you soon?” “YES Looking forward to it , nice  lady,  I like your hair said Amelia  ” “ooh thanks…”

Steve said; “What are the chances we both bump into each other here? Suzy was ironic laughing as the new arrivals shared Lisa Maiden name! Then after Doc  R texted  Lisa and Suzy that news (tomorrow not tonight), and they’d bumped into Steve who also bumped into Suzy’s Mum” “Suzy was apparently very giggly again!  “Had we planned that Doc it wouldn’t have worked; BUT when you do not ; it does indeed! Quality Doc!” (ED: Dundonian for a very good thing) 

Just over a one hour later they were seen . Doctor Smithson (male) said welcomed all three . He said did not have much information online versus paper. I will try and get your paper files and the like .  Steve explained suspicions from before, but would indeed be happy to help.  The doc said it’s a highly likely link between SEN kids and Special needs adults parents. He looked at  the  kids “I am going go get your Medical Records from your old Doctor. I will give Lisa or Steve a ring when we get them ,and  we will set up an appointment thereafter. Normally its within one week. Nice to meet you George and Amelia “Nice to meet you too” said Amellia followed by George.

 

On leaving the Docs Room Steve changed their nappies, and drove  them home. It was 13.35 and lunch was given before  with the pre-packed stuff . Their Tablets had not long arrived as they returned around 13.55.

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Chapter 47 – Thursday to Sunday – day after most depressing McKenzie/Smith Family phone call since Steve’s father passed away – kids settling in and other peoples news - part 3 of 5

When the new arrivals got home with Steve, Lisa welcomed them back “Steve told me how it went which is a start” “Your Tablets are here but charging them to a full battery . Around  dinnertime you should be able to use them until your 19.30/7.30pm bedtime. George and Amellia shown where their new tablets were in their new room. Afterwards, walked back to where Anna and Lucy were standing in the hallway near their room Lisa said “Well my first twins Anna and Lucy (points to then next to both)  were shown wanted to show you round their favourite toys in the playroom, afterwards Jayden wants to show you his room .He will also be In the playroom just no. Is that okay with you two, George  and Amelia,” ?”yes we love Toys.. . show us the way” they  said to Lucy and Anna, who  walked them through ran through happy giggling in the downstairs playroom!...

… And indeed they did both Lucy and Anna showing  both them all their favourite ,and allowing them plenty them, on each  rather than hogging for themselves  - nice and well behaved and happy “Look how well and happy the twins are with our new two arrivals… “ Lisa said to Steve on the sofa near the playroom… “ “Yes they are; which is exactly what we wanted” “Yes it was” “I had a text this morning before their workers arrived (shows her phone) Oooh yes… (Reads out aloud again) ““Hello Lisa! Coming soon as planned BUT me and Margaret want to thank you for all that  you and your extended family and your BFFs family  did yesterday; not 48 hours, not 24 hours, but 7 hours”
“They are right,  you did! “ NO NO NO Steve; WE DID; you were able to get extra baby supplies working from home while; I was working out everything else” “We did… We never knew them  48 hours ago ; and now we seem to be getting on amazingly well with me. You, my mum and dad,  and the rest , and all of a sudden they might be ours to keep?” “Yes… but their s/w (Social Worker) said it best; the kids are quite nice; quite pleasant,  the parents are animals .Their mother seemed quiet but I could tell their voice hint that thought they knew what they need to do; not apologising yet but I think they knew they bleeped up, and the kids too…Can I ask you  a weird question?” “Of course; any time!”  “When we first met and I was Daddies Compliant little Submissive / big baby slut butt, that within 12 years, we would  have been parents to such a rich and varied family from different places, our own and adopted  too, after around  8 foster placements??? “Well relationships can improve with time ,and both your sisters being parents did inspire us to try… you have no regret  with Jayden; going for Will of God giving us 2, in Anna and Lucy; going for your second pregnancy which  gave us 2 more twins in Ed and Steph, and now; we did Universal wide Parenting who gave us – provided we don’t bleep it up – probably two more interesting nice and kids than you never hope to meet in George & Amellia…and NO doubts or  issues with this nice family you gave me! OOH thanks Daddy… now checks and changes; a mothers Amazing work is never done eh Daddy *smooches* !” Lisa stands up, 2 from the playroom 4 be changed, with both the new twins  changed too. At this point Jayden had started to asked about Big Boy Potty, a few weeks after Suzy’s Rose asked her Mum about Big Girl Potty   (they chat as many days as they are together, them both being very close – platonic friends only – and  a few times Lisas kids has asked Suzy’s kid on the phone/vice-versa)  and his success is similar to Rose, with very few accidents!  George and Amellia were walked up to Jaydens room ; having a decent time in there  too.

Lisa’s mother /Granny Polly  had on a selection of pizzas from the fridge and sides too. Both their tablets were ready to be collected (George  and Amelia) when they all 5 run down, for dinner!

Bedtime and Lisa & Steve for amazing day ,by both George and Amellia!  

Thursdays other staple’; (Mummy Jenni and Subby Carlie) was cancelled this week but they were looking forward to meeting George and Amellia following week!

NEXT DAY  NEXT  CHAPTER

 

 

Chapter 48 – Thursday to Sunday – day after most depressing McKenzie/Smith Family phone call since Steve’s father passed away – kids settling in and other peoples news - part 4 of 5

Friday saw a phone call from 2 new arrivals, 4yo 3mo George and 3yr 4mo Amellia’s “long suffering” Social Worker Margaret Duffy. This week was very late May; with 5 weeks left of school term including Monday coming; last one half day Wednesday.   
Lisa had confirmed that her coming up to 2yr 10mo old Jayden (turns 3 in the school holidays) is starting  nursery school in the new school year (mid-August in Scotland). It was discussed both her charges with Lisa (kids not enrolled by birth parents  would benefit; but close to 3 months might not be early enough trusting them by then , possibly Autumn holidays or Christmas holidays would be best. While no legal requirement in Nursery School; it was thought that they would benefit from being around other kids (their birth parents never did.) In Scotland vs England there are a lot more free childcare hours vs England; which makes it meant no financial sense not to! They do know it should have happened by now, probably starting soon BUT with so many else new things, yes BUT I will try and speak  to your nursery school (less than 2 mins walk from Lisa’s family home,  Rowantree (ED: Dundonian one now closed!) and I will see if I can discuss their headteacher, not about Jayden but my two?   She was also happy to hear their kids had a relatively easy night, bar 1 nappy change each.  She was thrilled to hear their behaviour has been “exemplary in challenging conditions!” She also gave weekend contacts,  just in case she didn’t get them (Mike Butterstone this Sat/Sun) . She would visit Monday again with their Project Worker at 10.00 (our home) Monday morning, which was A-OK . Lisa said she would discuss with 2 new arrivals over the weekend (Nursery School) as visitors today inc Suzy’s family and more besides!

Everyone woke up at similar times, and Polly (Lisa’s mother / kids grandmother) was doing all in one!  “You sleep well you two?” (looking at new arrivals George and Amellia) Lisa asked, sitting down with her breakfast next to Steve. “Yes, very well thank you!” Lisa said “Good to hear. You will  see both your workers again Monday, and between now and then, some stuff happening today.  This time, all coming to our home!  In an hour or two, Suzy ; do you remember her (they nod) well she will be  visiting us for today and all day tomorrow and most Sunday. She’s looking forward to introducing you to her five to you, Now, Suzy has been my best friend over  19 years,  sharing everything from  History at College to  our most recent  fostering, then pregnancies and adoption most recently!  Now we would normally take week about going the other way  thus week, helping you to settle in, this being Day 3.  Suzy, like me; she’s a big kid at heart! Her oldest 2 yr 3mo baby girl Rose , 1y 5mo baby boy Barry,  and 5 month old triplets called Charlotte, Elijah and Aurora (they cant speak yet but still fun,  and her husband and baby father Jeff (all Clark surname but Suzy’s mother/father are Sen nurse  Polly and Eng. Dip . Andy are Larsson) All my kids already get on really well with Suzy; s kids With her Rose and my Jayden particularly  close friends!  So next week, if you still like us two by then (“oh we love you Lisa and Steve” said Amelia “Awhh thanks!””  - well we go over Thursday to Sunday. Now your workers will still be told of those things in advance, and Project has Suzy’s  address already with her being one of my refences. (like when you apply for a job and you need someone who knows what you do), which was she forwarded to you Social Workers too because we spend so much time together.

Of course  later this evening Doc Reynolds; ; who I gather you bumped into yesterday; is coming . She is Suzy’s boss BUT she I still off after the triplets! “Triplets Lisa; aah I thought I heard right….””Very big ones took forever to get all three out; 26 hours “ “Awwh they sound nice” .”They are, and three different personalities! When Dr Reynolds arrives Suzy will leave if needed us two , and we will go towards your bedroom. Depending on her Working Day she might be after your bedtime – she tells us on the night – and after she’s gone  you get an hour before bed IF not hear by your bedtime, ”   HOWEVER with it being weekend we add 1 hour extra to bedtime, so 20.30/8.30pm , not 19.30/7.30pm!; but at least around 1 hour after she leaves after 20.30! And in any case, thanks for the love you said to us” “Well, you have looked after us well” “blushing again”

A text message discussion was had with George and Amellia’s UWP   project worker Grace Makowski after their social worker Margret chatted. She was also given her weekend replacement in Willie Smith this Weekend, and given his number/details in case.. Evenings in both  cases UWP and Social Work phone numbers were previously supplied (on call) and didn’t change at Weekends.

Suzy was then texted “leaving 30 mins” like she usually did!

REST OF FRIDAY  (and WEEKEND) IN NEXT CHAPTER

 

 

Chapter 49 – Thursday to Sunday – day after most depressing McKenzie/Smith Family phone call since Steve’s father passed away – kids settling in and other peoples news - part 5 of 5

 

Lisa’s mother had told them previously Fish  & Chips) (fish fingers for kids, all bar 1 of Lisas who did not like fish) was on for their Lunch. Five minutes after the Suzy text, she did get another one; from the kids social worker “Forgot to tell you earlier on; my bad! George and Amellia’s parents would like to check in with them. They know they can’t meet in person for a few weeks BUT they want to speak to them weekly until they get further. In the spirit of rehab and being their birth  parents, they want to ring Monday coming, have arranged 2pm/14.00 for Mum with their Dad at 3pm/15.00 for close to 1 hour each.” “I’ll let them know no worries. Bizarrely kids have never mentioned them BUT that might not be the case throughout their time! I will let them know. Cheers Margaret!”  She went to the Playroom “George & Amelia” “(they run up to her in the doorway) “Just to let you know; your parents want to check in you by phone, on Monday . it is one hour each Mum and Dad, afternoon this Monday” “That sounds OK, so we won’t have to go anywhere ???” “No , they will phone our home  phone ;or (cell/mobile)  my phone” “Even better… thankies Lisa…” “Now you can go back to playing! “

Sitting down next to Steve (similar to the previous day), Steve said “Remember we were discussing our rich and diverse family yesterday... well do you remember how it started with Jayden” “I do indeed…. We found we were expecting a boy so I called him  Jayden Alexander (after my favourited Cousin)… he came into this world Thursday… then Suzy’s Rose, adopted 2 Anna and Lucy , and your twins all came on Thursday!” “Yeah I used to love that day” Another text message came in from her father on a (Smith Benevolent ) Trust Fund  Group Chat, so he asked Steve to do checks and changes when she goes through this trust related message? “Of course… no problem, my Mother of 7! ”

“An additional Trust Meting was this morning re the PA / Personal Assistants. It was decided to make not only expand the part-time 20 hours to 40 with as immediate effect as soon as is possible,  but to double up to TWO PA/ helpers. This could be on job share if required. An additional payment change approved was adding an additional 250k for running costs etc of  Universally Wide Parenting and/or could be used for 7 extra Outreach staff. They have just been told and are ecstatic! !  Next Meeting Sunday week with Awards like usual.”

As her husband come back from checks and changes,  sitting back down , around 15 minutes later at 11.55/11.55am, Lisa and Steve saw Suzy and Jeff car (Mumtruck 2)   drive into her Car Park . “As you did just checks and changes I will let them in”  (They both had each others house keys since a year or so beforehand ).  Lisa welcomed both Suzy, Jeff and their kids,  before they walked upstairs to the Spare Rooms., as per usual. 10  minutes later, they  returned to the bottom floor . Walking over to the Playroom (with a few minutes before lunch was ready), Lisa asked Suzy “George and Amellia, come over to the Sofa” I will introduce you to Suzy’s people ; once again my   BFF Suzy Clark “Nice to meet you two again”, her oldest daughter Rose Clark “charmed ‘my dear”, middle son Barry Clark “howdo”, triplets Charlotte, Elijah and Arora – can’t speak yet – but someone who can is her husband/Babies Daddy ,Jeff Clark!” “Nice to meet you (Shaked hands one at time) … “you look so much cuter in person than on the small pic Lisa sent us, but we look forward to knowing you more soon! (They both go red!)

After lunch, you will be able to play with them  all in the Playroom, so could you sit up on the Dining Table for lunch now please…” They did so in record time, with Suzy  helping with their chairs.

After lunch (and puddings!) were all away, Lisa’s Mother Polly washed up while the kids returned to the playroom and the like, Lisa and Steve returned to the Sofa ; Suzy and Jeff joined in  a few minutes after helping one of their five (Barry) wash his hands (he’d got both ketchup AND ice cream sauce on his hands!) they all joined each other (4 parents on sofa, all  overlooking all kids in playroom , with those not speaking yet next to the side of the TV, where Anna and Lisa were now watching TV.

“So how are George and Amellia doing so far. “jeff asked as he and Suzy returned to the Sofa “Not too  bad; no major incidents or traumas ( touches the wood base frame)  and Touch Wood , it continues as ,long as it can” said Lisa., “They know we are here (with therapist’s etc) when they need us to talk about all the nasty stuff their parents did to them” I could barely believe a parent would treat A SINGLE child like that, but then there were two kids” “Well Suzy and I (jeff) both think you made the right call. Spilt- second choices  are so time critical – remembering back to our Fostering; and we hope to be successful when we meet them in a month or so. But both of you, Lisa and Steve, are absolute angels”  “Awwh thanks Jeff!” she said before standing up hugging  Jeff! . Suzy offered was doing this rounds (Nappy/Diaper) Checks and Changes, with all bar 2 fine (snacks half an hour as per usual then Jeff , Lisa and Steve every 4 hours (when together) and continuing . All done they returned to the sofa. However the help UWP arranged now down too 1:2 for a week) did a few  reliefs as well as helping with other things not necessarily related to George and Amellia , but helping all of the family when needed too – and extended Suzy kids too!.

They enjoyed a genuine  catchup on everyone’s news and progress (Kids, family and friends alike) before her father returned  a little early with Friday at 16.20/4.20pm, (sometimes earlier but there was the aforementioned meeting!), 10 minutes later she has had a message saying doctor Reynolds was around 2 hours away (around 18.30/6.30pm) .  To help  technically celebrate everyone good news that week, (and his extra PA’s as well as George and Amelia joining) AND give his wife a night off cooking doing a little extra that week, a delivery food was decided between Lisa’s father, Lisa/Steve, Suzy/Jeff on a Pizza Party . After placing the delivery, Lisa’s father walked into the Playroom  to say “To celebrate all 14 of us being under one roof, celebrating other good stuff with my work, and give Grandma Polly a night off cooking, we’ve ordered a delivery Pizza Party ! (kids all happy/cheering) Should be 30-40 minutes away(after which repeating same with Anna and Lucy) The delivery car did arrive 25 minutes from Pizza Hut Delivery (ED: UK has a slightly different menu for sitting in vs delivery from PHD. As to why they never completed transformation is anyone’s guess… but I would miss the Cheesy Garlic tear and share Bread! BUT more than five years not 1! ),with everyone fed and happy ,  as is usual after pizzas PLUS cookie dough and ice cream and some Ben & Jerrys ice cream went down even quicker. !!! The parents returned to Sofa, and 18.15 a text from Dr Reynolds said she’d be 5 minutes.

And indeed she was ! With Suzy closest to the door (putting out rubbish) she said “Hello… ohh hi Doc… long time no see” Come on in, I know you are here for George & Amelia – they were in the Playroom but I  know you would not say no to saying hello again to Lisa and My other kids” “Awwh Suzy, you know me so well” Lisa met halfway between Sofa and Doorway “Hello again Doc Reynolds! (hugs Lisa) Now I will (re)introduce you to George and Amellia.  Before I take you over and then we go upstairs; a question on a semi-related note; Suzy reminded me you have access to  have Babysitter/Nanny network ,short term, up to permanent. We will need an additional permanent sitter Mon-Fri for those two when we both return to work. We need someone who can get on with all of my kids, new and old. Could you forward them my details. ,possibly to get 2-3 visiting me at home early next week ?” “YES; not  a problem , I will be more than happy to assist … it might be Monday for the permanent ones group comes back to you !” She walked Dr Reynolds through “Hey kids” to them all before meeting George and Amellia, before Lisa and Doc walked the two kids upstairs, one at a time”  She chatted for around half an hour, including basic checks. “OK Well nice to meet you two again, … “”You’re right Amellia she is a lovely lady “ “Awhwh thanks” before kids being walked downstairs.

 “They seem physically and mentally not too bad. Well when their records come back, my colleague Brian (Dr Smithson)  who saw them yesterday will be in touch, probably if not him then his PA , Sheilla Reynolds!, to arrange an appointment for you to come  in.
 A remember while its not a Public Holiday Monday, our practice is closed for staff training, with our sister surgery in Broughty Ferry taking people if they need anything for a new Scottish nationwide  NHS computer system training (starting around a fortnight) – Suzy included , ; (Broughty) Ferry lot it’s Tuesday so just FYI” “Yes thanks again Doc” before walking Doc R back downstairs.

Everyone’s bedtime came all too early!

 

The weekend was a very similar Fun for all the kids and parents alike!! Saturday just after lunch, Suzy’s mother and father (Sen Nurse  Polly and eng. Dip. Andy Larsson) popped around for their first official meeting of George and Amellia! Like Doc Reynolds, they did indeed bump into them earlier in the week at the Doctor surgery!

Sunday Suzy’s kids and family all left for home, like usual.

NEXT WEEK (FROM MONDAY) STARTS IN CHAPTER 50

 

 

Chapter 50 –George and Amelia first full week with Lisa and Steve  - looking forward to better future - other people’s news too! – part       1  (Monday)

Lisa woke both Amellia and George at 07.50. She reminded them they had workers round 10.00 this morning, hence 10 mins earlier wakeup than previous day! Around the similar time at, around  10.30  one of more of a contractors company Suzy knows (one of there or four) contractor company Keating Smith who we  have used before will be helping us with your paints, wallpaper and patterns you chose, for around an hour  (Sadly neither of our families ; Suzy or Mine;  are DIY capable!). We have them around before hand and they are nice people; you will need 2hours after before you can go in. All the paint SHOULD be dry but be careful just in case of  a 14.00 your Mother is ringing, 15.00 your father/Daddy ringing too.  Yesterday I ran out of time to  talk about Nursery School, but we will do that later on this evening. How did you feel this weekend went; George and  then Amellia, while I change you into new nappies?”

George started “well, I feel it was FUN with a capital F. All Suzy’s kids and her husband  Jeff were VERY nice and added to  a very pleasant weekend, compared to before. Personally 10/10. I really liked Rose and Barry particularly; hopefully we might see them soon enough?” “Well, towards the end of this week from Thursday afternoon to Sunday, we will be going to hers home and I will let you know George ”yayyyyyhhh” said George. “Amellia; what did you think” “Well, AWESOME with a capital, erm, AAA… (puts two thumbs up) See Lisa??” “ WOW so a 10/10 from you George, and not 1 but 2 thumbs up from Amellia? I will walk you down for breakfast, and I’ll tell Steve your feelings! (Lisa whispers in  Steve’s; ear) “Did you REALLY like it 10/10 George, and two thumbs up Amelia? That’s great news. We do aim to please; and you are still so easy to deal with” . Lisa whispered in Steve’s ear “I do remember when I was starting out in  Littlespace at 19 as a 2 year old too, ,also Daddy and Mummy paid for my nursery too! Even throwing in a few surprises in too …” “Yes they’re kind and caring  to you and your siblings Lisa” “Well that’s no secret… !” “And that was when Dad had ONE taxi office!” ” (Smooches briefly before Lisa gets her breakfast!)

When each kid finished their own Breakfast, they were allowed to go through to the Playroom, with George and Amellia reminded she would come get them when their workers arrived. When  Lisa saw the first car arriving around 09.50, they were asked to come through to the Dining Table.

Their worker’s both Margaret and Grace really loved the fact they were happy with all their good times, and progress, both George and Amellia made since Friday afternoon.  The Painter/Contractor was similarly prompt in and out a little sharp!

However, surprising call was 11.50 ; Polly (Lisa’s mum/kids grandmother/Brians husband) had rung… not an everyday occurrence   - more often than not deaths – BUT it was MORE good news…. He told his wife that in three months time , he was receiving an Honorary Doctorate in Business, at Dunder University of Abertay (ED: better known to those before  mid 1990s as Bell Street Tech!)” She said; like when you herd from Buckingham Palace, this was a VERY big honour . He asked them to tell Lisa and Steve (she did with kids too), before telling his other 2 daughters! For not the first time past 7 days! Lisa had a brainwave!! “Would you be okay with helping me out together a Congratulations card from all of us to Grandfather who’s just been told , as well as being CBE; he is getting a honorary Doctorate in Business, for all his charity work too ” “Yeaahhhhhh….. good news for Brian !”

After lunch (pasta bake and salads) she explained the significance of this to their kids. “Your Daddy very clever?” Lucy asked”?  Lisa then added up with “Also that and this is also a honour for all Charity work. Over the last 6 to 7 years he has started giving away a lot of his Money; me and  my sister Anna sit on a monthly meting to process and see through up application from Dundonian’s  AND let’s not forget he was at Buckingham Palace getting an CBE award (Commander of the Order of the British Empire) 3 years ago for very similar reason, receiving from King Charles too himself (ED: yes him w’ the lugs!)  In that time we knew it was a maybe; they met his family and staff and the like. This Time, we genuinely had no idea!” “Then we  Mum. we should indeed honour his great news!” Lucy replied. “To the Crafting/ Card Making table…” 

Around 13.50 she asked for both George and Amellia to come through as your Parents are ringing you soon.

And , bang on 14.00, phone rung. Lisa answered it first of all (Geroge and Amellia’s Mother ) and she gave a brief recap since Wednesday before passing over to George (talking for around 20 minutes) before Amellia (for similar time). She rung off, saying to Lisa “Thanks for letting me speak with my kids. I am starting to feel were  not very good as parents; but it’s great to hear they are safe with you and your family”

An hours later ; 15.00 George and Amelia’s father rung  too. That was pretty much similar, but the end he said “I know we fucked up as parents, but I really appreciate you and Steve making sure  they are safe!”

After the last call, Lisa checked how they were (a little stunned looking) so she suggested they join the others in the Playroom! Going from Zero to Happy in a few seconds (plus running time back to the playroom)

She sat down and explained both parents endings to the  calls; starting to know what they did was wrong ,they agreed before them both. However they were  safe and happy with us!  A text ,messages from Suzy  around  15.20 did say George and Amelias files arrived , with our concentration on our New PC System (ED: see bottom half of this post), so it might be a day or two for a call. Sorry for delay (2 hours ago) BUT this New Computer System is sadly up and down like a whore’s drawers!  I will discuss it with you tomorrow in a phone call!!!

17.35 Lisas father  Brian arrived, and all the kids and bigs in the house (who can speak!) stood up for 2  Minute Applause and Standing Ovation (similar  to those when Suzy returned post Triplets birth to her home) “Awwh… thanks Kids, you did not need to do that at all…” Looking through the card, he looked a little taken aback in happiness!

Lisa and Steve did discuss Nursery School with George and Amellia; with them agreeing it will be a great way to meet other kids!

Everyone’s bedtime came all too early!

 

IN OTHER PEOPLES NEWS

Suzy, Suzy’s mother (senior nurse Orla) and Suzy’s boss (Doc Reynolds) Were work all for a New  Computer Training System Day Stephanie Schnell (practice big boss)  started the training, advising the reason as clearly NHS has money to burn... BUT one a separate terminal, took THE BIG BOSS 25 minutes to  get it to properly connect to an NHS network…. Sadly it was not most reliable, (“QV earlier in this Chapter:  Suzy’s up and down like a whores drawers comment above) but as a full day was allowed for 4-5 hours training; at NHS request, they got there eventually and away form 17.20. The biggest feelings from big boss Stephannie was seeing if they can postpone that for a month or so!”

 

 

After listening to this story several times, some minor corrections are happening in a bit: won’t edit every Chapter here BUT  upload as a attachment in the near future.

 

Chapter 51–George and Amelia first full week with Lisa and Steve  - looking forward to better future - other people’s news too! – part       2  (Tuesday)

A quieter Tuesday was expected. Lisa and Suzy on phone ,and a telephone call regarding potential helpers / sitters for George & Amelia (after getting an Apology from the agency 18.05 yesterday for running out of time!) Suzy’s been forwarded Smith Benevolent Fund group text re Brians forthcoming Honorary Doctorate, with all her family pleased for Lisa’s father, and the entire family… it’s going to get used to DOCTOR Brian Smith CBE! It is understood the University is issuing the Press Release on Friday, ceremony  is 4 Fridays away, BUT it’s NOT restricted News !  Around 09..30, the same number who texted last night. A discussion they require a Monday-Friday daytime sitter for 2 new Foster-to-Adopt kids (may be mild SEN but waiting for doctor getting their papers etc). It was offered that Friday she could have a few could visit but Lisa advised staying our BFF’s – so  was  mutually settled Tuesday(i.e.  a week today) Next.  

Suzy sent a text saying could she ring you  now? “ “Yes, can spare some time!” After congratulating Lisas father again, she said first of all both her and her Mum jumped the phone when a message same time 08.00 saying the New Computer System Being Shelved Until Further Notice. Work needs to be done, so we appreciate everyone’s  feedback. ” (all NHS indirectly or not on a text system; similar  to when a Doctors Practice text to all Patients)… They both took one  look, started at each other saying “THANK FUCK” However the Ferry lot are training today  BUT as to whether the system will change again in time, is unclear.   My mum and Doc R are happy and we look forward to seeing you and yours Thursday.

Late Tuesday afternoon (after a lunch of Battered Sausages and Chips with Cake and Custard) , the Doctors Surgery rung  to fix an Appointment for George and Amellia ( Sheila Reynolds, PA for Dr  Smithson (see Chapter 46 this story) with nothing Wed but a couple of cancellations; first being Thursday 10.00  ? That was booked!

Sweet and Sour Chicken/Rice was Dinner and Sticky Toffee Pudding for dinner , Lisa and Steve and all kids had another quality day together!

Everyone’s bedtime came all too early!

 

 

 

 

Chapter 52 –between George and Amellia first Wednesday (Suzy

5^th  month since triplets) and Suzy 7 months 1 weeks (since Suzy’s Triplets arrival)

Lisa and her family

More things at her side; not uncommon after 2 new arrivals (George and Amellia!) The it doctors record didn’t show much of concern (bar a few missed inoculations; Nurse Polly (Suzy’s mother) had them arranged in a week) BUT Doctor had arranged  for further  Psychology.  An appointment had been received for 5 weeks away (so 8^th month 2^nd week  after Suzy’s labour).

As both Amellia and George had and amazing 4 weeks; it was moved that formally approve  adoption, which was granted, with both names changed by Statutory Declaration to McKenzie, In the same next week (5^th week).  The (birth) Parents are allowed to have kids visit them  weekly  ; after a months sobriety in the case of BOTH parents “A deal’s a deal said Grace!). ; and enjoying that. They had apologised to both kids in person; and are unsure if we did the right thing with having you two; BUT  we are both VERY happy Lisa and Steve make the make you genuinely happy, and we wish you all well.

Her Father’s trust suggested one off £150k payment’s to both George and Amellia’s Social Worker and Project Workers ! AS THEY had NOT applied (bank details are usually in the applications so they can get a Faster Payment, so usually within a day after the payment is made) they were given cheques ; and were very surprised at the  following Day when they visited !

Brian did have an Amazing Day with his Honorary Doctorate , with all 3  daughters, (Lucy and her hubby) with their parents and Suzy, and the like all looked on in proudness standing and cheering and the like ; similarly to the CBE down at Buck House!  It was an amazing weather day outside; with a BBQ round the back of Brian (and Lisa’s) home too!

 

 

Suzy and her family

Month 6 they did have their Universally Wide Parenting home visit. They met the entire family, taking pictures of rooms , family, and this and that round their home, They were asked if  the they are with kids up to 16 or 18; as we are getting more and more of them (at one point we were under 8s but not up to 16-18) – yes; and we will rewatch the earlier foster videos for the ages we have (and they did post kids bedtime). Application was indeed successful; with them hearing the next couple of months. After texting Lisa was asked asking if the older kids thing ,did they mentioned that to you???” “Nah, must be a new thing…” Lisa replied by Text “… And Congratulations Suzy and Jeff” “Awwh thanks!”

One week later , a checkup - Arranged to check if any permanent or temporary damage done to Suzy’s womb during a 26 hour delivery of three babies) showed a few tears in different parts if her womb; (not unusual in multiples where more space is needed and big single births) BUT it might resolve itself. As she was using contraception and still making love/vaginal sex was too sore, so she is doing the right thing. She was scheduled to come back in six weeks, BUT NOT TO WORRY As this would  not entirely rule out another pregnancy of your own body.” Her daddy , walking her back to the car; do what she said: DON’T WORRY (Lisas went fine as did Suzy’s first one!)  

Monday at  7 months and 2 weeks since the triplets is where we go in our next chapter (Chapter 53)

 

 

 

N.B. In this Chapter there is discussion of both an underage  pregnant teen girl  AND Drink Driving. I do NOT condone or approve of Either of these…  

Chapter 53 –  Suzy’s Universal Wide Parenting Call – 3 Kids (or  3 and a half) with a cross to bear, and then some – part 1

Monday morning 10.55,  Suzy was looking after her triplets in  the Girls (Charlotte and Aurora)’s  nursery  ; her Mother and Father had been off to work. Her hubby Geoff was working from home,, and in the playroom were the other children. Then Suzy’s mobile/cell phone rang. It showed up Universally Wide Parenting , so she answered before sitting  down on the floor just outside their nursery.

“Hello , Suzy Clark’s phone?”

“Hello Suzy, this is Declan McKay from UWP, is this a good time to talk? “Yes it is”

“Well, this is a Placing Call, but 3 older kids who we would like to keep together ; and some people are saying no because of one or more “fine, you  can give it to me straight Declan”

“Two months ago, the parents were returning after dropping their kids off at school; a drunk driver went through 3 red lights before crashing into the parents car home from the school run turning right, which is why both parents were killed on the spot. Dad worked as good doctor paediatrician of some significant standing,  Night Shift Ninewells (Hospital Dundee and good chunk of Tayside) and Mum was a homemaker.

“I am so sorry to hear first of all; but what can you tell me  about the kids? “Well this is usually where the phone goes dead!”

The youngest of 3 is 11 year old boy  Byron Reynolds Macpherson, Non verbal autistic (boy) with speaking tablet + Bedwetter

The middle one 12 year old born boy  Orlando Byron  Macpherson but  see themselves as Gender Neutral  now  Avery

The oldest is a 13 year old  pregnant teen girl Bryony Lucille Mapherson ; 11 weeks gone but unsure what to do (with the kid). 

BIZARRELY Enough plenty love for middle one ; he explains the situation for his 11yo brother so we need 2 together BUT since both parents passed, they draw on each other  more and more so I’d like to keep them all together  . The only family ( a cousin)  has not enough room for the 2 boys, let alone the sister! , So Mrs Clark, what do you think? “

                                                                

“Firstly, call me Suzy! And in theory,  we have room (including a spare should the young woman keep the kid). (Suzy starts walking across to the Study/bigs PC And Mac room / printers etc , where here hubby/Daddy works from home will put you on hold for a couple of Minutes; my  husband works  from home today;… now do you mind if I put you on hold for 2 minutes or so”? “No problems, if I the line drops I will ring you back immediately “ “NO worries” (noise of Suzy chapping on the door) “Come In””

Suzy then explained it was a UWP Placement Call, on hold at the moment, She explained everything she’d been told; and Steve answered “SO when they getting dropped off?” “Well I  wanted to check if any of their issues would be an issue?” “NO, silly baby… if you are happy, I am happy. I Love YOU (Smooch)  

Could you at lunch give me a hand swapping round mattresses and the like “  YES and I will ring my line manager soon too. ; “NOW  go back to the call before someone else gets them “

“Hello Declan, its good news;  we’re both happy  with all 3 you describe. Assuming like my BFFs placement some additional help etc  in the short term ,but what are your plans for Dropping Off!? “

“Would tea-time around 17.00 give you enough time? “Yeah, that; s fine….! “ After discussing more of their new arrivals too before ringing off.

Afterwards She messaged everyone else In her inner circle , to VERY positive response. She called her Boss too to ask if the short term babysitter or see if someone could help with triplets at Lisa’s ; or in their own home ; This was given immediately And please feel  free to take all the Additional time off you need, and just let me know when  you’d  like me to come round to meet you three new kids, as well as a Pregnancy Consultancy for the pregnant young woman  / failing that i could always refer for termination IF that’s what she decided ”  ” “Awwh will do, thanks Boss…”  How do you feel about potentially being a grandma?” “well, if that’s what she wants to do and she here, I guess that wont be a problem” “And I am so proud “ “Thanks again Boss!” of you are  taking this “massive jump getting 3 new kids/young adults!!!

Next call .,, Suzy did  ring the number to enquire if someone could either babysit at a friends house; in their own home, for 48-72 hours? For 3 triplets under a year old??” “Well there were a couple; who she take them for you that time?” Yes, sounds good” They mutually agreed a lovely sitter called Melissa would pick up the 3 children in around 1  hour – 1 and a half hours

“Afterwards she rung her BFF to catch up brief 5  minutes BUT Lisa and Steve will definitely come around at some point when they are all ready???” “Yes no problem Suzy!” Also advised  the triplets plan B was yourself BUT the short notice/term babysitter network helped too!”

Suzy then walked through to the Playroom where she explained about 17.00, 3  slightly older children joining our home, getting the new floor where we have 4 bedrooms, a store cupboard and a bathroom. . She explain everything she knew, with Kid-friendly words easy to understand. “ So you might be a granny mummy?” Said Rose? “Well I’d never thought… well in any case she has NOT DECIDED to keep or get rid of this through a procedure Called Abortion... so please  wait until her decision (Rose mimics Zipping  her lips)…. In addition please be similarly sensitive with the guy who can’t talk, BUT he has a tablet so he can.

In addition THEY are already in school… this restarts in a couple of weeks BUT they might be postponed for a few days (as you will recall Lisa’s Jayden gong to Nursery School and Rose at Christmas time!);

They are going into ;

 Byron into  Primary 7 but at Kingspark  as he has Special needs. I was their too; where I was because I had potty problems (Still do).

Avery and Bryony are going into  Secondary School S1 12 and S2 for 13. “That’s almost OLD as old as you Mummy” “Ohi… I know someone wants me to tickle her to death (tickle Rose), tickle her to death, (repeats x6)

Standing  back up “Now the triplets are being picked up for 48-72 hours soon enough. A Babysitter helping me so we can concentrate on you two,  plus three new arrivals . After we arrive; after as short time we can all meet up. We will offer Their Choice of a Meal Out, And you come too (extending past your bedtime but tonight it’s all OK) “ “Yayyayah (Rose and Barry scream at each other) , Afterwards we will get some  stuff they need from a supermarket (clothes and food etc the like). Now your Daddy will; bring games for you to play while we go for the food ; that’s if to you aren’t already dozing your wee heads of!”” Thanks Mummy… What’s for lunch?” “We are having a pre-made Lasagne and Ice Cream!  Will be around half an hour, so go back playing for now!”

 

She went through briefly to Daddy briefly advising the kids has been told before going back to cBeebies on the Big Screen, after checking nappies (Barry needed changed, and Charlotte and Elizah) before giving her mum a ring (muting for the chat but she always has it subtitles on so she can still join in  (for Suzy; multitasking is a cinch and always has been, since of Secondary School age; 12).

Looking through her Phone Contacts finding Mum Mobile and Suzy “”Hello Mum” “Hello Grandma!” “doesn’t start that; just had that  from Rose and Doc Reynolds! … well she as not being sure (1) if they will like us, and (2) if she keeps it... .so then how do you like being GREAT grandma???” “Touche; and thanks Suzy , I now feel a hundred… and you’re right , we should wait”. See told her the three new triplets are going to a babysitter after an hour-ish for 48-72 hours so we concentrate on out more arrivals , as our sitters are working part time. As usual with previous fosters placements taking them out for a meal – you and Dad are welcome to join us so no cooking tonight (might need your car for you too).  She was also asked if she could bring 3 sets of Change of Doctors Surgery paperwork for when the kids are ready sdo they can join us, and the welcome pack / information. Also 1 copy of the NHS Pregnancy Book  for the potential mother to be; so she has all her options ; doctor Reynold’s office has some in one of the filing cabinets and more round in the back store! Suzy’s Mother said next “Well ; do you remember we discussed your five kids being one of my dreams for years (A large family)???” “Yes mum, kinda hard to forget;!” Well I look forward to meeting the 3 new arrivals, ,my grandkids 6, ,7, 8, ; hopefully they settle and I have 8 grandkids, and IF Bryony decides to keep her pregnancy; my first Great  Grand Kid Was thinking would have to wait 15years for Rose! “ “Awwh thanks Mum…”

AFTER LUNCH CONTINUES IN NEXT CHAPTER

 

 

Chapter 54 –  Suzy’s Universal Wide Parenting Call – 3 Kids (or  3 and a half) with a cross to bear, and then some – part 2

Lunch was put on for the 2 kids ,two parents and she breastfed all 3 triplets, before the  person picked them up 30 minutes later.

Suzy then went back to the sofa, going back phoning catchup. From earlier on ;texting Declan (UWP Project Worker) saying Plans Are ready to roll. 3 kids and 1 upstairs room.  Spare room for 2 helpers only has 1 mattress now BUT for now another Mattress is on order for tomorrow, However second person could sleep in a spare Double Bed we have for when my BFF and her Hubby and kids coming round ; NOT needed tonight; just ignore the handcuffs and big and small baby stuff  etc” “

A thumbs up from Declan before he texted more:

“Thanks Suzy! Their Social Worker will be coming;’ his name is Kevin Robertson ; and he might be 5-10 minutes different as he works further away. But if he shows up first; just let him in and I will see him when I arrive. 
We will give Maximum SEN Rate for Byron, while regular rate for both Avery and Bryony for now .  If she keeps baby etc she can Apply for child benefit etc BUT  you will already know that! Being Dr Reynolds PA although but I  appreciate you are on extended maternity leave ! She describes you as and an Amazing Woman, Mother, Employee!

In addition; as a one off payment; they do have a lot of stuff (in storage; probably Wednesday or Thursdays) already but as you will need some bigger kid stuff  (food, decoration) you will get the full One Off Award to help with stuff they now;’ £600 (SEN Byron) plus £500 plus £500; so £1, 600 on a prepaid debit card; Chip& PIN and Contactless and the like .

Ps you’re kidding about the Handcuffs? Right Suzy???

Suzy’s reply
“YE thanks … I have told my boss Doc Reynolds and her words are I can take as much extra time I need; hopefully a month or two before for kids settling in.  So  a knock on effect is might of back 10^th month not 9^th .

My hubby / Baby Daddy is disusing with his manager Micheal Stroud ,When I finally gave birth 40 and a half week and got home  Friday 41^st week with all 3 kids; he spontaneously offered him 2 extra weeks paternity leave ;  So I don’t think he will not play hard to get”

p.s. No, it’s their thing,,, longer storey than mine! Have only done that now and then since they started a family … same with their full size punishment bench when they are talking about making another kids room! “

 

Declan’s response:

“Well , everyone  has their thing, I guess!
Looking forward to putting a name to a face (you both) soon!.”

After that she went back through to her daddy/babies Father Jeff to advise the  most recent  discussions form earlier. `Jeff said “he had been given 6 weeks initially, but will extend if needed. Suzy was “hoping a month or two to get them settled in, thus now hoping 10 months after the triplets birth now. I will go do checks/changes  on Barry (Rose pretty much potty trained and snacks for those in Playroom, but when you are done for just now, please join me on the sofa” “Yes 15 mins or so Suzy” time now coming up for 15.00.

 

Barry’s nappy was fine for half an hour or so,;  but they were both needing juice refills (in Sippy cups),   Suzy took both  cups through to refill after giving both each Fruit Winders (Real fruit mostly wound up tight ) treats. On her return she advised “when the people arrive;  could you stay in playroom and we will come and get you. In the run up to their r arrival; I will make sure you are clean and dry too! In an hour we will give you a wee treat to keep you going to Dinner, which will not we  be later around 18.00 or 18.30.; some of your favourite sandwich fillings and a bag of crisps and a piece of fruit each!” (both very excited) “You two are always so excitable, aren’t; you kids?” “Yes Mum! Followed by another round woop woops!  ”

As above her Daddy joined 5 minutes later (last 10 minutes with snacks etc) and now 15.15” “Barrys fine for  half an hour 15 minutes ago; could you please change  him then???”  “Will do baby girl, and mother of 8… “ “yeah settling in how do you feel about being potentially a granddad” “When I spoke to mum she said “hello Grandma” to which  said; that would make her GREAT Grandmother; to which she said  “Touche; and thanks Suzy , I now feel a hundred” She was happy at having an even bigger family 6 7 and 8; if the teen decides to keep her kid then she’s happy if were happy She though she would Was thinking would have to wait 15years for Rose to  make her a grandma! “ “True”… … and you’re right , we should wait”

“Indeed, however not just her who needs extra help.

Middle one Avery; (pronouns they/them ,so DON’T say him / he) is Gender Neutral ; refer to them as They/Their -  for  the last year; not sure if to end changing gender . They are otherwise a straight up normal kid slash young adult!

Youngest one Byron; we already know is Non-Verbal Autistic (ED: my sisters kid referred to in Chapter 16 is this way too – she now married with twins; ) BUT no speech device although he is used to pointing at things/given pick list / pictures /pointing etc.) Also wets the bed but apparently fine during the day?”

Jeff then pointed out he had a trans friend at school (FtM female to male) and also Kingspark brings you back some happy memories”  “”” It does indeed Daddy. We are definitely doing the right thing today, we wanted more kids “ finished off Suzy“ We did indeed” “Now change Barry’s nappy and Return ???” “oh yeah, will do”  

The young two had their extra food, and in the run up to 17.00 they were both fine  with extra juice and  things keeping them happy. At 17.05,  Declan McKay (UWP Project Worker) arrived   with the 3 new arrivals (Byron, Avery, and Bryony) with 2 helpers took the kids upstairs to their rooms on third floor!

While they were preparing to sit down for the discussion (with the door technically ajar) , the kids social worker Kevin Robertson let himself in! “Hello Kevin” they greeted them. Suzy introducing  the rest (Suzy ,Jeff,  Declan and Kevin.  She also explained her Mother Senior Nurse Orla and my Father eng. Dip Andy  -both surnames Larsson   are due home, soon, they may join later;  they know what’s happening.

 

Declan then stood up, to chair the discussion

“Well hello , and thanks for agreeing to help us with Byron, Avery and Byrony!  The sad fact is all three  kids/ young people now have no parents, 1 being SEN, 1 being gender neutral  and being a pregnant teen,  thanks to a Drunk driver” I will next  pass over to their Social worker , who  has worked with the family Longer, Kevin Robertson”

(Door opens, Suzy’s mother – 10 seconds later father – arrive and remove coats etc before sitting at table,  first quarter of Kevin’s discussion)

“Hello indeed, thanks Declan. May I first of all reiterate what he said; yes THANK YOU for agreeing to help them tonight”

He explained lots of details (saying him and his predecessors been since the non verbal kid was 2). Now in this situation; the kids were looked after and then some by  their parents. Never abuse, or any of the things we have seen sadly with other families. And a largely happy family lose BOTH parents at the same time while out at school.

“Very moving picture Kevin” said Jeff (her daddy and other baby daddy too bar Barry)

“So we got Universally Wide Parenting involved, but been having difficulty to keep them together with everyone unhappy with either the NVA or pregnant teen.. As we said on the phone; after 4 Call s today alone (and more last week) we all genuinely  appreciated you both saying yes. Their Worker showed them file pictures we had and like they are getting a room each, as well as you getting additional older kid supplies. They loved the pictures of your family and potentially loving having younger siblings

”  “Well our 3 triplets are away, so we concentrated on the new todays three new arrivals; but the will back soon enough;

We look forward to helping all 3 kids,  however  yes no problem  “Now, just before we get this signed, Mum and Dad ‘ ad you two have any questions”? “Just 1 ; the Gender Neutral kid; what are their chosen kid; what are their pronouns? Only thing nor on Suzy’s message and phone call?”

“No problem Orla,  please refer  to Avery as They/Their” Suzy asks “Mum did you google that on the way home ”?” “No, in office earlier on BUT found some additional literature/ books in the office too! And again me and my husband Andy look forward to knowing Grandkids 6, 7, 8!” “Thanks mum”

Afterwards, signature time (Social Work first of all , returning to Kevin, then Two signatures for different UWP forms  and another for the Debit Card.   Declan then brought Suzy and Jeff’s previous application; double checking the bank details were the same and they were indeed.

“Right, ring Sheila and Bob to bring kids down too, with their Lists of any additional stuff in a list they need)

After all 3 were down, Suzy asked them to join our sat down table; while her Jeff bringing Rose and Barry to through  the dinner table., Suzy introduced and welcomed them to their home, before proceeding to introduce everyone

Suzy introduced them “I am Suzy and I live here with my Husband Jeff (taps on head),  my mother Senior  Nurse Orla (ditto), by father Engineering Diploma  Andy (ditto), also  mu 2 ½ year old Rose (ditto), 1  ½ year Barry (ditto). Triplets too (all 7 months old)  are Charlotte, Elizah and Aurora are being looked after a sitter,  so we can get you all settled in today and tomorrow BUT they will send love too ;  their kids Project Worker Declan (ditto), and their Social Worker Kevin (ditto) before going over three new ones ; 11yo boy Byron – he/him (ditto), 12yo gender neutral child Avery they/them (ditto) , and finally 13yo girl slash young woman  Byrony her/she (ditto)

 

“Now before we discuss our plans for tonight dinner, any questions or comments for the kids , their workers; me/Steve or my mother/father Orla/Andy?”  (Rose sticks paw up only) “Yes Rose” “Not a question but as young younger sister and brother  me and Barry, all say Hello and Welcome , We hope you really love our home , we both do! To the Gender Neutral person, tomorrow or whenever  I am sure you can explain that to me” “ Avery said “No problem , and thanks from myself and our family three having us all here together, we really appreciate you taking us three after the worst 3 months of our lives to  your Mum and Dad!”

“Thank you Avery” “No problem”, Thank you Byron (hits a couple of buttons so his speaker says) “No problem”, Thanks Byrony“ “No problem” 

“As this is your first  night;  and we have done  similar when we used to foster before ; take you out for any food you like; after that we will get some stuff from a Supermarket! (Conferring between Byron, Avery and Byrony with last one standing up) “We’d be happy with a chipper (Fish and Chip Shop)  any you recommend?”  “YES: we know just the  place: Tailend (ED: also see Me At 25, Chapter 46) then Tesco Riverside I will take you round why Steve sits with the kids; plenty games and the like   Now, we will take you  three ,  me and Steve and you Rose and Barry! In my car, and my Mum,/Dad in a separate car, as I only have so many seats” ” Now your workers are saying goodbye for just now, but they usually come round in the morning “10.00 okay for Suzy and Jeff” ”Yes that fine…  And you two helpers are staying here (Avery walks away to hug them both by way of thanks)

 

Leaving 18:10 (after everyone belted in) Suzy’s Mumtruck 2nd Suzy’s Mothers car too, it took a  few minutes to get parked on a side street, a couple of minutes  on foot to go round the corner  to the restaurant (the having a booking for 9 done just before leaving ; 5 kids/young adults and 4 bigs just before leaving  in case a second was  needed) Although with it being Monday, only a few handful of couples and single diners   else, but just in case a massive booking or being closed (it was the second week of the Dundee July Trades fortnight, of course) They enjoyed the food, getting to know each other, but the 3 seem to  have a very self-deprecating sense of humour  (ED: like me in real life)  having the entire booth; starting with Byron insisting on doing a MEEP MORP alien impression on his tablet (Similar to Jake Peralta’s  boss on Brooklyn 99), then Avery standing up “CONFUSED. CONFUSED.. no I’m Confused.com!!!, before Bryony said “Well Suzy,, apologies I might be making you a grandma  at 36, and your Mummy Polly a great grandma in her early fifties” “made everyone’s drinks go all over the table (out their noses)  

Suzy said “I did tell everyone to be on best behaviour today, particularly those with issues. I can be more flippant if you like? BUT love seeing anyone happy ; or indeed Laughing at the face of adversity they say Mum” “Aye that’s right; and I’m 58 dear but   thanks, I will take that age as a Compliment *hugs Byrony briefly*

“Avery said Well we did the mourning, lots and lots of it.  We are moving on, with our parents once saying they would prefer us NOT to mourn forever if one or both of them died.  This is the way we used to be around the home and with friends. “ “Well that’s good for you all three. We weren’t sure what you would be like; everyone is different with any kind of loss” BUT wed now welcome you to our home with open arms!”

After food finished, Orla and Andy headed home , while Suzy and Jeffs car went to Tesco Riverside , getting  a few extra food and other things the new arrivals needed, before heading home with Jeff tucking in Rose and Barry before Suzy went upstairs to ensure their 3 new arrivals getting help from their extra help.

 

Suzy returned to her floor with her Daddy and her bedroom;

“I think those kids will do well. They taught me stuff  be happy in the face of adversity. I guess like me in littlespace as a teenager myself”  “Yes ... .i love you Suzy (Smooches)

 

TUESDAY IN NEXT CHAPTER

 

 

Chapter 55 –  post Suzy’s Universally Wide Parenting call: the first week from Tuesday to Sunday with Byron, Avery and Bryony at Suzy & Jeffs – part 1

As Suzy  drifted off to sleep ; after saying earlier on 10 months (post Triplets labour) back to work ; she was now thinking to herself: should I even return at all , with us being given this golden opportunity ; with kids old a little older than if they started for Kids Day (with jeff)  she thought indeed – IS there a reason it was here and tonight? Food for thought indeed, and she wrote it down to tell to her Daddy Jeff in the morning! No working day but Alarm set 07.10 to wake up new 3 arrivals for 07.30 When discussing last night  thoughts with her hubby/daddy Jeff, he said “Well you have this chance; I will let  YOU Decide that over the next fortnight with the kids.. and yes there might be a reason were jumping from 5 little ones up to School running soon; probably next fortnight or maybe tiny bit longer’ older; but everything happens for  a reason”” “Yes thanks Daddy. And vey true indeed, If we get up now with it being 07.25, I do that now,  I will wake them. Whereas you go for your breakfast . After that I plan to having 1 on 1 meetings in the study , ; with both their workers scheduled separately around  10.00.

As they may take offence at “little ones” (not being little BUT no one is the home  taller than Suzy!)   she decided on “Good Morning from Suzy! In your own time please come down for breakfast”; to all 4 doors (3 kids rooms and helpers) Orla had  started 07.15 with herself leaving for work (and Suzy’s father Andy too!) within 10-15 minutes of the knock, all were ready “Thanks,  Morning Suzy” was repeated more than once. They were told them after half an hour from now (starting around 08.30) I will take you for some 1  on 1 time, will go through  up to half an hour or so; go through some rules; talk to you about our Doctor Surgery;’; and give you chance if you have any questions as well as i might have a few to get you better. Also, with your workers due around 10.00.  More visitors hopefully up to the weekend ; including my best friend Lisa and 7 kids not trying to rush everything at once for you.  Today of course second Mattress (for spare room)  too.

One of these evenings Doc Reynolds will visit after her work! She’s a lovely lady , who helps when people want a baby, are expecting a baby, after babies are born, and also for those people who can’t have babies of their own. She’s my Boss BUT 3 days a week (usually Mon/Tue/Wed) BUT after Barry  came really early and I was expecting just after Rose; then finding triplets, 26 hour labour still sore and had planned  catching up with mu first two ; then new three triplets;  and now you three. However she loves meeting my family members ; and you 3 now too ! “ After Suzy finished that; Jeff asked how their first nights went; with no complaints so far!

 

In the run up to 08.30. Suzy walked Byron first Study (explaining where Jeff worked from home  Mon/Tues/Wed and in office Thursday and Friday; and for when I need my PC).  She had intended the start; adding extra’s later , for all 3.

She started with  5 minutes on herself, including things like her little side then a few more  minutes  Jeff before each about all the significant people she had (and has met too ,mostly people they will meet and a few characters who shaped her before, a good number sadly passed away; from school teachers to some of my favourite patients at the Doctors Surgery. So can try and sympathise with a little of your loss. Her mother had  PCOS was very lucky to have me, and was delighted when she heard  I had a few foster placements before also having her first Grandkid.

She explained the House Rules (Same as Lisa: see this story Chapter 45; except their Password is actually Maple). While we understand used to under 5’s in my home and Lisa; so we are into age- appt disciplines (Like grounding/loss of Screen Time BUT that should be resolved by the weekend).  Their Wi-Fi password was part of Welcome Pack/Ring Binder BUT as it was on their lists (when unpacking last night) so they already had this .  We will soon be coming week be taking you for paints and papers and patterns to help you decorate your room too.

They explained their Doctors Surgery: not just where she worked but also where her Mother, Senior Nurse Polly (Nurse Larsson) works too ,with no one having problems signing the papers.

She then personalised things a little (mentioning Kingspark to Byron/knew some gay/lesbian friends (While know gender and sexually are two separate things!) at school/college to Avery , and to Byrony discussed her work and personal experience in  pregnancies herself.

Now to the Individual Questions;

Suzy asked (youngest to oldest)

 

Byron was asked first (1) do you have a worker who helped you last school year (A: yes Barry Adams), (2) how do you get on at School (A: not too bad but it’s School!)  (3) Anything else we could help you with (A) Not yet but will let you know.

Bryon  1 question was “Have you head of AB/DL?”  (Suzy wonders if this a trick question) “Yes, as  I mentioned I have most of a life since young as  a Big Kid with potty problems – sadly all my 36 years no one could potty-train me: and me and my  Mother (Polly) helped and support me from big baby to teen baby to even bigger baby: and now; yes mother of a baby now too! So have rung it in little since 33 since fostering then my own kids. Why do you ask, please continue” “ Well I mentioned that to my own mother a while ago, she looked up AB/DL but I don’t think she thought she was the right person to do that BUT we agreed we might experiment as a big baby (nappies all the time and some babyish supplies). However sadly my dad 3 month before was doubling up shifts , my Mum was busier than usual, so that meant in the run up to her death, we never got the chance in the last month back to normal before she passed away!”

“Well I understand. Leave that with me and  I will discuss that my husband/also as well as babies Daddy, my AB/DL daddy (he smiles) and I will try and work out logistics. I do have a few bigger items and clothes and nappies in all sizes from baby1 to baby8 PLUS a variety of ones like you have a night (XS to 2XL Adult-  my size XL!); some a bit more babyish .IS that what you want (he smiles even bigger)  ” “Yes Mu… oops sorry Suzy. No worries with you calling me ANYTHING ; as long as no cussing! “

 

Avery was second ; (1) Are you happy where you are in being Gender Neutral, or so you see this as a stepping stone to transitioning? (A: only started a year ago, knew I was different for years BUT Never say never!  I am happier these days)   (2) It says you are   moving up to Senior School (Secondary S1) at Harris (Academy, Dundee) instead of Blackness (Primary School with also Nursery School) where your sister is? You looking forward to it “ (A: Yes and No; its school but it’s a decent one), (3) are you Mx  on document I assume? (A: yes, that’s it),   (4) Anything else we could help you with (A) In the regards to the papers and paints; I could help apply them ;still a  novice but want to get into one of those trades?” “Thank you; leave that with me and I’ll tell Jeff. Did you do ever any repairs etc round the house??” “Yes helped a few flatpacks  as well as minor repairs”
“Oh wow now I am impressed, we have a potential trade smith! Yes, leave that with me.  I will let Jeff know as you might come in handy” (they beam happily)

Avery’s only question was “When do we have to Start calling you Mum and Dad” (Suzy  replied: we would never force a decision like that, WHEN or IF YOU feel happy with that! And as I told Byron just No worries with you calling me ANYTHING ; as long as no cussing at us!)

 

 

Bryony was third; pregnancy and other stuff over two;  (1) As I understand it and was to yesterday, you had not decided anything keeping or not your Pregnancy; or not; I give you this; we give these to each of the pregnant ladies and other pregnancies we see at work; it gives you all per options  (aawh thanks Suzy!) (2) are you and the father still in touch?” (yes, Brian Wandito)  (3) does he know your pregnant and what was his reaction (Yes he does, we are bf/gf but has been up/down)  (4) Do you usually have some contraception? (Condoms BUT once he was REALLY DOWN ; a old friend he dropped friend dropped down dead , so he came to mine ,we had a few drinks and I guess something went wrong .1 of 3 times I’d drunk, obviously told afterwards not too as pregnant) No good; and that answers 5 can you recall what happened. 1 to 5 are the standard ones from work and how we start things; now rest about you ;

(6)  I understand your going into S2 at Harris, while I believe Avery joins you this year. How did you feel it went;  “Yes that’s right. In my case it was a bigger jump than I  thought, but by start of winter I was getting used to It”  (7)  Anything else we could help you with (A) Not yet but will let you know.

 

Bryony had two Questions; asked all at once 

(1)  When did you start your period: 1 was  10 " I started at 11” (2)  in my situation, what would  you do!? “Well , I assume you mean your pregnancy?” (YES) ; “ Well, in that situation; now you have all the facts in that small book . I know you are both young , and at the surgery we’ve dealt with many like yourself. When I was growing up we had a couple even younger than you who were pregnant… at school and where we lived !

You might have to deal with your partner walks out, or does not want you if you decide to keep your Child. That has happiness at all ages;; not just yours! Every expectant mother has doubts: I thought I would screw up being a Mother, but after 2 or 3 days, I was starting to feel like some of our IVF and other specialist Pregnancies: the job they never thought that would have gives them most joy! As I was a 2 year old in littlespace I  was indeed think Not Yet but Never Say Never! Met Jeff at 24, married with my BFF five minutes apart at  25, first discussed kids around 33-34 as Lisas middle sister (she’s the youngest of 3) had a third pregnancy; she was brooding so (after fostering’s etc) she had her a first born nearly  3 years ago; a beautiful son called Jayden,. SO she inspired me, in effect to become a Mother….(Mind you I did inspire her at 19 to try littlespace) And I’ve genuinely never looked back since Rose!

In my opinion, based on 48 hours acknowledged; I do  think you can cope becoming a mother ;’ and if you do too; I will be there every step of the way (handholding in labour rooms the works). It doesn’t need to hurt ; it could be done though a section too. I was fine in a  week after Rose (but triplets are another matter!)

 BUT irrespective of your decide now, when you leave our home all grown up, down to  the day I die, I will ALWAYS have your back… (they both emotionally embrace for a minute)

CONTINUES IN NEXT CHAPTER

 

 

Chapter 56 –  post Suzy’s  Wide Parenting call: the first week from Tuesday to Sunday with Byron, Avery and Bryony at Suzy & Jeffs – part 2

Upon finishing there 09.40, she also said similar to before with Byron and Avery; there is no need to call me and Jeff Mummy and Daddy; you can call me anything bar anything naughty… “I think I am ready ; especially after our amazing conversation… and you’d be Okay with that’s???”  YES indeed  bar cussing!”

Walked back through to the Dining Room around 09.45, in time  for workers  due 10.00. Seating back down with Jeff ; motioning for her daddy to sit down too. “They all went well. A lot of stuff I learned about of new arrivals. A couple big surprises BUT will go through all that with you after their workers been and gone! “That’s okay... speaking of which earlier Barry; completely out the blue , said he’d like to try what Rose is doing now, I said the  Big Potty? “  YES he did” “Awwh I’ll go over for a quick 2mins..” Having said very similar to with Rose; i.e. she had lifelong potty problems; and I am very proud of you for asking. If you wet yourself me and Daddy will still love you, no matter what” “Awwh thanks Mummy” So if it’s ok, as we have a few things this week for the older kids, could we try from Saturday, and that will give  me time to buy boys pullups” “Fine with me” “Now their worker is coming around soon, but I just stopped for 2 minutes to tell you I am proud of  you for asking!!” She walk back through “Thanks for telling me daddy! We agreed on Saturday as a couple of new  arrivals stuff I will discuss after their workers are away and we can get a bit more time. “ “I think I see / here car/s arriving?” “yes thanks I did too. Probably Kevin or Declan!  When they arrive, can you show them in while I will message Doc R and you also get the kids down to the table too? ? “ “No problem baby girl”

 

“Hello Doc Reynolds. Introduced etc the kids to discussing you and our surgery and the like ; and they like the idea of meeting up with you at our home ; what evening can you come around ???

I gave Bryony the NHS Pregnancy Book i got my Mum to get from your filing cabinet.  So could you book her a Consultation from tomorrow to give her time to think ; however I have no idea if she will make a decision before then!”

p.s. Last night had a few thoughts; kinda like an epiphany; is there a reason these kids arrived? Going from Rose nursery soon  to School Running in a week ,… so I hope you don’t object BUT over these 2 weeks I am looking into whether or not I will return to work at all; instead of Month 10  vs Month 9 ? Difficult to put into text BUT when we catchup I can explain properly. Their workers due at 10.00 so apologise for radio silence for now!

Suzy sxxxx”

 

During this time her Daddy/hubby Jeff  showed in the  Declan McKay (the kids UWP Project Worker) on to the kitchen table ; with him already having had three youngsters sat down waiting. A few minutes after finishing her texts, the door went; two at once ; Mattress delivery (Jeff told them where to go) and the kids social worker (Kevin Robertson) was there. Five minutes later; daddy Jeff returned to the Downstairs coffee table , thus essentially starting the meeting. Declan kicked it off, standing up “Hello again Suzy and Jeff, and also Byron, Avery and Bryony. In the youngsters view first of all, how did you think things have gone so far, starting with Byron “Yes they looked after us well. This morning was nice to catch up with everyone again ;their family and ours too!... “ “Good to hear; Avery?” “yes, similar to Byron; sleeping very well and feeling home… for first time since our parents passed AND  I do really like both Suzy and Jeff and their two kids we’ve met so far; and looking forward to meeting her triplets  tomorrow if I mind (remember) right ? “ Suzy said “yes their coming back tomorrow; apologies for interrupting” “No that’s okay, I had nothing else to add Declan!” “Now, Bryony” “Well, amazingly well indeed; similar to Byron and Avery, I feel happy , really could call this place home”  “Suzy and Jeff… your view???”

Suzy said “ Well, I do like that the fact that they seemed to settle well already. And we are glad you are happy here. Two days ago we did not even know each other, and now they seemed to have settled into our home , like absolute naturals.  This morning we had some 1 on 1 time with them each earlier this morning , giving us time to know their wants and needs, and I will be discussing with my husband Jeff, and a couple of others, to make sure we can get those things can happen as soon as we can! They also all know we are fine with anything name related, but they seem  keen to call us Mummy & Daddy, and I said anything bar cussing and swearing!
Last night we had a interesting evening with them , they all  came out of their shell; being very funny laughing in the face of adversity. Our entire table , including my little less fun  Mum and Dad were pretty much peeing  themselves laughing with them; so we pretty much feel they’d accepted us into their lives ; as well as  vice versa, you know?” Good to hear all that, and that you both families living together of lots seem like a natural fit., in such a short time! “ “Thanks Declan” Suzy replied.

He proceeded to go through couple of other bits and bobs ; similar from their Social Worker. The rest of their previous home stuff is coming over tomorrow (Wednesday AM (between 08.00 and 12.00  but they will txt you; gave them Suzy; s mobile number and they text or ring you just beforehand; and if they are late too.  

Suzy reminded them our three new triplets are returning tomorrow too.

I will also get all your forthcoming appointment and the like on an even bigger shared Calendar (both cloud and on paper) with us now having 12 people in our home in total . She would come the 3 new arrivals  tomorrow though their other appointments and things you do regularly too. This so we don’t miss anything we need to do with you!

As standard a further meeting was setup for same time on Thursday, with both her Daddy Jeff and Suzy . After that time they walked though to the Study’; discussing the 1 to 1s .

Discuss Bryon first of all; first of he asked had heard of AB/DL,  and I thought “is this a trick question! “ He said he told his late Mother looked into it when  he asked 4 months or so ago….Once she looked it up she wasn’t sure if she would if she was the best person for that, BUT she would give him a try in nappies all times and treating like a baby . He was happy when we discussed maybe letting him try a short time. When I mentioned you were not only babies Daddy but my ab/dl daddy, his smiled even wider….”

“… And I’m  playing for Dundee FC” “Have you seen the way Dundee FC are playing this season, last season… you could only be an improvement Daddy! Kink ,Father, programmer, now Dundee star striker !” “Alright Arab for Life (Dundee United fan) !” “Miaow Dundee FC the third… (ED: Soccer: Dundee have two previous administration: a Scottish record and maybe UK or world football. We are the closest neighbouring soccer/footy grounds in UK And possibly world football/soccer) … BUT even if you come out as a closeted Dee, before we end for divorce Courts; I am genuinely telling truth .Audio is on our server here and… “ “No I believe you… ; is that not how Lisa started?”  “indeed it was… BUT I Have said I will discuss that with  you potentially  allowing him to experiment  short term.  I think the nappies he brought were Medium size,  and I still have some big baby stuff in our bedroom which is a big  baby nursery although a little scales down since the Kids come along! All three were told I am technic ally a 2 year old in littlespace so they know, and I was planning saying something along  the lines Byron is going to experiment, like I used be., as a Big Baby at xx year old”

“ “Yeah, I would not  any issues , and as you know we have big baby stuff; you can  go through yours one day.  Might need some blue stuff too , but you do have white yellow green things thought too! Just let me know if you need a hand as usual! “

 

Avery was surprising too. When I discussed getting paints and papers and decorations and the like, they had been offering to help with the work and they said  they previously helped their family with flatpacks as well as general running repairs etc (they have a Small Tool box in storage ) . A Novice by own admission, but  Daddy I think we have a tradesmith in the making of some sort (not sure yet which trade!) under our own roof! “

“Well, we could speak to a contractor to see if they  could possibly do a couple of days shadowing a contractor. As you will know they have often had work experience High School, family members and other overlookers .  Now he might be limited through health and safety (and I will message Declan to double check that is something they are allowed to do BUT parents sadly no more to object) , but I will get in touch with them next while we waiting,. We could potentially get contractors in to supervise and guide them while they gets the experience .  I will message Declan on way back after we  finish here, ring he contractors for potential shadowing, and go and talk to Avery and discuss this characteristics and their passion too!”

 

Bryony mostly was a heart-to-heart, in touch still with baby father (BF and GF she said) and has been up and down since her news and a very close friend dropping down dead!! I gave her same pregnancy information everyone gets at work (Mum grabbed me,  along with change of doctors paperwork for everyone). She is making a decision with facts BUT I warned her that her other half might leave etc if she continues her pregnancy. Over last 48 hours experience only, she would be a Good Mother . I confessed that since Rose’s birth I have never looked back! “ “That’s true you have!” “Well like so many specialist pregnancies at work ; the job I never be doing (looking after another human being AND with me being  a 2 year old for my life)  BUT Lisa essentially convinced me to try that myself, Mum was ecstatic at having a grandchild, and she sees my five as the large family she had always dreamed of; and yesterday she was very happy when I said extending that to 8 AND POTENTIALLY her first Great Grand Child!”

Back to Bryony; I also explained, while I have no doubts while I would be there if she wants to keep her kid; right up to hand holding in labour if she keeps the child .However, I said whatever she decides re her kid; even when she is all big grown up living away elsewhere , to the day I die , I will always have her back!”

“No words to add , which I must say was Pure Poetry. Now I will go do my things, while you tell l Byron it’s AOK as well as respond to Doc Reynolds texts !”

Doctor Reynolds texted she could come round tomorrow , She had a Pregnancy Consultation at two times for Byrony, 11.20 or 14.00. She  understood  also Suzy to make the right judgement re her work and she would see her with Byrony as well as tomorrow in any case!

After walking back through from Study to the  main downstairs , she found Byrony watching downstairs TV (watching some reality show Suzy had not heard of !) she sat down “Hello mummy Suzy” “Well my boss has a couple of pregnancy related appointments tomorrow . I will drive you; tomorrow would you prefer  11.20 so 11.20am or 14.00/2pm ?” “Can we say the first one!” “Yes I will let her know.

Where’s your brother Bryon ? He’s not in trouble, just need to speak about one of those things he mentioned in his 1 to 1”” “Was upstairs with Avery  last I saw, so try one of the bedrooms?” “Awwh thank you Bryony” Upon getting on second floor stairs she could hear Jeff and Avery (discussing DIY Etc) before she went to Byron’s room . Sitting on the bed, she said “Bryon; yes I discussed with Daddy Jeff and he’s happy.  Now we might need different clothes sizes etc. and I can get suitable big baby supplies and the like to go with my own! Your Nappies are M I think I saw aren’t’ they? “”yes indeed:  take a look Mummy Suzy”  She also wrote down his sizes with other things too “Not snooping but getting an idea of idea of the Sizes. Leave that with me for a couple of days for stuff. I think we get a 2 sizes 1 each and then we can get more?  It might take a few days to order them both lots, with the stuff with everything else on at the moment, but I will let you know! In a semi related note, how would you feel wearing plastic pants over your Nappies  at night too? This would give you an extra layer of protection .. “I would like to try those? “OK , I will try get some your size”  “Thanks Mummy Suzy “Bryony called me the same”??? “Well we decided together; when you were in the study after Kevin and Declan left us’; to call you Mummy Suzy and your hubby Daddy Jeff; while we get used to you both?” “Makes sense. Putting lunch on soon, I’ll get Jeff to make sure you both up here get a  reminder. “

With them having more people than yesterday; she was decided on Soup and a Pudding for 7. Starting first in the oven with a giant sticky toffee pudding first (taking 35 minutes) before starting up  a giant pot of Minestrone soup, while taking the rolls out the fridge (will warm up in a bit). She ensured the blender was ready after  using that morning ; not needed for Soup  ;  but otherwise  ready for dinner . She took a bag of Chopped Mixed Vegetables, putting a few handfuls in a bowl she’d be using later. After the pan was hot enough, bunging both the packets, and the extra vegetables. And her she was ; she mused again; on autopilot! However,  whether full time motherhood could be an option; she was not hating her new life!
After serving up soup, rolls and taking out pudding (to cool down) , everyone enjoyed that (rolls chopped up small for Rose and Barry)  before getting the pudding over alongside with a choice of Squrity cream and/or ice cream, jeff helping mush up Rose/Barrys too. Towards the end of lunch, her Daddy Jeff said “That was an amazing lunch, Mumma Suzy”  “Glad you liked it! Also not long has an epiphany with her essentially wondering if this is new life – all done on autopilot – I guess Maybe its  not so bad after all? Cause since Rose  arrived ,my life has been EVEN better … And I genuinely today enjoying mothering even if somewhat in at the Deep End yesterday?

“Well, I will make dinner;  pasta bake ok?  YES daddy!  I want you to rest for a wee while… I will do checks and changes on Barry if needed?” “Okay thank you Daddy.. .I can imagine you coming in from work to a lovely home with 8 children??” “Ooh sounds great, where do I sign?” Well you already did ! Also; I know you work 3 days at home but figure of speech (they smooch for a short time) Right I will go to Barry, BUT whether you return to work or not; I will love you the same!  “And if you turn out to be a closeted Dee (Dundee fan), ; I will love you the same too!

REST OF TUESDAY  IN NEXT CHAPTER

 

 

Chapter 57 –  post Suzy’s  Wide Parenting call: the first week from Tuesday to Sunday with Byron, Avery and Byrony at Suzy & Jeffs – part 3

At her Daddies’ suggestion she went back to their bedroom for an hour (texting him that with  approval!) intending for an hours rest… putting cBeebies on (muted with subtitles) with the phone on Overnight mode,  wanting to rest up but for 1 hour ;  but 2 and a half hours later; she was woken by her Baby Daddy/and AB/DL Daddy, Jeff ! “Afternoon Sleeping Beauty!!

“Daddy I am sorry, did i… (realizes she was kipping) well I must have needed it daddy…. What time is it?” “You finished lunch 13.00, came  up here around 13.20, now 15.50. If you want to sleep longer I could brin… “ “No need Daddy, I am coming down. How’s things been? “No problems, 1 or  2 times was helping our new three out alongside our own Rose and Barry too” “Well that’s nice … help me up (outstretches his right arm and does though)  Thanks Daddy’; now lets go back downstairs and you can sit down  … Maybe I really AM an amazing mother that you keep saying, but I feel bad for resting… “” You are, and you shouldn’t : the extra tiredness After you did everything you could put together things for 3 new arrivals yesterday in a matter of hours NOT Days” “Yah okay “ (back down stairs) “Mummy” Rose and Barry come running from the Playroom all the way “ Aahw babies sorry Mummy needed to rest. I was just a bit tired! As you know we had 3…  “Mummy Suzy” (all 3 from upper floor) clearly everyone missed me, but how 3 new ones get on with Steve ?” “Well amazing “Said Avery. That’s’ not something regularly done by the way rest ; I’ll sit down next to the Playroom .Daddy Jeff could we have a brief chat before you start dinner? “

Suzy said “So; IF I never return to work , I am planning a day sitter / extra pair of hands Mon to Sat 08.00-18.00 .  However at  bedtime I was getting the other sitter to be a Night Nanny.  I  know you don’t like to think I am a chicken , IS this a good idea?  OR is it a Slippery Slope? I love mothering and this would allow us to sleep during the night? Do you think it’s a Cop Out Daddy?” “no because of course  we did just increase our family from 5 to 8; a 60 per cent increase since Sunday: I think that’s the right move; whether or not you end up going back to work” “Thanks Daddy.  I hear you .  Will see next fortnight too .And it’s nice to see our oldest 2 Rose and Barry mixing with Avery and Byrony their oldest 2 just now “ True”… but do you think Byrony might think of this as practice babysitting too???” “Daddy; I genuinely never thought of  that! So if she keeps her kid ; might we try her with  one of our triplets each?” “Nice idea….”

“Oh and before I forget; Averys project Worker has no objections to them getting his day or two experience here and there , as well them being willing to come out to help them  early next week . “”Did you tell  Avery? “ Yes I did :happy as  a pig in shit doesn’t come close!  It’s 2 weeks till school restarts BUT they could be Saturday help as well !”  “Yeah, very true Daddy… “

… 16.45 Daddy started  working on Pasta Bake (with rice pudding afterwards; canned), putting in oven 45minutes from 16.45,  while Suzy put  something on the Big Screen TV (cBeebies)  while her Daddy looked after everything at once; just like he said. Around 17.35 she was called over  with her Mother and Father (Grandma Polly and Grandpa Andy as the new 3 kids started calling them now) and everything went down similarly to lunch. Suzy going up to her Daddy “May I give my compliments to the Chef?”  “Indeed you may, my baby girl”  (smooching briefly). After that, everyone else went back to different things, Suzy sitting watching the kids outside the playroom.

Everyone’s bedtime came sooner or later; and then both couples returned to their own bedroom (Orla and Andy shortly before Suzy and Jeff bedtime) “Thanks for having my back just after lunch, and since the day we met Daddy,  Now while I am still sore down below,  I think you deserve an extra special thank you… now bring that throbbing  hard cock inside my mouth; as I am treating you to a blowjob…

 

… (12 Minutes later) “Hmm, sweeter than I remember Daddy…. “ “Thanks hunney… now your reward, I will play with your nipples and your titties …. Oooh Daddy… ooooo hhhh Daddy”  This sent them both into sexual ecstasy more than once; before they drifted off to sleep  soon afterwards!

 

 

 

Between Chapters  54  and 57 , I have inadvertently called Suzy; s mother Polly (Actually Orla) once again… it has been corrected from this chapter hopefully onwards!

Chapter 58 –  post Suzy’s  Universally Wide Parenting call: the first week from Tuesday to Sunday with Byron, Avery and Byrony at Suzy & Jeffs – part 4

That morning (Wednesday), in waking up, Suzy discussed (with her daddy), “in addition to before re our three new arrivals and everything happens for a reason, it is also said that God , or whoever is… in charge upstairs, never gives us more than we can handle” “True (her Daddy and family was raised Church of Scotland (also see this story, Chapter 25), SO MAYBE this is why god gave me triplets, AND NOW another three new arrivals … while we wanted a third pregnancy from my own body and then later UWP too gave us no more than 3; not 6! However, Daddy I am REALLY enjoying looking after our three new arrivals as much as Rose and all the others …   Well MAYBE I am an amazing mother like you say!”

“Now; your Mother did like the message we sent her (about our three new arrivals) ; we need to arrange her this with her Daddy could you organise a suitable time/date and time for her to visit our home, to meet Byron ,Avery and  Byrony!  ? “ “Of course baby girl”.
Triplets ; I keep forgetting to try them with baby food. Could you please try for me today at some stage, Daddy? “That too!”

“When we were planning a  kid, we said we’d allow them to help with chores for extra pocket money???” “Yes we did…”  “Well as we now have three kids who I think used to Chores, I was planning on asking our 3 new arrivals in pocket money for helping  with chores; giving Barry and Rose a one-third increase in their pocket money till they are old enough to help “Awwh yes another good idea”` Suzy went down to the Kitchen; “Morning Mum…”  waiting for all kids to before starting. One of the first people up was Byrony, who said to Daddy Jeff she’s made her decision   re her baby, is Suzy around”! “She’s already downstairs in kitchen having breakfast; I am proud of you too (hugs her quickly) (Byrony walks down both flights of stairs before sitting next to Suzy) “Mummy Suzy,  I have made My decision re my pregnancy. I  am going to keep my child. However having read that book, if i end up miscarrying or stillborn, or  triplets  like you did Mummy Suzy, then we will cross that bridge when you come to it” “Awwh Byrony (hugs her 1min) I believe that’s a decision you will not regret. “ Do you want to wait till Doctors or are you happy with me telling everyone as a few announcements or all too?”  “ No, why wait ? “

Suzy stands up (now everyone is there).  “Morning everyone” A Few things this morning;

As you know, you live in a home with My Granny/Grandpa. Daddy Jeff has a Mummy/Granny too who is still alive( sadly his father passed on a long time ago). She loves the Grandkids too, and she was very happy when we  said we were told her about you three , she was happy! So Daddy Jeff is going to organise that at some point soon.

Appointments and the like today ; your furniture delivery happening this morning. This afternoon I will be  getting all your own Byron, Avery and Byrony schedules to add to those I  already had. Bryony’s appointment ill come to in a bit.  Our Triplets (Charlotte, Elizah and Aurora) returning today and  Daddy Jeff will be trying them with Baby Food too!  This evening, Doc Reynolds visiting three new ones at home.

Additionally I will be offering you new three new arrivals (Byron, Avery, Byrony) the chance for extra pocket money by helping Me and Daddy Jeff with chores.  As Rose and Barry are still too young for now, until then your pocket money goes up by one third – so you benefit too!

Should have said Yesterday, we all wish Barry well as he starts potty training / Big Boy Potty this Saturday  (LOTS of cheering and whoop whoop).  Bryony has decided to keep her Baby , and I look forward to helping through all through to the Arrival of my first grandkid!  She has an appointment at Docs this morning so I am leaving with her around 10.45. (standing ovation  from Bryon  ,Avery and much applause from others before a few others stand up too, alongside Whoop Whoops etc).

In the Morning, the rest of the three new arrivals stuff from storage delivery rung Suzy 09.00, saying 15 minutes away. And indeed they were; and very helpful room to room, rather than dumping it on the Porch!... Byrony was reminded with 10 minutes to go,  going upstairs fir a couple of things (book, jacket, phone etc) before Suzy drove Byrony was driven  to Suzy’s work ; “Hello again Suzy… long time no see!” “Awwh thanks. Firstly here for Doc Reynolds appointment 11.20 for Byrony Macpherson, and here’s their P123 Forms for my three arrivals , got a Foster-to-Adopt placing call for 3”. “Aah yes Doc Reynolds mentioned you were on the list ,and something about Monday? “ Yes that’s  when these arrived in our life! “Awwh congratulations For now, have a seat Byrony and Suzy!” “Thanks Melissa will do! (both do as told)

 

She says to Byrony while waiting: “I used to work with her when I was on reception/phone answering work, Doctor Reynolds thing started  7 years ago; she  arrived to us from another town and is ; and she pretty much increased the number of people pregnant in the City… she had 2 pregnancies herself and 3 kids; all grown up! Please don’t be anxious about those pregnancy going bad; Statistically they are unlikely BUT for some reason no one knows 1% more in first timers, BUT you should not worry, and once you get your first Ultrasound appointment, it will settle your nerves.”

“Thanks…  not that just first time in this place, you know, like nerves, ? “ “I understand.  Of course we never  know what’s going through there mind s while waiting for us! Was going to suggest tomorrow ; or sometime in the  next  week , could I meet your boyfriend, assuming after you tell him about today’s stuff” “”yeah we could arrange that” “I was planning on ringing after tonight; s dinner with my news; and also I will ask if he could pop round tomorrow or the next day!”

“He’s more than happy/welcome in my home BUT if he does the dirty on you,  I can show him the door! “I know that Mummy Suzy!”” In addition, we spotted you very close  to Rose and Barry; not sure if that was some early babysitting” “Damn caught me… no but your first two are far too cute too…” “We were wondering if you’d like potentially babysitting practice with one of our triplets, and potentially working up to 3” “Yes I would love that one day too, thank you Mummy Suzy”

 

A few minutes later ; the Thursday/Friday PA Sarah (of course covering Suzy’s extended maternity leave, lets not forget) called Suzy and Byrony through to her Doctor Reynolds on time . She  introduced herself , explaining its nice to meet you ; Suzy I will catch up with you when  I come around tonight , with other two new arrivals) . Byrony explained she had made the decision to keep her pregnancy. Other stuffs was discussed too before the Doctor Reynolds asked if she had any scans yet; ordinary 10 weeks scan?” “not yet Doctor” she replied.

“Suzy; could you PLEASE take her to the Sonographers today if they have any free slots or cancellations or tomorrow even?” “Yes of course! “Okay, well I will give them a ring now…

(after a short time on hold)

….they have a free appointment 13.00/1pm this afternoon ; so we can check all is well?” “Yes of course; To explain with my mums history of multiple miscarriages, I had additional checks for Rose and Triplets; and we will have lunch while we wait”” Ooh lunch sounds nice too” “Thanks Doc R,  very much appreciated (hugs her boss!).

She rung Jeff briefly; having to leave voicemail, before driving that Doc R wants an Ultrasound, as she has not had one yet, 13.00 Ninewells. Give everyone lunch and I will be back soon.  She left Doctors car park 11.45 driving the short distance to Ninewells Hospital – technically walking distance BUT Hospital parking is a big thing so not allowed to continue parking EVEN FOR STAFF - but parked up the car around 11.50, 10 mins later cafe. After having Soup and Cheeseburger/Chips each – and a piece of fruit each with soft drinks for Bryony. While Mummy Suzy had some coffee (Including a second Coffee for during the next appointment too, just in case of problems!) before walking to the clinic 5 mins away , they left 12.45  , checking her in similar to the Surgery earlier on.  At 12.55,  they were shown in so Byrony can change into a Hospital Gown , all happen quickly., then in an Inner waiting area for 10 minutes before she was called through!

Sonographer called both through;’ recognised Suzy from previous scans herself! They explained everything from Monday to doc r earlier today.   Sonographers had a couple  of looks “Well, Byrony, I can definitely see your babies heartbeat (Suzy and Byrony happy) BUT I can also see a second babies heartbeat!  It looks like you are having Twins, congratulations Bryony (Suzy more excited initially)  ”So Is that good news?” “YES indeed! (Byrony face finally goes to ecstatic and dancing around).  We will  arrange for a 16 week scan, in the post/by text too., Suzy thanks the Sonographer with Byrony before explaining she would explain all in the car.

When they got back to the car; before driving off; I will go through what happened . Babies heartbeat means your pregnancy is live and all is well ; just like you wanted. Second babies heartbeat mean a second pregnancy is live and all is well; as opposed to having died in the womb; we will discuss potential options for birth later in the month” (starts her car)   “SO what’s the 16 week scan?” “That’s another ; just like today another scan in the same place. But you might be able to see your Babies Gender; again we can discuss nearer the time if you want to know , BUT please be aware, in some cases; might not be seen until the next one at 20 weeks. “thanks Mummy Suzy” 20 minutes later at 14.10 they got home .  Shall I let you tell everyone or are you nervous?” “I am fine with telling everyone’;’ And thanks for driving me and setting those visits up  Mummy Suzy… and soon enough, Grandma Suzy. I will tell the other people in my inner circle of your news, after  you tell  those still here (walking through front door”)

 

“Hey Suzy; how did it go with Byrony??”  “She wants to do the honours before I text my inner circle in a bit” 

“Doctor Reynolds appointment went well enough. As I had no scans up to that point for  my baby , she arranged  one, and they had a space today . We had lunch in café Ninewells  before we walked through for my ultrasound.

Now TWO bits of good news ; my babies heartbeat is all alive and pregnancy confirmed as healthy BUT I have a second  baby in my tummy… Having Twins indeed. Next step is 16 week scan in relation to my pregnancy”

“Congratulations  Bryony” “said Jeff before  hugging her tight .Similar to earlier on, the news went down very well! – twice as well”

“However, Daddy Jeff” has a couple more bit of news, while you were away”  Ooh go on” “Well, Triplets arrived half an hour after you left . For lunch made them baby porridge as  an experiment ; they eat it no question!   I think they missed us too!  “Well that; s good everyone cheering and whoop whoop). She picked them one at a time “Second news? “Well my Mum is visiting tomorrow around 14.00/2pm! “ “Great news too! How does she feel about being a great grandma???” “She says: NO comment  BUT she  thought even longer , like your Mum did with Rose 15 years …  BUT She was happy with another three grandkids have arrived safe and well, and the great grandkid is potentially icing on the cake!” “Well  I will let everyone else in my Inner Circle know , while ordering a couple of online things!”

While compiling her inner circle  Message before replaying out in her head.  She had said she would order some baby stuff samples in two sizes (onesies, footed sleepers, pjs the works) BEFORE Ordering a bigger number of those that fit, alongside Plastic Pants!  As well as 4 bags of different printed nappies (in the size adult M he had already before ordering away, While we have passed mid-day, normal despatch today (Wednesday), on occasions been lucky, in any case Byron knew he may need to wait to his in any case.

Then she looked at an online florist who can deliver till 11pm tonight!  A Simply stunning floral bouquet (in a plastic vase!)  for next 2-3 hours celebrating Bryony’s news from today… BUT her Mum rang while double checking the text  “Yes Mum?” “Got your message about Byrony , all amazing news ; …  I will organise a Pizza Delivery for 17.30, Dominos no need to cook, will text Jeff too” “Oh wow! Thanks Mum”!”  15.45 she got the flowers “Congratulations Mummy-to-be Byrony, from Grandma Suzy and Daddy Jeff and all our family xxx” ordered for 2-3 hour delivery

” “OK with all good news of Bryon’s appointment earlier today Granny Orla has organised a pizza delivery for 17.30 from Domino’s! (all cheer). In the next 2-3 hours, a wee treat for the Mum too, from Daddy Jeff, Mummy Suzy, and all our family .

Where is Byron “ he’s upstairs”  

“What did you order” Suzy ??  “Personalised flowers!” she  shows him the confirmation email . Nice touch;  I remember you mother Polly did same  for you Rose and the like?” “She did indeed… I had forgotten. Going to tell Byron I ordered some sample big baby stuff in two sizes, before getting a larger supply, as well as 4  bags of nappies” After going upstairs hearings telly noises form Byron’s room; She explained she just  ordered him two size 1 off big baby  stuff ,like we discussed, as well as four different bags printed nappies your  size When they arrive; probably couple of days as coming up to 15.30  just  now after  they mid-day Next Day delivery despatch 1 off each 2 sizes BUT getting more potentially a lot more when get the fit right!   (Shows him the nappy designs! ) “Aww thank you Mummy Suzy . “

And as you were upstairs; following your sisters success earlier  my Mummy / your Granny Orla has ordered some Pizzas, side  and Puddings from Dominos for 17.30. .” “That; s nice; I like their pizza’s” “Well be sure to let you know. Earlier Ons Calendar adding is now just after Dinner!  (she exits returning downstairs , going back to her triplets and in playroom downstairs!”

Both her Mother and Father arrived ; both celebrating with  Byrony, pizza was bang on 17.30, with the floral gift arrived during the pudding phase, 18.10s. (She REALLY loved those flowers!) Also Suzy got  a message “I will be around 20.00, Suzy / It’s great news for Bryony’s ,  but early days as you know!” “Doctor Renyolds should be around 20.00” she told everyone.

 

The calendar updating took just over an hour. Around 19.10 Byrony advised heading back to her Room to ring boyfriend as we discussed with Mummy Suzy earlier!  So when Doc Reynolds arrives. Could you please get her to come up for me, if I am still in my Room

” ”yeah will do” will do…

… her phone call went fairly well;  Her partner had supported her decision  to keep the child. He was very happy to hear baby is happy and healthy… having twins was  surprise BUT he was happy they were both healthy. He also appreciated that they had finally found a new Home AND that Byrony spoke very highly of  Suzy and Jeffs decision (that Monday to take them in) He was STILL not 100pc after his friend dropping  dead, although he hoped over the next 2 weeks to be back to normal for school , as she had been able to get over her mother and father passing away from a drunk driver (only justice, being car driver was dead too!). Discussing over to come round with her new Mum offered following afternoon; 14.00 was offered BUT Steves Mum is visiting us; so 16.00 was offered!  “DO you mind if I run down stairs to check with her?  its not marked for  me or Mumy….  Can you hold on 2 minutes; I am on 2^nd floor and they ae currently bottom floor “ “okay Mummy Suzy; I have my boyfriend on the line; all  is well. However he wants to visit you and me tomorrow 16.00/4pm, not marked on the calendar for any ; does that work for you Mummy Suzy ??? “Yes that’s fine! “Yes, okay thanks, see you then my hunneybunch” She explained the phone call, and they were happy that all went well (remaining downstairs) 19.55 the door went, and Suzy went  ; as expected  ,her boss Doc Reynolds!

Before going over  their new arrivals (and their earlier today news), Suzy asked if jeff and her could discuss things. Over 20 minutes, right up to this morning. And earlier today: proven again as Bryony’s having twins!! I did say yesterday I think she could cope as a  Mother! She just rung him earlier on; all is well even with twins he says and he is  coming round tomorrow so I can meet him too!

Jeff said  “I keep telling her she is am AMAZING mother. 8 kids and 2 potential grandkids too!”  

Doc R “Well I told her referee that too… and staff member! Between us three, I prefer you to Sarah BUT take all the time you need to make a decision. Like I said when she was going off six months , you are a hard act to follow.  2 weeks,  2 months, decide and let me know!  PLEASE don’t be a stranger!” “No boss; not ever” (hugs) Actually it was good to be included; like you usually do, in your Monday news; I told the staff who were extra 3 kids; and a potential grandchild; (or as we now know, defo. on and 2 grandkids!) Everyone’s happy for you; and your mum asked on her phone about Great grandkid making her feel 100!”  Even if it means we never see you on my side of the office again!”

Thanks boss, It’s nice as I understand they were trying all week too before too.. kept saying no to either the non verbal autistic boy or pregnant teen … but we had room, Daddy Steve had no issues with that; and was like “When are they being dropped off baby girl” and they were. ; around SIX hours later, they were here . They came out of their shell in a matter of hours.  

 

Now, we go visit the new arrivals ? May I make  a suggestion  from  youngest to oldest, as you met Bryony earlier on? “ “Lead the way Suzy…. Okay , our new top floor/  third floor!  Byron and Avery a decent amount of time together before hand, and now here too! Byron wants to experiment as An AB/DL in the future Doc!! “knock knock” before opening Byron’s door first of all! “ “Hello Byron . This Doctor Reynolds , the lovely lady doctor who has come to see you (and the other two) for first time . I  will let her sit on your bed” “Hello Byron, I am Doctor Reynolds. I am not only one of your new Doctors, but a personal friend of your Mummy” “yes you do look lovely Doc!” “Ohh thanks ! Actually my after-work dress! Tee and jeans! “

You are moving up to the last year of Primary School, but remaining at Kingspark because of your speech issues  “correct Doctor!”  “How are you finding school! “ “not too bad, but it’s school!” “Now, is there anything we could potentially , through NHS or Social Work “ Well it would be nice to meet other people who talk or don’t talk like me?”

“Well have you heard of DDCA (that’s Dundee Disabled Children’s  Association?) ? “No Doctor…” “They are in the town .  They have occasional groups for people like you too and if not they might be able to suggest another group  better suited .  “”I  remember fundraising for them when much younger and being there 5 or 6 there  times over her Kingspark years too … “Yes, I will give your Mummy the   details, later in the week . Cheers Doctor. And my new Mummy Suzy has ordered some nappies for me to potentially experiment as AB/DL; my late mother never got round to it in her last four months”  “Well, enjoy!! I never met your Dad but knew of Him. So sorry you lost your  parents; as he was an amazing Doctor and a damn fine Paediatrician” “Thanks again Doctor”

(closes door)

 

“Next, gender neutral kid Avery. I think we have a potential tradesmith on our hands. They have not  decided what  but my  Daddy Jeff is asking if they could be a couple of days shadowing one of our contractor. He offered  to do their new rooms  decorations,  so contractor will be watching them early next week while they do that!” 

(knock knock as Suzy enters )

“Hello Avery;  this is  the lovely lady Doctor Reynolds. Starting  with mentioning (like Bryon  sorry about your father etc up to school bit. “Your mother tells me that you want to be a tradesmith when you grow up” ”That’s right”  before explaining all the things they did down in their  former home,  and a couple of friends (replace broken mains plugs etc).

“Now, is there anything we could potentially , through NHS or Social Work” “No Doctor but if I think of anything , my Mummy will let you know!” “Thanks again Doctor” (closes door)

 

Now its Byrony., no sounds from her room, so she must be still downstairs.  I asked her the standard new pregnancy questions (giving her boss answers as they walk down both staircases). You have already met but you can get a chat!

“Hello again Bryony “ Hello again Doctor” “Now first of all, I am glad your pregnancy is going well, even after 2 kids!”
Afterwards she goes more informally (similar to Byron and Avery) ; she said she could not think of anything else she needed BUT after her meeting the babies father meets up;  if either of us I will get mummy Suzy to ring you??

… Afterwards, before Doc Reynolds got ready

 “Suzy;  i must congratulate you and Jeff on making an amazing split- second decision  to increase your family by 60 per cent in a matter of hours! VERY interesting kids; and hopefully  your two grandkids are up to their amazing standard!”

(both Suzy then Jeff give her a hug goodbye!)

 

Bedtime came all too soon enough . Following their discussion that morning; Suzy said “Well after today fining not only mother of 8 kids and now 2 grandkids… BUT Found the solution; “oh yeah? “

1.   Never Go To Sleep!

2.   I V Coffee!

“Now I know you’re kidding? “” first one yes ; BUT come here and stick your tongue  my throat Daddy Jeff ! (they tongue passionately  for a long time, before falling asleep!)    

 

 

Chapter 59 –  post Suzy’s  Universally Wide Parenting call: the first week from Tuesday to Sunday with Byron, Avery and Byrony at Suzy & Jeffs – part 5

Waking up just before Thursday  morning alarm, Jeff said  “Morning baby and Mummy Suzy” “Morning Daddy Jeff!”

In early morning she asked her Daddy to tell Rose and Barry later to tell her what we decided on  (i.e .potentially not back to work after all) . Suzy had in todays To Do list is a rescheduling  of check down below for 2 weeks (as acknowledging very important) instead of 6 weeks like most of the things  postponed for the new arrivals. However overnight a message came through from Alma; her former Best Friend now down south around 01.30 (who was out on a hen night!)  “Congratulations on Monday and earlier on Bryony’s news from earlier on! We are up week after next  in a fortnight for a family holiday (Suzy had forgotten with the new arrivals this week) BUT  Suzy and Jeff were looking forward to seeing Alma,  Brian, and her  3 kids!

Saturday was scheduled to get the new papers and paints etc; including the third room one end pink and one end blue  (being used for her forthcoming kids the following Saturday) AND school supplies a week early; to ensure all ready in plenty  time. In addition to the physical decorations, her Daddy jeff had decided to get a  full set of things they will need to do the work ; i.e. Complete DIY selections of stuff, and  a giant toolbox, in addition to things like pasting table. Some money was used from existing Daddy Jeff / Mummy Suzy savings used to buy some stuff; plus a good bit from the  Prepaid Card could be used (They were told to keep receipts for School Supplies – as standard July and August, as well as extra sitters etc.)  - Similar paid for Byrons;  AB/DL supplies (and forthcoming bigger order) as well as  Bryony’s forthcoming Baby supplies ,and pregnancy/maternity (the babies father’s family said . they can make a small contribution BUT potentially only three figures around a hundred BUT negotiating again now twins )!

After waking people up (Suzy’s turn), once everyone was ready , she stood up “Morning everyone. A busy today as planned.

You may remember  about  I mentioned by best Friend Lisa , and her 7 children Byron/Avery/Byrony???   We take week about visiting each others houses; and today, she is coming over around 11.30 to 12.00 (just before lunch) till bedtime Sunday… . She is looking forward to meeting you three. All her Children are under 5 and our family always get on well each other... especially her oldest Jayden , and my Rose (and not for the first time re Jayden, Rose goes ROSE pink). However if they are causing problems for you at any time, just  let me or Steve know! Rose stands  up at the end “Yeah I really LIKE Jayden, and I don’t care who knows it” to which Barry says “oooooooooooooooohhh (romantically!)

“Right you two; settle down… Sorry because today is pretty much packed;

10.00 sees both Declan McKay (UPW ) and  Kevin  Ropbertson (Social Worker) will be here to see Byron, Avery and Byrony;

11.30-12.00 is when Lisa is expected in (she will introduce her nine)

14.00 – 15.00 Steves Mother / Granny Clark (Vera Clark)  is visiting all

16.00 well from Bryony’s Boyfriend, Brian Wandito, meeting her ,Mummy Suzy and Dady Jeff

18.00-19.00 or so for 1 hour ; friends of Mummy Suzy and Lisa (aka Mummy Jenni and her assistant Carlie)  meeting up in her the room she sleeps in or mine; he has four kids  between the two women  ; and they will also meet Byron ,Avery and Byrony on the way in, or the way out…

 

Saturday  we will be taking Byron, Avery, and Byrony (me and Daddies Steve with you youngsters being looked after with Lisa PLUS triplets sitter Melissa) coming to get paint/paper/decorating supplies  AND School supplies in a 2 for 1 (following Saturday baby  shopping for baby Supplies.  This Sunday, mummy -to-be Byrony is looking after one of our youngest three Triplets for a couple of mid – morning hours, hopefully working up to all three BUT TOMORROW  / FRIDAY   mid-morning Mummy Suzy will explain all and show Byrony the ropes ! As we discussed next Tuesday are the Contractors to oversee Avery’s decorating help.

 

Other News; 
If you missed it yesterday;  during Bryony’s doctor’s appointment  Dr Reynolds sent her for her first ultrasound ., We were able to see more than that the baby was happy and healthy, but she is actually having twins !!!

REST OF THURSDAY IN NEXT CHAPTER (body can’t make it s mind if I am well or not!)

 

 

Apologies for the minor typos;  the speakers Are not playing ball today!  (I used Word and Read Aloud but speakers have other ideas today! )

Chapter  60 –  post Suzy’s  Universally Wide Parenting call: the first week from Tuesday to Sunday with Byron, Avery and Byrony at Suzy & Jeffs – part 6

After  Suzy finished her breakfast, , she said quietly to her Daddy “GOT real idea to keep everyone happy !  I stop working   APART from holiday cover for Sarah and 1 part day shadowing Sarah  to let me keep my head in!  Doc R wants me BUT 8 kids (and 2 grand kids) need me more. NEVER thought I’d be a mummy But never also though part-time 3 days a week working with my daddy!  “Indeed,  that would cover all basis and keep most people”  “We need  to discuss School Run; with  you on leave or the would suggest we ask Mum to divert slightly longer way round OR when you return to work ; I would pick them up  from Harris (Academy) . Of course Byron’s SEN transport is done directly BUT for their first week I might think about  dropping off and picking up the two Harris kids first week, and you do the same with Byron??” “I would not have  any issue’s with that. As your Mum drive you to work, I don’t that would be an issues!  “Well will ring her later in the office. Weirdly as you will no doubt remember I was looking forward  to January next year)  taking Rose to her Nursery, but now we  are right  in the middle of making plans for tsking kids to  school; in 12 days.”  “I know right???” “But I just love our kids SO DAMN MUCH! Also, I believe honestly; THIS IS MY TIME TO SHINE!  “”Awwwhhh – for once, no words bar pure poetry Suzy , and not for to for the first time this  week!” …” “Equally as much as you Daddy!” “As you know lot stuff to do! “ “but before we go separate ways, yes I’d be happy with your Work/Life/Kids balance and School Run plans you mentioned?” “Aww thankies Daddy (Smooch briefly before getting up)”

Around 10.00 Both workers visits went well; with weekend contacts being given just in case!  Around 10.25 while Rose and Avery were discussing gender neutrality close to the Trampoline ,(i.e. more than two genders and a spectrum so wide);  Suzy’s first call  was rescheduling her gynaecologist (ahead two weeks) . Her second was to DDCA(s Dundee Disabled Children’s Association) and after explaining from Suzy’s  learning at Kingspark everyone with potty problems or things like severe Autism went there; others to a Unit (mainstream school with support; like Lisa). Suzy also including her previous fundraising  the some other friends at the School, to  Byron’s arrival on Monday, and the most recent question from Byron from yesterday! Suzy was praised for both the fundraising and taking on such a challenging  placement; even an “Oh My God” when the lady on the phone found he was 1 of 3… Re Byrons discussion  from yesterday, there used to be a group at 10 Constitution Road (used by a lot of non-profits in Dundee) BUT they never restarts after Christmas break year before.  However  Suzy was given the number for the Dundee office of Scottish Autism,  leave them a message and they can call you back if needed. They also have additional Support Officers too. After she rung off, calling SA’ s number as supplied; got a person (Clearly local; a braw Dundonian accent!) and after everything similar to the previous details ; who advised to leave things with her; and  a local officer will be in touch in the next few days; might be early the next week . After getting ready to go upstairs with the news; the door went.. delivery of the stuff she had ordered for Byron AB/DL supplies; with a  very busy last four days so far, she had not had a time to check tracking!”  Suzy went to give Byron the  news it may be happening ; just to wait now.   However might be early next week.  .She next said “Your AB/DL supplies are here”  She unpacked and ;left him with the nappies bags and opened 1 each; saying we will do the sizing another day! She  went back down stairs; back to the Study. She rang her mother (senior Nurse Polly). She was happy with Sharing the School Run no problem; and after Suzy explained one of the versions of the plans (with her leaving work bar 1 half day a month bar Holiday Cover) was one of the more likely Options,  she would not have a problem with that. She texted  her  boss (explaining  not definite)  re earlier on; and she got a thumbs up “So I might see you in our office on my side of the desk! However no rush, take all  the time you need! However a second message from Lisa at the same time, explaining she would be around half an hour! “Suzy’s initial response ; bleep me its that time already”

She went  upstairs to tell the new 3 (Bryony watching tv one of her  telly things delivered  the previous day from storage) and advised the this news. I will send Daddy Jeff up when they are all ready!

After a 5 min explanation to her BFF, she said she would chat to her in a bit re her plans re Work/Life/Kids later that evening as she has lunch to prepare! After Lisa’s lot  were the all upstairs, in  the run up to lunch (Suzy was working on lunch) Bryon , Avery and Bryonny were called down to meet Lisa’s kids . Starting with Lisa and her AB/DL and babies Daddy Steve (coming tonight after his work), then (in arrival date order) to Jayden, twins Anna and Lucy, our most recent twins Ed and Steph, and finally George  and Amellia! With their bigger every day in both family in Suzy and  Lisa’s case; both family kitchens had expanded to cover twice as big ovens;  and a bigger kitchen table for 24,  however on a couple of occasions they had to serve over 2 halves!  Suzy was technically serving  15 kids/young people and  3 bigs (with  Suzy’s mum/dad later on, Lisa’s Daddy Jeff  and possibly Bryony’s boyfriend later on if he was hungry !. And if all  goes well ; two grand kids joining the Mix! Summarizing  to herself; she has truly grown up… and indeed, (even if it means Mumtruck 3 which Jeff is getting!) Mistress of her even bigger family and Domain! Suzy had two large Lasagne and Salad  for 16 (lasagne assembled the previous night) and was slipped in oven when Lisa arrived ; 25 minutes (made from, Suzy’s mother’s recipe) liquidised a bit for the youngest! No Suzy meal would be complete without something sweet ; Fruit cocktail and custard! Her new kids  bonded well with Lisa’s family, with laughs being exchanged over Lunch. Next of course , around an hour Mummy / Grandma Clark, Jeff’s father visiting all the family, especially the three newest arrivals!

Jeff did indeed how show his mother in ; a couple of minutes ahead of the 14.00 time .She did enjoy meeting all her Grandkids, and had around 20 minutes one on one  with 3 new arrivals; then afterwards slipping each of the 3 kids £100 each “welcome to the Family!”

Next on schedule was Bryony’s boyfriend, Brian Wandito.   In the run up to 16.00 he had sent apologies that his bus was late as his Dad’s busy this afternoon (Dundee’s now legendary Afternoon only ’s major peak with morning out journeys over a wider time) but a few minutes later, he arrived 16.07. After initially kissing and hugging Bryony very briefly; he then gave Suzy (followed by Jeff) a massive hug “That’s for looking after my girl after others said no. I wish I had her resilience! And I am not sucking up; that’s from my heart! !

After walking up to Bryony’s room,  a lot was discussed ; all caught  up around the 2  bigs and 2 young people! However finally to the subject of Money; with Brain potentially able for 1 not 2;  but all people can’t help because of our age. Suzy had earlier in the  discussion paying her (Bryony’s) half  plus some additional supplies. However, she excused to get Lisa “as she has more knowledge!” Upon discussion with Lisa; she said  yes would- and have - give money to kids as well as Adults ;will text my father but could be circa £100k (a hundred thousand pounds) from Benevolent Fund; fall in the forms which you can get online and our next Board Meeting 2 weeks Sunday!”  And if you sign them form for them?” “Aah thanks Lisa!”

Suzy returned to the top floor . Explaining they can probably get UP TO a hundred thousand for costs. She then did the very short explanation (like when Lisa was fostering/Will of God/Universally Wide  Parenting calls) ; she is one of the Trustees to the Smith Benevolent Fund; after seeing off  most of his taxi competition in Dundee (no mentions wiping the floor as Bryony’s mother and dad did die in a car crash lately), buying his own office, now four offices; that and now the 87^th richest Man in Scotland’s Rich List last month; he received a CBE from King Charles for his  Charity Work a couple of years ago he got a Honorary Doctorate at University of Abertay recently last month! ! As I said it is more than likely but I ill apply on your behalf and keep you updated! That earned Suzy and Jeff even bigger hugs; from the two; Brian and Byrony! Just before Dinner, Suzy thanks Lisa again  before Suzy explained the most likely  outcome to her Work/Life/Kids balance more of the last two , with keeping her head in the  loop once a month; while my Boss has need for me, and I think my 8 kids, and 2 grandchildren coming soon , will need me more! Everything happens for a reason and especially this weeks timing increasing family size 60 per cent pretty much overnight, you know?” “I hear you. I have no regrets with my family, and  you would have my support!”   (hugs for 20 seconds)

Jeff made dinner Sausage and Chips including Suzy’s parents; Lisas daddy  and bf Brian in addition  to those earlier.  Afterwards Mummy Jenni and Assistant (Slave) Claire were happy to meet  the three new arrivals;  before upstairs catching up and having some Big Baby Fun !

Bryony’s boyfriends Father collected him, and everyone’s bedtime came early  enough!

After explaining her earlier feelings to her Daddy (from Lunch) , she then explained I Think I have finally grown up mothering today! BUT I will never be able to grow up like as a AB daddy, you know?” “Awwh Suzy,  I would agree re  Motherhood ! “”It as indeed changed my life for the positive, you know Daddy?” (they kiss passionately before falling asleep!)

 

 

Chapter 61 –  post Suzy’s  Universally Wide Parenting call: the first week from Tuesday to Sunday with Byron, Avery and Byrony at Suzy & Jeffs – part 7

Friday AM daddy (like Dr R by messages)  was told she expected to tell all kids in relation to her work/life /kids balance .After going downstairs for breakfast, she stood up.

“ Morning Everyone; before I go into today (Friday) plans and other stuff,  I want to make sure everyone is on the same page, in relation to my Motherhood journey  and an update for me in my Work/Life/Kids balance.  When I first had my Rose (after eight successful foster placements) ; I initially thought  I would screw things up , or end up with something like post-natal depression; but I was actually happy mothering her, and in my words at the time were I would have difficulty giving her to others! Like so many of IVF and other Specialist Mums, the job  they never thought they would have (having a child) gives them so much joy. Not till 4 years ago did we talk about kids ; partially with me being  2 in Littlespace; then Lisa inspired me to be Foster Mum’; now mum in my own  right too!  My boss said at the time was surprised I fell that deep into being a Mummy!  I returned to work and then Barry was next in our life;  ditto! Then afterwards; I had triplets; ditto. With the fact I was exhausted and everyone else already coming quick fire afterwards; and tired I was given 1 years extended paid maternity leave. After that I had made a decision to return to work two months away; and then you three (Byron, Avery and Byrony) arrived four days ago, and you have really snuck into my heart like when Rose (quoting Stephanie Tanner on Fuller House), and as you already love it here, I can really work with that!

I do believe God or whoever is In charge upstairs never gives us more we can handle; so that might be why I  that ended up with triplets (3-4-5), Now you three two; so an epiphany in relation to the fact kids 6, 7, 8 (and 2 grandkids soon too) arrived in our home ; on the date; with all  your history!

Three lots of kids need me for  different things; Rose and Barry as a mother, triplets (Charlotte Elizajh and Aurora) need feed and changed; and  three oldest are mentoring and School running in under a fortnight, as well as older kids stuff for those already in school.

I am now thinking giving serious  consideration to being a full time Mummy, like I was considering during the Triplets time; not jut as sore from the birth BUT catch up with Rose and Barry . So I am deciding over these 2 weeks BUT  more than likely I will be a full time Mum of sort.  One of our two Sitters we hired Barry/Rose and the Triplets (Sara and Melissa) will help me as a Mothers Aid/extra pair of hands every day of the week from 08.00 to 20.00 split over 2); with us looking into a Night Nanny between the two.  NO we are not wanting you to never approach us at night AND we will be making sure everyone gets on with 8 of you and our 4 big people (Me/Jeff and  Grandma/ Grandad) .

So my more than likely decision is one day a Month at Dr Reynolds offices to keep my boss happy; and also potentially covering my colleague Sarah (usually Thursday and Friday only) holidays too . She knows she will miss me ; but she knows 8 kids (and 2 grandkids) need me more; and I will be on her side of the office at least Monthly, so not entirely goodbye! IF I do decide to do this, it will happen when Daddy Jeff goes back to work. He was given 6 weeks paternity leave with  the Triplets (extended to 8 as triplets were so late) and on this occasion he has 6 weeks similar but Adoption leave; as  did not return to work yet I never returned to work, with the day sitters returning to helping me when he goes back to work;  5 weeks Monday! This has support of my Daddy Jeff, Grandma, Lisa and surprising my boss Doc Reynolds and my  Thursday/Friday colleague Sarah too as she’s LOVING the OT! (overtime) The reason I was 3 days a week was around the time of the wedding 11 years ago to Daddy Jeff, me and Lisa would spend 2 days a week littlespace times (as Daddies Money meant no financial issues) . We still have a part day Thursday with big baby  games; generally with Mummy Carlie and her Assistant Claire.

All Four Bigs my side; and my boss on (probably phone) Sunday week  (so not this Sunday but next Sunday) will sit down and discuss that. We will tell you all the following Morning at the latest.

Now before we continue; any questions , complaints or other feedback you’d like to share??? “  (Rose put hand up) “Awwh Mummy i didn’t know you cared” before running up to hug Mummy at her height – before everyone else could walk did the same thing – Lisa and her side included! With one of the Suzy’s older new 3 being close to knocking her over “Aah ok, right everyone,  I  get the idea you are happy”

Now today; Friday’s stuff I must admit I like standing up like this’; now there are  8 young people in my own home!

Today around 09.00 I am showing Byrony the ropes with the Triplets before  I leave around 10.30 with all 3 triplets for an 11.00 Doctors; either a checkup on a  booster but I can’t find the letter! (Suzy’s mother  briefly interrupts it was both ) However after lunch around 14.00 helping Byron with some of his stuff I bought for him earlier this week.

Tomorrow (Saturday) out and about  as you know, School Supplies and some decorating etc for our three newest. I will discuss School Run plans – either me or Jeff – tomorrow at some point.  Sunday mostly at home.

After breakfast’, she walked Byrony through two the triplets rooms... “Mummy Suzy; can I ask a slight nosey question I forgot to ask Day before last” “Yes, no secrets in my life; feel free to ask anything; today and any day; as that’s how you learn! “Weheelll… apologies but you discussed Tuesday two labours; Rose and the Triplets… but what’s Barry’s deal? Is he kinda adopted or something similar” “Well , you know we you and your two siblings through Universally Wide Parenting??? ; (Byrony nods her head) well  he came through the Will of God where birth mothers hand over to Adopted parents; similar to many groups in America” Suzy then proceed to explain Vee’s  story with the babies father grandmother  over-ruled them and sent him down south  (various items Byrony react with jaw-wide opening or OMG or similar). “To answer your next one bit we have not been allowed to tell them  yet but either 2^nd and 3^rd birthday  run up.

The other thing is that he came very early at 30^th week of on paper a 40 week pregnancy typical for most ladies!

 “ “Never…. What happened?” “Well same Thursday I found I was expecting (didn’t know until the 10 week triplets )  vees number came up back of Eleven (she was on all night ringing me for chats sometimes)  She sounded worried and breathing heavy; I wondered shed seen blood (possible signs of miscarriage)  but she had already  Started contractions and her Mucus plug had gone” “We got her into Ninewells ASAP and Daddy Jeff rang while I drove the car at that time so they had extra help ready to help LOTS of support and the like ready There was no history of Early labour; with in either family; no one knows why they happen. However if your kids do that; then 9/10 chance., However ; with him being a decent size and the fact  we brought them in ASAP it  was 99 out of 100 on admission. He had to stay in six weeks neonatal ward before coming home… as standard.. BUT I agree you’d never know that now!

Mummy Suzy ,you are a parenting GENIUS?” “NO ; work for on plus mothers intuition;  that and me being British Red Cross first aid too (for Kids and at work) and foster training, and trained by Doc  R too!. “ She also explained her blog, Working For a Parenting Genius ; a mix of kids work and gynae BUT more  kids stuff these days.

Before training she said she would speak early next week with her Headmaster about you possibly taking a years break for kids; similar to when some kids repeat a year; but you at some to be determined during the school year.

There is a specialist place at Baldragon (0-3 kids in a nursery next door Jessie Walker (Nursery) – I will try and get you an visit there too as we have to tell them ; they do a slightly reduced curriculum and also extra training and some time with similar mothers. As your three all grew up in the West End, and the fact I am going more that likely be a full time mummy; I will be more than happy  to care for your 2 babies during  your school, assuming all is well and good between now and you going into labour.  As you or may not remember, I am happy fighting your corner either way .

She then explained Triplets (in a similar for me to start of Ch 34 this story) before explaining how they are now. Byrony was successfully able to change a couple of nappies and a couple bottle feeds and nappy changes; after a couple of glitches” “You seem to have that cinched?” Suzy said towards the end!

Around 10.30 left with triplets in Mumtruck 2 ; 3  in car seats before Suzy opened up a triplets stroller into the Health Centre ; once again seeing Melissa “Hey Suzy; nice to see you again! Is that your triplets; awwh they are getting bigger every day” “YES ; 7 months 2 weeks old… You  don’t want  to know how big they were in labour, but four times the weight of Rose….. well anyway, yes 11.00 appointment with Dr Sibleson for Charlotte; Elijah and Aurora Clark; technically 11.00, 11.10, 11.20, either a check-up or a booster but sorry I lost the letter; my Mum / Nurse Orla said earlier it was both  “ that’s okay, yeah that right Booster and Check up. Take a seat again Suzy, listen out for the doc or Paula (her PA)  ?” “Thanks Melissa! “

Close to time both her PA and  lady Doctor called them through!” Hello again Suzy; here for your triplets?” “Yes indeed” “Come on walk through”” As is standard both double checked the  date of birth etc. Before Dr Sibleson started with the triplets “Well your boss (Doc Reynolds)  was telling me you had another three this week’; everyone here is made up for you so much (ED: West of Scottland for Very Happy) /!!!” “Yes, three kids with a cross to bear and then some; a non verbal autistic boy, a gender neutral person and a pregnant teen!”  “Doc R was say you are deciding 2 weeks to return to work at all or be a full time mum,..,” “Yes…. Those three kids really snuck into my heart; all with a previous memories with all  my Happy Memories of starting  Motherhood with Rose. BUT if I planning 1 day a month in the office  shadowing Sarah; and also her holiday cover. Looking  to make decision a week Sunday so you will all know the next day (Monday) “ “But now to your Triplets… she hand  one over at a time  (in birth order so Charlotte first) for general observations before Suzy /Mummy distracts them one at a time before sliding in their jab; and until all three were done. The last one (Aurora) – ever the diva still ;  started crying (1 of 3 crying) with tickles by her mother not much effect before she was distracted with a baba (baby formulae) “Thanks again Doc Sibleson!” before crossing over the  main bit of the waiting area; passing her mother nonchalantly “Hey mum” “Hey Suzy” before taking the stroller back  to the car.

Suzy drove home similar, getting home and catching up with Daddy Jeff caught up briefly 11.35 – 12.00  in front of playroom; before she started lunch (fish/ fish fingers (sausages for Lisa one who doesn’t eat fish ) and Chips with a couple of store bought Trifles).  She was surprised with herself about the food went down; equally well;  not just the pudding!

Going to  the Study for the PC room / printer to print the forms for potential claim fund for Bryony’s 2 kids support ; but a question was answered by Lisa why explained yes all kids count as unwaged; a new thing ;  just means as we have a bit more potential Money to give them! Finishing that of and signing it for Byrony; Lisa said she would get her Mum to pick it up and give it to my father ;  so we don’t lose it!” And indeed she picked it up!”

After walking up to Byron’s room; Suzy found  he  would need the larger size. Suzy did ask him how old he feels in Littlespace  “Don’t know much but shall; we say around 2 you like you are?”  Suzy had said additional supplies would get ordered tonight or tomorrow; they send out Mon-Fri only  , so all going well, Tuesday/Wednesday and they arrive. Once you get more confidence in wearing nappies; I would be happy to speak to your school about trying nappies at school  under your regular  School stuff of course! “ “Well, I would not have an issue, BUT I know start small at home... thanks Mummy Suzy”

She walked downstairs where Daddy and her chatted about everything; including ordering some Amazon Fire kids tablets (for  5 youngest as the older new three   had similar bigger ones!)  recommended by Lisa ; and as I V coffee is impractical;  possibly a couple Coffee capsule machines 1 for our bedroom and one each for the kitchen and maybe another for the Lounge?  We had Tassimo  at work, so would that be fine ? “Yes Mummy / Suzy, sounds good!!”

She then walked through back through to then study to order 5 sets of clothes (each they trialled with Byron);  25 onesies over 5 different designs with some plain ones for at school etc in the future ; and 12 bags nappies too with 40 plastic pants in  four colours! She also then placed Amazon orders too . Generally next day BUT a sitter would be there with Lisa etc for whenever they were away.  Walking back though with her Daddy from earlier .

Suzy’s 2 who spoke were explained they had ordered them both (one on big screen TV one in playroom!) told they told about those had been ordered and they knew them through Lisas family.  

With  a full for dinner Lisas side and Suzy’s parents ;  and with a very busy week gone ; Suzy had decided to do a Chinese food order Sunsaki who deliver too!, something each from the Menu AND some additional Spring Rolls AND some bigger  extras for sharing ,  Her Daddy / Jeff volunteered to check on those here; and Suzy parents already had their regular favourites too. Ice Cream was ordered by Suzy in addition to starters! They were indeed very prompt,  just around  Suzy’s parents and Lisa’s hubby Steve got in from work in all 3 cases!

Afterwards , more catch up! With  being Weekend (Fri and Sat everyone’s bedtimes 1 hour  behind) meant even more fun all round! Then after everyone’s bedtime finally came,  Suzy and Jeff went to bed ; looking forward to doing their first school supplies trip; 2 and a half years early  than expected with Rose, with them being told  we will discuss our school run plans with  them.

 

 

             

 

 FROM HERE Chapter 61–  post Suzy’s  Universally Wide Parenting call: the first week from Tuesday to Sunday with Byron, Avery and Byrony at Suzy & Jeffs – part 7

As discussed this week between Chapter 53 to Chapter  60, a busy weekend all round ; no surprise after an equally busy week!!!

Saturday started with Suzy standing up

“Morning everyone. A busy day again!

Today’s stuff is a bit less; but still important. 

Firstly this morning we will be taking the eldest three first of all for Decoration suppliers / DIY for Byron who will help apply Tuesday oversaw by the contractor. After that we go for School Supplies in town and anything else you need (inc. your first pocket money) . Lisa and triplets sitter Melissa is helping with Triplets, Rose and Barry stay home, HOWEVER we are planning to take Rose and Barry into town for similar  trip Wednesday afternoon, obviously not needing  school supplies  BUT just whatever you need in town!  Suzy  and Jeff are planning a Food shop after we return mid afternoon; again Lisa and Melissa looking after all 8 of you. On the ride today and/or in town , I’ll be discussing School Run as well as our new Age Appropriate Punishments (grounding etc); hopefully we never need to use them!  We’ll also need to setup transferring / updating payment details on all your Pay as you go phones and devices so we can pay them each month.

As our new oldest three got Tablets, we have  our kids ones too; Amazon Fire Kids tablets. Now these will be arriving today or tomorrow. Lisa has agreed of they come today while we are with our new 3,  she will open them up  and set them on charged takes a couple  of hours for a full battery she says. For the youngest ones are free  to use them after the battery is fully charged; then everyday up to   half an hour before your bedtimes .There is a battery inside and we have means plus too to charge up overnight.. This is similar to the big kids devices; and but if you misbehave you might not be allowed to use them for a day or so etc..???

Barry said to his sister Rose “I guess we can never be naughty” “Okay, okay; but you two are generally very well behaved anyway, but just be aware. We have the same rules for our older kids too; but as you aren’t able to leave the house by yourselves; I guess that doesn’t apply “Okay Mummy “ said Rose , thumbs up to her mummy and Barry”

With Mumtruck 2‘s boot only so big, Daddy Jeffs car for the bulky decorating supplies ;  with the school supplies and kids driven by Suzy. First stop was DIY superstore; now the only DIY superstore B&Q in Kings Cross Road close to Kingsway West Retail Park . ED: they REALLY DO have a good range! see 2min 29secs in this video https://youtu.be/dfr2mDUSrY0?si=aRSdBMRBuJ7dNl-a !   )

After everything was loaded; they continued into Dundee City Centre. Suzy used this bit to discuss School Run plans.” The Harris pair will get a lift from Suzy’s mother / Granny Orla to the school before she continues to her work. With Daddy Jeff returns to work Thu Fri in office , he might take on those two days.  Mummy Suzy will pick the Harris kids picked up every afternoon ; two different times out with school closing at 15.50  3.50pm Mon/Tues or 15.00/3pm every other day of that week.

Byrons taxi will be similar to before ; I am expecting a time confirmed the Post or email or I will phone next week.  This is through 69 69 69 taxis again; Lisas father first taxi office of 6!  When I was at the school it was Kirkton but now over by St John’s !

HOWEVER for first week ONLY Tuesday-Friday Mummy Suzy will drop off AND collect  the Harris kids, and similar Daddy  Jeff will take Bryon both ways too!” “Ok Mummy” they  said, just a as they pulled into Wellgate Shopping Centre car park access roads, with Daddy Jeff not far behind! After a few things in town (as well as uniform stop) and a few wee treats in  the Overgate too (pocket money  spending in short) , they had a McDonalds Reform Street stop for all (with it being lunchtime) During this time Suzy also explained the updated  punishments etc. (grounding, no screen time for x ) etc.  while Jeff updated their  phones  to be paid from Suzy & Jeffs joint debit card/ current account. A couple more were at home and Jeff said he would be setting  the other tablets etc by the end of the weekend. All 3 being PAYG (pay as you go) he added £100 each to the phones; so no chance of no credit for the important School  run week after next, with their regular top ups increased  by half as much every month,  from the same card; them being aware this was for around 6 months or so.  They then walked back on foot to the Wellgate car park ; taking both cars home.

After the stuff (in both cars) was unloaded and taken upstairs.  After that Suzy and Jeff went a weekly food shop at Tesco Kingsway west retail park (near B&Q where they were earlier on)  before returning home .

The kids Fire tablets (and Suzy’s additional coffee  machines and 10, 000 Coffee  Capsules arrived during the parents time out the 1^st time ,with Lisa already setting former up (fully charged and Rose and Barry now  using them; triplets in their nurseries until they are a little older) before filling water compartment’s; a couple bottles each plain water and all capsules in a storage unit times 4!  Suzy then joked with Daddy  Jeff “that should see me through the weekend that!” “Ha ha ha…”  “I’M SERIOUS hands aff… nah just messing with you Daddy”

Dinner was massive cottage pies and some Fruit( which was topped up earlier too!) When eve  in going through the post (arrived earlier on); it was confirmed Byrons school transport was confirmed; 08.15 pick up time, which he was fine with too!

 

Sunday was quieter ; Suzy had previously setup that Byrony looking after one of the triplets from 10.00 to 12.00, babysitting the easiest of the 3 (at Mummy Suzy’s suggestion) in Charlotte . With Suzy previously pumping a bottle or two . As the whole thing had worked well, it was agreed two Triplets on Monday BUT with visits etc that morning it would be done for 2 hours after dinner.  She was able to look after Charlotte successfully, feeding (Suzy pumped a couple of babas  specially)  and changing . With the Devices and game consoles etc  not with them the day before updated and topped up by Jeff.

As was normal Lisa and her family left at bedtime.

 

NOW… Monday and the week ahead? What epiphanies and the like will Suzy  have, or will it be more of the same just loving parenting  SO MUCH ?  Tune in Next week to  find out!                                                                            

 

 

Chapter 62 – Do I Stay or Do I Go, Money for Nothing? NAH : Everything !! The Diva Speaks first (also Byron and Avery and Bryony’s second week with Suzy’s family) – part 1  ,Monday

With a lot of discussion about the new arrivals; here’s a small run down of the  7 kids Lisa’s side and Suzy’s 5.

 

LISA’S SIDE

Jayden:   turning more and more into a real ball of fun every day; he is looking forward to Nursery School (Lisa planning M/w/f initially before everyday after 2 weeks) with more potential playmates!

Anna & Lucy (adopted via Will of God): starting potty training and at a similar development to Jayden at that age, generally AOK.

Ed & Steph not speaking and a little behind Suzy’s triplets  

George &Amellia (adopted through UWP); have genuinely settled and are FINALLY starting - albeit slowly -  having a happy childhood!

 

 

SUZY’S SIDE

Rose:  All Is well here, pretty much very fluent learning so many words and holding a conversation with complicated words with adults and her siblings, old and new!

Barry: (adopted via Will of God) Can actually string words and sentences into longer sentences, conversations like Rose, but not quite as brainy yet. He did indeed start potty training this past Saturday; a few accidents first day down to  2 on Sunday.   However Saturday night he did end up with a clean and dry Night (nappy; despite not trying nights yet!)

Charlotte, Elizah and Aurora ; are actually a bit head of  Rose at the same age; teething etc and the like . Have moved around/ sat up many times BUT No words yet despite getting closer every day! As for their big babies during pregnancy: similar to when Vee went  into labour early ; no real reasons ; it just happened!

 

NOW ; MONDAY!

Monday; as well as worker scheduled, and some others. Suzy should hear from Scottish Autism’s local worker  that day or next. Suzy was planning a few other calls; such as Byrons Kingspark helper ; some other  ringing round for the Harris kids and also trying to get a show-round for Byrony at Young Mothers Provision (Braeview Academy as discussed Friday) on the basis also advising  that she more than likely full  time mum for her youngest kids; and the potential 2 grandkids too.   In addition Suzy had forgot a couple of times to have allow a shot time with her big Nursery to Byron, in the run up to a big baby day in the near future. That evening; Byrony 2 triplet sitting after dinner.

After standing up to advise all this; she finished breakfast before taking Byron to her nursery “Mentioned to the others as For Something He Wanted Last Week: Suzy, ever the diplomat!” After walking Byron through to her Bedroom(Door closed) ; taking her to  her Big Baby Nursery “Awwh mummy; amazing!” “I will give you an hour’s fun; as remember your workers due 10.00 “Thanks Mummy” “I will close the door  a bit for your privacy, but you can come through anytime. Jeff or I will come through 09.45 By the way  you mentioned AB/DL side to Avery as well his late Mum ,.but does Byrony know too “Yes she does!” “okay Bryon  thanks for the clarity” “ Leaving him in peace; it was coming up to 08.40.

However she was MORE than taken aback with a 08.45 call from Scottish Autism!  She was  called Paula Macfadyen ; and Byrons new Scottish Autism support worker; was wondering what his and your availability is today ideally asap? I can do 10.30 , 11.00,. 11.30  or later for an hour?” “Well their workers are 10.00 generally allow an hour ; but we could say 11.00,? Do you mind if I go tell them, just in  case planning a major nap!” “No worries… (on hold) Walks through to their Bedroom where Barry is using her Nursery; advising  sorry to interrupt you do mind when you wanted go meet more people like yourself , and I said you would hear , Well that’s a worker from Scottish Autism called Paula ; on the phone now. They are coming to meet you here 11.00 after workers and the like, OK Byron? “ “Thanks for getting them and I look forward to that!!!”  (off hold) ; Yes they are looking forward to seeing you later on” (jeff curious) “What was that about Baby Girl and Baby Mummy” “Well  Wednesday Barry wanted to meet  more people like him; well I was given number for Scottish Autism and one of their workers would be in touch ? That was a lovely lady called Paula,  coming here 11.00 for an hour to meet us!!!? “ “Well that’s good news Baby Girl!! Its not even 09.00, Working day start and  one SORTED!  I think that calls for  a  High Five Daddy? (he does) … right going through to Study to do some calls and print something’s for Byrony look round a   specialist Unit (called Young Mothers Provision at Baldragon) as an option, as well as Barrys school helper?  Daddy could you please get Byron out the  nursery ; I said 09.45 BUT I will let you decide when but enough time for their workers, and the other two as well”??? “of course my baby girl!”

With the 4^th coffee t-disc (Tassimo) machine being in the study, it is useful  for top up Suzy’s mug while using the phone, with the added benefit of able to discuss sensitive stuff without kids overhearing and taking things wrong way round when good news could be taken as bad! At 09.00 the YMP number was fast busy; it is Monday morning after all (ED: while Dundee does have a reputation for underage pregnancies on a  compared to the  rest of Scotland BUT not like a contagious situation needing managed…) !!! So she went to the  next on the list’ Byrons Kingspark helper ; Brian Adams. She initially  check in re Byron .He was  Happy and pleased they had a new home, after a tragic end to last school year! After a few questions both ways . Barry had said about  some stuff  he was expecting Barry to progress through  this year; ideally before starting school BUT with it being next week) we can have a discussion in a month or so; Suzy had no issue and left it with Barry calling Suzy (or texting etc) in an month or so. Suzy ended the call knowing  her SEN kid was in good hands; and Brian the same thing!

Afterwards it was a call to Young Mothers Provision to a show-round for Bryony.  Suzy explained both stories ; and the fact she is more than likely changing to a full time mum with those three really snuck into her heart   With today being already booked today but Suzy said they can be free a chunk of tomorrow  with 11.00 being an option. Once again he placed them on hold before discussing with Byrony (still downstairs with a few others) who had no issue… “Thanks mum so we can see both options” They were happy with from going by email later that afternoon when Suzy  said they had workers at 10 and 11 Scottish Autism for her brother.

Workers arrived on time (both UWP and Social Work);  Suzy and Jeff explained making progress and all everyone recent news and milestone to right now  and 11.00 SA visiting Byron; ; as well as an explanation of her probably now being  a full time mum after these 3 kids really sneaking into Suzy’s heart! The kids appreciated things Were getting set into place; have all their stuff etc and getting ready for school , and many more they mentioned! Their workers were not only proud of them, but proud with Jeff and Suzy for getting things ready in 6 hours , this time last week! As standard  a further appointment set for Thursday;  however with their Social Worker being booked 09.30 to 10.30 elsewhere in the city, it was agreed for 11.00 this Thursday! As leaving around 10.40  Suzy stayed down on Kitchen Table area with 11.00 SA visit; but had a few minutes chatting to her kids in the Playroom. 10.55; she heard door going ; to which Jeff said “don’t worry I’ll get it” before Suzy could ask…

…and yes it was Paula Macfadyen, Byron’s new SA worker! After introducing herself to Jeff “Aah yes Suzy mentioned… come through ‘; she’s in the playroom with other kids” After sitting down Susy was there before through to the main room. She introduced herself to Suzy  and with Byron was still at the table  (pending her arrival! ) so se introduced herself to Byron too “Hello Ms macfad… Ms Macfadyen. (DOES NOT have a speech impediment BUT like with Dinner previous Monday,  using his tablet as a robot, i.e  taking the piss; to which Suzy always found Funny as Fuck) ” “that’s okay; you can all call me Paula, please! ”Thanks Paula and thanks for responding to the message  left with an office colleague of yours from Thursday ; she did say it might be early next week; but that’s bang on!” Suzy introduced both herself and Jeff background a little; , before mentioning Byrons previous discussions on Wednesday evening.

She explained herself in a bit more than Suzy and Jef (“with in being the first time” ; as well as brief about what Scottish Autism does as a Charity ,and for individual people like you parents and Byron. She talked to all three equally no looking down at Byron , with Suzy and Jeff Most impressed (similar to their Doctors Surgery who also ensure they do that too!) There was indeed a weekly meeting Thursday evening 19.30/7.30pm for all ages and status BUT a month one is for NVA people only (so NOT this Thursday but next) is where you might like to Start there!”

After that, she talked with Byron around 10 minutes more, in relation to knowing how far he is getting on etc.  Then she took her phone out trying to arrange a suitable date   with technical gremlins om their work side “it does that occasionally” (even after Suzy gave her WiFi password!!!)  but she would contact Suzy and Jeff inf our weeks ; after school?” (Byron hugs her and said Thanks Very Much,,,) Suzy and Jeff waked them back to the front door; thanking her for coming AND going us two LOTS of useful bits and bobs, with them saying they would do everything they can to make ensure  Brian is at the Non Verbal version of the weekly meet-up and see  how things go from there!

Suzy had yesterday premade a couple of Cumberland (similar to cottage or Shepherds pies,   But with cheese) Pies. With them taking 45 minutes for the pair, her Daddy Jeff agreed to do that while she filled in the referral form for Byrony, scanned and emailed it .Then she was able to phone Harris Academy (the school Avery going into and Byrony is already) . She advised they had taken them on through UWP after their parents death 3 months ago I think;  gave  little about herself and Jeff and their existing kids  (with them happy they had a new home). She the discussed Bryony’s pregnancy; taking her to Young Mothers Provision at Baldragon tomorrow so she can see both  of her options  BUT I am full time mum soon, so will be able to look after her kids;  with the latter story it was agreed to they would come back to them in a month or two re the latter! 2 minutes after the phone down, her Daddy knocked saying food was almost ready she made some notes like her previous calls  , just  a few moments later, Suzy walked through to the Kitchen! As said previously Cumbernauld Pie and a Cornetto (British version of pre filled ice creams similar to Drumstick) or two (depending on kids age/appetite!) She explained to Avery and Byrony they had got of hold of a Harris teachers called Miss Christie; they are happy all is well and with you; before more details she would explain to them (Similar to her conversation earlier with Barry; Bryon’s Kingspark helper). Last school year  in Bryony’s case – going from Blackness Primary up to “big school”  Byrony was asked if she  could give Avery a few pointers and the like. She told Suzy that  I had already done but planning a bit more next week “That’s good”

Then followed an hour or two sat int front of the Playroom watching her kids (and back/forward to the Triplets rooms 2^nd Floor too). Barry’s potty training/Big Boy Potty was doing very well with 1 accident so far today (with that was the only one all day till bedtime!)

Suzy’s mother and father arrived; and Suzy put on Chicken Chunks/nuggets and Chips for all from earlier plus Mum and Dad! 2 hour Babysitting Byrony with Charlotte and Elijah again went well (with her being allowed by  to use part of her time discussing  things with her Boyfriend Brian, plus explaining in case  Brian assumed her kids were already born,  they were 2 of Suzy’s 7 month old triplets!!!) He was impressed that she was doing that ! As well as many other things, the 2 triplets got on well with Byrony. And Suzy said “I told you you’ll be a good Mummy!!” 

Everyone’s bedtime came all too soon…. Suzy said to Jeff before double checking alarms like usual  “We have learned a lot his week  with 3 very interesting children!” “We have indeed; and YOU MADE an amazing call to bring them here!” “We did indeed Daddy Jeff”

TUESDAY: Avery assists/Decorating with the contractor; while Byrony and Suzy visits  the Specialist Unit / Young Mothers Provision…

 

 

Chapter 63 – Do I Stay or Do I Go, Money for Nothing? NAH : Everything !! The Diva Speaks first (also Byron and Avery and Bryony’s second week with Suzy’s family) – part 2  , Tuesday

Suzy stood up the days news;

“Good Morning Everyone!  
A few notes things today and tomorrow;

09.00 the top floor decoration by Avery, with our Contractors overseeing the work.

10.40 I will be taking Byrony for a show round at 11.00 at Young Mothers Provision at Baldragon Academy.

Today a further delivery of stuff Byron today between 08.00 and 18.00

18.00 to 20.00 we are trying Byrony looking after our triplets; this time all 3.

Tomorrow, of course, Rose and Barry into town ; Melissa covering me here”

After that, she sat down with her Daddy, wondering whether or our family simplicity Rose might start nursery then primary at Avery and Bryony’s former Primary  school , then Barry and Triplets; It would save two different direction (Downfield technically our local) ; looking longer term to Baldragon different direction entirely ! Jeff and Suzy agreed that would be an idea; with Suzy saying she would trying to get hold Blackness School in the first instance ,  that morning OR if no time after  Byrony comes back from Show round. Of course I can ask on the way to her show round what the Primary School was like!”

The second matter is of course our are car is 8 seats plus 2 . I would possibly like to upgrade to a Minibus, so that we don’t have to keep clipping and unclipping in the Baby Seats” “ “Oh yeah, decent idea Baby Girl “ Also taking the entire family out  (4 bigs, 8 kids now and 2 grandkids soon)  in one “BUT yes I would like that too baby girl!” With Lisa (through her fathers taxi companies) having gave guidance around Mumtruck 2 ‘s purchase , it was said Suzy would speak to Lisa in relation to licensing and maximum seats etc . 

In the run up to 10.40,  Suzy reminded her (with her already her Pregnancy Book / handbag  / her jacket home etc with paint/ papering upstairs )  On the drive to Baldragon; Suzy explained her situation with Rose etc starting new year BUT saves us in 2 different directions  ; Byrony spoke very highly of her Primary School .. so Suzy said she would  call them later if we night be able to put in a Placing Requests  and the like. After following Reception signs; they advised they were there for a 11.00 Young Mothers Provision visit?”  The kindly lady got hold of the people , who said they will collect them in a  few minutes…. And they did indeed;   “Suzy and Byrony  I assume/???  1 person  walking them through to the place itself .
After sitting down Suzy explained again all the stuff from yesterday phone  call back to the previous Monday . Byrony said  she and her siblings were settling down with Suzy and Jeff ; and other similar  stuff; BUT like similar to Labour etc. NOT ruling everything out anything Yet ; hence compare and contrast the two!

When the show round started (place empty ; obvious with a school holiday  ;they were largely empty bar a couple of office staff. However the Nursery (open all year) round looked rather nice; they both (Suzy and Byrony) Admitted! Byrony said she would let them know by Friday. 

After walked back to the Unit to Reception .; She was a walked back through to her car ; she telling Mother Suzy she’s still getting used to you lot and also more to previous school; NOW potentially uprooting again is the reason I am unsure “I understand Byrony; but we can discuss it later this week, giving you  chance to think and chat; maybe Tomorrow evening Byrony?”*starts car*

Upon their return  (just before lunch)  it was good to see Avery was finishing off  their  brother’s room before his next with the next two starting following  day. Their contractor  praised  Avery’s skill ; with him potentially staying for 3 days if needed. There is a shadowing opportunity this Friday on a Re-Modelling (Day 1 of many) And we would welcome them this Friday; even picking them up 07.30 – so  that was accepted for them; with them then being given Lisa’s address (he said that pick up Friday at the same time!)

Suzy then starts lunch (Cheesy Chips/Beans with a couple Sticky Toffee Cheesecakes and squirty cream or ice cream)  After which she went through to the study; ringing Blackness (Nursery and Primary School – former school of Avery and Bryony . explaining everything “Well I can see what you mean” . With Rose not starting Nursery  till after the Christmas Holidays;. She had plenty of time to submit a placing request .(Suzy intended to discuss that with Rose the following day too, on route to their time out)!

After discussing everything so far that day new with her  Daddy Jeff; with Dinner being Chicken Curry and Rice.

BUT after dinner  Highlight of the Week; 10 minutes  into the 2 hour all three Triplets; Aurora stole the show. NOT by being a diva; NOT getting upset, BUT  looking at looking at Bryony ; said Mumma; “No I’m not your ill ... hang on you just spoke your first word”  “spins Aurora and twirls in  the air ”   *running to find Mummy Suzy * what’s she done now?” “Said Mumma… “ 
“REALLY…. Well done Aurora (Spins round in the air)”  She walked Aurora downstairs before continuing   ” Everyone else ; Aurora is the first of our triplets to speak” (Cheering , Whoop Whoop from all ,  and Standing ovation from Rose and Barry “I remember when that was  me” Rose said “

 

At their bedtime, Suzy said to Daddy Jeff ; “Who have thought that our Diva would be first of our Triplets to speak eh Daddy! I’d have thought Charlotte; your money on Elijah…” “indeed I was Baby Girl… interesting despite all last week and this so far ; one of our existing five catch our attention, once  again THANK YOU for bringing all our amazing miracles of a  Family into our home…” “Daddy; that was your time to Take me back with pure poetry… and You’re Welcome.. BUT possibly in the lumber when all  the triplets speak! (passionate kisses all round before drifting off to sleep)

 

 

Chapter 63 – Do I Stay or Do I Go, Money for Nothing? NAH : Everything !! The Diva Speaks first (also Byron and Avery and Bryony’s second week with Suzy’s family) – part 3  , Wednesday to Saturday  

As was previously mentioned in previous chapters;  Wednesday Suzy’s first two arrivals (Barry and Rose)  were going out into town plus contractors Keating Smith overseeing Avery’s scheduled second day on their new floor (Byrony s room and the spare room being used for her as a nursery soon for her forthcoming babies).

Suzy also intimated (Wednesday morning ) the following Day,  we will go to Lisa’s BUT with your workers a bit later ; we will have lunch here before travelling . Suzy explained (to the three new arrivals) Lisa has arranged a couple of rooms ; so it was suggested Byron and Avery in one , and Byrony In the second one (1 single mattress each of the three!)  And Averys contractor shadowing have been given the address too and they are still picking you up Friday, time unchanged. Remember your  PPE (Hi-Viz/hard hat/steal toe-cap boots and the like too); we will make sure its packed up for you. Bryony’s boyfriend coming Friday and he has been given directions too!”

Upon leaving, a seat count of 8 in the back would be enough for all in one (all 8 to Lisas) BUT additional seats soon enough! It may be tight the following day OR Jeff’s  car separately! Suzy did discuss Rose the nursery ; her being happy with whichever one works my amazing Mummy easiest (awwh thanks’ Rose! She said)  Barry and Rose drove into town (actually Sarah; covering Suzy not  Melissa  ; Suzy found she enjoyed that like the kids, with them getting lots of toys and other stuff; before deciding between various lunch options for a Subway  (as a  change from Happy Meals & McDonald’s this time!) with Suzy’s favourite Meatball Marinara being as amazing taste as ever (ED: me in real life too;  generally  on  Herbs and Cheese bread or sometimes to mix it up with Multigrain!!!)

Upon getting home, Suzy was impressed that Averys work (paints and paper  second day) was progressing on time and on scheduled for that day , finishing in plenty time! Avery was also double checked in relation to forthcoming 2 Baby Cribs; him saying no problems if the stuff is flatpack, they are more than happy to help!

Speaking of Byrony; she made the decision  to remain at Harris Academy ; on similar basis to yesterday (feel uprooting twicer 2 weeks not good!) YMP understood her decision.

 

Thursday; with workers an hour later than before, they then had lunch  before travelling to Lisa’s family home (Lisa was aware re  lunch and she made her own lunch separately too). All fitted in to the car (however a few had stuff on their laps) Suzy asked her daddy Jeff in the second passenger seat (normally his) would be used this time by their pregnant daughter Bryony’s bump now  showing! Jeff had no issue; even hugging Suzy “for being so thoughtful!” Jeff did offer taking his car too; we will see next fortnight at Lisa goes vs this weekend; them being fine with that! Suzy did mention that with all 8 now; 2 other house members and two forthcoming arrival’s; we are looking at getting something bigger . so all house of 12 fit in one bigger vehicle (Suzy said before driving off!)”Suzy, that’s okay, we know took us by surprise! “Well, I guess when you’re on a list; you never know when… .and thanks!”

Later Lisa discussed car options (mentioning taxi office/ private hire 8 seas max to they have a restricted operator license etc  up to 16 seats for those bigger ; this easier  for the drivers who had bigger cars at all 6 offices) ; she double checked later with her father (Brian Smith)  who said many driver’s had grandfather rights (who passed their UK test before 1^st Jan. 1997)   to drive up to 16 seats OR  apply for a minibus peppermint (ED: was going to correct that back to PERMIT but thought the wrong one is funnier!);. but  if not for hire or rewards you might now ; speak to DVLA to check . Suzy was considering a low floor adding additional racking etc  and down to a 16 seats .Luggage Pens no longer a thing BUT the easy access front would  be partially shelved over too (like the back seats) with a couple vertically mounted bike racks too, should any kids or adults get  a bike!” “yes, sounds great and plenty space for your ever growing flock!... don’t forget LEZ and make sure you get one fine for Scottish LEZ (yes Dundee Aberdeen Edinburgh Glasgow city centres) and make sure 3 point seatbelts (buses don’t need them by UK law BUT cars do UNLESS school runs etc.) . Brian gave Suzy details for the place they get their bigger minibus (EnsignBus) they can paint, do things like take out a middle door out; (ABC  Perth had a former dual door former London or Edinburgh  think)  with seatbelts They are in Essex (Purfleet); just past M25. “Thanks Brian; will ring them tomorrow  with DVLA later that morning too”  (ED: yes formerly works in the Bus and Coach industry!)  Later that including the pro Mummy visit with some big baby games!                   

 

Friday and Avery got picked up at Lisa’s that morning; with after 09.00 Suzy first called DVLA seeing yes you will apply for a permit (https://www.gov.uk/driving-a-minibus ) no driving before 1997 BUT you should both qualify (21 years and 2 years driving); advising they would apply.

Second she called the Bus reseller EnsignBus. Mentioning LEZ and PLENTY Space for passengers etc; 16 seats and a lot of stuff (repeating yesterdays discussion about what the  was looking for - two options ; https://www.ensignbus.com/adl-enviro-200-e6.html OR

https://www.ensignbus.com/optare-solo-e6.html . The latter are generally easier for the beginner HOWEVER we could change the seats to have massive Jumbo seats similar to luxury coaches  reclining seats with 3 point belts. It would also mean keeping a buggy space and a nearside seat for the other Passengers usually up front! “ With the latter providing more space, designed to go for the Solo; converted to executive leather coach seats  (like https://www.metcoaches.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2018/01/bus-inner.jpg BUT with 3 point not lap belts AND Suzy making sure Baby Car Seat friendly!) With 2 : 1 starting reclining seats and LOTS  of room and then some ! It already had a programable LED (destination display) SO it could say Mumtruck 3 – or post arrival Suzy could get the  software to show HAPPY BIRTHDAY, MERRY CHRISTMAS or anything else! .Also asking for  a New DAB radio with  Bluetooth hookup and new laminate flooring and colours  for painting would be decided in a couple of days (probably Tangerine body and black skirt (ED: yes Dundee United colours   -during my time in bus industry I put together a new livery orange (similar to Tiger being Tiger Line ) and black skirt, as they arrived Ulsterbus blue and white in similar proportions, similar to the way Strathtay did up here.  There was no intention of matching Dundee United, just to get them away from dealer white with lot  of lettering  WHILE one of our drivers opinion after they were delivered, first thoughts were being taken over by Stellios (EasyJet etc founder)  -  BUT even my late father through it was Dundee  United colours!! Aah the joys of being a long suffering Arab. ! !!)  ; but  will confirm paint for sure next  week post husband check!)  They can get the seats early next week, after that work will take 3-4 days so should be with you end of the week! In addition remember Diesel, not Petrol ; Suzy advised  Mumtruck 2 was diesel also was used to it!  A part payment was taken BUT extra parts and time, the amount may vary but no more that made Suzy smile even with that MAXIMUM price! This was done with her Daddy listening to most BUT not 100pc) Double checked yes her hubby was fine with the colour ; Telling kids (Explaining the details too  and should  next week / start following week BUT we will both need a additional permit NOT test so we are applying today and hopefully by week after next end. Once we get that advising we get 1 or more of our permits; we will be able to drive it; and after a week or so making sure all is well’; our current car will return to the dealer OR Daddy Jeff  (5 seats) more likely.  The bigger vehicle MIGHT be too big only a couple of car parks  BUT we know of others (Daddy Jeffs   family used to have Camper Van Holidays before with 2 parents and himself ) Later Bryony’s boyfriend Brian Wanditoto visited Byrony with Jeff and Suzy also wanting to place orders for a couple of cribs (online like Suzy’s Rose) AND Saturday Byrony would be taken by Suzy into town for Maternity Wear and similar (Daddy jeff and others at Lisa’s) 

 

Saturday ; lots of fun with the Family ; Suzy did indeed take Byrony to town for Maternity wear,  PLUS some additional basic  pregnancy staples.

 

Sunday… around 13.00 Lisa etc at Trust meeting (inc funding hopefully for Byrony!) AND of course, later that afternoon, meeting up ; meeting at Lisa  (Suzy and Jeff; Lisa; and Suzy’s mother and father) alongside Doctor Reynolds re her decision to stay or go…

 

 

Chapter 64 – Do I Stay or Do I Go, Money for Nothing? NAH : Everything !! The Diva Speaks first (also Byron and Avery and Bryony’s second week with Suzy’s family) – part 4, Sunday

The previous evening it was  Intimated Jeff and Suzy would be having 10-15 mins discussion and thus a few minutes later start that Morning. Suzy told her Daddy she was indeed being a full time  Mummy, thus as was discussed over the last fortnight since their the new arrivals arrived! She would need to catch up with work not this week but next week, potentially the following (School  starts of course the Tuesday) week as many as extra day’s as necessary BUT leaving in time for the Harris kids (and Monthly days in office)  1^st Tuesday was her suggestion for shadowing Sarah . Sarah is about to go for a holiday in around   4 weeks tomorrow  BUT For that 2 weeks I will need to stay until close 17.00-17.30, and a little later on Friday with paperwork tidying  SO for those weeks we can ask if the Harris kids can get into an After school club OR someone not working (like Jeffs mummy Vera)!  In effect from new arrivals to School Running ; we have managed to pull off an Genuine Miracle!

Jeff had no objections, indeed saying “Very Organised my lovely mother of 8” BUT he was asked to keep her decision till mid-afternoon as planned!

Breakfast came and went, Lunch a tiny earlier 11.45 (Lisas mum Polly Sunday Roast) to allow Lisa leaving with her father 12.45 for the monthly Smith Benevolent Fund awards meeting (from 13.00), an hour  or so. Lisa declared a hand in her BFF’s application (yes we all know ; no worries Lisa!)  

In relation to Bryony’s two kids coming soon; full award plus 20% unwaged with both kids at school (£120, 000) BUT a new deal with the agency and Brian and the Fund  (Universally Wide Parenting) is to give EXTRA towards parents costs / All The Parents Hard Work!. Brian  was getting decision to send cheques where the kids settle; £60, 000. Even in Lisas case ; he insisted on giving to Lisa which she said  “Father ; is  this money for nothing?! Father replied “ No Money for EVERYTHING…bringing kids into our home,  you  and Steve  look after a very poor life in George and Amellia ;  so you see what I mean” “All right father I get it now! Suzy’s application on behalf of Byrony was successful; so the  following week Suzy would be getting full amount they asked for BUT topped up with the two kids naturally being unwaged (Byrony and Barry at School!) to £120,000 AND £60, 000 for the Parents!  Lisa texted Suzy to advise they got the full award topped up to £120k with both being unwaged/ in school;  When I return I will explain the extra £60k extra for you lot” “Suzy advised Byrony of the good news; AND a little more  that works out 60k per twin ; i.e. £120k; very well received! …

… and upon return, she explained the story (as above i.e. Money for  parents who have helped kids settle).  That earned Lisa another hug having been pretty much wipe  off her feet  by Byrony on Lisa’s return !

Next; Suzy’s Meeting re her work/kids/life mix ! A few other bodies arrived (Suzy’s  mother and father AND Doc Reynolds) as previously discussed  meeting.  The former Punishment Room (about to become another kids room!) was used for this meeting.

She explained everything similar to her Daddy’s   discussion early this morning .Double checking with Dr Reynolds Sarah IS off four weeks for Monday for a fortnight, and shall we say next week from Tuesday, possibly a couple of days until you are fully  catch up! And I have no objections indeed thereafter to First Monday shadowing 09.00 but leaving 15.00 for the School run ; Doc Reynolds,  her Mother and Father, and Lisa wished all well with the School Run ; starting day after tomorrow; not forgetting the Grandkids soon enough!

Standing close by all Suzy’s kids (asked to be there alongside everyone)  that she had indeed decided to be a full time Mum (as per earlier details as discussed with Meeting)

HOWEVER re next month. Well cross that bridge when we come to it; some have School Run  Tuesday, tomorrow I will discuss some pregnancy things with Byrony; as well as making sure  everyone is ready to roll after tomorrow. , OK Kids” yay” All 5 who can* walk stood up happy dancing and started a mini party dance THEN come up hug their Mummy ,in the biggest group hug ;with Lisas kids joining in too!

Sadly home time after tea meant it was Suzy , Jeff and her family head home, .With School run plans pretty much set to roll ; and some time to discuss a  Birth Plan with Byrony; of course they were in the deep end BUT she loved her entire family SO DAMN MUCH; even MORE now!

 

“ Come here my Amazing  FULL TIME MUMMY of 8…”  I must admit, I like the sound of that Daddy” !” Afterwards some passionate kissing, they fell asleep…

 

 

Suzy’s Family Daily Routine (scanned from paper copy) from this Tuesday;

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Chapter 65 – Schoolrunning #1 Mummy #2 Daddy #3 Byron #4 Avery #5 Byron  (and #6 Rose in new year)  - or third week with Byron, Avery  & Byrony  at Suzy   Jeffs  - Monday

 

DID YOU KNOW?

·        Paula  MacFadyen is  actually a HD worker (Scottish Huntington’s Association) for me and my late father. And even when I  down south for 11 and a half years my mums aid things like ‘Paula’s asking for you’)  including nurse Paula in me at 18/19 story (although different responsibilities) .

·        Orla (Suzy’s mother) is based on a decent social worker     I had upon returning to Dundee from 2019 until 2021ish

·        Avery’s name was taken from a Gender Neutral baby names list, BUT one of many. I went for that one as they also make sticky labels for many years (ED: yes Stationery geek as well as bus nerd)

·        Chapter Title  was indeed taken from Trainspotting posters from 1997

Monday morning  ; Suzy got even warmer receptions from all the house  ; including her mother and father who hugged etc . “I can only assume after yesterdays decision to be a full time Mum??? Well no need to suck up BUT I do like that” (Mum jumped in for a  hug) “yes thanks Mum” she said a she sat down for Breakfast. “Why do I feel like a VIP”??? “Well you deserve It for yesterday… today.. and every day … both as a Mother and everything else since we met 13 year ago  ( Suzy and Jeff kiss briefly) before she stood up)

“Morning everyone ,
Judging by the lovely reaction, you all love yesterday’s decision  i.e. not returning to work by 1 day a month (after caught up) and holiday cover now and then BUT Today  is a lot of stuff on.                                                                   

10.00 Byron, Avery and Byrony ; both your workers are coming here; remember your last time before school goes back tomorrow.

11.00 Byrony discussing some pregnancy things , as well as discussing midwifes and the like.

Just after lunch I will have a short time with each of you; in the order Rose, Barry, (Triplets  unable to talk not needed) , Byron ,Avery and Byrony . For the benefit of our most recent arrivals they these are kind of like some 1:1 time where your Mummy cutches up with everything you have done .Generally on Fridays  BUT we’ve been busy clearly. 3 newest arrivals  this will include confirmation of School Run plans from  tomorrow.  (ED: in UK and maybe Europe too; teachers are given 5 days year in service training, where the teachers train rather than teach. Hence back to school Tuesday ,not Monday!)

At other times, you are free to play and chat with each other! “

Their workers arrived on time , and once again they all waxed lyrical about Suzy’s work choice! Suzy’s only qualm was YOU BEAT ME TO IT! Suzy also explained everyone’s  milestones themselves. Right up to them returning to School the following day,., as that  was indeed restarting both worker  would come at a different the Thursday (just after dinner time around 18.15).

11.00, Bryony’s time In relation to a few pregnancy and baby things ; but before  going further; she checked in relation as to whether or not Byrony had met a Midwife? SHE KENEW WHAT THEY WERE BUT HAS NOT HAD ONE YET. “I guess with being in a  state of flux ; she phoned her (Doc Reynolds )  Office Number, she got hold of Sarah (now pretty much every day her PA) to enquire if Doc R could chase this up for Byrony Macpherson? She would take a message for her boss to come back to her during the next 48 hours” She gave Byrony a copy of her birth Plan;   saying that’s what she did both times. Explaining Lisa’s C section being NOT The normal ; she chose for General Anaesthetic after a previous sore tear  in having Jayden,  BUT normally you are awake. . She then asked her view on a few pregnancy and birth  things , before writing them all down to put into a plan; we can   put together a more formal plan after discussing with her Midwife, Brian, Me and herself.

Lunch (Sausage, Chips and Beans , with fresh fruit  afterwards) went down well; with Suzy’s finding Rose and Barry did not need anything so she played with them both Playroom for an hour. “That was a very interesting Fact finding mission “she said to Jeff ; but her Daddy Jeff wondered who was having the best time?” “We all did; and indeed it’s interesting. I hope we are still playing games like those with them 10 years from now Daddy? “ “Indeed I am sure you will be playing with them like that when grown up too; Mothers always think as their little Babies ??? “ “Very true Mummy Suzy, BUT your Mum did technically big-baby you too?” “True, but so far only our Bryon is that way inclined!???”

As she was finishing discussion with her Daddy; she had a txt  reply from Doc R’ ; “Yes will chase this up. I know she is school from tomorrow obviously again BUT I will try to make sure this happens ideally for first half this week ideally after school;. Etc, with her aware Byrony has workers one evening this week”  which went down very well with Byrony!

The new arrivals only had some minor questions, with Suzy also reminded the plans i.e. Jeff taking Byron leaving this week 08.20 (Suzy swap Friday so she can see her old school’s new location i.e. “New” Kingspark with Byrony aware she was dropping off and Daddy Jeff picking up)  Suzy only been there a couple of times since the move) with Suzy picking up both Harris (Academy) kids 08.15 tomorrow. Suzy’s mother/ Grandma Orla starting food from 07.00 and we will wake around half an hour earlier tomorrow (than previously) at the same time ; and every schoolday  we will wake you up at a similar time!

Dinner   (put on and together  by  Jeff) was a Chicken Casserole and Ice Cream, while Suzy did everything else, ensuring they all had all school stuff ready and packed away for the morning.

After everyone’s else’s bedtimes, they put said night night; not believing they would have a School Run for tomorrow and forever now…

 

 

Chapter 66 – Schoolrunning #1 Mummy #2 Daddy #3 Byron #4 Avery #5 Byron  (and #6 Rose in new year)  - or third week with Byron, Avery  & Byrony  at Suzy and Jeffs  - Tuesday part 1

The early morning starting 30 minutes earlier with the kids and the rest of the house 20 minutes early for the kids start of school day), with her Daddy Jeff waking her from slumbers “Morning my lovely full time mummy of 8 and future grandmummy of 2” “morning Daddy… what you said” “I cant believe we are finally getting ready for school running and our kids at school 2 years before Rose; and indeed we did pull A BLOODY MIRACLE to get everything ready in a fortnight baby girl” “We did indeed Daddy Jeff (they smooch) I plan to say this morning I am VERY PROUD of them, even if we only knew them for a wee while!”

After walking downstairs for Breakfast time, she did indeed stand up and discuss; alongside the other Tuesday bits and bobs. One extra sitter covering between 08.00 to look after Rose, Barry and the triplets, while they take the older kids to Kingspark / Harris. These four days only however, as from Monday the Harris kids dropped off by Suzy’s mum before work and the taxi transportation from that week too. However every day until further notice siters would cover 14.30 to 17.00 when Suzy collects Harris kids (and this week Daddy Jeff taking Byron home); with the existing Rose/Barry sitter Sara and Triplets sitter Melissa taking it in turns, through to the School Holidays! She had reminded both Harris kids to bring home copies of their timetables so she can add to the  calendar/Diary; she can photocopy and scan things before giving back their copy.  Suzy and Jeff left the house (Mumtruck 2 and Jeffs car; with the third one a couple of weeks away),  with them giving an additional couple pecks on cheek when unclipping  both Avery and Byrony “okay Mummy Suzy; now you’re embarrassing us” “Awwh thanks. And you know I love you so much?”

After they both returning home; sitting outside the playroom. Halfway through explaining her plans to Daddy Jeff for food and similar supplies  (now we have all the older kids food all the like linked to our loyalty card; we revert to weekly online deliveries) BUT this was interrupted by Eastgate Surgery’s general  number showing up (so not Doc Reynolds, her Mum or Sarah her PA) she answered it “Hello, Suzy Clark” “Hello Suzy, my name is Emma, a Midwife at Eastgate,  and I am ringing about one of your new arrivals, Byrony” “Aaah yes  Emma;  I remember you ; good to chat again” After she double-checked Bryony’s date of birth etc as standard; she had some availability that  Friday . As she was at School  till 15.00 that day of the week; it was decided 16.15  at Suzy’s home she would have half an hour; allowing time before Suzy started on dinner. While she had never been Suzy’s own midwife, she enjoyed a few minutes catch up with her Triplets progress and the previous two as well (“Nice of you to ask Emma”  After ringing off the phone, she updated her Calendar / Diary before telling Jeff of the  news; then texting Byrony too (later at the end of her school period getting a thumbs up too). Additional discussions included Suzy (or her helper) would continue to do all the meals bar Breakfast (Suzy; s mother/kids Grannie Orla); however her Daddy Jeff would help a couple of evening meals a week like he had been doing for some time. As for the time next month working 2 weeks till close; Jeff agreed to speak to his mother (leaving her a message) ; alternatively an after school club for kids was Plan B.

As Suzy started preparing her lunch (a Store bought pre-made Lasagne but 3 less than yesterday followed by (Cadburys) Caramel Ice Cream; a message from Barry Adams (Byron’s Kingspark helper) saying he could come over the following Monday 18.00 to meet Byron and you and Jeff ; and Byron speaks VERY highly of you two!

CONTINUES IN NEXT CHAPTER

 

 

 

I should have said in  Chapter 66 too I am using a laptop. It does have speakers BUT for the Word Read Aloud, does not seem to have any effect. Therefore if you see any typos (quoting   Gremlins 2) “please try not to notice,” until I say otherwise!

Chapter 67 – Schoolrunning #1 Mummy #2 Daddy #3 Byron #4 Avery #5 Byron  (and #6 Rose in new year)  - or third week with Byron, Avery  & Byrony  at Suzy and Jeffs  - Tuesday part 2 and Wednesday

In addition the sitter mentioned above this was also happening on the Friday  morning when Suzy was staying at Lisas with them returning to Lisas Thursday and Friday evenings; with  Suzy taking the 2 Harris kids  that morning and SEN transport had  Lisas details for the days requested! Lunch (lasagne and ice cream)  went down very well; the always sweet toothed Suzy (ED: yes in real life too!)  enjoyed it as much as the kids do! Mid-afternoon  admin included going through the post,  and finding a Appointment letter for Bryony’s 16 week scan ; finding it 11.40 on a Friday she rung the Appointments  number to advise if anything later; as she’s at school until 15.00 that day. A few other slots were available on same day (Or indeed Monday) and she settled on 16.40 (texting Byrony similar to earlier with her  appointment with Midwife and her former Colleague Emma! She realised; school swapping around things is something she s not yet used to BUT doing not too bad by their own admission!

Daddy Jeff was picking up Byron (Kingspark School 09.00 to 15.00) So with a 15-20 minutes journey he left at 14.30. With a 20-25 minute drive to the Harris (remember they finish 15.50 Mon/Tue and 15.00 rest of the week) she left house 15.10 (Wed/Tur/Fri intending to leave 14.20). Both school numbers were on their phone for each school; so if any issues she could let them know (i.e. road closures or delays!) 15.15 Jeff left with Byron (arriving home 15.40) Suzy had both Harris kids in car 16.00 she got home again around 16.35. Upon arrival home she made 2 copies of both Harris kids pupil timetables (1 for Fridge and 1 for her to add to the online calendar  the next day in the study !) It was indeed a novelty for the younger kids to  chat with their new/older siblings about how they were (School Days) – and for both Parents  too! Suzy and Jeff indeed also discussed their early School Days too!  

It was Daddy Jeff’s turn to make dinner (Battered Sausage and Chips with some Fruit and squirty cream for pudding). During this time she used the time to briefly discuss with Byron suggesting that Sunday he would be experimenting as an Adult  Baby for part of the day, and is he fine being breastfeed. He looked forward to that ; mentioning he has little memory of being breastfed but lots of feeding in bottles – he not being 100 per cent if it was Formulae but some memories of her pumping bottles  for her kids! But with that being fine, going back through to her Daddy (in Kitchen) of this news and adding to the Calendar written  on a Post-It note added to the copy through of the kids School timetable to add it back on the calendar for Sunday. Byron had been told (and was happy) with it being added to the Daily  Announcements from Friday!

Dinner was demolished quickly (Daddy Jeff added a secret ingredient to make everything deep fried go down anywhere; a dust of paprika and also peppercorns and mustard ground after taking out the oil – or similarly the combination when doing his own batter (these were pre-battered!)

Everyone was happy,  with everyone’  bedtime coming too quickly. After kids going to bed Suzy and Jeff mused on their successful day.

 

Wednesday was very similar with Suzy adding things to the calendar as well as getting arranging  meetings for Byron for the following week  (Paula his Scottish Autism, project worker) ; with Susy leaving 50mins early for the Harris kids.  Lunch was pre-made frozen pizza with fruit cocktail and Dinner was Suzy made lasagne with her Mums own recipe and ice cream cones) looking forward to Lisa’s family coming over the following day.

 

 

 

 

This chapter is in slightly less detail, to allow me then to jump forward to the  end of the year over the next few chapters (Triplets first birthday in January, Rose starting nursery in New Year, Bryony’s pregnancy… plus also a certain matter of Christmas!)

Chapter 68 – Schoolrunning #1 Mummy #2 Daddy #3 Byron #4 Avery #5 Byron  (and #6 Rose in new year)  - or third week with Byron, Avery  & Byrony  at Suzy and Jeffs  - Thursday to Sunday

Thursday and Friday’s various visitors for the new three arrivals came and went. Thursday lunchtime Lisa’s family arrived, with Jaydens first day at Rowantree Nursery School of course the day before.  He was doing Mon/Wed/Fri that week and next before every day of the week. Rose enjoyed hearing Jaydens first day went well, and looked forward to hearing from him after Friday! (Which was similarly fun!)

Suzy (when dropping off Byron at Kingspark School) enjoyed a look around (with School aware, and she was a former pupil!) She did ask if everyone with Potty Problems goes here; not a hard and fast rule now… mind you Suzy started school of course 32 years at the former location in Gilburn Road and now adjacent to St Johns! While she was there she was recognised twice “Miss Larsson (well Mrs Clark [holds up ring fingers) from an Office Administrator and a teacher!!! Not too bad considering Suzy had assumed all retired or mostly passed away!

With shopping bits here and there (main food shopping online once again!) However as Friday did mark the first week of Suzy’s most recent 3 arrivals (and Jayden’s nursery albeit part time!) she decided to arrange a  home delivery Dinner for all in the home; this time the Indian Curry House (massive portions yes still even now and a decent price), which went down amazingly well !!

As was standard Lisa and family went home on Sunday.

That is the end of the week marks moving in next week to 8 months of the Triplets the next week!)  

 

 

Chapter 69 – between the Triplets 8^th Month and 1^st week December  (Triplets 11^th Months)  - everyone’s progress on both family sides and looking forward to Christmas!

Lisa’s Family Side

Jayden was enjoying Nursery School at Rowantree (Nursery School) and post-October they went to all day (like other Dundee schools) . The adopted twins Lucy and Anna were scheduled to start a year after Jayden. George/Amelia did start Nursery School at October school holidays. The specialist visit (at Ninewells Hospital) said they “don’t look too bad” but a couple of follow-ups with his Colleagues would follow in Other departments, with the first one mid-December.

 

Suzy’s Family Side

As was anticipated; Suzy and Jeff were successful in making Byron, Avery and Byrony settle; so Adoption was granted for her newest arrivals/eldest 3, and like Barry, his surname was changed by Statutory Declaration to Clark. (ED: from personal experience Deed Poll is  easier!)

Suzy’s gynaecologist appointment (2^nd visit following a 6 moth post birth delivery) showed some damage still ; paper stitches were arranged through the Doctors Surgery were working well.
Daddy Jeff returned to work on the 7hr week 3 days a week before 9^th week full time. While Suzy doing one  Tuesday a month . She is getting full pay for 1 year plus the close to 5 months normal paid maternity leave too; and getting paid for the days she works on top!

 

Kids; oldest to youngest

Byrony
Byrony’s pregnancy continues apace, and between week 14 and 29 weeks, (30week as dsat 1^st December.) She is expecting two Baby Boys, with a birth plan similar to Suzy’s (see This Story Chapter  4 and 27 for Suzy’s two pregnancies and Chapter 18 for Vee) . As was initially anticipated her School Year has been paused for one year , with her leaving at 28 weeks after being 3 days a week from 26^th week. It is more than likely she might need a new class BUT that would worked out some other time. . Byrony was looking forward to meeting her sons, whey are born  (names to be decided after labour!) She has also continued with her babysitting now both with Rose & Barry as well as the Triplets. In spite growing bigger and bigger everyday, she is happy in herself!

Avery
They continue enjoy helping Daddy Jeff with little odds and end, in and around the house, Lisa’s home too occasionally, as well as a couple of Saturday morning shadowing their contractor.

Byron
The following weekend he was a Big Baby on Sunday, which he enjoyed immensely. Mummy Suzy has arranged every other Sunday (on the weekends they are at Suzy’s course!) AND indeed planning in a couple of weeks to increase to some evenings too!

Rose
Enjoying life more with both Triplets and older kids in her family giving her more company around the house. Looking forward to starting Nursery School (Blackness placing request accepted!! ) Chats longer and longer for family, and Lisa; s side too. She is , however, Potty Trained but kept in pull ups until mid-December when she will  be tried each cotton knickers/Big Girl Knickers.

Barry
He is similar to Rose in that he’s enjoying having a bigger family. Starting to catch up with Rose in the speech, with him managing sentences most days a few complicated too! Progress on potty training at least is that similar to Rose and Jaydens progress i.e. very few accidents BUT in a month or so they’ll try him similar to Rose.

Triplets (Charlotte/Elijah/Aurora)
Following the Diva speaking at very early age, they have all started speaking a few words each, moving up and sitting up and down in their cots.  Getting bigger both physically and emotionally by the day!

 

 

In the next Chapter we jump to 1^st December, at the start of Christmas meetups etc but in January Rose starts Nursery school shortly before triplets birthday , a month latter Barry 2^nd birthday and two months of course after Triplets is Roses 3rd birthdays… and ten week’s later is Bryony’s due date for her 2 sons!                     

 

Chapter 70 – A December to Remember ; lots of fun and of course CHRISTMAS  – part 1; Monday 1^st and Tuesday 2^nd December

 

Monday 1^st December
Morning came ; Suzy stood up with everyone’s plans (Avery dropped off by Granny Orla like usual) and Suzy was collecting him at the end of the day. Byrony was off school in the run up to her babies, and looking after the Triplets for a short time as well as looking after Rose and Barry that afternoon. She also reminded them all that Suzy was indeed at her work the following day. The house was looking happier and happier with festive stuff around her home; as well as Triplets and the three August arrivals meaning house now has effectively quadrupled since last December (from 2 to 8 kids over 12 months ; and 2 grandkids coming by Easter too!) ; with Rose and Barry bigger every day too; the house was true merry every day ; not just in the run up to Christmas. Suzy, of course, had no idea she would be happy with a family; since Roses birth her relationship with Doc R (her boss now reduced to 1 day a month!) and she’s never looked back! A very painful labour still sore 11 months on but starting treatment to try and ease things down there for making love more comfortable! However this was happening gradually. She didn’t not want another baby of her own; but three older kids and one pregnant fill the gap; and in coaching Bryony’s pregnancy in effect; she has one more to look forward to!

Byrony was getting on well looking after Triplets and her older kids Rose and Barry too most days; and she will indeed make an amazing mother! She had previously been giving cooking practice with Suzy too; with her fine now with Microwave , Oven etc and the like (she would put on lunch for those there with Daddy Jeff making dinner! ) with Suzy, Jeff and her deciding this another good use of her effective Maternity Leave!

Lunch was Hunters Chicken and ice cream; dinner being a massive Cumberland Pie. Bedtime came and went!

 

Tuesday 2^nd December

Suzy returned to her work – essentially the last time till the next year!  She enjoyed catching up with her boss, Sarah (the PA now every day with Suzy shadowing her) and patients and colleagues alike. She left feeling content and happy that she’d made the right decision; even if one role she never thought she would be; a full time mother of 8; and 2 grandchildren coming soon enough, along her drive along Perth Road between work and Harris Academy collecting Avery, made her SO DAMN HAPPY on the road home and every day!

 

 

Chapter 71 – A December to Remember ; lots of fun and of course CHRISTMAS  – part 2; Wednesday 3^rd December ; part 1

 

 Wednesday 3^rd December
Just before lunch Suzy went through to her hubby/Daddy Jeff to discuss Christmas plans and New Years .  Last Christmas it was in their home with them getting together with Lisa over New Year (Suzy’s year to host!) That was indeed happening again. Jeff’s mother would arrive on Christmas Eve (thus year Wednesday 24^th) until the end Boxing Day (26^th; Friday). With this being not only the Triplets first Christmas; as well as Suzy’s three newest arrivals first really big celebrations and first Christmas with Suzy & Jeff. Traditional Turkey etc plus a couple extra options today; with Suzy and her Mother Polly sharing Christmas Day cooking, besides breakfast as usual. However Suzy’s mother remembers her daughter getting up in middle of the night “to see if Santas been”… now, not sure BUT can play that by ear! (ED: yes I did!) As well as Santa lists for the youngest Suzy also made sure (mid-November in line with Christmas light switches on) to find what they all wanted. All were purchased, along with extra small surprises. The only issue is time for wrapping up, but a couple of hours both Suzy and jeff were getting through wrapping up the gifts, now around half done with everything  (including Santa lists etc).  Presents for the now even bigger extended family were bought, and also others expected from Granny Polly/Grandpa Andy (Suzy’s parents)  and Granny Vera (jeffs dad!) New Year would start from morning of Hogmanay/Wednesday 31^st December staying over 48 hours with returning home on Friday 2^nd January, but further fine tuning will happen nearer the time/after Christmas Day has passed. Daddy Jeff gave it his approval; and would discuss/explain all that evenign (especially useful for the newbies!) without spoiling any surprises ! Jeff and Suzy once again mused that we are Amazing Parents!

 

 

Now my main Desktop PC once again, so now able to proof read again ! Happy New Year/guid Hogmanay to everyone on Daily  Diapers dot com, and I hope you had a good Christmas!

Chapter 71 – A December to Remember ; lots of fun and of course CHRISTMAS  – part 2; Wednesday 3^rd December ; part 2

 

In the last post , a few missed bits;

1, In the new year, not only will Suzy turns 38 (missed 37 last year)  but Byron  will be in Nappies at School, him being in  nappies like School holiday and weekend as now.
2. With Sundy roasts traditionally being (Suzy’s) Mums work; she was actually taking Sunday thing about Sunday roast versus Her mum.  Everyone has her fans  versus her Mum, or Hers, and Suzy s still enjoying most cooking bar  the three dinners a week her husband. Daddy Jeff!
3. Over the road left the Scheme (housing estate ) are month ago and Suzy and jeff  are  in process of buying it. NOT for more kids of their own making FOR JUST NOW  BUT also useful for possibly future foster kids hopefully new year AND ALSO for more space when all five under 3 grown up more space! Known as The Annexe….

After the  confirmation for telling those still there , it went down incredibly well. The extended family was certainly looking forward to Christmas plans, with young kids looking forward to Santa coming, for the three oldest first Christmas with  Suzy and Jeff; and also the parents/Grandparents to see everyone at home for a couple of Days; looking forward to early  2026s further plans and Bryony’s babies soon enough with Suzy’s first born starting nursery School too!  

 

For the day In question  (Wednesday during the day) Byrony was looking after her youngest fiver sibling  (after shadowing the babysitters the previous day while at work) , and all were getting along fine. Suzy did appreciate her help and was sure of the quality she will be like to her own boys due soon enough.

Getting in festive modo heir inch was Turkey Drumsticks (bones removed for the youngest) and Christmas Pudding;  dinner was collected by Suzy; s mother Polly brought home; chippy from Tailend  (3 branches of which Dundee only branded Mother Hubbard with St Andrews and Arbroath unchanged ).

Thursday  4^th Suzy; s family go to Lisa’s  11^th Lisa at Suzy’s, 18^th at Lisa; 25^th and 1^st   January see above with normal service resuming second Thursday of January ,

 

ED: is  my Suzy here a glutton for punishment ? Like me in real life years ago used to do 2,   3 things a day and 3 or 4 jobs sometimes 2 at once? Now less and less energy means resting too! BUT on here; she has none of my problems…

Chapter 72 – A December to Remember ; lots of fun and of course CHRISTMAS  – rest of week Friday 5^th December plus next wee while to Sunday 21st December 

Friday 4^th  December  both Suzy  and Jeff  formally purchased the second home (3 bedrooms), with an additional pair of Mummies (Day and night) taking day abut looking after the home (taking day about with the second house  people; they had already go to  know the family in the run up)., any additional occupants would be walked through at breakfast  to Jeff and Suzy’s main home. The idea was the sitting and kitchen areas will later be used for a 4^th and 5^th building, giving plenty space for things like triplets and other we e ones grow up; and possibly the odd Foster kid (Lisa going  back on Foster list  after early January works making  2 spare bedrooms) , HOPING in the new year BUT on the list, you never know”  . A few things were done that weekend (Avery helping with  a few extra things in the home and mummy/daddy too (locks and other things on the Foster required locks on doors, extra fire safety stuff   and beds etc ) in time for a Foster visit that Monday (8^th).  In addition, Lisa had been offered a promotion; overall Office Manager for her father ( Brian Smiths) Taxi Office 69 69 69 with the current occupant leaving 2^nd week January;  and she was mulling it over .      

Monday 8^th December, Dundee City Council Foster visited The Annexe, giving them an additional licence for 3  rooms for now (up to five people assuming 2 rooms shared  by two young kids), obviously being  aware more space soon enough and revised their own home; Suzy showing them the other space and rooms as well  as younger babies in the main (bedroom), technically a few other things in their home could be  useful too,  and their Officers said they were getting busy time of the year!

 

 

We now jump forward to overnight Sunday 21^st December into Monday 22^nd December (2025). 

 

 

 

 

Chapter 73 – A December to Remember ; lots of fun and of course CHRISTMAS  – Christmas  Week, Monday 22^nd December part 1

Around 1.58am / 01.58 in the early hours of Monday 22^nd December , the landline         phone went ; Suzy  saw it was DCC Fostering…. She excused herself before walking through the hallway and closing the door.  There is a placement we need for two virtually newborns who’s mother Sarah Smithson died in labour (Sarah and Sylvia); her husband Jarred left when she had another pregnancy; there is also a7year old boy called Jarred and a 6yo girl called Roseanne  While temporary we have been struggling getting a new home for them; a grandmother Mums side would take them for the weekend she is too old for full time . Kids are still in hospital and the other pair are at their Grandmother’s tonight; but  we essentially need a Christmas Miracle  ; ALTHOUGH dropping off that Morning AND we would not necessarily expect you a massive number of Christmas Gifts!!!!” Suzy sad she MIGHT be happy  if her  Hubby was, to have them in the annexe – oldest two – youngest 2 i-n their bedroom till settle, with a twin nursery setup for a pregnant teen now at 33 weeks, or the spare bedroom used by my BFF when staying over!  ; and very similar to the UWP call five months before, she placed the  lovely lady Audrey on the line;  discussing this might be permanent and everything else; and  he was fine with that; of course with the additional help there every night and every day in the Annexe as well as their own home too! So this was agreed  and a plan for 09.00 drop-off; 2 separate arrivals . . She work her Mother (and inadvertently her Father) briefly advising 4 extra foster kids from the morning probably longer term, before going back to  bed.

Of course on the morning after their successful  Monday 8^th Dec home visit; so they knew a possibility!  While a busy and very full week already (normal for this time of the year), once  everyone was down in the Kitchen; Suzy reminded them she was of course on the Foster List, and overnight we had a call. A mother died during  childbirth with twin baby girls  (less than 2 week old Sarah and Sylvia)  husband left and not just those two; we also have a 6 year old Jared and 7 year old called Roseanne . So twin baby girls and  the other two arrive around 09.00. They will sleep every night in the new Annexe; before walking through to here every day. The two 2 week olds will be staying in our Room while they settle for a short time, and or the room Lisa’s family uses in the Short Term , We got the call around  02.00 so we don’t know very much BUT we hope to do so soon! NOTHING ELSE CHANGES this week with Christmas and your own plans however juts four more kids for Christmas Day, and probably a while to come!  She had largely positive feedback form her family downstairs; with her now part-time boss etc finding out between now and their 09.00 arrival  . They might be longer term because as we said no family now; just be aware of that, she reminded them, before the rest of the days plans; before she sat down.

After  Suzy finished her breakfast; she went through to the Study typing up her usual Inner Circles news BUT she apologised Did not yet know very much ; bar what was said; however hopefully more will become apparent. This also went down very well.

In the run up to the scheduled arrival time 09.00 people left for School and work  Daddy Jeff working from home BUT his boss was happy to start a bit later.  Suzy, Jeff; three triplets Rose and Barry in plus pregnant teen daughter Byrony home too. Their kids arrived with the virtually newborn twins Baby Girls before the grandmother brought in Jared and Roseanne. Foster paperwork etc was signed; then the plan was everyone else still there was introduce to the those people still there.

Jared and Amelia you are staying in our mew Annexe (points over the road)  and there is a Mummies help there 24/7 and you will come though at Breakfast time  . She explained the other people in her home and Lisas family before staying she would be walked their own rooms at  11.00 and I will go through the rules. Jared and Roseanne You wont be at school this week ; finishing 24^th in any case; but we will be taking you or arranging transport for your school;  However while our local is  Downfield they explained their newest arrivals meaning Blackness/Harris. Menzieshill school I will ring today too  more than likely Daddy Jeff taking `you;  we did get The Annexe for additional space when some of my existing family going through puberty/growing up BUT when we heard about your mother we wanted to give you  somewhere safe for Christmas! Hopefully you  like it and we will go further on. We will normally take you out for Dinner before getting a few things; HOWEVER most places booked up for Christmas before we knew you; will get your choice of take out / delivery before getting some things from the Supermarket that you might need for you two and the Wee ones too! Any  questions for me, Daddy Jeff or anything else;  was just mostly thanking Suzy and Jeff for taking them; and we will think of a few between now and then; and we will decide where we would like food from ! Their siblings walked them though (Rose and Barry ) to playroom,  with Suzy and Jeff sitting discussing their new arrivals. The two youngest were their too (in baby carriers each) and Suzy was feeding them (from her breast) as well as changing in the downstairs toilet with a Baby size Changing Mat. The mothers aid (Sara) was doing lunch now; with her daddy and her then going through the additional bits needed to change (Wee things here and there) that week .

MONDAY CONTINUES IN NEXT CHAPTER

 

 

 

Chapter 74 – A December to Remember ; lots of fun and of course CHRISTMAS  – Christmas  Week, Monday 22^nd December part 2

After chatting on the way over the road,  Suzy  showed them their rooms (this two previously set up with smaller size bed). Following meeting Byrony etc they would also call them Mummy Suzy/Daddy Jeff, so they were doing that too !  Upon sitting down on one of the beds, Suzy asked them to tell them a bit about themselves for a couple of minutes; Jared firstly explained he was into Football (Soccer) supporting one of the English clubs; Paw Patrol, riding his bike, and  a few other interests . Roseanne said she likes Bluey, Hello Kitty, some other kids TV too; running, and is a football fan supporting Dundee United (Suzy gives her a fist bump)

She did tell them they hope to keep you a  home for as long as possible; however they might find someone else, or you might not like it “naw we do” (Suzy smiles even wider) … She said that even if you end up in a new home; till the day I die, I will always have your back. She proceeded to explain the rules (alongside the rest of the talks usually had with newbies); there were given one each of the Triplets tablets for now while they order another four (Still a little too young but one day!) . Suzy then asked a couple of general questions ; they do have many other things in their own home;  which Suzy said she would get them over soon enough, probably in the New Year. Upon discussing their Primary School; was okay but could; swap to the other one (Blackness Rose about to go to Nursery  School  and Avery and Bryony’s former school) BUT they said getting them to School will be worked out  probably with them in the near future.  As it stands my Mother/ Grany Orla drops kids  off at Harris and was about to start 5 – 10 mins early via Blackness BUT hopefully convincing her a further wee while before her work as she works at Eastgate Health  Centre 2 mins away from Menzieshill (School!) with me picking up Harris ,kids and now Rose in new year and you two meaning I might need to be in two (Primary) School Closings at once; so she will then be within a wee while of the  School Closing time.  In addition while Granny Orla’s car only has five seats so 3 for Haris kids minus 1 with Byrony off for her babies plus another two means we might need to drop you off separately (We have 16 seats so plenty room for the return home) with Daddy Jeff also 5 seats in a separate car which he uses for his work ,  however he could probably drop off. (He can also drive the 16 seater BUT just us two as you require a separate permit) . A couple of minor questions and she walked them back through 11.50 for lunch (advising they only sleep here) …  they were discussing about food and McDonalds was that they’d settled on ;Suzy saying she would arrange a McDelivery ! BUT she had a message all from her former boss Doc Reynolds “Congratulations Suzy on your new four Foster kids;  bad their father left  and Mother died BUT I could pop up to meet not tonight but tomorrow after work?” Suzy replied that was fine; and told this to Jared and Roseanne.  
Mothers Aid Sara had put on a giant Pasta bake; with two more mouths to feed Suzy had made up a medium size second one too (both the same) with salad and afterwards their supermarkets version of a Magnum ice cream stick (ice cream on a stick with a thick coat of chocolate) to finish (with breast feeding/formulae for the youngest.  She explained to those attending that usually we would go for a dinner out BUT with Christmas week generally booked we are arranging for a delivery before we get them some additional things that might help them settle in. They want McDonalds; and I will double check everyone’s order later on, ordering mines and also double checking with your granny/grandad.

After walking through to the Study with her Daddy (working from home that day) they already like us; and they hopefully continue to settle. The twins however are like Lisas twins when they were  newborns; one happy go lucky one always sad! The older two are not too bad with little signs of tears etc but keeping an eye on them!  Her mother  / Granny Orla was bringing the paper forms for the change of doctors.  In addition the twins birth had not been registered ; they had to book this with the first one actually a week the following day (Tuesday 29^th December) mid afternoon. As promised Menzieshill school  was phoned too.  The plan was to see if they settle etc over holidays BUT a plan is In place for bringing them. Suzy explained her other family/plans going west end (Blackness) BUT a decision was to follow moving or not. Monday school day meant she was off to pick up Harris Academy kids; and they accepted the offer (in the 16 seat Mumtruck 3; which front display was showing Mery Christmas flipping between that and happy New Year) and they were placed into a couple of seats (“That’s yours now!) formerly Grandparents while she used the opportunity to clip the twins car seats in too (them coming along for the ride too!) Avery had been told they were coming, and they spent the 20-25 minutes or so drive getting to know one another.  Byrony’s taxi transport from Kingspark saw them get in at a similar time.

Suzy’s Mother and Father arrived home; and the Delivery (McDonalds delivery)  for 17.45.After everyone was done and dusted Suzy and Jeff left with Mumtruck 3 for a few things extra.  She also double checked their Santa Lists which she would pass  onto Santa himself ; thankfully wrapping done everyone else while Suzy ordered that stuff earlier on (given the list in the run up  to Dinner) (with a kid free separate day kid free extra hour or two at Smiths Toys etc at the Retail Parks as she gets what she can! )Amazon did deliver most others BUT she didn’t want chance  it!  HOWEVER the kids did know moving  might not get gifts; but Suzy said she will do her best to let him know. (going for things tomorrow under the premiss “handing our new arrivals Santa lists to Himself” …

… after the new arrivals bedtime they mused up  with each other. Positive feedback from Lisa who accepted offer as Overall Office Manager 3 days a week  (brief phone call); Alma now the Deputy Manager of Nat West Bank Southgate London N14 from 2^nd January (ditto) and of course a few minutes with Jeffs Mother (ditto); the latter looking forward to meeting them all from Christmas Eve and Lisa over the New Year; but might be a few Card Subject To Change! Daddy Jeff and Mummy Suzy mused that we did the right thing earlier on…

 

 

 

Chapter 75 – A December to Remember ; lots of fun and of course CHRISTMAS  – Christmas  Week, Tuesday 23^rd December part 1

Suzy’s Tuesday morning announcements started ; before starting going round tapping everyone on the shoulder; with them not being at Breakfast (for the benefit of the newbies who arrived since yesterday’s breakfast)

Tuesday’s  announcements included  (for their more recent arrivals only) that morning she would be going to make sure Santa got their lists from our new arrivals ;  mid-afternoon 14.30/2.30pm the Counsil Foster team are returning, with your Social Worker this past at least, Helen Cooper (ED: yeah from Drop the Dead Donkey but different job)… , meeting us two as well!  Roseanne replied “she’s nice!”  Yesterday evening, I was unable to get hold of your father (line fast busy) BUT I hope to get hold later today at some point. This is so he knows you are here! Also Dr Reynolds was visiting that evening after work; on a similar vein the 2 kids who could write singed their Change of Doc Forms were taken in by Granny / Suzy’s Mummy Orla. Later on Lisa would bring her family gifts to Suzy before taking her side from Suzy’s family, with the Harris pickup  by Jeffs mum/Granny Clark today, with an hour meeting finishing around 15.30 not giving enough time if the  meeting ran over or one arrived late so it was decided she would need to help (this happening once or twice a month)!

Suzy headed out after Breakfast (around 09.10 ) for their new arrivals Santa items  as well as stuff from themselves and Grandma/Grandpa too! Thankfully their requests weren’t that specific (unlike this former Yellow Pages advert in the UK   https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pK7ZLl0lV00 ) and after Smiths Toys and a couple of additional things in other shops in The Stack (Retail Park) and Kingsway West Retail Park , she had pretty much had everything they needed ; and a few other bits and bobs from Santa, her/jeff plus Granny/Grandad Suzy’s side.  11.05 saw Suzy return home, tsking bags to the Study. After dropping things off she explained to the new arrivals was that Santa knows what you want, Jared and Roseanne.

In the run up to lunch Suzy checked in with jeff (in the study) catching up in  brief before intending to ring the kids father just before workers  but after lunch. Lunch was soon and Battered Sausages and Chips and Ice Cream afterwards. After calling everyone for lunch , the food went down well.

She then returns to the Study trying to get hold of their Father Jared (same name for both  big and kid!) Suzy introduced herself and explained she is the current  Foster parent of Jared/ Roseanne as well as the twins.  A discussion  included he left Sarah (his wife/kids mother) because of her getting pregnant again; and he was not  convinced  we could raise another kid with both at advanced stages of our careers (she was a senior Nurse In a doctors surgery and I am a developer now also managers for just over the last year); probably 1 per cent stupidity and 99 per cent emotion my side. He does have a new girlfriend (Kim Foyle with 1 previous 3yo girl) with him having no idea his ex (never got divorced) wife would die in childbirth ; did put him having ay future pregnancies BUT never say never! Suzy advised between 250 and 300 women die this way for every 100, 000 pregnancies way (from my previous job as a PA for a pregnancy/gynae specialist)  . He seemed a little choked / little tearful but Suzy gave him a  breather to get his composure. Ultimately address details  were  taken ; with  hopefully being able to arrange a visit his kids some day (possibly over the forthcoming weekend or early next week, he will give a little notice rather than just showing up without notice );  and asked if he had a message for the oldest two; he said he was asking for them, let them know I am happy they are safe AND if I don’t speak again by Christmas; Merry Christmas from your Father! Her Hubby/Daddy jeff was sideways but not hearing overhearing. She caught him up; advising he would try to give notice before visiting! As it was 14.15 she asked him to ensure they get them both sat down for their workers coming around .

Suzy explained to the oldest two of their Fathers news! Byrony was assisting briefly with Sarah and Sylvia with them being bottle fed and changed too while Suzy and Jeff were preparing everyone and everything  . At 14.28 Dundee Fostering were first with two workers different but in the same team as Audrey called  Mohammed or Mo for short; and Elsie arrived, with them being shown through to the kitchen table. Moments later was Social Worker Helen Cooper soon after with Jeff also bringing her through to the Kitchen  Table. “Nice to meet you Helen” said both Suzy and Jeff.  Upon double checking who is chairing the meeting; Mo was doing it!

He stood up with him and his colleague happy they had a very decent night’s sleep and also being relatively happy  so far. Suzy them replied explained she agreed; all getting on well (Jared, Roseanne and the Twins). The Social Worker was similarly happy ;  Suzy gave her back story and family in brief. Suzy and Helen agreed “we’re both to getting on fine with each other looking after these kids!” 

As was standard a second meeting next at Suzy and Jeffs home was set for the morning of Monday 29^th December.

TUESDAY CONTINUES IN NEXT  CHAPTER                                                     

 

 

Chapter 76 – A December to Remember ; lots of fun and of course CHRISTMAS  – Christmas  Week, Tuesday 23^rd December part 2 AND Christmas Eve, Wednesday 24th December

Later that afternoon; as well as her adopted children Avery (dropped off by Jeffs Mother this time around) and Byron (by SEN Taxi Transport) arriving back home separately, going through to the study; saying to Daddy Jeff “well if you thought my childbearing hips and 8 kids and 2 grandkids soon were a turn on; how now if we end up 12 plus 2???” “Even more happier; and you are even more sexier ; my sexy mother and Baby Girl !  How are you doing my dear with treatment down below ?? (similar to vaginismus treatment after the Triplets made her sore still but much receded pain, so she can make love easier and with less pain?) “Getting on well, less pain and easier and easier; one day we might be able to make love every night Daddy” “Well; good news” “I will leave you in peace as the new twins need fed and changed as they were needing it! (makes namaste hand gesture before walking through)  . After feeding both twins and changing them, she checked in with Jared and Roseanne; all okay they seemed to be; before Suzy made Turkey Drumstick and Chips; followed by warm Mince Pies (ED; festive traditional sweet mincemeat; not the usual savoury Mince Pies; or Pehs as they are indeed called in my native Dundee!) and some flavoured Squirty Cream (Caramel, Chocolate etc, with some Baileys flavour for the bigs!) to finish.  Doctor Reynolds said shed be 20.30; as discussed the previous day, and Lisa texted 19.30 she would be around.

Everyone was reminded/advised of Christmas plans, (including Jeffs Mummy/Granny Vera) and they were said on Christmas Morning; while we usually wake you up  from 7-ish (depending on ages); we will be waking you- up a wee while earlier at 06.45/6.45am so that you can all see if Santas been; and Granny Polly will be starting breakfast from same time ;  me and Daddy Jeff decided just now (Jared and Roseanne woken up by our Night  Nanny annexe and walked through here). However Suzy had indeed asked them to  stay away from the Downstairs rooms till then, BUT while she weas explaining to all downstairs; the door went! A taxi driver was at the door with a couple of bags of parcels wrapped up festive wrapping “ From Jared Smithson”  “Aah thanks yes we have his kids with us through Fostering; thanks! “ She gave a festive big hug (Checking it was Okay)  taking them through telling the oldest 2 your Daddy sent you some Christmas presents; we will keep those till Christmas Morning” The logistics for getting things ready on the Christmas Morning was before bedtime Christmas Eve;  with Suzy and Jeff getting everything setup downstairs after Christmas Eve bedtime!

Lisa arrived at the time; as well as wishing Suzy and Jeff and their family Merry Christmas (and dropping off gifts from her side/picking up their families gifts, with Lisa pointing out there are gifts for your new four, in sightly different wrapping paper)  and discussing she was deciding to try and get an additional floor – similar to Suzy’s – for a couple foster kids and looking to the future when Suzy’s; kids come to visit growing up (and both twins in 1 room each), and planning permission and plans submitted ; should hear second week Januarys Monday (when DCC Planning Meeting next!) Assuming permission is granted; it is hoped to start mid – February and be ready in a fortnight ; weather permitting; and Avery is welcome observing the Building Work school permitting!  She explained she was  looking forward to a couple temporary foster kids; and/or 2 permanent ones!  

Suzy explained her plan was to make all the rooms in the Annexe to make 11  bedrooms (bar seats for friends or waiting for each other); starting mid-January (No planning permission required for internal work it turns out). She then went onto discuss Suzy’s four new arrivals in record time since 8th December (visit to The Annexe) but Suzy then advised their busy season. She explained all rooms (bar a small sitting area for people waiting for their friends/siblings etc. Suzy  then handed over the two new arrival twins (Sarah and Sylvia) for cuddles and the like; before being introduced by Lisa to their older siblings Jared and Roseanne… introducing each other  as her Godmother and Mummies best friend for close to 20 years! After her departing (owing only to time constraints and with a equally busy Christmas Week as Suzy’s) she departed, having wished them all the best for the Season, and looking forward to the New Year festivities!

Suzy’s boss Doctor Reynolds visit was similar to Lisa’s , who  also had gifts for them all; before meeting up with the new four, who liked her too!

Everyone’s bedtime came (23^rd) soon enough!...

 

….Christmas Eve was similar BUT part days meaning Suzy’s mother work finished 15.00.; her fathers factory work closes 11.30 with a couple drinks with the Staff for a couple of hours; with him being expected back at a similar time to her mother (15.30)

The School run back from Harris  (finishing 12.00 Christmas Eve) and Avery was picked up by Granny Vera (jeffs father) who was also coming over for a couple of days! Byrons school finished early (same time). However Jeff finished 12.00 24^th in any case BUT had booked the week between the week between the two off; with bank holidays etc he returned to work Monday 5^th  January 2026;  enjoying week with the new 8 kids (and 2 grand kids coming soon) ; HOWEVER even more looking forward to it with 12 in;  AND with his wife . The previous year Suzy’s took same week off, but this time she is full time Mummy of course these days!!!  Suzy’s first BFF Alma  now in north London, new job (was Assistant Manager now Deputy Manager) starts Friday 2^nd January however as that is only a bank holiday in Scotland.

Granny Vera enjoyed meeting all her Grandkids; especially was looking forward to their four newest Grandkids!  They enjoyed  meeting everyone new that week just gone past ; and explained Mummy Suzy said she personally delivered as we had moved to make sure we might get some Santa gifts! (Suzy whispers ; she took them to Smyths and a few other shops to get that lot!) “Well that was clever, Mummy Suzy” pretending patronisingly giving her a pat on the head! Vera said she was going to call Suzy a saint for the year just gone with 8 kids and 2 grandkids coming soon; but now you are with 12 for now at least for Christmas and New Year , she struggled to come up with another adjective than Saint; setting for SUPER Saint AND Parenting Genius, BUT she thought even that would be harsh on Suzy (she does the We’re Not Worthy salute from Wayne’s World before Suzy takes her hand helping her up!) “Come on Vera, please remember your age???” “Fine, understood”
Later both grandmas (Jeff and Suzy’s mothers) enjoyed a catchup.

Earlier on Lunch was a Domino’s Pizza delivery with what  was left over PLUS  Grandma Polly’s recipe (who made them) Christmas Pudding; she had one for the following day already! The new two new twins Sarah and Syliva were still being looked after in Suzy and Jeffs room (other kids the night nanny looked after) and it was Suzy’s turn to feed and change (taking night about like before)! Hopefully longer term they settle for J & S, assuming they stay permanently, they will join their siblings in The Annexe.

After everyone’s  bedtime; not only just Suzy and Jeff put Christmas Stuff out in kitchen and sitting room/TV rooms but a hand was given from Jeffs mother/Granny  Vera and also Suzy’s mother/Granny Orla!

NOW: Christmas Day in a small number of hours… hopefully kids keep to our request staying asleep till 06.45!...

 

 

Chapter 77 – A December to Remember ; lots of fun and of course CHRISTMAS  – Christmas  Week, “IT’S CHRISTMAS” (said like Noddy Holder/Slade song) before switching to “All Over The World Tonight” (said like from in Santa Clause The Movie theme music)  Thursday 25^th December

After the extra early alarm 06.30 Suzy was surprised wake with no other kids waking her up; and indeed bar the newest twins needing fed/changed! After saying the same thing to her Daddy , she woke up all her kids same way ; asking to gather outside Mum & Dads bedroom . Daddy Jeff took the twins Sarah and Syliva downstairs, indeed in the interim the Night Nanny had the other two walked through, on the telephone; and they were told to all come down  OR inside front door at the same time, while Suzy said “Yes he’ s been” before telling each one at a time where there own things were.  Suzy explained some extra stuff for Byrony was for her forthcoming twin sons (coming in the new year soon enough)! Piles were not all the same size BUT this was with some toys and other gifts with boxes different sizes!

Suzy left her Daddy briefly to help those opening gifts with  lots of paper etc fiddly parcel tape/seams, while she went through to the Kitchen…. “Morning Mum Dad and Vera, AND merry Christmas!” “Merry Christmas my baby girl AND baby mummy AND baby grandmummy soon enough ” ; with all the bigs wearing Santa hats, but Suzy’s went a little awol with her mothers massive hug! Similar hugs from her father and mother-in-law Vera! After around 20 minutes or so she finished breakfast before going over to her Daddy Jeff, telling him to go for his breakfast! She enjoyed watching their kids open all their new toys and games! Everyone got all their Santa list; plus a few extra things form Mum And Dad (all with the usual sweets, selection boxes) and more besides!

Additional gifts from Dr Reynolds,  Lisa, Granny Orla and Granny Polly/Grandpa Andy and Alma (Suzy friend now down south)  . In the case of the four newest arrivals ; they arrived after Almas parcels were posted up north before their arrivals. However she asked Suzy to give each of the four £50 each in a Christmas Card, which  did the job fine (which she transferred on Christmas Eve evening!) The four new arrivals (Smithson Family) had some from their father too, and the three former MacPherson family (Byron/Avery/Byrony) had some stuff from their remaining relatives; and Vee and Barry’s father  sent him small gits for him; via his Vee and also getting rest of the family Suzy’s side  too.  With everyone busy for Christmas (and them being of school age I,E. not working) Mum and Dad got a complete set of all the Baby Shower type stuff; Byrony now more than ready for their arrival (due date 6weeks!)

Proceeding back to the kitchen for Suzy and her mother with cooking (Traditional Turkey etc plus a couple extra options too) sharing the work. Scotch broth then Turkey with  all the trimmings or beef or nut roast , before Christmas Pudding with ice cream .

After the  Kings Speech all the Bigs (all five); Suzy first stood up for around five minutes each  to give their lookback on the year just gone; all with Baileys for toasting (bar Suzy who had something  alcohol free similar liqueur to Baileys, as she is breastfeeding of course) with them getting a bottle each earlier for Christmas from Suzy’s mother / Granny Orla!

Everyone had various phone calls; Suzy had Alma, Lisa, father of twins/Jared/Roseanne and the like, a very busy day.

With everyone mostly still full from lunch,  a Light Salad and Fruit Salad filled the gap BUT Most still full from earlier! The evening was equally enjoyable, with bedtime  coming all too quick… next day Boxing Day / Friday 26^th December.

 

Chapter 78 – A December to Remember ; lots of fun and of course CHRISTMAS  – Christmas  Week, Boxing Day Friday 26^th December and following weekend (Saturday 27^th and Sunday 28^th December) too

Boxing Day was similarly interesting; with the early start the previous morning (Christmas Morning lets not forget) the woke the kids BUT asked them to get up in their own time; as long as all down by 09.00. An extended breakfast till 10am (with no one working that day with holidays (following week only Polly working as factory closed for her father); and the interim weekend in all  cases) BUT  surprisingly they were all eager to get up, after of course new toys games and gadgets  to play with;   they were all up by 07.45!  Suzy had hit her Tassimo bedroom before waking up anyone – TWICE – despite no alcohol with her partially breastfeeding triplets and fully breastfeeding the virtually newborn twins. However as she walked down to the main floor; she saw everyone happy playing with something new!  While their various gifts all went down well; Rose was playing Mummy and Baby with a new doll (similar to a Reborn Doll) feeding her from one of those baby bottles that have liquid sealed to never run out of milk. Barrys biggest hit was him playing with  a Master Builder Engineering Set (Suzy joked he wants to be  like Avery too), triplets Charlotte was happiest with her  Fisher-Price Baby & Toddler Toy Laugh & Learn 4-in-1 Activity Table & Art Easel, Elijah really loved his Fisher-Price Storybook Rhymes Learning Toy with Lights and Music (letting him listen  as well as  read!) Aurora / The Diva really enjoyed a Tea Set and was playing with her siblings serving them virtual tea!

Byron was wearing one of Little outfits (with Suzy or Byrony changing his nappy) and was enjoying playing with a new Train Set.  Avery was trying out a couple of his DIY related new tools (keeping away from the youngest with Daddy Jeff with him all times when  trying also a few games for his (Nintendo) Switch including 007 First Light and Old School Rally. While Byrony had two lots; her favourite for herself was a lovely virtually floor length dress (designed for before and after her pregnancy) in a Fuchsia with white flowers, and also a giant box of the chocolates she enjoys and all of her food cravings. For her forthcoming Babies she was particularly fond of a pair of identical blue Mini Beans KABU™ Monkgomery Monkey Soft Toys from Build A Bear!

For the newest four; twins virtually newborns did not obviously get what was going on BUT a couple of hand puppets seemed to go down well too after Suzy demonstrated, even getting the always unhappy one (Sylvia) to stop crying! So Jared and Roseanne took it in turns to turn into their Puppet Show yesterday and today! Jared really enjoyed his new Football and an  extra set of strips etc and had been practicing his keepie-uppie (with an Adult close by, similar to when Avery trying their new tools)  , while his sister Rosanne got a new bike (her brother and Daddy Jeff intending to help; as his brother of course had one) and was also enjoying the Dundee United 25/26 kit too while playing with a Stuffed Toy she had got for Christmas.

It was of course a further good catch-up with all the bigs together under one roof (no work etc) as well as kids catch up . The newest four were indeed getting to know them all as well. Suzy’s mother left the big discussions at  lunchtime (making her legendary  Turkey Curry from the previous days leftovers) with some sweet treats afterwards; Dinner being a Mac and Cheese pasta  bake.  Another surprise to discuss was Vee saying her Christmas Gift was an engagement ring; and whose getting married next year to Ross Graham (pics sent showing everyone was happy!) ! Later that day Daddy Jeffs mother Vera headed home, as intended.

Weekend was more of the same catting up and playing with each other too. The newest four arrivals father Jared contacted on Saturday before visiting his children for the first time at Suzy’s home the following day. As well as meeting Suzy and Jeff for the first time, before seeing the oldest two for a short while (around an hour between the two) with 10 minutes on the youngest  two (as they still have no idea what  anything or anyone else)

He had been told of the following Days meeting  to get medium-to-long term plans for the four newbies and also of them finally  getting their births registered. He didn’t see he belonged on Mondays meeting (maybe in the near future thought he said) and was similar with Tuesday; but  he was able to confirm the full name of both Mother and himself; as well as middle names for the newborns; to allow them to facilitate this.

Saturday lunch was fish and chips from  fridge and freezer before a series of pre-filled Yorkshire Pudding (with sausage and veg etc) for dinner.  Sunday was Suzy’s time on Sunday Roast Dinner (making Roast Lamb)  and store bought Pizzas.

Monday (29^th)  is of course meeting with new four kids Foster Team and Social Workers!

               

 

Chapter 79– A December to Remember ; lots of fun and of course CHRISTMAS  – Monday 29^th December and Tuesday 30^th  December 2025 (day  before Lisas family come over for New Years  till 2^nd January 2026)

These two days were similar  to the weekend just hope bar Suzy’s Mother/ Granny Orla who was at work 29^th 30^th and half day 31^s like Christmas Eve)  with Suzy’s Father / Grandpa  Andy and her husband Daddy Jeff  were off till the new year with Suzy having left full time work earlier in the year (with Suzy’s next single office day being Tuesday 6^th January) with school and everyone else restarting Monday 5^th January 2026 .

10.00 and the workers arrived for their new four arrivals. They went into plans for the next couple of weeks; taking one week at a time ; and both Suzy and Jeff and those two able to speak happy at progress made and staying here, getting gradually more settled every day with the rest of their family and siblings. As was standard; same time next Monday 5^th January 2026 but twice weekly from that week to include after School Time)  /early evening. Suzy and Jeff both agreed they were doing well, and stability (like their f2a kids in the Summer) is a good place to start.  The kids were previously staying in their mothers council house, and plans had been made for Monday 5^th January 2026 for their stuff dropped off with Suzy. Their DCC social; Worker was returning the keys by that Friday to the housing team in Dundee City Council in person.

Monday Lunch was Suzy’s mothers Turkey Curry heated up and dinner frozen pizza and Chips .

 

Tuesday ; similar to Monday and of course them registering the new Twins birth in Dundee City Centre .  The mothers Aid  looked after the other kids with Byrony helping shadow her/  covering Suzy, while they were in two youngest arrivals and  the two bigs.

 

After returning home, lunch was a Lasagne with Daddy Jeffs time to cook dinner he made all Hunters Chicken .  After returning from the registrar the four kids father of the progress from Monday and Tuesday, went down well all round !!

After everyone’s bedtimes, Suzy and Jeff mused once again after tomorrow, that’s another year gone!

 

                       

ED: any co-incidence to this Calendar Year 2025 and 2026  to this year is Intentional A F)

Chapter 80– A December to Remember ; lots of fun and of course CHRISTMAS  – Wednesday 31^st December to Friday 2^nd January 2026)  - a guid Hogmanay and Happy New Year – part 1

After waking up her entire family for the final time in 2025 Wednesday 31^st December 2025 (bar the two in the Annexe) and as part of her Announcements; she went through today; s plans… She explained Lisa (and her Family) would arrive around the same time if we were going to  hers or other way round ,i.e. just  before lunch. Lisa will introduce her family to our four  newest arrivals;  and of course they saw her on 23^rd (day before Christmas Eve). She explained that all my kids (Byrony to the new Twins) Will be able to stay up to see in the New Year (with kids then bedtime extended to 01.00) BUT you do not need to stay up if you feel tired,  and we are more than happy with you having in naps.  The  bigs will go to bed around 02.00. We do have all the traditional food in already.

This had been similar to the past two days (only person working); with similar to Christmas Eve Suzy’s Mother / kids Grandma  nurse Orla was working; with finishes  early like Christmas Eve BUT an hour earlier 14.00 (due home around 14.30). Giant Steak Pies for that’s nights dinner (and similar toasts supplies for the new year etc too).  Lisa’s family had explained That  morning to her family too (With her taking herself and her husband both week off work and all 7 kids) in her car (Mumtruck the first with 8 seats and 2 up front) arriving in time for lunch (Suzy made Chicken Burritos and ice cream from the freezer); with Suzy’s four newest arrivals (Sarah , Sylvia, Jared and Roseanne enjoyed meeting her Daddy Steve, and all seven of Lisa’s children.

After discussing everything between the four bigs (parents in Clark and McKenzie families) catching up for a wee while, Suzy’s mother Orla arrived on time before joining her husband watching telly on the Sofa. The 4 parents (Suzy and Jeff and then Lisa and Steve) were grateful for a number of things; with Suzy’s extended family (as she was expecting her triplets and of a giant  size) was both her and Jeff’s picks were mostly our now extended – even further – family.  Lisa and Steve included Career stuff as well as even bigger family! Lisa was of course technically starting her promotion in the New Year (shadowing first week before Office Manager for 69 69 69 Taxis) BUT it was too big a milestone  to overlook (technically the Pinnacle of her  Fathers 6 taxi firms work)  ; with all four having a couple wine bottles (1 Alcohol free for Suzy breastfeeding) making multiple toasts. Suzy was  then praised for 8 plus 2 coming soon even bigger extended family; and now 12 plus 2 as at  Hogmanay  / New Years Eve milestone , who had two on the previous end of the years end (at Lisa’s) before! She also got praise from Lisa and Steve for becoming a full time Mother too that previous Summer! Suzy then indeed said her family is indeed now further age-diverse’ with virtually newborn twins 6 and 7 year old filling up filling up the family gaps well . Three other bigs also wished that they settle and they really continue to enjoying things in your (Suzy/Jeffs) home!

In the interim Suzy’s Mother  / kids Granny Orla had put the Dundee-made Clarks Bakers Steak Pie in the oven, with it coming out towards middle of four parents discussion; and it was served up with Roast Potatoes, and  a microwave Sticky Toffee Pudding went down well too! A few glasses of wine for all the bigs with this being a special occasion (Suzy on alcohol free still!)

All the kids managed to stay up late (a few tiny naps being normal for the younger few) with Suzy having set up the television showing the Hogmanay  / New  Year Eve party/ fireworks from Edinburgh Castle on the big TV, and a couple of additional portable smaller ones setup so that everyone could see. After the kids all standing up who could with the 6 bigs joining encouraging kids to countdown from 10 to 1, then  all diving  into Happy New Year with some pre-poured glasses of Shloer for the kids and Suzy with similar size glasses of Glenfiddich Scotch Whisky and Cola for the bigs!!!. After bedtime for the younger ones, Suzy said  to he Daddy Jeff “Happy New Year, my beautiful Dady and Kids Father too! To which Jeff replied in kind; before placing a giant kiss on Suzy’s cheek!

 

       

Chapter 81– A December to Remember ; lots of fun and of course CHRISTMAS  – Wednesday 31^st December to Friday 2^nd January 2026)  - a guid Hogmanay and Happy New Year – part 2

Thursday New Years Day/1^st January 2026 Waking up was similar to Boxing Day (long breakfast etc) with only 2 having to be woken up  at 09.00.

After breakfast, the bigs had some similar discussions looking at the new year and first few weeks ! Suzy’s mother reminded them she would be training newbies for the first and second week of January; and Suzy was dropping off in Mumtruck 3 ; including Roses first day at School so leaving home around 07.30. HOWEVER for those not ready for that time, Suzy would continue the breakfast around 07.20. Suzy had  already discussed sharing picking up primary kids with Daddy Jeff doing Menzieshill for 1^st week with plan if they were still at Suzy’s possibly joining Rose’s nursery (like Jayden before her,  3 days a week first 2 weeks) and Avery and Bryony’s former primary school too at Blackness (Primary School , Dundee). The building work in The Annexe (changing all space bar a small sitting/ waiting area, to allow 11 bedrooms not 3) started not that Monday but following Friday, Suzy reminded them. While Daddy Jeffs and his boss the legendary Stroudo (aka Michael Stroud) had asked him to let  know if the foster Four were still here on Hogmanay re potential reduced hours or time off (all still were  here, he did reply) He did say he would call later that evening (1^st January) ; to what he did indeed . As well as wishing Jeffs family Happy New Year, Jeff was preferring reduced hours BUT a project in January has already been scheduled. Over the last 3 months Jeff was over shadowing a new Gradate hired around (Bob Crowe (ED: yes former RMT trade union leader, and was a RMT member when on tube in 2001. The only job in transport I would NEVER do, as since they merged with another one both previous leader dying in service with heart attacks!) and he was to be working with them initially ., If Jeff could come off the following Tuesday (6^th) in the office to meet Bob Crowe on that Tuesday (6^th January) and he will take over the project for 6 weeks, with you working from home Tuesdays and Thursdays only.      That was indeed would hopefully work well, with joking around towards the end  “Suzy can’t say no to kids these days…” ” “Daddy we said NO so  many times; no space, on holiday, BUT a couple times said no for requiring 3:1 support we would need to source AND another one essentially palliative care (end of life indeed) for a terminally ill four year old) Suzy did remind them she always felt guilty! Suzy’s   Mother and Father that day were also going for New Year Dook in Broughty Ferry coastline.  Lisa was also indeed also looking forward to her Promotion; the change in work aspect versus the last 5-6 years!  

New Years Day lunch was some sausage in batter with chips/ice cream with Thursday Daddy Jeff dinner Made mild Chicken Curry/Rice with fruit for afterwards!

 

A similar start to Friday 2^nd January 2026 day. As Friday traditional Fish (or Fish Fingers for the youngest) and Chip  for lunch (Sausages for those who didn’t like fish) followed by cake and custard.  Lisa’s family headed home mid-afternoon (Similar to a traditional Sunday week about week about family staying over) and a Pizza Party that evening was  organised by Suzy’s mother and father.

IN CHAPTER 82 WE JUMP FORWARD TO MONDAY 5^th JANUARY 2026

 

 

 

Chapter 82 – New Year, New Challenges for Bigs and Kids alike – and more kids now and again (or January 2026) –– back to school, work,    more Foster Kids short term guests in respite, and Byrony’s  babies arrive in her 37^th week; part 1, week of Monday 5^th January first half

Monday 5^th January the plan was that we would go back to normal; with Suzy’s  Rose  first day at Nursery School, as well as the Jared and Roseanne going to school   again from Suzy’s home first time too!  Suzy’s mother / Granny Nurse Orla was training for a fortnight  her husband  Suzy’s father / Grandad Andy’s factory was back to normal, with kids all back to school (where applicable!)  While plan was Jeff going back to work too alongside Suzy at  home with kids  bar Tuesday 6^th,  the overnight foster call on Monday 21^st December 2025 had resulted in two virtual newborns and a 6 and 7 yo joined our family, meaning that for 6 weeks reduced hours for Daddy Jeff to work 2 days a week ; both in office for 1 day BUT Byrony was covering her Mother that day (her Daddy worked  from home generally Monday/Tuesday/Wednesday  and office days Thursday/ Friday) BUT reduced hours  following most recent foster call  for Jeff,  who is handing the project to Bob Crowe, a new graduate who Jeff had been showing around and mentoring for last 3 or 4 months,   him now doing it for 6 weeks solo for 6 weeks after Tuesday bar Jef working from home Tuesdays and Thursdays after the first Tuesday in office .

While Byrony was actually relishing the extra chances and time Suzy entrusted in her , especially since last weekend Byrony was able to get the always fussy one of their two 5 week twins (Sylvia) settle on a couples of occasions (Sarah and Sylvia arrived Christmas week  alongside Jared and Roseanne)! Of course her help is only temporary, as Byrony this week enters 36^th week of her own pregnancy; expecting twin baby boys herself any day  (; with instructions of getting Suzy when any signs (like her waters breaking ) get her ASAP, asleep or not..   .  Suzy was doing drops offs this week (bar Byron still SEN taxi transit NOT her Mother; see above); Monday dropping her first born daughter Rose (Mon/Wed/Fri) for her first day of Nursery School, before  Harris Academy – still Avery only -  before then dropping off the 2 more recent older two in Jared and Roseanne for first time.  She intends to vary the collections order BUT if 2 weeks Jared and Roseanne are fine with potentially shifting to Blackness ;  with Daddy Jeff technically available to help if things came to it! She returned home directly to meet her Daddy Jeff with of course both their workers (Foster Team and Social Work) at 09.30 with  their possessions from their former home (Mothers home )  letting her within a short time of their arrival .

Upon a weekend telephone call  to his kids he was offering to stay the night; evert fortnight 1 week a night. Upon discussion Suzy had previously told them they spend every other weekend at Lisa; so it was mutually agreed every other  Tuesday (from the following  week ; so Tuesday 13^th January,  Tuesday 27^th January, and every other Tuesday. They would be brought home to Suzy’s home on the Tuesday evening, getting things ready for his arrival, and collected by him around 17.30 (traffic dependant) before him dropping  them off at their school that morning. At this time it was just  the oldest two;  but he intended adding the new twins soon after possibly!

All four Children’s social worker Helen Cooper  were  back again, plus a new now permanent foster worker in Michael J. Wootten  (ED: yes my boss in the Woottens and Tiger Line Buses days)  . A good chat was had with all BUT five minutes in, Suzy’s phone rang, dropping off the stuff next 15 mins!!! One of the day help was obtained from one of the day mothers aids in Andrea was able to cross over to The Annexe. After around 45 minutes both Helen and Michael  had left . Another appointment was setup  ; as they were as Lisa; s that Thursday evening one was early evening after kid’s school at 18.15 / 6.15pm (the former punishment room now converted used for both Jared and Roseanne sleeping over with six further bedrooms pending planning approval  following Monday before starting work February!)  The return home heard Rose had LOVED her first day at School so much, she jumped upon on her Mummy into the drivers area (thankfully no plastic bandit screen unlike Dundee City buses), taking her Mum by surprise.  Everyone enjoyed talking about their own days!

 

Tuesday 6^th January, similar, except where it was not! Jeff took his own car to work; and Suzy with no Rose to drop off BUT she did have to go to her work (similar to Jaydens nursery start she had been phased in ; 3 days a week for 2 weeks ; then everyday!  Suzy once again saw a few of her favourite painters; one guy with his wife asked  Suzy how her 8 plus 2 were doing ? He was even further surprised to hear it was 12 plus 2  ; surprised was not the word! He liked the pictures (the twins and Jared and Roseanne) on a couple of pictures on Suzy’s mobile phone, as well as the whole story in brief!  

Meanwhile her hubby / Daddy Jeff was working  (bizarrely five minutes drive BUT with Suzy heading home  15.00 and him around 17.00),  a meeting with  him, his boss and the taking on the new project for six weeks; him being told by text after his New Years call with Jeff;  and reminded yesterday too.  

Bar visits for our Children etc this was only  Tuesday where  both Suzy and Jeff were working in office on same day ; usually had planned before BUT that was before their second kid (and yes all the others!)

 

Wednesday 7^th January  was similar to Monday, except no visits bar their weekly online food shop, and the senior kids finishing 50 minutes earlier from Harris; like that was done since  August!
“Are we back to normal now Daddy” Suzy asked Jeffg at bedtime “ohh you and me are never normal my Baby Girl/Baby Mummy”!!!  “True; love you so much my Daddy!”

 

No Chapter 83? Having listened through December multiple times I have actually ended up with two Chapter 71s ! So part 2 week of the 5^th of January is actually Chapter 84.

 

Chapter 84 – New Year, New Challenges for Bigs and Kids alike – and more kids now and again (or January 2026) –– back to school, work,    more Foster Kids short term guests in respite, and Byrony’s  babies arrive in her 37^th week; part 2, week of Monday 5^th January second half

Some residual additional stuff from first half this week included Byron enjoying being in nappies at school (so effectively 24/7 nappies but being  a big baby once a weekend with Suzy hosting only and additionally  now one evening a week after school… Upon his return on Tuesday,  he saw his big sister Byrony (essentially on school version of maternity leave) joked  she might have a AB/DL inside her tummy with her twin boys, then also might have to get Big Baby sitting practice (with Byron);  and Suzy said to the second “be careful I  might take you up on that” … and she did indeed Wednesday after work !  

In her Other Friends news; Suzy did indeed ring Alma  (her BFF before moving south/now mother of 3 and now a senior banker) had been promoted to Deputy Manager, and had enjoyed it ‘; especially with her husband and all 3 kids  helped put together a surprise gift (of a really nice perfume and a hand made card signed by all six; her hubby, 3 kids, and her resident cats too!) She said that the Deputy Branch Manager is good  - and good money - BUT might not be the end of her career line as  the overall Branch Manager, Brian Hope, is retiring in three next 12-18 months  ; with her understood to be as good as having got another promotion then; he has told her (with even more money! )  - she was one of his favourite prodigies (starting as a Bank Clerk/Cashier promoted twice since!)   but  he has to offer it to other colleagues etc.

Suzy; s current BFF Lisa was that was shadowing and being promoted to Office Manager of her Fathers first taxi company, 69 69 69 Taxis… As well as the pay rise; Lisa had indeed mentioned over the next 2 weeks discussing if Lisa was trying for a third pregnancy of her own making; or just on call for Fostering… or the most likely option being both ;! While Suzy had discussed her moat recent pregnancy and only tale to fuck her Daddy again over the next 3 months, ; Suzy was saying while shed love to pop out a few more; I now have even more people to look after; 12 plus 2;  and  Suzy had thought more people would be without a mother (if she loses consciousness or dies in labour) BUT she would never say never… she might be fine if it ends up another Rose, rather than her very elongated pregnancy and 26 hour labour for  Triplets  who did indeed mess her bottom half up; but Suzy’s getting better and better by the hour.

Suzy; s annexe work (for 11 bedrooms  starts following Monday while Lisa should hear from Councill meeting re the additional floor/   6 extra  bedrooms!!! It was indeed discussed; many times; one home for both families on a farm (similar to what Mummy Jenny/Slave Carly did some time ago)  BUT before even kids were a thing for both families; neither really wanted to say goodbye to their family homes, passing 30-40 or so year memories away to strangers either!  (it has been asked by kids etc. and is on FAQ page on Suzy’s Working for a Parenting Genius [a mix of gynae/pregnancy stuff like Never Forget Your Smear Tests, even if they bleeping hurt… 50/50 that and her work and colleagues too]  / naughtiness and Littlespace blog ; now less work and more kids!)  Indeed Suzy is still surprised how a small number of work appointments with Doc R always try for her Monthly Tuesday... her now full-time colleague is never sure how to react! She has bene there for so many women in good times and bad ; and does feel like a friend to most she met there in all her working years!

With New Years 2025/2026 of course at Suzy’s home; it did indeed mean this weekend Suzy’s family at Lisa’s. . on her morning wake up Thursday 8^th January 2026 Mummy Suzy reminded everyone of that; and their day plans for each of her kids . Her Daddy was not an office day; but working from home part-time since their newest four foster arrivals, but everyone else as normal for a day going to Lisas. The previous day those who could speak in the four new arrivals were told all about it by Rose and Barry; with them indeed more than looking forward to seeing Lisa; s home AND meeting her 7 kids again! After everyone was from school , the kids enjoyed chatting and playing with each other; almost as much the four parents!  Foster and Social Work meeting did go very smoothly.

 

Friday 9^th January 2026 was school etc (and Rose day 3 at nursery) but no work for Daddy Jeff!

Saturday 8th January 2026 saw Suzy taking the older kids out to Dundee City Centre…  while on Sunday 9^th January 2026; and only for the second time in her life; Lisa made Sunday dinner for the whole family, with the whole thing going down VERY well;  including Suzy giving her a peck on the cheek afterwards!

 

As was usual Suzy’s family went home after Sunday dinnertime.

 

 

Chapter 85 – New Year, New Challenges for Bigs and Kids alike – and more kids now and again (or January 2026) –– back to school, work,    more Foster Kids short term guests in respite, and Byrony’s babies arrive in her 37^th week;  part 3, week of Monday  12^th January

Suzy has floating standby help; i.e. can cover when a temp foster kid, and when Bryony’s  kid comes, or similar . They all met the previous week, with the current house being reminded of the password (Maple) if someone other than  a Parent or Grandparents picks you up from school (this was inspired by American practice but one of  Lisa’s initial early foster kids had previously been a snatch victim/survivor). She had dropped the kids back off, preparing of course  for the 10.00 DCC Social and Fostering Monday  12^th January . In the interim; an unexpected call from Kim Boyle (ED: yes from Different for Girls the British Trans movie; BUT not intentionally this time , and kid Melissa Boyle her 3yo daughter from previous relationship) number came up; she is the new partner of Jared Smithson (the father of  Jared, Roseanne, Sarah and Syliva, and also new next of kin for his family side stuff too) ; who she had obviously given each others details.. . As of course Roseanne and Jared were going to their home Tuesday of course , so she assumed she was possibly ringing as ended up being double booked; however she was in fits of tears …  transpires mid-evening last night ; Jared slipped into a Coma. Suzy said she could help her ; without moving  in on her territory; come over after 11.00 and we will get you talked about what we can do… He  had no history of any issues for either family side… while progress was indeed stagnant just now and as well she dropped her daughter off earlier (Barnhill Nursery School before Primary School) before wanting to  intending to ICU at Ninewells . However she says Suzy can catch her up next, and we can drive you too!

With Suzy on big screen TV downstairs; she found her Daddy … She told him  the news; and she’s coming over around 11.00 as she is so upset and tearful, so we can try and discuss things;  as well as telling their oldest two, and any ways we can help her or her Daughter? Jeff was surprised BUT everyone in the family would wish him well; Suzy thought he was double booked tomorrow; but something else.. .

Jeff was asked to get the youngest two who are not at school (the 6-week old twins) as well let their Workers in, with it now being 09.55. 10.00ish both  Helen Cooper and MJW arrived .  Before they started anything Suzy stood up, explained what she was told by Kim in last hour, and she’s coming round so to see how we can help her, and as well as telling his oldest two of the news!  Everyone genuinely wishes he makes a full recovery, with no one deserving that being the more Common Theme.  After that and an otherwise an unremarkable meeting other than Jared and Roseannes move (to Blackness Primary School) next week, DEPENDING HOW THEY TAKE THE NEWS of course…  Next meeting kids after School Thursday, as standard , this week  at Suzy’s home.   After they left; Suzy told those still there of the news, as well about her  new partner (Kim Foyle) arriving at 11.00.   

Kim arrived and explained in various details ; with everyone wishing her partner and her family all the best.  

A plan was made, before driving to the School then Hospital  with Jared and Roseanne’s school being made aware and both siblings been given the news ; and taking around for a short time (with ICU time being ideally kept short obviously bar her partner .) The kids would have 1hr with their unconscious father before Suzy drove herself with Jared and Roseanne; while Kim stays there for a couple hours before dinner then back then coffee then heading home if required  (with Suzy giving her 200 pounds for a taxi home for anything else she might need: in real life virtually all Dundee taxis are cash only with full Chip n Pin/Contactless now in all  6 Lisas father officers a distant fantasy;  most the other Scottish cities take card , with Dundonian taxi drivers always claiming broken) while her daughter Melissa in the spare room of the Annexe (school telling her after they were phoned) next to Jared and Roseanne; with a little building work during the day; but Kim was calming down! Before leaving everyone was updated with the changes to plan.

A message was made for Suzy’s inner circle; so no surprise if her Mum walks in and sees a new kid in Melissa… She would stay with Suzy that night at least, possibly longer. The following morning Daddy Jeff would take her to school, and if still ongoing each day with his boss Stroudo aware (text discussion “”fine by me, no wise cracks as her Stepdad was seriously ill!”) .  After lunch they left for the School, Suzy took Jeffs car leaving 13.05, Menzieshill School 13.30 (she went to hug both Jared and Roseanne by way of commiseration…) after getting to ICU Ninewells 13.55. Kim went in first of all, with  Jared, Roseanne and Suzy (in facemasks and aprons) around 14.20, while Kim was clearly worst affected, Suzy did say when people are in this state, they sometimes can be helped by trying to speak to them! Both Jared and Roseanne did indeed!

Jeff stayed home taking Suzy’s place with Byrony around the home  after lunch, bar the School Run. Daddy Jeff surprised picking up Rose “Daddy??? “ before explaining the story that Jared and Roseanne’s father is seriously ill and his stepdaughter Melissa is staying with us tonight at least ; she had not been told BUT messages were sent to Avery (Byron too but he had taxi transport paid  by DCC), with the Menzieshill pickup irrelevant today, however Kim; s daughter Melissa had been given a phone call that she’d be going to Suzy’s , with one of her Mothers Aids helping in her own car; with her daughter already getting on well with Jared and Roseanne!

Suzy, Jared and Roseanne headed for home 15.10 (home 15.35), with Melissa s extra ride by  leaving promptly after getting  over  to Suzy’s 16.10 (close to being other end of City). All had been aware by that point that they were coming , but just in case , Suzy stood up reminded  her while Jared Roseanne’s and the new twins birth father is seriously ill, and this is his  step-daughter from another relationship of her Mother Kim and her name is Melissa. She is staying  with us tonight at least so her mother can concentrate on seriously ill partner. The kids welcomed them in and she was shown round and shown around the stuff downstairs stuff, pointing across the road saying she will be in one of the rooms in what we call our Annexe (pointing over the road) next to Jared and Roseanne. She enjoyed meeting the other younger family members; with her already knowing Jared and Roseanne… Suzy then said we will next be willing to get you any takeaway or food delivery tonight; and they chose a McDonalds. Suzy double-checked her mother and father wanted their usuals (they did), setting up a delivery for 17.30… She was taken though to the playroom, while Jared and Roseanne were walked through to study. Suzy  first question was how they were holding up ; they were a bit scared both they admitted BUT Similar level of being scared when their father left and when their Mother died …. However they admitted they were doing better with Daddy Jeff and yourself too. She obviously appreciated that comment (gave them both each a massive hug!);  and went back to the main room after reminding them about them not going tomorrow BUT if he remains there long term , she would laisse with Kim (his new partner) before  maybe taking you up maybe once or twice a week more ?

The delivery arrived (Suzy ordered extra ice cream for all three affected who could eat in Melissa, Jared and Roseanne; machine working failing that extra apple pies ; with ice cream making everyone happier; scientific Mum fact!), with Suzy’s mother and farther arriving home per usual in the same hour. Suzy’s mother Orla was trying to ease Melissa’s situation (with no mother for 1 night at least) and was making jokes such as previously being taller than Suzy’s (“I was 7” she replied) and similar making her at ease. After taking her to the playroom , everyone’s bedtime came soon enough with Suzy walking Melissa over to the Annexe. Upon the parents own bedtime the mused about things ; with everyone in home already praying to god (Or whoever is upstairs) that night he recovers; rather than passes away in a hospital of all places, with Suzy getting serious brownie points from Jeff, before she received head, and it was AMAZING head!...

 

… in other news from Monday, work did start in the Annexe for making more bedrooms. Suzy and Jeff did discuss if she “as very popular at work every time” potentially going to every other Tuesday or something similar, in any case Jeff said “Well you are always very popular my baby girl” BUT he had no objections; BUT Suzy did stress she will never go back to work at a similar as she used to, her now more than committed as a full time mother and enjoying it so that WOULD NOT change. They already have a flexi-sitter for Tuesdays when required , and decided to discuss it again once things have settled down, with Suzy intending to message Doctor Reynolds tomorrow in any case.

Suzy and Jeff had also another sit down meeting with her pregnant daughter Byrony;  she was reminded  once again if the birth causes an issue with your kids , we will always love her no matter what BUT we do sincerely hope everything goes well (Me and Daddy Jeff) and your two sons are happy and healthy!  

In addition the decision had been made that Suzy’s mother Orla’s car would be traded in for a 16 seat minibus (this time just a basic Transit; with her driving since late 80 s so long no permit required) this was done on Sunday with her picking up the second one that Saturday. This was so she can help with all School Drop offs; with obviously as well as Harris 1 but would be 2 , Rose to drop at Nursery School, and Jared and Roseanne now too, and if Suzy gets any more kids!

 

Lisa’s hubby / Daddy Steve and the Contractor from Keating Smith was at DCC Meeting, hearing her version of Suzy’s going up in the world was approved with no additional conditions.

 

 

Chapter 86 – New Year, New Challenges for Bigs and Kids alike – and more kids now and again (or January 2026) –– back to school, work,    more Foster Kids short term guests in respite, and Byrony’s babies arrive in her 37^th week;  part 4, week of Tuesday 13^th and Wednesday 14^th January

Tuesday 13^th January saw similar to previous Tuesday, but no Suzy at work, with Daddy Jeff working at home , aside from Daddy Jeff taking that nights guest Melissa (3yo daughter of Kim Foyle/ Jared step daughter) to Broughty Ferry Primary School  Nursery section…  After his return, Suzy latter left a voicemail for Dr Reynolds; nothing to do with any kids but in relation to maybe doing a couple extra shifts  shadowing Sarah; Doc Reynolds said shed discuss it with Sarah going in extra Tuesdys; like 1^st and 3^rd Tuesday in each month as an example… later a reply said this would be fine and as per earlier discussion; Suzy busy this month still with the recent arrivals from Christmas Week so 1^st and 3^rd Tuesdays in February and on from there.   Her full time colleague is never sure how to react when they prefer Suzy ;  BUT with her working for 8 years for Doc R, she was there in times of happiness (hopeful mothers  who got what they wanted) and not (infertility issues worse than her own mothers PCOS  / Poly Cystic Ovarian Syndrome (ED: see first story, me at 18)  and people with visible or non visible disabilities pregnancies too!) ; however there is also a Surgery extended family technically ;  her mother worked there for 38 years too (starting part time Student Nurse part time University , to now a Nurse Practitioner. (ED: I could do a gag about the difference  between Nurse and Nurse Practitioner being about 10 grand a year , but I  won’t!), lets not forget!

Otherwise ; some  much better news from Kim Foyle and her new partner Jared Smithson  also father of Jared, Roseanne and the twins Sarah and Sylvia  was (after sleeping in her own bed before leaving 08.30 for hospital)  he had been stirring overnight before coming round around  11.15… he knows where he is etc and then it was still unsure (the Doctors) WHY that happened; BUT most likely something like a mini stroke, or something similar. Tests have  been done for hopefully  finding out the fuller day , but observations on both sides of tests would be also useful. Suzy indeed wished her well, and told her to tell Jared she was asking for him (ED: Scottish for wishing you well! )

Wednesday 14^th January  , Lisa’s phone call was not only wishing Happy birthday 48 hours in advance, as well as confirming she would see her the following day. However one statistic Suzy had forgotten is she first met Suzy at a SEN college trial day June 20 years ago! Suzy had completely forgotten BUT Lisa proposed to do a weekend away together ; possibly around mid-April, have a long weekend away!  Both spoke to their Daddies/ Hubbies and both had no objections… and said she would discuss tomorrow. Suzy asked how she was loving her new job; still enjoying it!

Jared’s test ; one delayed but looking more likely full blown stroke , but certainly will be able to go home 4-6 weeks away, rather than permanently in hospital and / or a hospice. 

 

 

Chapter 87 – New Year, New Challenges for Bigs and Kids alike – and more kids now and again (or January 2026) –– back to school, work,    more Foster Kids short term guests in respite, and Byrony’s babies arrive in her 37^th week;  part 4, week of Monday  12^th January third chunk (Thursday 15^th, Friday 16^th January)  

As was hinted at in our subject line, Suzy and Jeff were getting a couple short term respite Foster kids for 72 hours ; done through the relevant authorities, and also a  person who, she did Foster Training with; Barry and Oliva Clarke ; their foster sibling pair  2 and  3 year old (now adopted) Rosealla and Freddy  Clarke. That Thursday 15^th January  Daddy  Jefff swapped the full size beds for a couple of kids beds fitting the space, in time for the following day. She reminded her kids of that , as well as other family groups  workers that day on both Forner Macpherson and Smithson family came and went, as well as Vee stopping in with a birthday card and chocolates too!  Many things were discussed and indeed Jared and Roseanne were moving to Blackness (where Rose nursery and former Avery/Bryony primary school) the following Monday after all…  their father was rapidly progressing in hospital, and had spoken with Suzy and Kim both on the phone, once again wishing all well.  With other weekend plans meaning busy time, it was intended Jared and Roseanne will next see him either evening Sunday or Monday after school and their Dinner. As normal, Lisa’s side arrived till Sunday in time for lunch. Suzy had only planned a light  birthday party the following evening (Friday 16^th) BUT would have no surprise if her hubby / Daddy Jeff, her kids, or other family come up with a surprised and a few background discussions “nothing for you to worry about my little one …

 

  … and indeed they did! Friday 16^th January  (ED: yes me in real life) Suzy was woken by her Daddy / Hubby saying “Happy 38^th Birthday my baby girl and Mother of 12 and two grandkids coming soon enough!!” Suzy thanks her daddy before opening  her birthday card and a small gift from himself (some of her favourite coffee and her favourite chocolates!!)  He advised the kids and others have done their own cards and gifts; in the kids case they clubbed together to get you a gift of something I think you  will love… Bryony was to give to you was the plan, but she’s tired with her pregnancy all this week so far; so Avery is handing it over, but all kids have a wish to give you.” ; and  as was about to finish, the door knocked “Come in , It was her Mum (similar to me at 18 Chapter 37) “Happy Birthday Baby Girl”.  “Thanks Mummy…” (givers  her Mum a ,massive hug with outing her card and gift to one side) “We never imagined you’d be happy still as an Adult / Big Baby life long, making the best of your potty problems, and now at 38; and you gave me my dream  of a large family in grandkids and great grandkids soon too, as you know  too over the last four years too,   but we would never thought you would still enjoying being a 2 year old at 38, but if you are happy them we are all delighted!”  “Thanks Mum” Suzy replied going bright red in the face “ She opened her present from her mother; a dress for parties etc (more Adult than Adult Baby, but surprisingly close to Baby Pink AND down to her ankles; NOT easy with her being 6 foot 2…”!” ) She put that to one side in her Bedroom, before finishing then walking through  and downstairs to the kitchen for Breakfast!

While they were prepping for school, Avery stood up and explained from them all …  she then proceeded to open her parcel, with a large  satin style jewellery pouch  box thing; to which  we saw it was a lovely necklace; with letters saying We Love You Mummy Suzy 😊 In a large size type! “Thanks to all kids, I really appreciate it” Over he next 10 mins all the kids gave their reasons from Bryony (you encouraged me to keep my babies) to Rose (you look after me, and all other family members, really well) … her Daddy helped her put in the back… 

… Bary Clarke dropped their kids (Rosealla and Freddy Clarke) and they were asked to have a great weekend!”

After a decent afternoon, and a decent party, Suzy was sleeping for a couple of hours round 02.15 before a phone call from Bryony’s number rung Suzy (this being plan if she started overnight) “Mum I think thinks her my kids are on the way…” “On the way” .” Suzy (soon after Jeff) rushed upstairs, to find her waters had indeed broken… Suzy and Jeff  left for hospital in Jeffs car; two sitters covering Suzy arrived, with all the babies supplied packed (and her partner woken up ) around 03.20…  getting to Ninewells Hospital maternity 03.35 where Barry would see all soon; and Jeff ; for the fourth time in four years; book a pregnancy person in! (twice Suzy, once Vee, and now their daughter Byrony! )

CONTINUES IN CHAPTER 88

 

 

Chapter 88 – New Year, New Challenges for Bigs and Kids alike – and more kids now and again (or January 2026) –– back to school,work,    more Foster Kids short term guests in respite, and Byrony’s babies arrive in her 37^th week;  part 4, week of Monday  12^th January fourth chunk (weekend, Saturday 17^th and Sunday 18^th)

While Daddy Jeff was booking her in, Suzy talked about names; previously  loose idea was Brian Jr and Jeff Jr BUT for future possibility duplicating was no a good idea; now settled (similar to prevails pregnancies) middle names instead; so  Steven Brian (her first born) and Robert Jeff Clark (both Christian names not in our family already).  She was a bit sore ; but massively sore yet (contractions / Dilation Stage); but she was expecting that to change!

After checking in Bryony and  meeting up with Brian Wanditto (bryony’s bf/ father of the kids) as intended , they came through to the pre-labour area, where of course Jodie Sweetin popped in again; catching up with the two bigs ; as well as checking in on the mother to be. She was around 5cm dilated herself with she excused herself with someone coming in soon too (left 03:59) with the relevant Labour Nurses arriving at 04.05.

Suzy had promised her hand- holding in labour room etc; and Suzy was on her right hand side with her boyfriend holding her left one! No particular issues in this labour and delivery ; however Suzy had hoped her pregnancy would be  relatively quick like Rose, unlike the Triplets delivery!  And indeed it was relatively  straightforward!  The first stage was short (she had started 02.10 ) she finished the Dilation Stage at 09.55. The first delivery (Steven Brian Clark) was around six hours afterwards later at 13.55  Saturday 17^th January (8lb 1oz) with the second one taking a  bit longer,  With both hands been  squeezed a lot , especially in the last two hours of labour , but more than  seven and a half hours later at 21.29, the second kid (Robert Jeff Clark) was  born (8lb 7oz).

Bryony was congratulated by everyone, with her Mummy S/ Daddy J heading home around 22.30 with Brian leaving a short time after Suzy had sent the news to her Inner Circle as her Daddy drove her home…

 

… The following morning Sunday 18^th January Suzy/Jeff and boyfriend arrived in the morning, with no delivery issues of note’;  so after 48 hours for 2 kids; assuming no further complications Bryony and her kids would go  home after lunch Tuesday! Visitors on Sunday varied from Doc Reynolds (technically her patient) , Suzy’s Mother Orla and father Andy loved seeing    her  first great grandkids ; taking also her siblings Avery and Byron too!

. In the run up to Sunday dinner time , Jeff and Suzy left (with J & S arriving around 11.30 and leaving 17.15, so they could get back to other kids and the rest, with her Brian arriving  earlier and heading home around her bedtime .  Lisas family headed home , with the coverage planned for Suzy 3-4 hours later visiting her daughter and grandkids (alone) too with Coverage then  and also Tuesday! While  Suzy and Jeff were away most of Saturday; Rosealla and Freddy has a great time with Suzy’s; family and Lisas too, they loved it so much that they asked if they could visit Suzy and Jeffs family another  time!

 

 

 Chapter 89 – New Year, New Challenges for Bigs and Kids alike – and more kids now and again (or January 2026) –– back to school,work,    more Foster Kids short term guests in respite, and Byrony’s babies arrive in her 37^th week;  part 5, week of Monday 19^th January 2026, chunk 1 – Monday 19^th  and Tuesday 20^th January 2026

On The morning of Monday 19^th January the start for school /work /nursery /housework did start a bit differently , and positively like Friday 16^th Jan/ Suzy’s birthday, but for different reasons; with the whole home happy with Bryony’s babies being born one day later  on Saturday 17^th ; Steven and Robert were finally born , at the end of her 37^th week of her pregnancy. Similar to Suzy’s pregnancy , towards her last few weeks she was getting tired, sore and the like, but she knew that was to be expected in that situation.  Her Great Grandma and her two siblings Avery and Byron visited her and her kids on Sunday., however the rest of the home was looking forward to her and her kids coming home Tuesday, fingers crossed no complications! !

Suzy (in the day before/Sunday announcements) did remind that many newborns take some time to settle, so please be patient with her twins, as well as extra patient with her. My triplets made me so sore; but I was an extreme case and she seems more like when I has Rose i.e. a relatively short labour. Daddy Jeff seconded that! Suzy and  Jeff had intended to pick her up from the hospital Tuesday; he was working from home Tuesday but his boss was happy with him working afternoon of Monday and morning Wednesday instead. Additionally he reminded all that plans for everyone, are always subject to change! As well as us previous Foster call ups and the like, we then here things like Jared and Roseanne s father being seriously ill last this week, and pregnancy uncertainty it will take time next too for Bryony to getting used to her kids behaviours, their wants and needs, and everything like that as well as being harder as first time Mother. While she may or may not ever have another ,first time is hard for every new Mum.

 Mondays announcements included , with this being week 3, her mother is taking you again to Nursery / School  and Suzy collecting you afternoon; Jared and Roseannes first day at Blackness too, as well Jared and Roseanne being taken to see their father after dinner; Sunday ended up being busy with too…

… after two sets of worker meetings 09.00 and 10.00 Suzy had a sitter to cover her  visiting her daughter in hospital ; (Bryony’s of course recovering in hospital as standard with her new Twins, after giving birth that  Saturday just gone) She was delighted to find  found she was doing fairly well too, her boyfriend was previously given five  school days approved leave (while NOT condoning what happened BUT making the best of that vs him calling in sick everyday!) with Suzy helping her when back home , and an additional, sitter for two weeks too, helping her settle in too., with her squeeze in everything else and 12 other kids and a husband and other part time work commitments  to look after…  Suzy was happy she was happy (not suffering post-natal depression etc) but not as  happy as Suzy’s first post-labour for Rose! She was still happy with her situation, and definitely happy she did not go for an abortion. She reminded Suzy (who had forgotten a few, she did admit) of her previous compliments on everything from her babysitting her siblings; as well as her taking her to scans and other pre-natal appointment too; and you indeed promised to hold my hand in labour, and you did indeed. .. (Suzy looks very confused) ; she said “Mummy Suzy, YOU ENCOURAGED AND SUPPORTED ME, to the point where I could now genuinely do anything now; not just child care, and I already have  done some stuff in the house” (Suzy gave her a massive hug!)

This time of school year in Secondary 2 was of course coming up to choosing their subjects for Secondary 3 and Secondary 4.   Brian and Bryony had discussed their subject choices BUT Bryony had of course 12 months before that, with her intending  to restart S2 the following school year August after Summer holidays determined,  following pausing her school year for a year with her Pregnancy  (Technically duplicating the first few months)

Of course after Suzy left, it was picking up her kids on the ride home (15.30 Blackness finish every day then 15.50 Harris  Monday/Tuesday OR other way round 15.00 Wednesday/Thursday/Friday finish) – and with Rose now five days a week at nursery school too, as well as collecting Jared and Roseanne after first day at Blackness School.

Later that evening (in technically her second visit to the Hospital; earlier Maternity and now ICU (Intensive Care Unit). However they confirmed he is more than likely being shifted to the Stroke wards (that having being confirmed prognosis) instead with him getting better and better by the hour!  Upon speaking in more detail re her current foster placement, he would have no objections with Jeff and you adopting the kids ; if that’s something that would  be thinking about in a couple months. 

 

The next day Tuesday 20^th January, plans were similar to as illustrated  (see first half of this post) Suzy’s , Jeff and Brian (meeting Brian up there)  collecting her around 13.00 to allow her plenty time before Suzy or Jeff heading back out 15.05-15.10 for the School Run. Pretty much similar to Suzy’s coming home ; driving slowly no speedbumps or  potholes, ice pack in her knickers BUT with post-birth discharge coming  out Suzy had arranged pull ups for as long  as she needed them.  As they got back upstairs (similar to last time with Suzy) , Jeff did the afternoon school run while Brian and Suzy sat getting to  know both Steven and Robert in the flesh, talking with Bryony all about how they have been since going through labour . As more people  got home from school, work and more besides they all got to meet them in the flesh! The evening dinner, Bryony was allowed any choice of takeaway or delivery food, and she decided to have a Burger King delivery!  Doctor Reynolds texted her all her best and Congratulations on getting home safe, before saying she will come round to meet your twins again tomorrow after work.

 

 

Chapter 90 – New Year, New Challenges for Bigs and Kids alike – and more kids now and again (or January 2026) –– back to school,work,    more Foster Kids short term guests in respite, and Byrony’s babies arrive in her 37^th week;  part 5, week of Monday 19^th January 2026, chunk 2 – Wednesday 21^st January

Early morning Wednesday 21^st January, Suzy woke Byrony first briefly before saying she would come back…. She did indeed.  Her two kids are very interesting ; not quite identical twins ;  but very similar in appearance and size . They are both very quiet,  unlike a few other pregnancies where one happy and one sad, both Steven and Robert were (male) carbon copies of Rose quiet and a bit cheerful; rather than always sad !  They were still only five days old lets not forget, hoping that stays the way for some time; and her twins are both SO DAMN CUTE!!

Suzy did confirm Lisa was coming round on the way to work 08.20ish to see your two kids briefly; and she has suggest now your baby is here , her family come here to save you heading over to hers. Her Daddy Jeff brought Bryony’s usual breakfast (Doing so for one week,  similar to Suzy’s pregnancies) for a week, and also Suzy was helping her with some nappy changes and her own Mother  (Granny Larsson) was helping occasionally too,  but that everyone is working  /school/nursery where old enough , of course BUT Bryony appreciated everyone’s help and support. Wednesday her Daddy helped a couple too; as well as helping things that Suzy would do, as well as the extra short-term sitter.

Lisa was indeed on time; the first time seeing Suzy’s grandkids for the first time, as well as chatting to them a couple of hugs and the like, and finding them “So Damn Cute, but I have only limited time!” It was indeed decided Lisa’s side would come to Suzy’s home ; as both Mothers remember their painful first week post labour of their own! With Lisa and Steve the kids god-parents it was decided she would be same for Suzy’s grandkids too.  Later on a few visits included her baby’s father Brian for a brief time of around half an hour then an hour after dinner (as he knew she was tired)!  as well as an extra Day Sitter for a week too.

Suzy indeed helped her most day (inc her naps); with Daddy Jeff doing the afternoon school pickups, with Suzy having wanted to help her for the first few days; similar to how Lisa, Daddy Jeff , Melissa helped her after her own pregnancies! In any case Bryony had found her sea legs as a Mum fairly quickly, with her more than managing by her coming home date (yesterday) BUT lets not forget she started before helping Suzy with the Triplets and Barry and Rose too. Suzy (plus one sitter name TBC) will be looking after her kids when she returns to school; a million and one things to happen in time before that! Suzy had booked a registration of birth appointment finding  Tuesday week in the afternoon being arranged. When Suzy asked how she was down  below, she said “Not too bad; only a couple of minor cuts!” Suzy then reminded her of her two pregnancies…

... later that evening Doc Reynolds visited , and enjoyed hearing all news from Bryony’s kids, and Suzy’s family too…

                       

 

Chapter 91– in the weeks between Thursday 22^nd January and Sunday 15^th March 2026

Thankfully father  of Jared, Roseanne and the twins (Jared Smithson) made a very rapid recovery, during the following three weeks, so he was discharged on Friday of the 4^th week (i.e. on Friday 20^th February, returning twice a week as an outpatient but is intending to returning to work after 12 weeks (hospital required it AND an amazing boss  who  missed Jared during his absence!) The following Tuesday 24^th February (before his outpatient appointment)  he wanted to attend the Adoption Hearing in person for his four children (with his Tuesday at hospital ; Tuesday and Friday; previously swapped to Wednesday). He said in the morning he felt incredibly sorry as abandoned you lot and guilty too. He still was missing his late wife (Sarah) every day. Friday 27^th February all four had their surnames changed by Stat Dec to Clark. (ED: if Deed Poll is easier; why do I always Say Statutory Declaration here ? Chapter 15 mentions Lisas first adopted changed their names that way, so it would be more weird to change now!)

 

Bryony’s twin baby boys Steven and Robert  (and herself!) continue to grow from Strength to Strength, and Saturday past, 14^th March, they are 8 weeks old. They remain settled and happy; changing/feeding 2-3 times a night. In Bryony’s case , she mems t o have been back to herself in around a week after getting home (not as sore etc); similarly to the fact Suzy was to do things herself around a week post Roses birth too.

Later that week of January 19^th, the work did indeed complete in Suzy’s Annexe on that Friday 23^rd January , changing the bedroom count in the Annexe alone from  3 to  11 (currently three occupied bar occasional nights here and there!)

The following Friday 30^th January, DCC Fostering visited again to increase the number of authorised accordingly (with the following months Lisa’s work similarly prompt, and she had a couple of weekend respite placements already;  IUD removed as the try for  another baby of their  own too!! ; with Lisa confirming she would indeed be happy  with both a child of their own, and a couple of long term foster sibling groups or singles indeed!

The following day, Saturday 31^st January was  of course the Triplets first birthday,  with an amazing turn out for their party, and similar for Rose’s third birthday on Monday 2^nd February, with Barys second birthday on Monday 24^th February

^nd March all going down well with extended family alike.  (ED: in real life, my brother 31/01,  his oldest son 02/02, and his youngest son us 22/03. All my family birthdays at the wrong end of the year with Christmas costing a fortune; my sister is  21/11 and my Mum was  is 29/11!)

 

We now jump forward to Monday 16^th March 2026.

 

 

Chapter 92 – four more kids arrive with Suzy and  Jeff … but how long for …    or  second half March 2026 with another new different people join the Clark/Larsson home…  chunk 1, Monday 16^th March 2026 , first part

After Suzy gave her 07.45 announcements on  Monday 16^th March 2026 ,within 10 minutes her mobile went around 07.55 popping up DCC Fostering…She told her Daddy of that, and after Suzy was through the Study , she heard news of four potential new foster kids  from a Jewish background (Suzy did one project in college or uni years ago  on Judaism)  For reasons no one really knows , the kids had been starved on occasions ,and some visible marks were picked up by the eldest two kids, which was picked up at high school, then social work etc were involved. However this weekend a massive argument and fight was overheard by a neighbour ,  who called the Police. We’re are looking for a short term fostering for now, but while the father said yesterday he would contest this BUT  we understand they have flown off for a short time, not sure where or even separate (directions).  The kids  are two girls and two  boys; 14yo Judith (Jude) , 13yo Solomon (Sol),  4yo Avril, and 3yo Isaah (Kohn family / parents Sheilla and Gerald (ED: yes parents names of course famous for the Kyles Moms a Bitch song in South Park) . The family are largely taller people, with them not understood to have been to the local  Synagogue   in quite some time.  The family doesn’t keep Kosher  as such (Separate food preparation and the like) but they should not be fed the anything not allowed in traditional Jewish dietary rules (or Kashrut – fine with any bit of  beef etc they are indeed) , BUT the oldest two have kept others staying with friends and the like , so they will let you know…HOWEVER week after next Pesach or Passover when the rules are a bit more stricter (this year 1^st  to 9^th April 2026)  “yes good as kosher prep supplies are thin on the ground in Dundee, although my former BFF who left Dundee now lives in N14 north London Southgate where a substantial number are Jewish (ED: true, and I worked for some for a year 1999-2000…. One of the managers was close to me for some reason I never understood, BUT not until after two of three changes of ownership  I realised he went to Dundee Uni!), and a latter extent European (Turkey, Cyprus etc.)  Bear with me and I will discuss with my hubby Jeff. .. (on hold before walking back through and getting her Daddy/hubby  Jeff…) She explained everything she has been told “well if the older kids are willing to keep us right and one or two flexi sitters can be obtained,” “Yeah  I was indeed thinking that… so you okay with that lot” “Yes my baby girl!... “ However dropping off here or are they going to school…” Upon Suzy asking, the Foster representative (Amanda) was ringing  school ahead so not in today (in Kirkton not far away; youngest at Jessie Walker Nursery and older two Baldragon Academy), would  12.00 suit and we can drop them off with Social Worker coming probably Tomorrow”…”yes that’s fine! “  In the background towards the end, Suzy had printed out the Dietary Laws again while downloading a printable on the Festival of Pesach (Passover in English!) Daddy Jeff knew Suzy was looking at a maximum of 14-16 kids; however time will tell IF they stay. Jeff and Suzy said just as well their dining table seats 32 with 20 (folded) table and chairs in the annexe car park; just in case of class parties or special events at the home.  And it could be worse; mouthy vegans lol (ED: yes looking at you ex-wife brothers wife!!!)

Around 08.20 they walked back through, standing up again with her Daddy  Jeff ensuring  Suzy’s mother and father were paying attention! Suzy stood up to say “Okay everyone; some important news. We have another Foster placement coming around 12.00. 14 year old Judith, (Jude) 13 years old Solomon (Sol),  4 years old Avril, and 3 years old Isaah. Now like Lisa’s kids George and Amellia, they apparently have  marks on their bodies, and as well as some other abuse; so please look the other way and don’t ask questions  about what happened ; details are sketchy. As you might have guessed by their first names ; they are Jewish family who  don’t keep  Kosher BUT there are a small number of food items  we cant feed them (like pork or shellfish, or combinations of food like Cheeseburgers ) BUT we are told the older two are happy to keep us right . Your own food wont  change BUT  I am telling you for your information. Now officially short  term BUT first time away from their  family but the latter had neglected them ,, for some reason, since the turn of the year (Relationship issues with Mum Sheila and Dad Gerald) they were neglected ;  so please  all be on Best behaviour” “Understood mummy” said Rose sitting next to Barry, with Suzy’s mother and father only questions reminding of time / names etc once more,  with Suzy’s mother Orla asking if she could make her a copy of the list for her reference when doing food… to which Suzy said of course; she would have it ready by dinnertime tonight; BUT like previous fostering a choice of food they would like ; indoors or delivery  or takeaway!

After that Suzy went though to the Study to send an inner Circle message, as well as downloading and printing not  just Pesach (and her Mothers copy identical to that Suzy just printed out)  but including some recipe ideas… or ten! She tried ringing both parents ,with both going straight to voicemail. Mr Kohn’s was standard from the service providers voicemail greeting, but Mrs Kohn’s was saying she was not taking calls re her kids dated the previous month, so presumably something from social work before ???? in any case she introduced in brief saying they had their kids through Fostering and she will try and get through to them again. It might be if they are both flying long distance having them (phones) off for quite some time . This time first reply from a non family inner circle message was Lisa; who remembers her project well! Suzy’s project on Judaism at College , following next by Dr Reynolds who congratulated Suzy as well as sorry to here about the kids situation; and some were indeed more than ready to come over and see four new kids in due course (irrespective of if they stay long enough to move to our surgery); and Suzy said she would take her up on that in due course. As well as that she double checked whether or not Suzy would be in following day (she did of course increase to 1^st and 3^rd Tuesdays a month last month) BUT she said “No, I better not; apologise to my favourite patients and tell them now I am 16 kids, and 2 grandkids all now here… well extra four for now”
Suzy did ring through her standby extra sitters (four get paid a daily retainer by the agency from the aforementioned in many previous Chapters of this story) short term to permanent Nanny / Babysitter network,  work or no, and paid for work hours too.. The first was busy of course (Suzy forget she had a medical check-up for Lynda ) BUT the second sitter  Melanie agreed to help Suzy and Jeff! 

 

In other today bits and  bobs, first half of the day;  as well as her two baby boys, Bryony was also in charge of Barry (only one not at school work or nursery bar herself; in her case till after Summer School Holidays; Triplets three being looked after today by Melissa and Sarah and Sylvia by Audrey. After a while; after hearing the news though; she said would be willing to possibly helping Suzy with the youngest two of their new arrivals, and wouldn’t mind chatting to the oldest two in their first 48 hours about general teen / older kid chat; to which Suzy had no objections and she praised her for being accommodating, which is exactly what Suzy had in mind. With drop-off at 12.00 for the kids,  Bryony said was more than happy to put the Lunch into the oven, with Suzy’s double check the ingredients of the Pasta Bake (creamy tomato) and Sticky Toffee Pudding had been checked against the printed list Suzy did earlier; however with four more mouths to feed a side salad was also made with Bryony assisting there too. Lunch usually  around 12.30 would now be 12.45, and after lunch Bryony was covering Mother Suzy when the kids are taken to their rooms too…  Bryony did think back to July past when she arrived with Avery and Byron, of course “And we never looked back did we Mummy Suzy???”  “Bryony, I really appreciate you saying that (gives her a quick hug)

Also happening separately was Daddy  Jeff  had another chat with his boss (Michael Stroud or Stroudo)  and got 6 weeks again off; . With her Daddy / hubby Jeff on the phone ; if their placement is short this can be reviewed and/or extended to 8 weeks if they are permanent … and to tell Suzy she has indeed “has the patience of a saint” which went down fairly well  on Suzy hearing that news  too; her Daddy adding “to which I have agreed long before we started having kids!” 

Upon looking at other recipes and similar Suzy found a few chains serve  soy cheese ; which is  fine with meat (in Jewish culture); and with more vegans these days’ that might this easier having that with meat.  She also might might try making a pan of Matzo Ball Soup for lunch one day later that week or over the weekend,  as well as looking to try her hand at traditional Jewish fayre for Fridys Shabbat dinner  / Jewish day of rest like Christian’s day of rest being Sunday. There are indeed world foods (including Kosher/Jewish friendly) at a couple of bigger supermarkets…she usually does try and get some additional stuff that the Foster kids like / recognise.   Other feedback from Suzy’s inner circle included Alma (Dundee born old BFF now in  north London with her reminding her that her neighbours are Jewish with one side being Orthodox Haredi  Hasidic Jews. Also jeffs mother (Granny Clark) wished Suzy and Jeff all the best, hopefully they settle and give Jeff a big hug (to which she did indeed taking Jeff by surprise, until she showed him the Message!

In the run-up to 12.00 Suzy and Jeff were both sitting in kitchen, with Bryony close by the door. With curtains open, they saw a couple of Dundee city  council electric pool  cars  (ED: think Wacky Races BUT 110 per cent less cool!)  with kids leaving both around 11.56. Bryony answered the door, introduced herself as one of their siblings with her name, before walking  though to the kitchen area, as requested. Both Jeff and Suzy shook hands with their Foster officers  and were introduced to the kids in age date order (Judith who goes by Jude, Solomon who goes by  Sol, Avril and Isaah).(a Barry as well as the lady Suzy spoke to on the phone Amanda ; not enough room in one car was the reason!)  (ED: telt yeh!)

A initial discussion in relation mentioning a Pasta Bake and Sticky Toffee Pudding ; to which we checked and none on the prohibited list. Suzy continues this discussion this with unable to  get hold of their parents earlier today , to which the kids responded “Us too…” Suzy said she would go through initial stuff first. I will take you over the road to your rooms (points over the road) before getting  to know you better then. We will give you pick of any Dinner (takeaway delivery home made etc; no need to decide till later on) as well afterwards we will get you a few extra food items etc that we might like and  a few extra bonuses. Lunch is on; we have here some people at School with my daughter Bryony off after having twin babies lately  Steven and Robert (she wants a basic teen chat later she said) and Barry not yet old enough for Nursery, alongside my just over 1 year old Triplets in Charlotte, Aurora and Elizah, and a twin pair about 3 months old we recently adopted. .  Suzy  then gave them the names and in brief of all the home and helpers too; our surnames mostly Clark, but my Mum and Dad are  Larsson,  which was before getting married  at 25. BUT I will show  the rest tomorrow at breakfast before School and Nursery. We do have WiFi and for the young ones a massive playroom. Later in the week I plan to making a  traditional Shabbat dinner on Friday for Dinner  too (candles, bread and the whole nine yards! AND I will do my best to ensure your Pesach aka Passover foods are right too!) BUT this is my first attempt! Not just for mine and my family, AND not only my family but me and my BFF take it week about with Lisa , her hubby and seven kids come  round this Thursday to Sunday, us taking week about – like my family; we are all friendly and welcome all newcomers … My family were told this morning you were coming, and to be extra nice to you all. Had your family previously ever abused you ? The eldest Jude/ Judith said “No, not at all , and  we are not sure why the whole the thing started BUT we didn’t have a good end to last year… you see the day before first day of Hanukah in December, so Saturday 13^th December (which was Evening of Sun, 14 Dec 2025 – Mon, 22 Dec 2025) they had a massive argument … again they were at each others throat throughout the holiday period and into 2026 they were forgetting feeding us on occasions…

… after that we were starting to physically abuse us, varied from snapping and smacking over the top of our face, cutting and dragging sharp objects down our bodies, and burning us on occasions with things cigarette lighters , even though they didn’t smoke… We assumed to the fact that were stressed or something BUT It got worse before it got better.  We were hoping that they would mellow out in the run-up to Pesach/Passover, which they were open to; BUT a massive fight, which got physical. Dad pulled his gun out, for which he does have a permit, but dropped it and the noise was akin to gunshot, BUT he did not want to fire BUT soon after that police arrived, and the rest is history! (well , yesterday!)
However we are just as happy with all the lengths you are going to for us ; and we can indeed discuss all that after lunch”   Multiple forms were all signed by Suzy and  Jeff. Bryony was assisted by Suzy serving up lunch from oven and microwave and fridge, but as standard Fostering and meeting the Social Worker 14.00 Tuesday J&S place (the kids return to school/nursery Tuesday).

CONTINUES IN CHAPTER 93

 

Chapter 93 – four more kids arrive with Suzy and  Jeff … but how long for …    or  second half March 2026 with another new different people join the Clark/Larsson home…  chunk 2, Monday 16^th March 2026 , second part

After lunch, Suzy did indeed cross over the road to The Annexe (covered by Melanie and Bryony too) With there being a small sitting / waiting area with hot and cold drinks and small snacks added too… The kids had been happy to do all there welcomes in one; with their stuff the stuff they brought with them being stowed away .  

Before explaining more formal stuff she welcomed them to The Annexe. Also told all for about her project at College into Judaism. I was so sorry to hear what your parents did to you, she said. We had  extra rooms added so we could look after more kids; and you will only be sleeping here , you will be  walked through in the morning, as well as being free to  cross over if you tell one of our Grown Ups ; me, Jeff, Granny and Grandpa and the sitters, with the front door locked. In the past a couple people started calling us Mummy Suzy and Daddy Jeff; we are happy  calling us anything as long as its clean and polite (a couple chuckled) .  They were first of all asked to them a little about themselves;  14 year old Judith/-Jude said she loves cooking, reality tv and keeping herself physically fit as possible, and am happy go lucky. 13 year old Solomon (Sol) said he had an interesting sense of humour; Dundee fan (Suzy jokingly interrupts VERY interesting humour [moves to say Fuck The Dee, but remembers she’s with a child, so stopped herself] …. sorry please continue,  you are welcome here even though I am an Arab) likes riding his bike, and playing video games (having a Nintendo Switch and an xBox).   4 years old Avril likes Bluey, watching other cartoons,  playing with her stuffed toys and starting to experiment with Knitting and Cross Sitch. 3 years old Isaah said he likes Dundee United (Suzy gives him a fist bump), playing with his toy trains , watching cartoons too, and playing with his tablet.

  

Next there questions were just a few each ; Jude is in 3^rd year Baldragon Academy, Sol is in 2^nd year Baldragon Academy, with the youngest two were both in Jessie Walker Nursery BUT they’d been there since birth , with Suzy (and Lisa) only sending to the Nursery School at 3 (her parents started earlier as both Dad and Mum worked full-time, with initially a private nursery used before)

Suzy had printed out four copies Welcome Pack ; them pointing out wi-fi details there; giving one each  ; these were printed off in run up to lunch; the kids all had tablets and  / or games so no need to lend the youngest two ones of the Twins or Triplets! She added the oldest twos ,mobile phone numbers to her numbers list, before advising her Daddy / Jeff , in the coming days would update their phones and devices to use our Debit Cards.  She went through all the usual chats with newbies, including the Rules. As discussing with each other, they would be happy to call them Daddy Jeff and Mummy Suzy, while we get used to us all too.

After walking back through, the new four arrivals they would be happy with a Papa Johns, Vege pizzas today and occasionally using soy cheese and meat is what they also like , alongside some of the sides. Suzy; and those still there,  were more than happy with that! Barry showed the new youngest 2 through to the playroom, (Avril and Isaah), with Bryony (her twins in baby carriers each) chatting on the sofa just out the  playroom, chatting with Jude and Sol while watching Barry , Avril and Isaah, as well as a short break for changing Steven and  Robert, with both the other two teens happy with her breastfeeding  in front of them. Suzy and Jeff more than happy to see everyone getting along, as they had hoped! Everyone’s order for Pizza for those there, and the other people heading home too.

The Pizza arrived on time for 17.45 (Papa Johns delivery or collection only), and they were taken out to a local supermarket for some food and a few other things that they liked, and surprises for  the for the newbies too.  The four new seats in the car were given a few spaces from Triplets and twins Sarah and Sylvia; as those unable to leave home BUT they now need to think about numbers travelling in morning and evening BUT placed in luggage rack for now …

… everyone’s bedtime cane all too soon “Nice kids aren’t they????” “yes they are. We did , defiantly the right thing earlier” Jeff said to Suzy…. “even if it means getting a bus license and more seats later and Mumtruck 96…”

 

 

Chapter 94 – four more kids arrive with Suzy and  Jeff … but how long for …    or  second half March 2026 with  another new different people join the Clark/Larsson home…  chunk 3, Tuesday 17^th and Wednesday 18^th March 2026 first half

Upon waking Tuesday 17^th March: they did muse no need to do all that other stuff just yet; however it was indeed a possibility if they stay longer term! However while time will tell, in the short term at least , with different schools, Daddy Jeff is dropping off and collecting the four new arrivals.

At the morning Announcements over breakfast, Suzy did indeed then tap everyone on the head, explaining their relationship to  Suzy “this is mum or your granny Polly / Senior Nurse Polly Lasson or Granny Polly” and everyone else in and around the home. She said Daddy Jeff is taking you our newest four in Jude, Sol, Avril and Isaah  to school ., and collecting you, while you are at a different school. We are meeting your Social Worker Claire Gellatly (ED: wife of Neil Gellatly IRL , a transport professional  and a bit of a one man Suzy fan club at times , and basically a straighter, more educated, version  of  me, who similarly to me had to leave transport work early with poor health in his  40s, in his case through Multiple Sclerosis) and your Foster Team  14.00 today too.  

In  the morning some other mid morning Admin and the like before lunch then their workers that afternoon. Interestingly as well as getting hold of Dr Reynolds (coming the following evening / Wednesday after work) she then phoned Lisa, and with her explaining her plans for Shabbat dinner on Friday  (With Lisa and her kids being there too) in brief; While not 100pc sure which of more than one recipe she is looking at, something traditional Jewish fayre while Suzy  tries and avoid things not allowed on Shabbat like baking etc; even though that it is sundown to sundown But trying that evening only this week, with nothing prohibited like pork or shellfish. Lisa agreed that all seemed Okay. Suzy asked her to tell her kids Thursday morning, which was fine with her.  Suzy followed it up with Lisa mentioning the new arrivals would be split Boys/ Girls over 2 rooms of their new floor out of 6 rooms  when they are  visiting ours and  Suzy did also discuss they are doing not too  badly; and maybe you will get some new arrivals soon enough from Fostering too AND also your pregnancy plans work well too!

Similar to yesterday ; after lunch Bryony was ready nearby the door for the kids Foster  Worker Amanda Burns; and their social worker Claire Gellarly. SW arrived first at 13.55 a few minutes behind her was their Foster Worker next. Both Suzy and Jeff enjoyed meeting for the first time ; and catching up with Foster Worker again. They were pleased to hear they  had a decent night; and they were more than happy with the lengths they were going to(getting food right and  also making something special for sabbath / sabbat dinner that Friday night AND Pesach / Passover week too!!!) As not even the kids have a reply  from the parents ; at what point do we consider them abandoned “ “Well  four to six weeks generally  BUT assuming the kids do settle, the Foster and  Social Worker would have through  you and Jeffs home MUCH BETTER FOR THE KIDS ! However we al l hope the kids settle BECAUSE we are not sure about sending them home ; for all we know they could be in separate  directions and or split -up… Everyone was indeed hoping that these plans and kids to settle. An appointment had been set for Thursday 19^th March 11.00 and checking in twice a week for the next few weeks, similar to other Foster Placements.

Daddy Jeff picked up their four new arrivals as intended,  Suzy picked up the others (Byron taxi aside) and everyone had a decent nights sleep.

 Wednesday 18^th March was similar at Suzy’s side ,with her online food delivery (amended to include all the Jewish stuff too!) and father of Jared/Roseanne and the twins Sarah and Sylivia visiting around 19.00, plus Doc Reynolds visiting  her and her four new arrivals , after her work.

However, Lisa had an interesting morning too, getting a longer term fostering call around 11.20 (two days after Suzy’s!!) The  story was that Lisa was advised of first offer  on a longer term sibling pair of girls (3yo Siblings Esmee Miller and 4yo Anne Miller) ; probably longer term  as they have been repeatedly removed from their parents Miller family more than once for sadly se**al abuse.  She messaged her husband then mother advising that and mutually agreed dropping off 17.00, with Lisa intending finishing work a bit earlier than usual and getting a taxi home  14.00 if all goes well) Dad’s driving her all week in any case. This is assuming letting her go home early BUT he does always love meeting new grandkids!  

AFTERNOON , AND LISA’S NEW ARRIVALS , IN NEXT CHAPTER

 

 

Chapter 95 – four more kids arrive with Suzy and  Jeff … but how long for …    or  second half March 2026 with  another new different people join the Clark/Larsson home…  chunk 4, Wednesday 18^th March 2026 second half

While  typing an Inner Circle email , Lisa phoned Suzy to update her ; double-checking things…”and indeed  24 hours ago I was discussing hopefully you get kids;  so  you’re not pregnant too?” “no, I am on (got my period) but thanks for asking!” It was indeed a few more than  48 hours ago I got my Call too… weird timing intit…” after going over her new placement ; Suzy was previously wanting to take a couple of her kids BUT with her Monday arrivals still settling down, however she would be able send a couple of her Standby helpers potentially; with Lisa more Than happy with that. She (Suzy) was sorry once again to hear of the kids news; on Thursday we could get two small beds to keep them in one room in The Annexe,  and she wished her best the friend all the best for later this evening and onward from there…Suzy also obtained her permission to let Dr Reynolds know …   she texted her boss, who’s response was similar to her four new Jewish kids on Monday (sorry for the kids, good  luck for both parents and well done on taking them on) THEN she added “very interesting  timing; little over 48 hours after your foster call??? “That’s what we said”… After stopping for lunch she was able to get a couple additional sitters from her Standby list until Sunday evening then one only for two weeks too; with her using one out of the four two Day and Evening sitters at the moment (since Monday / the four recent arrivals so enough spare to send to Lisa’s home, overnight Lisa already a Night Nanny after Suzy’s success having one of her own, since mid-February that year.

She went to tell her father… after discussing all she knew, and her plans so far, and her plans for today; he was fine with her Early Finish. Her dad said he was indeed proud of her for taking on two additional kids who had a really shitty start of their life.  He also looked forward to meeting Lisa’s 8^th and 9^th kids; his 14^th and 15^th grandkids, still only one great grandkid but his now at 24 Lucys oldest Polly it is understood to be pregnant again, so hopefully   a second at least!

Soon after Lisa rang her stay-at-home mum Polly (similar to just before George and Amellia)  , she explained  very similar again with the kids arrival (ED: see Chapter 43 and 44  this story) BUT this time ; lets not forget Suzy got four new arrivals herself on Monday , who you will meet from tomorrow; you are staying here and also a couple extra sitters helping us  this week and one from Monday onwards ; waiting for Suzy to give us names later. Since last time Jayden has started his nursery school; with those still there both sets of twins (with her first one adopted twins Lisa and Anna starting August this year , after Scottish Summer school holidays 2026).

Around 14.00 Mac (see  Me at 25 Story many latter chapters; knew her from Despatcher days and driving her occasionally) was heading home , and dropped Lisa in her house in Linlathen around 14.15 ; a stones throw from his home in Mid (Craigie , other side of Pitkerro Road (ED: I grew up in Mid Craigie before moving to Linlathen), was on  06.00-14.00 works including a Kingspark School run from farmstead near Monifieth  Dobbies / Ethiebeaton Park before two other passengers in  Monifieth (Angus and Dundee do both send their kids to Dundee’s Kingspark school; were Suzy attended  in different attitudes to potty problems (ED: see Ch69 this story when Suzy visited  new Kingspark after dropping Byron one Friday in his first week school run where she found no longer a hard and fast rule) and her adopted son Byron goes there too. He had always been one of her favourite Drivers in her Despatcher, Despatch Manager before Overall Office manager  at his office . Mac is now a Taximan of two decades, with 15 years at 696969 being celebrated with Brian Smith, and fellow drivers and some staff etc. earlier this year!

Upon walking into their home front doors , she had a brief catch-up with her Mother; the sitters together before catching up with her kids in the playroom. Her hubby had been working from home today and afterwards they both sat outside kids playroom, while Lisa started texting the kids Foster worker; Pippa Leach .   She was discussing ; as agreed; explaining when she was back ;  and also asking if the Social Worker coming tonight too; and that was indeed asking if Social Worker Coming tonight (with many recently  arrivals not meeting till next day, see many recent chapters) and their name. She replied soon after her name was  Vicki Greer, and she was coming ; with sadly a lot to explain! The idea was the kids would be taken to their rooms with one of the two -twins sitters and then walked down in the Meeting later.  In addition the she was made aware of the situation with the two extra helpers Suzy organised  (now confirmed Lynda Mathieson and Bry Smith day; with similar for evenings too), arriving around 17.30 and 18.00 separately.

 

Discussing things with her Daddy ; similar but worse from George and Amellia but worse (I.E. their parents did everything but f**k them), BUT they intended to be incredibly sensitive in every case. The Police had their own checks earlier today (forensics or someone similar) ; MIGHT need to see them again but unlikely unless it happens again. Indeed it was hoped both 3yo Esmee and 4yo Anne settle in well with us AND we can  then prevent it happening ever again. It is understood the  father said he would have s*x (Sexual abuse in essence) with his first born if a girl,  essentially rape BUT something to do with a faith’; NOT their mainstream belief of the Church but just on arsehole doing what he wanted (ED: also see S1 E2 of Surviving Mormonism with Heather Gay which this story is loosely based on; was a Mormon Bigham Terrace Dundee for a few months late 2025/early 2026 BUT bishop remembered I was trans from where I worked 2002-2007 / at school with  my brother when he wasn’t suspended for fighting,  and I would start having to go to being guys stuff;  similar to Billy Connolly on his own conception   / his catholic parents using the Rhythm Method of contraception; “yer arse  , no person will EVER Make me go back to being him” BUT in my life of transitioning in 2004, IMHO it’s a dead issue with HD and ME make me bad alongside  my on/off double incontinence  ; since later 2001 so another dead issue to me!!! EDIT AGAIN: transpires standard practice as I found on a YouTube channel Mormon Missionary now left entirely church ; some name like 20 Things Mormon Missionaries Aren’t’ Allowed to Tell You!! ) Sad for the kids though was indeed the general  agreement between Lisa and her hubby/Daddy/Babies father of Jayden Ed and Stef, adopted father of the rest!)               

          

Both workers arrived on time, and Social Worker Vicki Greer explained  in more details ; as bad as it seemed, yes sadly is was as  bad as explained earlier; multiple se**al abuse on Esmee and a lesser number on Anne… indeed HOWEVER the father was essentially “a bit of a self-entitled prick” Lisa then  recalled George and Amellia’s arrival doing everything but f**k their kids; so we are more than happy to be incredibly  sensitive with the whole sad sad situation. More than happy to take them in. A few further questions included Lisa asking if they were potty trained; they were not and some of the abuse seemed to have some damage, but it was hoped they may repair once its stops, and Lisa explained they already had some of every nappy size per Suzy’s suggestion (from Baby1 to Baby8 and Adult XS to 2XL) . They had been placed in Nursery School (and were at Whitfield Community Early Years Centre with living in Fintry) and also the plan was made they would return Monday 24^th March until term end on Thursday 2^nd April 2026; to give a few days getting over the most recent abuse.

Multiple forms were signed (with two kids)  by Lisa and Steve, before they were walked down from the third floor. Very similar once again  to Chapter 43 and 44 of this story (George and Amellia’s arrival around 15 months ago); she welcomed and apologised to both for their parents actions again. She went through everything normal ; explaining she would go through Rules and things in the morning. Upon asking for dinner , they fancied kids size from Tony’s Chipper (takeaway chain no sit in); with that being five minutes away it was decided to pick them up. They then went to get some food and extras things they might recognise from Asda Milton of Craigie; and a few wee surprises like toys to hopefully make them feel better, as well as their own tablets helping distract them . They were content at least for the night and slept well., after getting on well with their siblings. With a busy day tomorrow (Suzy and more besides) they would wake them up normal time and rules just after breakfast before packing up for Suzy’s. 

                 

 

 

Chapter 96 – four more kids arrive with Suzy and  Jeff … but how long for …    or  second half March 2026 with  another r new different people join the Clark/Larsson home…  chunk 5, Thursday 19^th March 2026 and Friday 20^th March 2026 early morning

As was intended , Lisa explained in her Morning Announcements on Thursday 19^th March 2026 mentioning the usual heading to Suzy, then also mentioning she has four new Jewish kids  two days before Esmee and Anne arrived in our home! So on the Friday a traditional-ish Shabbat Dinner – HER FIRST ATTEMPT hopefully goes well – Shabbat is the version of a  Sabbath  Friday night into Saturday daytime (explaining the plans in all details) … Jayden then interrupts with “oh that sounds nice; something different to try and did you say Suzy has four new arrivals too?” “Yes I was coming to that next; “ “Ooh sorry Mummy please continue”” …thanks Jayden, and you will meet Suzy’s four new arrivals, 14yo Judith (Jude) , 13yo Solomon (Sol),  4yo Avril, and 3yo Isaah (Kohn family) and they will meet Esmee and Anne for the first time too in our two new kids in Esmee and Anne! She then tapped everyone on the head so they are reminded who everyone in the house in Lisa’s home.  Jayden said to  his two new siblings “yes Suzy big playroom is almost as good as ours, Esme and Anne; and we go over there  ; or they come here week about Thursday to Sunday every week!” Lisa then gave the full details of Suzy’s family , for the benefit of her two new arrivals too! She also explained the House Rules to them both. No worker meetings Thursdays; the new arrivals in Esmee and Anne were meeting Friday morning ; already has Suzy’s address with the, getting it before hand.

 

Suzy’s own family included (as well as the following days night Shabbat dinner explained) about her two new Foster kids (3yo Siblings Esmee and 4yo Anne Miller family; the kids were told at bedtime she has two new foster arrivals now too…). She knew about her father essentially raping his own daughters BUT limited it to “Their own father did some very unspeakable, se**al things to the girls BUT I wont celebrate his actions with publicity, as both me and Lisa will say he was a VERY naughty thing’s that’ she would not wish to publicise”! Rose replied “yes; sorry to hear BUT it will be nice to meet two new playmates; when I get back from my nursery School”… Her four new arrivals were also reminded of Lisa’s family being “super fun” as both Rose and  Barry went through the other members of Lisa s / Clark family  too , looking in the direction of their four new arrivals” With there being six more bodies since last time, a second folding table and 8 extra seats was being assembled by Suzy and Bryony, while as well Suzy had placed a telephone order with two beef Briskets to feed around 52 in total  (being slow cooked alongside a pan of Matzo Ball Soup and a couple of Challah breads and a couple of Microwave sticky toffee pudding and some Chips from deep fat fryer/ air fryer ; those two from packet ; rest from scratch) with Daddy Jeff collecting them from one of the  Butchers in  the Hilltown. Suzy had intended to start on the bread etc later this evening mid-afternoon after Lisas all settled. Two large slow cookers would be dinner at 17.30 to be ready, 07.30 switch on both slow cookers!

A Mac and Cheese Pasta Bake (well two) was for lunch put on just before Lisa’s lots arrived on time and were explained to all the new arrivals ; four new arrivals Suzy’s side are at nursery. School whole Esmee and Anne were off till Monday (Nursery School) and both sets of Parents sat outside the Playroom discussing both sets of new arrivals. Both Jeff and Suzy went for the School runs, with Lisa’s being dropped off by taxi (as they were no longer over the road with one sitter meeting Jayden) and Byrons SEN taxi unchanged.  Every kid enjoyed meeting each other  after arriving back from school ; Lisas hubby Steve not working but Suzy’s mother and father arrived home separately like usual, and Granny Orla  and Grandpa  Andy enjoyed meeting Esmee and Anne too. Dinner was a mild Chicken Curry and Rice; with a packet made sauce ; so no Dairy and Meat mixing for our new Jewish arrivals  who can not combine the two ; Jayden then replied they were  advised of that and the like earlier on by their Mummy; bizarrely mix went down all round, followed by ice cream (Some Mackie’s of Rothienorman Strawberry Swirl and Honeycomb)  went down just as well!

The following day it is understood Jeff’s mother had advised she would pop round to see the new kids.

After their bedtimes, everyone slept well. ..

 … In the early morning, Friday 20^th March 2026 Suzy turned both slow cookers on, as agreed! However  in the run up to School and Nursery Starts, around 07.55 the Kohn family oldest two who had phones in Jude and Sol had finally received a text from their Mother (asking to pass onto the younger two who did not) confirming some people suspicions ; they had split up going in separate directions; with her in Winfield, suburban Chicago , IL with people her family side.  (ED: was supposed to have moved over there late 2024 with another woman, part reason I did childcare course and Red Cross etc in the interim  want for her arrival in December 2024 before Foster training, BUT she argued with the Mistress of journeys Planning; a role I take VERY Seriously).

None of the text about their father was complementary at all (shmuck being the cleanest and politest for a ‘family show !!!; NO not the Manson family!)  They were wished a good Shabbat later on before wishing they have a better Pesach than they would have with their father!

This was read out in front of her two younger siblings’ in Arvil and Isaah  before Suzy was called over… they explained family a bit.  , they would now assume he in Israel, where he had family and he visited once most recent a similar time of the family stress late last year.

MORNING ANNOUNCEMENTS  FRIDAY IN NEXT CHAPTER

 

       

Chapter 97 – four more kids arrive with Suzy and  Jeff … but how long for …    or  second half March 2026 with  another new different people join the Clark/Larsson home…  chunk 6, Friday 21^st March 2026 second half

In Suzy’s morning announcements, everything was explained. Re her Food plans for  later that evening; while it is NOT one of the major Jewish High Holidays (there is one in a fortnight) this is a traditional weekly ritual for most Jewish people… starting Sunset Friday night and Sunset Saturday night, BUT this week being Friday evening only  ,we have wine slash  Grape juice and prayers ready to roll and 3-hour-ish Candles designed to last the life of the main Dinner, traditionally lit  by one of the Women, so I will do those honours! .  I will do closing prayers Saturday morning., In many instances it goes even further BUT she explained food plans in details. She explained while she’s always wanted to give this cooking a go; now with our four new friends in Jude, Sol, Avril, and Isaah means a good time as any BUT this is my first time attempt  of these cooking some of these dishes; in reality some maybe packet mixes and the like while BUT please go easy on me, and we can try something else another time? Both our new boys in Sol and Isaah already have Yamaka or Kippah  (Skullcaps ;two names depending on where they come from) they keep them for events like Shabbat and the High Holidays (Sol stood up with his in his hand before demonstrating where it goes before putting it down elsewhere for him to keep till dinnertime; with Suzy asking and discussing the previous night); no need for anyone else to wear things like those, As to why its’ only men/boys who wear them; it is in the relevant sections of the Torah.

Workers were intended morning for both Kohn family and Miller family (Lisas new arrivals) begore afternoon a monthly check-in with the Workers for former MacPherson  family (Byron, Avery and Bryony) after lunch with former Smithson family  (Jared, Roseanne , Sarah and Syliva) following Monday. In the first instance, Suzy of course earlier on’s text / message from their Mother ; as Suzy said all the explanations and a lot of the backstory (a few bits Workers knew; some they did not); however , at least we all know they went there separate ways; as to whether they reconcile or come back to Scotland is not known, but once again , time will tell. They are happy, went to school content / happy despite the news, we will certainly keep a close eye on them this  coming week.  and I left Voicemails for both their parents (they are still here, happy and healthy and we got the message through the kids from earlier on today), explaining where we were up to. When Jeff told his Mother Mummy / Granny (Vera) Clark mentioned Suzy’s dinner plans she decided to aim for that and  meet the new arrivals after that  (they are at school through the day in any case) ; he replied to his mothers text “Go easy on Suzy if it goes tits up” “Language Jeffery… BUT yes no problem , I will . I think its amazing Suzy always goes one step further for her kids, short term or longer term!”  

A couple of lunch extra things were available (with new items bought earlier this weeks Jewish family arrivals ; having stuff like beef Lorne/Square sausage  and sone similar stuff);  Friday fish continued (fish or fish fingers for kids and chips) with the two who don’t like fish having a choice of pork and beef sausages and beef Lorne ; both chose the latter with that all going down well; followed by fruit and ice cream for  pudding went down even better!

Mid-afternoon Suzy had stated setting the table , with Challah bread, wine for bigs bar Suzy / Grape Juice for kids, candles, prayers ,and a few similar things, with some help from Byrony. Suzy returned to the kitchen area ; making the Matzo Ball Soup from packet mix , with making the balls by hand .  In addition pre-made Chips ; and an additional side of mac and cheese, were warmed up and some beef gravy made from mix. Afterwards that was laid out with around five minutes to go on the Slow Cookers, everyone was called through to the kitchen. Suzy had pretty much following an online recipe for Slow Cooker Brisket, with the rub/ sides being salt, pepper, paprika, cayenne pepper quarter teaspoon , cloves of Garlic rubbed around the meat before sliced onions, beef stock, olive oil too previously prepared the Thursday night while the 2 inner pots stayed in the fridge overnight) These were taken out at similar times with Suzy asking Daddyu Jeff and Lisa’s Daddy Steve to take out Carve  / Cut meat while next she said the opening traditional prayer in Hebrew and English Baruch Atah Adonai, Eloheinu Melech haolam, asher kid'shanu b'mitzvotav v'zivanu l'hadlik ner shel Shabbat (Blessed are You, Eternal our God, Sovereign of time and space, You hallow us with Your mitzvot and command us to kindle the lights of Shabbat),with Suzy then clicked the double candles on with her long lighter, and told everyone that they can start now . One of the Mothers Aids was on warning up pudding around 30-45 minutes. On this occasion it was previously explained that Suzy would only say Opening and Closing prayers; with the full list to follow possibly another day; as Suzy was worried more about the food; and the extra six bodies to feed too…

… but Suzy need not have worried! The soup got compliments from all visitors, Suzy’s Kids and Bigs alike (new four and the rest!) The Brisket and sides all  went down even better, with Suzy asked for the recipe twice! When Jude was finished with her main meal ; the eldest of the four new arrivals (Kohn Family) in Jude she walked over to Mummy Suzy, giving her a big hug “Thanks Mummy Suzy, that food was all Amazing; one of the Best Briskets I have ever had, and thank you for doing the food, and looking after us very well this past week” “Awwh, thanks for your comments” and she replies with another hug! However with most people full up from the soup and main course, just one Sticky Toffee Pudding was needed this time!

Afterwards Granny Clark got to know all the new four in Jude, Sol, Avril, and Isaah before heading home. The new four had option of going out with  your siblings on Saturday shopping; they were generally up for that instead of staying home. Suzy did say maybe in fortnight we could indeed  go to Synagogue too (Dundee now amalgamated with St Andrewes in fife which is c/o University of St Andrews), which they had no issue with taking most of Suzy’s kids HOWEVER with Passover life a bit different, moved to another time. Suzy could take them all next Saturday when she; s at Lisa’s , which  was agreed to be a workable option!

After everyone’s bedtime (1hr later fri/sat nights as no school/work) , Daddy Jeff said “The kids ad my Mum was right; that was an Amazing dinner tonight!! “Good good “ she said while switching off the bedside lamp.

 

Chapter 98 – four more kids arrive with Suzy and  Jeff … but how long for …    or  second half March 2026 with  another new different people join the Clark/Larsson home…  chunk 7,  Saturday 21^st and Sunday 22^nd March 2026

Saturday 21^st March 2026

Suzy did (a little early; see Chapter 97) say the Closing Prayers for Shabat (over Grape Juice similar to the starting in Hebrew and English;

Hinei El y'shuati,
evtach v'lo efchad.
Ki ozi v'zimrat Yah Adonai vay'hi li lishuah.
Ush'avtem mayim b'sason mimaay'nei hay'shuah.
L'Adonai hay'shuah, al am'cha virchatecha, selah.
Adonai tz'vaot imanu, misgav lanu, Elohei Yaakov, selah.
Adonai tz'vaot, ashrei adam botei-ach bach!
Adonai hoshiah; haMelech yaaneinu v'yom kor'einu.

(This line is customarily recited by the participants first and then the leader repeats:)
LaY'hudim hay'tah orah v'simchah v'sason vikar; kein tih'yeh lanu.

Kos y'shuot esa, uv'shem Adonai ekra.

Behold, the God who gives me triumph! I am confident, unafraid; for Adonai is my strength and might, and has been my deliverance. Joyfully shall you draw water from the fountains of triumph, deliverance is Adonai's; Your blessing be upon Your people! Selah.
Adonai Tz'vaot is with us; the God of Jacob is our haven. Selah.
Adonai Tz'vaot. happy is the one who trusts in You. O Adonai, grant victory!
May the Sovereign answer us when we call.
(This line is customarily recited by the participants first and then the leader repeats:)
The Jews enjoyed light and gladness, happiness and honor. So may it be for us.
I raise the cup of deliverance and invoke the name of Adonai.

Blessing Over the Wine (actually Grape Juice with Suzy nursing twins)

(Lift the cup of wine or grape juice, and recite the blessing:)

Baruch atah, Adonai Eloheinu, Melech haolam, borei p'ri hagafen.

We praise You, Adonai our God, Sovereign of all, Creator of the fruit of the vine.

Havdalah Blessings

Blessing Over the Spice Box omitted this time BUT getting one soon on order, hopefully for 2 weeks away!

 

In other Saturday news; over breakfast, A first Communication from their Father; thanking for all Messages and explaining in brief; he was indeed  in Jerusalem, Isreal for now, intending to return to Dundee BUT Family convinced him to stay for Passover / Pesach; so a couple of days thereafter. Without a wife; I am unsure what to do with the  kids; as we both worked full time; it has ended up as well the Kids are with you. It might be good staying longer term too with your family. Re My four kids;  I would like to apologise for the Physical; Stuff and all the issues we had over the last 3-4 years with kids and my wife after 30 years of Marriage, we were getting sick of each other over the last three years  (even new kids didn’t help!) She no doubt had some choice words about me BUT it’s equal blame in my opinion; In Addition after sunset that night Shabat he had intended ringing Suzy afterwards; after a series of text it was indeed Agreed for 10.00/ Sunday British time/12.00 Israel time, him passing best wishes to all four, yourself and your partner in the meantime.

She did indeed tell her Daddy and the Four kids In question; before most of Suzy’s kids (bar Triplets and twins; being sat with sitters; including Bryony’s twins being left with sitters for only a low number of times, and it was indeed a decent day out in Dundee City Centre with kids and families had a decent day ; pocket money spending and many similar fun, including a lunch stop too. With Lisas kids mostly being younger they occasionally have less often stops; bi-weekly usually on Sunday BUT with new arrivals it was agreed Suzy’s family would return around 14.00 when her side would indeed  leave around 14.30-15.00, hence Suzy’s lot leaving the house around an hour earlier BUT with her new arrivals too having first Saturday / pocket money spending for her first new four too partially as well. Suzy and the Family arrived home a little earlier around ‘half one (13.30), meaning Lisa was able to leave around 14.15. Suzy also updated their Devices etc with extra credit (twice as much for a while) from their joint account Debit Card;  however it was explained they were looking at getting all Suzy;’ s family on one Pay Monthly plan for our whole family. (like Suzy and Jeff and the Kids Fire Tablets) with Bryony doing research; hopefully will be sorted out ‘ decided over the next month or two BUT alongside looking after her twin Baby Boys and occasionally siblings too. When she returns to school in August; one sitter for her twins and another to help around the house; this being SO invaluable even Suzy will miss her weekday daytime help, she does have extra help too lets not forget! But has Suzy essentially raised a carbon copy of herself as a Mother over the last 9 months ???... Well time will tell…

… Mid-evening and late night went well; with both families getting to know each others newer arrivals  too, after Lisas lot arrived home around 16.30, before bedtime at a similar time to Friday.

 

 

Sunday 22^nd  March 2026 

Going back to normal weekend wake up time, of course Suzy had a phone call intended that morning. After breakfast, he rang promptly and sharp with one minute to spare! Suzy did have a fair few questions NOT directly related to the kids till later, explained that her project in College quite some time ago admittedly, to which he remarked “Aah my kids ARE in VERY good hands!” She explained all the lengths to make sure they don’t’ feed anything not on prohibited list or combinations  like meat and dairy AND a little bit about what changes for  Pesach/Passover too , explaining to tell the other kids from mid the following week what will be changing for them. We all had a Shabat dinner Friday of Brisket (“We do love a good brisket, I will admit”) which went down from both my family and my best friends , we take it week about to visit with our families etc. with me always fancying giving one a go; but with you’re your four kids; it would be rude not to try … and potentially a sin I don’t know as I am of -no particular faith but my hubby was raised Church of Scotland! 

She then explained her side in all details; Lisa in brief; before asking many questions for his side (the oldest two both had Bar / Bat Mitzvahs the year before in St Andrews congregation (closest to Dundee since merge 2019); occasionally attending St Andrews c/o Uni of St Andrews; not purpose build but after it moved towards St Andrews rather than Dundee St Mary’s Place, we ended up going less and less, however since all the arguing with my wife started we had issues, hence not for some time. A few more similar progress questions etc were asked  by Suzy., He had said he wanted a ten minute chat with her partner (Daddy Jeff) after “Thank You For Looking After My Children so well’ I really appreciate your efforts” After doing so a wee while with each of his children; explaining he is returning (to Dundee) soon but without a mother probably better at Suzy and Jeffs with no mother; and a lot more besides. He had intended to visit his kids in the near future too , and all the details as discussed with Suzy and Jeff back to Saturday mornings  text communications; times four for each of the kids!

After lunch (Suzy’s Sunday to cook who did roast lamb), Lisa mid-afternoon left for her fathers benevolent fund monthly meeting (now twice a month); Suzy covered for Lisa a couple of times  (during pregnancies etc) BUT this time Anna /Lisa’s sister is away all weekend with her other news, so Suzy was taking her BFF’s sisters’ place today. It was decided to finally book the date for Suzy and Lisa’s 20 year as BFF / long weekend away from it all on the drive home  ; with the decision second week of Dundee summer school holidays from Thursday morning to Tuesday (away five nights in total) too on the car ride home from the meeting.

Lisa’s family left Sunday after dinner; as normal.

 

 Monday / State of Both Families general recap of families next chapter.

       

 

Chapter 99- - last ten days in March 2026 – first full week in Suzy’s home of four new arrivals and Lisa’s home  new arrivals too… Suzy family recap and Monday 23^rd March 2026

 First of all  a quick look back at Suzy’s 16 kids + 2 grandkids (Lisa’s family another time)

 

Jude Kohn (14y 6mo) – foster kid – birthday 11^th September
She had a good week and has settled with her siblings and Suzy’s existing lot and wider family At 6 foot 4inches (and growing); tallest of Suzy’s and Lisa’s family ; including previous short term fostering too! Similar to herself and her firstborn Rose; she is a very intelligent young woman, looking forward to her Maths amongst all her Monday’s classes! (ED: yes I was a numbers wizz; now every time I get out the calculator !) And once she did sing along with Mummy Suzy singing  Hey Jude th`e song,  Miranda (Hart) -style to one of Suzy’s spare hairbrush; with Suzy joining in with her hair brush too!  (ED: hey it would be rude not to try once!)

Sol Kohn (13y 1mo)  - foster kid – birthday 18^th February
Similarly to his sightly elder sister Jude ’; a great first week all things considered! He is 6 foot 2; matching Suzy’s height despite the 25 year gap! He was similarly intelligent; looking forward to English that morning! He had similarly enjoyed playing video games with his even bigger family; having fun playing a couple of Lisa’s kids as well as Suzy’s ones who enjoyed video games sharing and sharing alike; and well behaved! Jeff was VERY surprised to hear Sol was a Dee (Dundee FC fan); Suzy then explained she was a was about to see Fuck The Dee; but stopped herself saying that to a kid; making Jeff splutter and chortle, as well as his  take on Sol’s VERY  interesting sense of humour! (Daddy Jeff was never a fan of any football clubs but a couple of his relatives were Dundee fans!)

 

Bryony Clark was Macpherson (13yo 10mo)  - adopted through UWP   – birthday 25^th May  + her twins Steven and Robert Clark (3mo) -  – birthday 17^th January
Still essentially on School version of Maternity Leave till August. As well as nursing her own twins (breastfeeding like Suzy ; see second half this post for her twins) she has indeed been an asset and similar  level of good intelligence! She had recently had enjoyed chatting discussing lives with Jude and Sol (older kid stuff) ; with her two younger siblings joining in once too! In two months, she turns 14 in late May. 

Her sons Steven and Robert Clark (3mo old)  have been doing very well (Bryony looking after them at home till August) and are up to par for other 3  months ; and are now fine with Formulae too. Bryony has left them at home for the third time earlier that week; and they both remain relatively fuss-free!

 

Avery Clark was Macpherson (12yo 9mo)  -  adopted through UWP  – birthday 12^th June
They are still enjoying being a DIY Buff for their home and The Annexe too! Still happily gender neutral ; they were referred to the relevant  Gender Clinic who do have a very long waiting list  for kids; just over six years! He is NOT seeking puberty blockers or similar BUT Suzy does like to do the right thing! As well, however Suzy arranged a few private appointments similar to Counselling session separately. Otherwise; still very happy-go-lucky, and they turn 13 late June.

 

Byron Clark was Macpherson (11yo 8mo)  - adopted through UWP  – birthday 25^th May
He continues growing from strength to strength with him being in nappies  at school  and thus 24/7 in nappies. Bar a couple of minor skin irritations which were short lived. He enjoys his school helper (Barry Adams) and his Scottish Autism worker Paula ! With him having an Speaking Tablet now (only for 18 months), he was given the option of going mainstream from the next school year (when he goes in Secondary 1) like Bryony and Avery BUT He decided against it (sit down meeting with Suzy Jeff and all concerned too!) he has got to know the school well and would want to stay there as long as possible!

 

Jared Clark was Smithson (7yo 11mo)  - adopted after Fostering  – birthday 4^th April
They have indeed settled since his Christmas week arrival. He does well with Bike Riding (being allowed to out  with one parent too) to the nearby Craigowl Hill (spam valley Craigowl View not far away); Suzy’s former council style home  in Downfield not far from the 20/22 City Centre/Ninewells bus ; now extended to aforementioned Spam Valley!)  AND helping his sister with her cycle that Mummy and Daddy got her at Christmas too! As well as that he has enjoyed getting into video games with some of the former Macpherson family too, as well as the newest arrivals,  and watching footie games on the telly in his room (supporting Chelsea!) . He turns 8 early April too.

 

Roseanne Clark was Smithson (6yo 4mo)  - adopted after Fostering  – birthday 29^th November
Similar to her Brother Jared, she has settled down in Suzy and Jeffs home. She continues enjoying her hobbies; watching her telly shows, and also getting on well for a new starter on her bike (with a parent on standby and her brother) as well as enjoying laps around the back yard/trampoline and occasionally (with parent accompanying) at Craigowl Hill too. Suzy did take her to her a Dundee United game for her second football game at Tannadice; where Suzy did not guarantee a win (Suzy generally attends now and then , usually 2-3 times a year) especially with Jim Goodwin’s Scottish Cup pedigree…. (fired by one of our rivals Aberdeen/The Sheep who lost 1-0 to Darvel a couple seasons ago!  However. They did (Sat 17^th January) witness Dundee United progress to  the next to the next round with a 2-0 victory over Ayr United in the previous league (Championship). After that Saturday 31^st March they did watch a 0-3 home  defeat in League (Scottish Premiership) game  to Hearts (pretty much Champions elect all season) ; and additionally  Saturday 21^st February where they witnessed a 1-1 draw against Kilmarnock (ED: lets not mention three years rainfall in the street, city and

surrounding areas in a few hours ,meaning waterlogged pitches ; MIGHT be a Slight exaggeration BUT a pisser for us at the time BUT I am living on third floor here in Dundee, let’s not forget!)

 

Avril Kohn (4yo 5mo) – foster kid -  – birthday 19^th October
Similarly to her older two siblings; she has settled well in a short time. Continues growing in knitting and cross-stitch as well as her telly shows. Particularly she likes the fact she has increased her number of young siblings (previous Isaah only)  exponentially, having fun with four of five more including Rose, Barry, sometimes Jared and Roseanne as well as her  Brother ; many more not including Lisa’s side. All in all, a good start, with much more to follow this week!

 

Isaah  Kohn (3yo 1mo)  - foster kid – birthday 27^th February
Despite being youngest of the four new Kohn arrivals;  and currently shortest, he has the BIGGEST personality. After a few hours with Suzy’s family settling in / nerves on whatever BUT he’s been full-on with his other siblings, and new family alike, enjoying telly and his interests too; he has probably the best week of the four.

 

Rose Clark (3yo 1mo) – own  kid – birthday 2^nd February
Suzy’s first born grows from strength to strength! In Big Girl Knickers since late December and potty trained in under 2 and a half years. rthday. She has really enjoyed Nursery school. After 3 days a week for first two weeks, she is now full time. Loved the new December arrivals and now too the Kohn family giving her an even more age diverse family and more playmates than she can shake a stick at!  She has already had brief chats with her two older new arrivals (Jude and Sol Kahn) about senior level Maths and English (which are in S5 and S6 like Calculus ; one of many shows she watched over the years). She remains getting more and more intelligent; still going into someone who  a VERY Intelligent Woman, answering questions at Nursery to at home too; so Suzy (and Jeff!) look forward to her Primary School; with her essentially smashing Nursery most days! (And Jeff and Suzy did discuss recently if she gets the chance to go up a year  in school or similar!)

 

Barry Clark was Chambers (2yo 1mo) – adopted through Will of God – birthday 27^th February
Progressing rapidly too. Also fully Potty Trained In Big Boy Pants since January. Looking forward to HIS time for Nursery School. Additionally, has been similarly happy   with more young kids since December’s four arrivals; before Kohn family arrived. He  has enjoyed time on Trampoline and some  a few laps of the back green,  when not in playroom or in front of the telly.

 

Triplets Charlotte,  Elizah and Aurora born Clark (1 yo 2mo) – own kids – birthday 31^st January
All Seeing, All Singing and All Dancing; most often literally! Sadly space precludes every one milestone for all three, BUT they are closer to 18-24 month old kids; mentally,  physically  and emotionally too!

 

Twins Sarah and Sylvia Clark was Smithson (4mo)  - adopted after Fostering – birthday 2^nd December
All in all, have made decent progress, now recognising people like Mummy Suzy/ Daddy Jeff and sometimes Sitters. Enjoying time with The Triplets too, however Sylvia is still the fussiest of them all! Suzy still breast feeding both during the daytime BUT both fine with the formulae too, which they are fed overnight by Night Nanny (in the annexe now like Jared and Roseanne!)

 

In other Monday news;
Suzy’s announcements included  that day in her home; monthly check—in with workers for Jared, Roseanne and the Twins  after a morning visit re Jude, Sol, Avril and Isaah. Their out of office numbers were told progress with Dad, and we will discuss that with your Foster Worker Amanda Burns and Social Worker Claire Gellatly.

Both workers arrived promptly, and were positively delighted at their father’s reaction and pretty much  happy they stay with Jeff and Suzy, and that he apologized to the kids as well. Their father was of course in Jerusalem, Israel until a couple of days afterwards Pesach/Passover (1^st to 12^th April 2026) so will be a small delay in getting their stuff afterwards shouldn’t be a problem after that date. Additionally with it being a couple of weeks AND their fathers permission to settle; originally we would look at transferring to Blackness nursery then primary as well as Harris Academy; however this was indeed not far from start of School Holidays (Friday 3^rd April until return Monday 20^th  April)  their workers had no objections and would start the ball rolling, but Jeff and Suzy would sit down with kids that evening; and Suzy would latterly ask Rose and Avery re helping them settle too! Further meeting scheduled at Jeff and Suzy’s similar time to  just now on Thursday but their workers were advised it was their families turn to visit Lisa and Jeff’s family home in Linlathen from lunchtime

After mid-afternoon visit all going well, evening the four Kohn were sat down re school Shift (they were advised it was likely) ; and really happy it was over school holidays! Additionally they enjoyed Jeff and Suzy’s look back on their week of progress!  

 

 

Chapter 100 - last days in March 2026 – first full week in Suzy’s home of four new arrivals and Lisa’s home new arrivals too…  recap 2, Tuesday 24^th and Wednesday 25^th March 2026

Lisa’s kids in brief; in arrival date order then age

Jayden McKenzie (age coming up for four yo; own kid) – birthday 27^th March     
Similar to Suzy’s Rose see Ch99;  coming on leaps and bounds. He enjoys his nursery school 110 per cent and is around 70 per cent as intelligent as Rose; but  nursery school for now means  plenty time for them to catch up! Almost every day in touch with Rose (using a big’s phone or a landline when not together), still very taken with Rose and he has had already kissed Rose on the cheek a couple of times! In addition to that Lisa and Steve are looking forward to his fourth birthday this Friday; and arranging a party for that date (Steve has booked Thursday Friday off work too) which all his siblings looking forward too, and he looks forward to another year older WHILE Lisa looks back what happened four years ago that day… no regrets to starting a family too; or indeed stretching further now to nine!

Lucy McKenzie was Mathieson AND Anna McKenzie was Mathieson (both 3yo  1mo;  adopted through Will of God) birthday 28^th February
Similar to Rose (who was born one week before these twins) they recently celebrated their third birthday and doing well day in, day out. In addition they are still on course and looking forward to  Nursery School (after Summer Holidays); especially after hearing about all the fun and serious stuff most days when Jayden talks about it.

Ed (Edward) McKenzie and Steph (Stephanie) McKenzie (both own kids; 1yr 7mo) – birthday 28^th September
Since the turn of the year; these two have turning into carbon copies of Suzy’s triplets; larger than life; all seeing all dancing and the like!  

 

George McKenzie was Jensen (4y 11m ; adopted through Universally Wide Parenting)   - birthday 15^th June
Having been with Lisa and Steve for nine months, has settled very well. Getting all well at Nursery like his sister BUT with the delay in starting ; he will be starting Primary School not this August but intense catchup means will be January or possibly even as early as October school holidays? Is five mid – April.

  

Amella McKenzie was Jensen (3y 7m ; adopted through Universally Wide Parenting) birthday 14^th October
Similar to their slightly older brother has really truly settled down at Lisa and Steve, enjoying Nursery Time and home time with her now bigger family; even more when with Suzy’s lot are here or we go there!

 

Anne Miller (4yo 6mo ; foster kid) – birthday 13^th February
Not too bad last close-to-a-week;  all things considered! Has bonded with Ed & Steph (Lisa’s second twins) also the few days to recover, and surprisingly went back to Nursery School (yesterday/Monday) with a smile on their face!

 

Esmee Miller (3yo 1mo ; foster kid) – birthday 13^th February
Also not too bad close-to-a-week and she made friends with all her new siblings and particularly close to Lucy and Anna, enjoyed playing this weekend and went back to her nursery at least content yesterday.

 

Similar to the day before Monday 24^th various  worker visits came and went on both Tuesday 24^th and Wednesday 25^th both at Lisa and Suzy’s Family homes! As was indeed imitated with the four new Kohn arrivals fathers and workers, she did mention in the Tuesday morning re the forthcoming festival of Passover/Pesach (1^st to 9^th April) how our four newest arrivals won’t be able to have certain foods (explaining to all and paper copies for all bar the four affected)’; as well apologising to the entire family IN ADVANCE when/if she messes something up  ; reminding her other children their stuff won’t change; it’s a bit symbolic she explains to the other home bar these four. Wednesday she did remind everyone going Thursday to visit Lisa, and also of Jayden’s birthday stuff plans on Friday! Rose turned pink as she remembers a slightly-longer than a lingering kiss on her cheek that previous weekend!
 

Suzy and Jeff had both bought a couple of gifts for Friday BUT the rest of her family / children getting something for Jayden too.

 

 

Chapter 101 - last ten days in March 2026 – first full week in Suzy’s home of four new arrivals and Lisa’s home new arrivals too…  Thursday 27^th March 2026 first part

On the morning Thursday 24^th The Kohn’s four heard from their father coming to Dundee Tuesday 14^th April; with the kids having keys and knew the alarm code if they need anything in the interim, and Suzy or Jeff would be happy to do the honours.. They were intending visiting St Andrews Jewish Congregation with all the kids as old as Barry and above, and Suzy had  indeed did ring ahead making sure the details were unchanged; the Rabbi was asking for the four Kohn family members who remembers well  (saying they would be told at picking them up that afternoon.

Other than Jayden’s birthday on Friday BUT now 16 kids and 2 grandkids; Mumtruck 3 for the first twelve kids plus 2 grandkids and the four new ones in Daddy jeffs car. With the plans for midweek school drops offs not by Suzy’s mother Friday morning and more kids in both (and dropping off Lisa’s Thursday to Sunday) the four new arrivals having to go in Jeffs car again for the sake of simplicity once again; this would be more than adequate until the kids settle and/or she has a bigger than 16 seater….

… however before Lisa could get things ready for Suzy’s family arrivals, another Foster call was received!  These wear three older kids probably longer term (repeated Neglect and Abuse BUT this is where Foster worker was essentially only ringing round on behalf of their own Social Worker, who should be able to give more details, 9 year old girl called Evelyn, 8 year old boy Andrew, 7 year old girl Amanda,  Family name Gerraldon,. She double checked if they could put two girls “yes that’s fine now at any age?. As Steve was here (partially birthday party; partially last weeks arrivals!) to which he had no objections; they were ready in their offices etc and it was mutually agreed 14.00 dropping off ! “Daddy Jeff have we increased our family to 12?” “Yes and indeed we have. A 15-20min break was allowed so she could send ANOTHER inner circle update…

 

 

ED: another long delay  NOT what I had planned… BUT after posting the Ch101 with intention of Ch102 the following morning … Very similar   a few months ago when assembled a over 4000 page PDF and then after saving the PDF and heading towards bed. Glitches and then some; in both recent cases,   my previous PC would not fully boot up ; this new machine arrived earlier on today; my vanilla boyfriend bought me a basic  refurbished one (paying back over a couple of months I am  into people not labels!) and here we now finally stand… again…  HOPEFULLY we continue easy and smoothly there in… lost a lot files earlier this year

 

Chapter 102 - last ten days in March 2026 – first full week in Suzy’s home of four new arrivals and Lisa’s home new arrivals too…  Thursday 27^th March 2026 second part

A weird start for Lisa indeed; texting her father and mother (dad at work, mum downstairs  BUT she can tell the other kids!);  to make sure Suzy was aware what to expect with them coming in a few hours; she explained her three new arrivals; we DON’T know much but hopefully more will become apparent over the coming hours and days; and when Suzy arrives she will talk in person re extra help (less help needed being older;  but an extra pair of  hands at least at school holidays too for three kids) and Suzy was indeed letting Dr Reynolds know ; finally Lisa has some older kids and two  calls in eight days!

Lisa then retuned to an Inner Circle email / message about the only scant detail for their three new Foster arrivals; 9 years old Evelyn Geraldson (birthday 23^rd January),  8 year old Andrew Geraldson (birthday 11^th July)  and 7 years old Amanda Geraldson,  who were coming around 14.00, and the additional basic details re neglect and abuse; which naturally could cover a myriad of things BUT WE HOPE they won’t be too badly traumatised. Their Social Worker is arriving too with the details, with her Daddy Steve getting the bedrooms ready at the same time. . After finishing the email, Lisa returned to the Ground Floor, soon after Daddy Steve who  assisted with extra stuff getting ready for Suzy’s arrival ; kids in playroom etc and Steve and Lisa briefly discussed things and their new older arrivals coming soon, including additional cars and much more besides!

Suzy’s family etc arrived like usual , lunch was consumed and the like! After the kids had their lunch; both Lisa/Steve and Suzy/Jeff alongside Lisas’ mother Polly stayed to discuss their news and this opportunity, and new kids coming soon. An interesting opportunity with Lisa and Steve being wished all the best by her mother and BFF and her hubby/Daddy. Suzy had added it was indeed kind; and then some; to take kids when they are so many variables and unknowns ; her Father from her work similarly wished her well and the rest, with her Father looking forward to meeting Lisa’s  10^th , 11^th and 12^th kids (he’s now up to 18 grandkids!) later after his work! ! Similar to last week, one of the sitters/mothers aids would take their kids upstairs (this time with Bryony helping as she was offering to help) while Jeff / Lisa (and now Suzy / jeff) discussed things . The kids were understood to be arriving  separately from Social Worker Jayne Bratton; and around 13.55 their cars started arriving. Lisa was answering door and explained things as they knew it with the kids begin told to head upstairs start unpacking with Bryony assisting ; she would keep them upstairs pending Lisa or Suzy messages while the Workers met Lisa/Steve, Polly and Suzy/Jeff.

Social Worker Jayne Bratton explained some of the relevant details; with this being third time removed from family; so more than likely permanent. Jayne explained ; with neglect ; while you’d expect the girls to be weight conscious they were all highly underfed and other neglect like forgetting to do things. Abuse was when the parents lost temper; which happened more than once a day (including things like spanking over their behind;  sadly now illegal ;with the old-school parents in their 50s Barry and Veronica been warned more than once that this is illegal BUT their schools were noticing too other similar abuse!

They live in Balgillo Park with the kids at Broughty Ferry Primary School ;  they are oddly VERY low-rent three kids given the situation from recently. The worker both explained the other details they had but the kids were able to go through their middle names and wants and needs too, with both Lisa and Steve more than happy with their new three arrivals!  After paperwork signed all round, Polly returned to the kitchen and  Bryony was indeed  rung “on the way Mummy” before Polly and Suzy and Jeff would soon after have their school run.
THURSDAY CONTINUES IN NEXT CHAPTER

 

 

ED: I should have said earlier; if its not been fucking PC issues this  year; i have been exhausted in one of the worst tiredness I’ve ever had… any wonder I felt twice my paper age (this year 47 so going on 94) BUT this year tiredness has meant feeling often zero out 100 per cent… aah well now returning to the end of this day in question! 

Chapter 103 - last ten days in March 2026 – first full week in Suzy’s home of four new arrivals and Lisa’s home new arrivals too…  Thursday 26^th March 2026 third part

Bryony did indeed walk down Lisa’s new arrivals down two separate levels/stairs (like they had at Suzy’s’ own main home now three floors too, where she sleeps of course too!

Lisa introduced herself and her family  in all the relevant details (not sisters elsewhere in Dundee or Luton)  with us more than happy to chat at any time being Me, jeff and a few other bigs  here (She will explain who everyone is  in total  by tapping everyone on head tomorrow morning at breakfast time so you can put a name to a face, as well as Suzy’s’ family who we take week about to stay Thursday lunch to Sunday dinnertime ; she is with us now till Sunday after dinner time and their Mummy Suzy or Daddy Jeff are more than happy to help if you fancy a different people to chat about things, they are all my family godparents and yours too! She explained their BFF and the details of Suzy’s family all names and the like too. She then did very similar to the previous two neglected arrivals apologised for their parents actions (see Chapters 43 and 44 George and Amellia’s arrival and  Chapters 94 and 95 for Esmee and Annes arrival) , we do have more than enough food which you are welcome to take at any time  with her (explaining her three meals a day times) we have to keep fridge and freezer locked BUT just ask if you need anything, or if you need me or Steve my hubby/babies father. However they don’t mind what you call us, as long as its polite and respectful. 

We will go through Rules an the likes later after your workers have gone; we will give you three the choice of food where we have Dinner tonight from (no need to decide now) then a few extra things you might need thereafter. But starting with Evelyn then Andrew then Amanda; tell us a bit about yourself, no need to be nervous kids okay? Doing as asked Evelyn stood up to say she  is in Primary 5 , middle name Anna,  I do like some cartoons and some reality TV,  walking along paths and  a bit of running, favourite colour is pink and favourite flavour is Strawberry. Andrew said he is in Primary 4,  middle was Bryan, loves video games and riding his bike , favourite colour is brown and  favour Lemon and Lime (combined). Finally was his little sister is Amanda, who explained she is in Primary 3, middle name is Stephanie who likes Bluey and Micky Mouse, sometimes walking and running with Evelyn, and also likes playing Video Games too. Her favourite colour was red with favourite flavour being Cherry.

Between the three new arrivals they agreed on a McDonalds,  with more bigs and kids than you can shake a stick at was decided for a McDelivery for 17.30 (with Lisa and Suzy knowing all their kids orders off by heart! Liisa would get a few things from our local supermarket and a few wee surprise. They would return to school Friday ; with (Daddy) Steve dropping off as currently in a completely direction from our other kids BUT that might change  soon enough IF you like it here with us two!   The workers then left, and intending returning Monday 30^th but with another one   booked morning  it was swapped for 14.00.

They were shown various directions (playroom and everything else in home) with them being free to do what they liked, this afternoon only. Andrew asked permission to use the Trampoline (which he saw the way in) while his sisters had some time in playroom and the like, after getting assistance with drinks and snacks keeping them going. For the kids who had mobiles at Suzy’s side were told Lisa has three new kids , who they will meet later , with the others being advised when picked up by Suzy or Jeff! A few including Rose and Avril and Isaah (of those with no phones) most interested, with the others largely also looking forward to new faces.  Suzy’s family arrived after school; with not enough seats in Mumtrck 2 split Suzy and jeff, plus Byron’s SEN taxi and Lisas lot collected too with them all being introduced to Lisa’s Evelyn, Andrew and Amanda. All meetings went well and Suzy’s older arrivals were together chatting, with others in playroom / trampoline pending food arrival.

Dinner (less than ten minutes away from Kingsway East Retail; Park) was a few minutes ahead of the arrival. They had it over two dining tables with Suzy’s lot too , and similar to those Suzy’s and Lisa’s kids arrival ; Lisa’s father / kids grandfather Brian Smith (well technically MBE and Doctorate too but keeping it simple for the new little ones) with meeting them all and explain he hopes all three of you love our home, to which we welcome you with open arms, with “Thanks Brian” was repeated by all three ! After the downstairs meeting earlier Lisa had indeed given the further gen by text messages after workers had left; forewarned is forearmed after all,  with him being more than happy AND Lisa getting praise for taking on more kids who had a shitty start to their life.

In further irony they went to Asda Milton of Craigie (diagonally opposite McDonalds where the delivery came from BUT getting 28 kids, 2 grandkids and 6 bigs is easier said than done clearly as Suzy’s lot have to go over two cars alone!!) Lisa took three new kids for a few things including a few surprise and bonus toys and the like) getting a few other food stuffs and the like, while Steve chatted outside playroom with Suzy and Jeff catching up everyone’s news and family news, developer talk  / politics to which Suzy said that was her cue to do checks, changes and making sure everyone was hydrated slash babies fed, and the like! Upon Lisa’s return the three new arrivals were talked through the House Rules and the like, this included Jayden’s birthday the following day, with everyone loves a party (but not a Surprise party) they were VERY excited !!!, After that lot,  Lisa joined Steve, Suzy and jeff on the sofa too.

After everyone’s bedtime, Lisa and Steve mused “lovely new set of older kids aren’t’ they?” Lisa said to Steve, before switching off bedside lights.

 

 

Chapter 104 - last ten days in March 2026 – first full week in Suzy’s home of four new arrivals and Lisa’s home new arrivals too…  Friday 27^th March to Tuesdy 31^st March 2026 (in slightly less details)

Friday 27^th March as well as Lisa telling all who in her home was, the morning announcements and were stopped (with Lisa’s previous knowledge from Suzy) to wish a Happy Birthday to Jayden with some of Suzy’s kids singing along Happy Birthday dear Jaden (with Rose giving  a BIG hug as well as a Happy Birthday Jayden from Suzy and Jeff as well as a even bigger hug) . Suzy asked Jayden how the Birthday  boy was doing; not too  bad BUT looking forward to Party after school!

It had been intended presents afterwards with the Party being best after everyone’s nursery / school / work, made sense to do open all at once! After everyone dropped off at school slash nursery; worker meetings came and went. Later at the party guests were including Doctor Reynolds (so using the opportunity to see the three new arrivals), Vee and Ross (who Suzy adopted their son Barry), Caroline and Byron and Brian Mathieson (who Lisa adopted their twins Anna and Lucy with their Son Brian who was now 1year 6months), Suzy’s mother senior nurse Orla, neighbours and the like the plan was in back green for some elements, with a foldable gazebo used  in case of inclement weather BUT  it was indeed an amazing weather day  (kept in the Garage flat packs)!

When everyone got home Jayden and everyone per above enjoyed an amazing birthday party; with both Mothers and most kids agreed that was one of he best birthday parties in our families histories!

 

Saturday 28^th March an earlier start  for Suzy’s family from Jude to Barry inclusive over two cars for 10.00 Saturday / Shabat meetings  in St Andrews c/o Uni of St Andrews (ED: in real life they are actually no longer weekly Saturdays so just humour me ;  saves them going to Edinburgh Newington!!) with back through Dundee City  Centre. Separately Lisa’s family into town too, in a couple of cars, Including new the three new arrivals first pocket money spending as well as allowing Jayden to spend any  gift vouchers ,and cash, too!

 

Sunday 29^th March a lot of recovering after lots of stuff out the house! As normal  Suzy’s family went home.

 

In a similar format to Chapter 100, various workers came and went on  Monday 30^th and  Tuesday 31^st March at  Lisa’s home and Suzy’s home too.. .

 

…Both Lisa and Suzy agreed on 1^st April by phone, that was a month and then some!

 

 Chapter 105 contains all of Aprill; including school holidays AND Pesach Passover too! And other surprises too, in brief!  COMING SOON HERE IN COMING WEEKS!

 

well i was unable to get here on pc but fine on mobile/cell ? Flush DNS works.. now up to Chapter 108

Chapter 105 – if March was an Month and then some, what happened in April? IT WAS AWESOME

April in brief, no particular order;

 

Passover / Kohn Family

The festival was marked appropriately; with a few food  and other mistakes  by Suzy; however that was a similar number not on Kashrut list before and after!

In other Kohn family news , the mother had briefly returned to Dundee (Shelia Kohn, 44) finalising things and moving her things separately (she had been a Primary School teachers; talking about going part-time or a years sabbatical; with  no plans to return to teaching in UK but possibly August 2027 or  January 2028 in the United States at a Elementary School or similar ; Gerald remains a Professor teaching University of Dundee Department of Philosophy. She has not apologized but is on speaking terms with her kids again now and promised to ring every so often as well; as well as messaging Suzy/Jeff and her kids who have mobile phones letting them know all developments over there and a couple of times a week. 

 

Other Suzy’s Family

It had been decided between both Bryony and her boyfriend Bryan Wamdito  on a new form of contraception, try to ensure no other pregnancies between now and finishing School, after what happened last year causing her to fall pregnant.  While the Pill  is what Suzy used, they preferred “fit it and forget it” kind of stuff like Lisa had for around 15 years; Dr Reynolds arranged an IUD like Lisa but a different kind (fitted by  a nurse in the Practice) . However she says never say never in a few years, especially with her twin sons looking cuter and cuter by the day!!!!

 

Lisa’s adopted kids and the rest, including another one on the way (at least… )

After discussing Lisa’s kids with Suzy,  it is not on record why they technically omitted or overlooked Lisa’s Lucy and Anna’s starting in January 2026 (Same time as Rose, who is one week older)  with Lisa dealing with a lot and additionally work considerations and promotion plus Christmas plus New Year! After discussing in the final few days of March/first few days April  before holidays with the school, However they will start April school holidays not just for a couple of days but full time (3 days a week for fortnight).

Lisa’s George did a couple extra days during weekend days, and this now fit to start Primary 1 in August 2026 after all !!

In addition ; over the last few months Lisa and Steve were in addition to the last few months Lisa and Steve were intended to have another pregnancies from their own body. In Chapter 94 she mentioned on Wednesday 19^th March she had her period (start Monday 16^th March to Sunday 22^nd March 2026) but she did not have a period in April… cut a long story short; she’s PREGNANT again… ! after pregnancy tests etc being positive! As at Sunday 3^rd May she is six weeks pregnant! While it is indeed early days;  after her last pregnancy gave her twins ; she hopes it is ONE ONLY is in there… Lisa and Steve were looking forward to their 13^th kid, fingers crossed all goes well AND no Thursday labour start…

 

School Moves, Holidays and Birthdays

During the two weeks in April Dundee school holidays; the Kohn family moved to same school as rest Suzy’s family, while one week after that both of Lisa’s foster kids families went to their school in Linlathen.

Suzy’s Jared 4^th April tuned 8 while Lisa’s Geroge turned  5  on 15^th April, with having  an amazing day all around. On 25^th May Suzy’s Bryony turns 14 while her siblings Avery turns 13 on 12^th June.

 

Chapter 106 – welcome to May 2026, Jeff back to work and how many school days off while Lisas fourth pregnancy (third her plus one adopted) and Helping other Mothers and Fathers too - first week of May 2026, part 1; Suzy’s family Monday 4^th May until Thursday 7^th May

After Lisa’s returning Sunday from Suzy’s ,  Suzy’s first week has school holiday May Day holiday Monday 4^th  May (including most works closed for the day), the following  day Suzy work day in the office  Tuesday 5^th May while Thursday 7^th May primary school / Nursery school for Scottish Parliament elections , treating those schools  to a  morning at Olympia swimming pool before Lisa’s…with all that and Lisa’s till Sunday, Jeffs boss had agreed to him returning to work the following Monday, with him working part time two days working from home for two weeks before that….so how that week go, for Suzy’s family ???

 

Over last few months, Suzy has been watching a few YouTubers in the states  (Laura Foster Parent Partner etc)  mention a parent support or local support helplines foster parents supporting each other in USA; there are none in Dundee and very few elsewhere aside from specific groups  / charities that  help parents bar a few specific issues like Gingerbread (IF still going? Was Single Parent support ), Scottish Autism and Hope Point for depression/suicidal thoughts ; to get essentially a second parent’s opinion with a kids refuse to behave , or a shoulder  to cry on) so  she has contacted all Fostering and Adoption and similar all who deal with taking kids  on like Will of God, Universally Wide Parenting,  Barnardo’s and the like) in and around the City of Dundee and surroundings to try and set one up; the idea would be like a Magic Phone Number  that forwards to whichever person  (or persons) are volunteering, with all being able to refer to an Online Knowledge Base open to all , with ideally someone 24/7 BUT there might be gaps on occasions (NOT for a kid fell  down a well or direct Foster office general enquires) it open to all parents; not just Foster parents in  Dundee and up to  10 miles past current Dundee City Council boundary including Angus Fife and Perth and Kinross in part too. She had someone typing up a LOT of her previous experience; with some Doctors, Social Workers and the like  doing similar elsewhere in Dundee with  money for temps etc from Smith Benevolent Fund.

Around 35 “Greater Dundee” parents are volunteering (Suzy  doing a few weekdays 10am to 2pm between school runs three times a week and Jeff a few evenings); their kids are aware  in case calls with another sitter added the day and evening shifts on certain days different times to cover Suzy and Jeff Helpline working hours) and some Lisa after her pregnancy! Once word of mouth and press adverts , posters in Doctor Surgery and more besides they hope  for a few more too ; as well as promote the 24/7 to Dundee parents; any role and any  gender who is a Mother or Father or Parent of any kind. Calls are 100 per cent confidential – unless someone life at risk- and Volunteers have been to walk through to a spare room in front of kids etc. There is more than one Mental Health  24/7 people in Dundee (ED: from personal experience vary drastically)  BUT nothing for parents??

In addition this has support of all the foster, social work council and third sector all “fully support” ; including a few donations which will be added to help better the service (with Brian donating 100 percent running costs for a trial period of one year   ; with money ringfenced in all future years IF the service gets enough calls (target 10 in a 24 hour period), with Suzy, Brian and one lawyers who does Benevolent Fund in the process of being setting up with Scotland’s charity regulator who ‘s  name I forget. Additionally some flexible office space paid too in Dundee ; for Project Meetings and the like (Vols work from home, or wherever  they are ; and a small contribution to their Phone Line bill of £10 a month, inbound calls only BUT on occasions mobile calls may drop! AND towards internet costs for online knowledge base!) )  As it stands four weeks away the Magic Number being launched (Dundee Parent Peer Support line ) on Monday 1^st June 2026 from 08.00 onwards  (Suzy doing first Monday until 14.30 with other volunteers included most of the first Monday and some night help booked including a few professions who are  mothers and fathers helping too, with a  press launch Friday 5^th June 2026 at the office space!

A few other people MAY wonder why no one officially has done that BUT Suzy’s thinks the thing  could replicate into other area of Scotland, England and beyond too!  Suzy sees as giving back ; to who is anyone guess!

 

Situation with cars is essentially Suzy hot-swapping seats for School runs; when all are needed in one car Bryony  and sibling has them held tight in arms / using a bodywrap one each twin 2 people, with  while the other four in Daddy  Jeffs  car BUT some further progress is Suzy three weeks ago applied for an (bus) standard operator license with two discs (in theory a second for a spare/covering hired  but discs can be swapped around similar to former Merlin’s Ark ; two discs and double digit buses OR possibly Lisa’s family one year) was required under both names; registering  their home, Lisas home and a Car Park / spare ground in walking from home close to Downfield Terminus ,   Last Friday an email was received from  which name VOSA is approved.  In theory the existing bus could be modified TO A POINT;  BUT screwed without having it they would be! Looking at EnsignBus something for a bit more coach stuff ; EnsignBus clear of small coaches but Lanarkshire-based dealer Drew Wilson had a 33 seater for sale https://drewwilson.co.uk/vehicles-for-sale/2024-daf-noone-turas-900/   already 3 point belt coach seats and E6  so fine for Dundee LEZ and a big boot  not had on Mumtruck 3, and similarly which is being painted orange/black again with MUMTRUCK 4 on a sun strip,  and some additional internal luggage racking 29 seats now  including bike racking and similar to the low-floor bus extra space floor to ceiling. It’s being stored at Stuarts of Carluke who also host Drew Wilsons stock too; paint done by a Lanarkshire-based contractor who’s name I forget who modified the interior too. To drive that they both need both PCV licenses , and with that that (both licenses and  theory plus Driver CPC);with them successful so far and their last Driver CPC lesson that Friday ; meaning they have the final one this Friday and assuming all is well then it is understood  Mumtruck 4 will be delivered during the next week.    Around a week later Drew Wilson will take Mumtruck 3 in part exchange. (Suzy did not want to buy one immediately ; even though it would help massively; and claiming and similar to Del Trotters van” tax in post” ; o-disc in post BUT Someone in Dundee did try it ; Atlas Travel who ended up closing before getting anywhere bar forgetting to pay their legally required at the time Tour Insurance company!)  With 29  seats it means not only all 16 kids, 2 grandkids, and 4 bigs could  go in one vehicle plus other friends and neighbours etc, on occasions too! 

  

Lisa and Steve are both applying for  minibus permit for a 16 seater ASAP but her father has grandfather rights and is assisting with driving  Lisa’s and Steve having bought basic 16 seater for their family too!

 

Suzy’s Monday 4^th May 2026 started ; plans were similar to extra level of sitters  for April school holidays, (Suzy’s family) BUT she had  her Daddy Jeff, mother and father of Suzy all off work SO five reduced to three staff needed. Plan was largely a chill day around home, playing things  by ear round the home. Interestingly however Suzy’s mother and father were able to get a very carefree day with Suzy’s  now extended even further family, including taking walks and bike paths, walking to a nearby park Swing Park type thing) too for a few goes on the swings and similar kids toys stuff! A drawing was taken on the previous Friday with Suzy’s 16 kids to decide a takeaway for lunch and dinner; Rose drew lunch (asking for a Subway for the family) and Avery  won the dinner drawing (who decided on  Domino’s Pizza for the family); the entire day went down very well, with calls from kids and to bigs to repeat it again one day, which they might do on the forthcoming day on Victoria Day three Monday’s (also Byrony’s birthday!!!)

 

Tuesday 5^th May 2026 things got back to normal with schools and work returning .  As traditional first and now third Tuesday was in office (kids dropped by Suzy’s mum and picked up by Suzy; all now in one car again BUT the smaller kids’  car seat in luggage rack again) Suzy really had enjoyed chatting to some of her favourite patients (now with more kids in some cases), while Doctor Reynolds was updated on their 16  kids and 2 grandkids too, Lisas side and her pregnancy too!

Bryony was running home during their work times ; with Daddy Jeff also standby (the home had Pasta Bake for Lunch; while Suzy had a hot snack during brief lunch by driving over to Invergowrie  (Perth and Kinross council area!) as it was easier than parking and the like at Ninewells Hospital, and a change from grabbing a sandwich from a Supermarket on route to work! Suzy as gone there a fair few Tuesdays of late! Dinner was a  frozen Big Mac-like burgers (swapping for Soy Cheese slices for the four Kohn’s!)  with chips  onion rings and prefilled Ice Cream Cones from the freezer too !  Mid-evening a scheduled visit after dinner  by Jared Smithson (father of Jared, Roseanne and twins Sarah and Sylvia) for a couple of hours after dinner but before bedtime! His wedding planned for the last Saturday in July to Kim Foyle.  In addition the aforementioned Bus Operator discs arrived too!

 

Wednesday 6^th May 2026 saw Suzy back home for the larger part and a few workers came and went. Chicken Curry  for lunch with Daddy Jeff covering Suzy at dinner time making Mock Chops. In early evening not only was Gerald Kohn visiting his kids Jude, Sol, Isaah and Avril early evening (Similar to Jared Smithson yesterday) but  a 19.00 Dundee Parent Peer Support line meeting at The Offices! Everyone’s looking forward to launch and first day! A few more Stakeholders are now on board; with a couple of donations too.  A receptionist hired weekday daytimes to assist with minor admin etc – not taking calls – with them also helping open office for these meetings. Next one two weeks away!

 

Thursday 7^th May 2026 was a bit more sideways than usual Thursday going to Lisa’s! Scottish Parliament election closed DCC primary schools and thus nursery schools  but NOT senior schools ! Mumtrck 3 was loaded with kids clothes and supply  and Jeffs car too (him working from home  previous day instead).

After  dropping off the Senior School kids those who were off were taken to Dundee Olympia Swimming pool (width those missing out today going Saturday instead!) Helping Suzy was sitter of the triplets sitter Melissa and Byrony. Lisa knew they were later this time and they had lunch at the Café before driving to Lisa’s arrivinhg around 14.15 before Suzy then picked up senior kids!  At Lisa’s home a quick few minute caching up with her BFF before store-bought pizzas!

 

Chapter 107 – welcome to May 2026, Jeff back to work and how many school days off with Lisas fourth pregnancy (third her plus one adopted) and Helping other Mothers and Fathers too - first week of May 2026, part 2; Suzy’s family Friday 8^th May to Sunday 10^th May 2026

 

As no Suzy’ s mother when at Lisa’s, after Friday 8^th May after morning announcements Suzy took Mumtruck 3 dropping off both Blackness primary and nursery school kids followed by Harris Academy kids, with Jeff travelling passenger too BUT AS WELL so they could then proceed to Dock Street Bus Depot for their last Driver CPC session (they now offer periodic Driver CPC for other than their own staff) , once again having practical and classroom stuff ;.   This is not a test or exam BUT this was all done and dusted (with no legally required CPC hours for three years) in slight excess of the legal minimum and also ensuring they could in theory drive bigger buses. They left Dock Street Depot around 13.30 stopping on route at Tim Horton’s for a bite to eat before Lisa’s place in Linlathen less than ten minutes away, eating food at Lisa’s home while Daddy Jeff then did the School Collections this time.   

Suzy phoned Drew Wilson re plans essentially on next weeks drop off; this coming Tuesday 12^th May arriving Dundee between 10.00-11.00. A Stuarts of Carluke driver would be dropping it off; upon noticing their home is walking distance from a frequent bus service (Downfield terminus 22 now all buses extended to Craigowl View (ED: 22 was twice as often before sadly The Brothers Grimm got their hands  / McGills / new owners of Xplore Dundee…  for another day!)  into town before BR/ScotRail Dundee to Glasgow Queen Street before walking round to Cathedral Street travel passenger on 240X service which passes past their Carluke depot before continuing through to Lanark, with similar in reverse week Friday 22^nd May UNLESS problems with the new one needing  the old one for longer  ; BUT Suzy or Jeff will drop/collect at Dundee (rail) station  in their car close to the  boss stops;  60 seconds to the platform. The vehicle is indeed a similar length to their other on the ones. However as a PSV operator licenced bus it will need to be docked (the previous was non-psv quarterly) more often six weekly after school run  ; dropping off at Sidlaw (who did the quarterly check-ups) … as the day before Daddy Jeff will drive a 16 seater from Arnold Clark behind Seagate Bus Station just in case maintenance etc required or ringing round for spare parts; later that day  dropping off following morning ; at a push the Harris Academy kids could  get a bus ;changing in the City Centre to save a walk uphill to Blackness Rood  on return now (all under 22’s travel free  by bus and half or 1/3 off trains in Scotland) BUT if Mumtruck 4 needs parts etc ; 16 seats in one car , Daddy Jeffs 5 seat car AND double-running if needed OR taxis at a push  if Jeff Suzy 16  kids and 2 grandkids won’t generally need every seat unless going to Lisa’s but services on Tuesdays it is highly unlikely  (hiring 16 seater Monday to Wednesday or possibly longer) with his boss aware BUT the side of the week when Jeff works from home . It was a Digital Tachograph with Suzy and Jeff requiring separate cards and the like which can detect excessive driving etc ; with no us services registered  EU hours 4.5 hours BUT they usually take breaks; especially with kids on board (Are we there yet Mum… Are we there yet Mum… etc etc)  Suzy will periodically have to view breaks etc BUT less of an issue with them not  full time  bus or truck driver lets not forget ; in another buses might be manual/paper but time will tell; Suzy as a small card holder (and paper wallet just in case) ready for the new one.

After all Suzy’s kids returned to Lisa’s  she explained that hopefully getting the new bus on the road Wednesday or Thursday, and are also aware of 6-weekly checks after 8 Mondays from this coming , and everyone had a decent night sleep!

 

Saturday 9^th  May Suzy’s plan was to take the senior kids who did not get Swimming; with Lisa dealing lunch and the like  for the other kids who did not get to go swimming  going , as young as  Barry have been over the two days as Suzy has already arranged swimming lessons for the Triplets Charlotte/Elizah/Aurora,  twins Sarah/Sylvia and her grandkids (Steven/Robert) too separately mid-week,  at St Paul’s catholic school pool  Gilburn Road 5 minutes drive from house, before one day taking them to the big pool in town. All the other kids are relatively confident in the water.  The seniors  had lunch  at Pool Café before ;  a couple things  in town (including a few on behalf of those still at Lisas) before arriving home around 16.50 for Dinner; Lisa for Dinner;  Lisa’s mother Polly  with help from Lisa and Bryony had made Sausage Casserole with Fruit  and Ice Cream’s for pudding!!!! Another decent night’s  sleep all around…

  

…Sunday 10^th May was a bit quiet at Suzy’s side, with Lisas kids having time in town after lunch (Lisa’s mums Roast Beef dinner) and Dinner  (Lisa’s mums Lasagne) before Suzy’s family headed home around 19.30 as normal !!!

 

Chapter 108 – welcome to May 2026, Jeff back to work and how many school days off while Lisas fourth pregnancy (third her plus one adopted) and Helping other Mothers and Fathers too - first week of May 2026, part 1; Lisa’s family Monday 4^th May  to Wednesday 6^th May 2026

In relation to Lisa’s most recent foster arrivals ;  (Miller two and Geraldson three) have all settled very well, the parents have not taken it well. Miller family was on phone when Suzy was there, NOT intended BUT  a good thing on this  occasion,  Suzy often has no filter (like me in real life too); Mr Miler explained his view to Lisa while chatting ; on speaker ; to Suzy took over the call; “Mr Miller; you fucked your own daughters; technically these days Child Abuse mate NOT FORGETTING Statritory Rape  , be lucky Lisa and Steve aren’t’  seeking a restraining order. I have seen your two at weekends only and they are telling me over the last six weeks I have treated better than you ever did;  Lisa and Steve are pretty good parents where they have settled”

In addition Mr and Mrs Geraldson were all of the “back in my day” mentality BUT That does not explain underfeeding them ; to which the kids later told Lisa or Steve both their (birth) parents would often be  Dad drunk or Mum high, which would explain things, over the last few years (NOT sure if lifelong as their workers only knew a little before that but they do now!).

So after parents appeals failed and similar,   they are similar to what north America  calls Termination of Parental Rights (similar to George and Amellia’s arrivals) ; them getting weekly visitation in neutral location and she has started filing paperwork in 4-6 weeks Lisa intends to Adopt both families kids in full. That being medium term not known If their parents will be there ; an apology to their kids will be some time coming BUT they now they wont be able to misuse their kids any more!

One similar from Suzy ; now that Mr Kohn is back in Dundee , he has no objection to Adoption procedures (his wife is okay not coming)  wants to be there in person when Suzy and  Jeff adopt their four kids.  With court hours then Solicitors  (for Stat Dec/change names) Monday to Friday daytimes the idea was a part-day off school for four kids and Mr Kohn having day off too;  however upon seeing an in service training day (Treacher training etc) just before Victoria Day Monday, the previous Friday all the kids would be off so it was decided  that was the most workable option and booked the day in questions It is understood the other siblings up to Barry in age want  to be there moral support , with only ten seats in public gallery of the Friday in question so rest kids sit in waiting area. After adoption their kids choice of lunch in town for all 16 Suzy kids 2 grandkids and 2 bigs  before the three big (Suzy/Jeff and Mr Kohn), with first half the court  time 10.00 and second half solicitors at 13.00 after which the kids will have a few hours in town any of the museums in and around Dundee City Centre (or close by) .

 

Over the last few Chapters you will be aware Lisa wanting another pregnancy  and her previous ones too. Yesterday (as at Sunday 3^rd May 2026) she was six weeks pregnant. Hoping for a single baby hat doesn’t come on a Thursdays!   Their kids and most friend’s know BUT they know she is waiting for the 10 week scan to be super sure that all is 100% well!  Suzy’s previous pregnancy caused damage but healing by the day But Suzy  was seeking no more then 14-15 kids; she has 16 and 2 grandkids BUT as refused to rule out trying  for another baby of her own making.  She has no intention of kicking out kids 16 or 18  age and will let them decide ; if most room full at the Inn BUT still up for anything ; especially after becoming  a full time Mum last August!

 

Monday 4^th May 2026 started with for Lisa; like her previous pregnancies; woken by Daddy Steve waking her up “Morning mummy to be” ; not hating that she did admit! With all schools closed and her husbands work closed; they had  a few enjoyable hours of family  fun at Dundee Museum of Transport, lunch  in town at  McDonalds Reform Street before continuing to The McManus (galleries and museum round the corner in Albert Square) for another couple hours family fun . for which Lisa and Steve enjoyed just about as much as their kids!

 

Tuesday 5^th May 2026  schools were back to normal ; the two parents have a few more weeks extra paid leave;  that’s  before even before discussing Lisa’s forthcoming maternity and Steve’s paternity leave too! Suzy’s boss Dr Reynolds was even giving her a text messages  of support re her pregnancy after Suzy  and Sarah finished their days work as well as a couple worker visits been and gone.

 

Wednesday 6^th May 2026  was similar to Tuesday but  general supermarket groceries/ food delivery and a Hot Food delivery for lunch!

 

 

Chapter 109 – welcome to May 2026, Jeff back to work and how many school days off while Lisas fourth pregnancy (third her plus one adopted) and Helping other Mothers and Fathers too - first week of May 2026, part 2; Lisa’s family Thursday 7^th May to Sunday 10^th May 2026

Thursday 7^th May was Suzy and her family coming en masse , with a twist in primary schools and nursery schools being closed for Scottish Parliament elections. With her having no senior /  High School kids;  a couple Disney movies on big screen telly went down exceptionally well (The Little Mermaid and Finding Dory either sided of lunch) with after Suzy’s arrival ; her choice was Piglet’s Big Movie before dinner and then  Ratatouille  (see Chapter 106 for the Food).

 

Friday 8^th May all kids back  to school; with the numbers involved Bryan dropped off on route to his work with 11 kids being picked up 8 in Lisa s Mumtruck 1 and 3 in her Mother splitting the load for the short return home! In addition  a couple workers  came and went. (see Chapter 107 for the Food).

 

Suzy took some kids out on Saturday 9^th May who were not at the Olympia swimming pool that previous Thursday out to the  swimming pool BUT other than those kids Lisa looked after her other kids (see Chapter 107 for the Food) which went down very well for those Lisa and her Mother Polly were looking after those and her own too with the  usual extra sitter help for a Saturday ; with Lisa really enjoying her time with Suzy’s younger kids too. 

 

Sunday 10^th May Lisa and Steve were heading into Dundee City Centre for a few things for all the kids (Pocket money spending) , her father Brian drove with Lisa while Steve got further chats  with Suzy, Jeff and similar and their kids too (see Chapter 107 for the Food).

 

  

Chapter 110 – welcome to May 2026, Jeff back to work and how many school days off while Lisas fourth pregnancy (third her plus one adopted) and Helping other Mothers and Fathers too - second week of May 2026, part 1; Suzy’s family Monday 11^th May to Wednesday 13^th May 2026

This week was (from Suzy’s perspective) similar in some aspects; different in others (no School holidays this week) but the week before was  still interesting in respect of some interesting phone calls this week; no new  kids this week either for Suzy or Lisa  bar the latter’s pregnancy entering the seventh week of her own pregnancy…

 

… Monday 11^th May in her Morning Announcements Suzy reminded everyone Mumtruck  4 coming hopefully the following the mid-morning; that she was also looking for extra Mummies aid ‘s to help in Playroom ; so checking everyone nappies / feeding the, drinks and the like; two shifts like  before. This is so we always have someone there when Mummy and Other Helpers / Sitters are otherwise engaged, been intended to get extra help for a wee while the now!  Daddy / Jeff is returning to work but per normal i.e. working from home Monday, Tuesday and Wednesday with in the Office Thursdays and Fridays.

Mummy / Suzy also reminded the family that she was starting soon the new Parents Pier Support Phone Service (Dundee Parent Peer Support Line; also see Chapters 106 and 107 this story)  helping a few days between dropping you off or collecting you on occasions and school days and school holidays where another sitter covers me too, with Daddy helping a few  forthcoming some evenings too,.. she sees this as Giving Back ; to who now is other agencies and the like  as well as other Foster Parents and Friends they have rung before too!

 

Rose said to her Mummy from her seat next to Barry at Breakfast Table “I think you will do VERY WELL with that Mummy” Barry replied “I don’t… come on Rose we might get a new toy out of it!” effectively just heckling her mother;  (she knew from the giggles after between Rose and Barry) “I hear you; so in the interim here’s the Tickle Monster till then!”(pulls Rose out ticking   in the two different places, before repeating similar on Barry) “Everyone of my kids and grandkids will get a wee bit extra money this week around twenty pounds; enough money for youngsters’ towards a toy or two (many cheers); older kids towards something else like a video game BUT no restrictions to what you can spend that on  … .NOW is everyone happy, or does the Tickle Monster have to return? “ (Suzy does a strict  looking face from one kid to the next”??? ) However the Tickle Monster did not have to return throughout the day, let alone breakfast! 

Bryony added later “It’s good what you are doing of course… And I think its weird there wasn’t one in Scotland full stop” to which Suzy thanked her once again… Suzy reminded she would  make  an excellent volunteer “Mulling that one over  Mummy” lets not forget she turns 14 in a fortnights time; Mummy (well her Mummy Suzy) reminded me while Schools off for Victoria Day from teatime we are having a  birthday party for you, as we have done with other kids   hand;  will give times etc later in the week,.. can’t guarantee as kick ass as Jayden’s  BUT  I do my best. “oooh yes that was an amazing day indeed!” And your  Boyfriend’s coming round after School tomorrow / Tuesday if I remember right” “Yes he is indeed, following Day Wednesday taking your youngest and my two for first swimming lesson if I remember right??” “Yes  it is indeed”

Suzy later did ring the relevant Parenting agency re a few extra Playroom helpers; to which she would of course send names etc over coming days and possibly a few meeting Suzy (and Jeff if a day he’s working from home) to discuss those things, with a view to start in a couple of Mondays, with them aware of every other Thursday to Sunday at Lisas BUT Suzy no issue paying those days as well.

Lunch was Lasagne for those at home  from Suzy’s mother recipe always goes down well (assembled after breakfast ; despite no Kohn Family kids switched to Quorn Mince or something similar brand) with Dinner this week Daddy Jeff’s turn to cook who made stir-fried Chicken in a sweet and sour sauce over thick noodles!

 

Tuesday 12^th May ; new minibus delivery (similar to when Suzy working a  Tuesday one sitter plus Bryony covering in home a wee while Suzy and Jeff take it out for a test spin, Wednesday the same, with Suzy intending to take it out for the  PM School run the following day). i.e. Wednesday 13^th homewards school run, as her Mother still drops off unless at Lisa’s, Kids excited for a look around after their school ./ nursery where applicable!  Bryan Wandito (i.e. Bryony’s boyfriend later that day). In the run up to the new minibus being delivered the time was used to ring round confirmed plans for Bryony’s birthday on Monday 25^th May , and time was confirmed  once again decided for 18.30-20.30 , to which was advised to all as well as Bryony herself too!

Mumtruck 4 was indeed promptly delivered at 10.06, with Daddy Jeff using his  5-seat car to drop the Stuarts driver at Dundee railway station. Those still there (and Mummy Suzy) loved how it looked inside; with assigned seats similar BUT will be all explained later that evening!

Upon Daddy’s Jeffs return ; Suzy took it for a spin (Daddy Jeff travelling passenger!)  to Trottick, Strathmartine Hospital, Bridgefoot, Kirkton of Auchterhouse, , Auchterhouse Toll before direct via A923, Kingsway West and Strathmartine Road, before Daddy Jeff did one very similarly in the opposite directions (after swapping Tachograph Cards)!. It does seem to have quite a turn of speed to it  more than Mumtruck 3 ; with this being bult as an inter city coach it kind of goes with the territory.  A similar time around the neighbouring schemes of Craigowl View, Kirkton, St Marys planned the following day, where a lot 20/30 mile an hour limits will be more useful for City running , the following morning before locally  using  Mumtruck 4  including first swimming lessons nearby in Kirkton before soon after the school run for nursery,  primary and secondary school run home!.

Lunch was Turkey Drummers with dinner being pizzas; with some of the kids enjoying the chance making their own too! When the kids were all home they enjoyed seeing there seats ; when each person was happy with where they were sitting, the names were placed in the Seat Number list on the overhead racking using a hand-held Label Maker ; as well as Suzy using the opportunity to  swap the car seats to the new car with assistance from Daddy Jeff muscles.  The kid loved the big boot too; with Rose asking for a leg up diving in briefly too!

Byran (Bryony’s’ boyfriend) was promptly dropped off and collected by his parents too, as well as Jared Smithson (father of Jared / Roseanne / twins Sarah and Sylvia  visited his Children too.

  

Wednesday 13^th May  Suzy’s announcements including (as well as Gerard  Kohn/father of Jude, Sal, Avril and Isaah) coming around later again) and the first use  of the new Mumtruck 4 to pick you up  after School; was also Triplets Charlotte Eljah and  Aurora, twins Sarah and Sylivia and my two grandkid’s  in Steven and Robert first swimming lessons. In the latter four case,  they might not take to it as fast BUT  Suzy more than happy they get some pool time AT LEAST , and we will see how it goes   (they all had previously all had a splash around in the bath too), as well as their weekly online food delivery coming later on.

After the previous day mentioned short spin around Residential Areas (Jeff first before Suzy then leaving her Tacho card in), the youngest few were belted in for the short trip to St John’s RC Academy swimming pool time and lessons for all seven, with Mummy Suzy and Byrony happy to  see all largely happy;  Aurora/The Diva took to  the water and swimming like a natural before all at least were happy. The first bit was a bit of beginner’s stuffs from the teachers (30 mins splashing around before first lesson around 1 hour) with both  Suzy and Byrony in swimming gear to allow them to be close to the kids; and the only snag was getting a  couple OUT the water  (Aurora  / The Diva and one of Sarah and Sylvia!!  While that had worked out well  the return home a bit behind 13.00 a sitter had put on frozen Burgers and Chips .  Wednesday the big school finishes first before the primary school so around 14.30 Mummy Suzy went to wait for Harris Academy kids due out 15.00 (getting there 14.45 leaving 15.07) before Blackness Primary and Nursery School due out 15.30 every day (arriving 15.19 leaving 15.37) with all  those bar Byron’s Kingspark school taxi also enjoying their first new run “in  Mum’s new wheels” as Avery called  it on their way home!.  With there being enough seats for all 16 kids; 2 grandkids and 4 bigs giving  still seven seats to spare!  Dinner was a Beef Casserole,  while during the dinner Daddy Jeff later enjoyed hearing earlier pool progress too, especially with all  the kids more than happy to try it!! !

Gerald Kohn was prompt indeed for an hour with his four in Suzy’s’ home! As Jeff and Suzy later switched off their bedside lamps; Suzy said “another amazing few days of progress first half this week” to which her Daddy Jeff replied “indeed it was baby girl ;  and still four days to go!”

 

 

 

Chapter 111 – welcome to May 2026, Jeff back to work and how many school days off while Lisas fourth pregnancy (third her plus one adopted) and Helping other Mothers and Fathers too - second week of May 2026, part 2; Suzy’s family Thursday 14^th May to Sunday 17^th May 2026

This day in question (Thursday 14^th May)  Suzy was scheduled to hear of from the Nanny / Babysitter network re a couple extra playroom helpers by telephone with some interviews this Friday 15^th or Monday 18^th. This was indeed included in Suzy’s morning announcements, alongside Lisa coming around like usual .  Your Daddy Jeff is in the office again today and tomorrow and another workers check in this afternoon .  Also mid-evening Mummy Carlie and Assistant Claire seeing both  me and Lisa for an hour or so for Big Baby fun times , partially with Daddy and sometimes Lisa’s Steve too; as usual for a Thursday

Suzy is generally person of her word and she also explained you will all get taken out Saturday for their pocket money spending; Dundee City Centre where we will take you all out in one go (the first lot going in one vehicle since Mumtruck 4’s arrival of course) with after lunch we go for  the Stack for Smiths Toys followed by Kingsway west for Hobbycraft if anyone wants those too. All getting extra 20 in cash on top of usual Pocket Money too (see Chapter 110 this story when Rose and Barry heckled their own mother! ) We are leaving around Saturday 10:30  with McDonalds Reform Street for lunch stop as they have plenty of upstairs seats for two bigs, sixteen kids  and two grandkids PLUS Granny Polly giving us an extra pair of hands. With Grandad staying home this time as usual ; I guess she wants to help “I do of course  my darling daughter and baby Suzy” (Suzy blushes briefly) …and with my Grandkids and Great Grandkids it should be a decent day out I hope!”  Suzy then replied “of course with so many people three bigs would be preferable to two we all think!

Also additionally on so Friday night into Saturday morning both Jared and Roseanne were spending a Sleepover with their former neighbours in Menzieshill Friday night into Saturday morning; so your father (Jared Smithson)  will collect you and I or Jeff will pick you up Saturday 09.30 so plenty time  to join the rest of the family; and the Family you are staying with you do know your finishing a little early, and they will ensure you get Breakfast there too; obviously if still more food here if you need it; and we will have a lunch stop too in any case.

A message had indeed been received re the additional Playroom help’ 7 potential ones ; five were fine Friday two  Monday , with  Friday  to which Suzy agreed 10.00, 10.30, 11.00, 11.30, 13.00 with Monday coming 10.00 and 10.30; with the agency lady arriving 09.30 both days.

Lisa texted saying (mid – morning) not only getting ready to leave soon enough and also her Minibus permit has been approved; will chat about that to you and that later. How’s many favourite bus operator?>> “”I’m not a bus operator, I just needed enough seats for four bigs, 16 kids and 2 grandkids in one vehicle… BUT That’s  rich coming from 69 69 69 Taxis Overall Office Manager isn’t it Lisa!” “Touche , I’ll give you that, we can chat in more details! Remind me to tell you he is buying more taxi companies; so each thing like Despatcher Managers and the like might need to be doubled up BUT that not yet decided yet!”

In preparation for Lisa’s family’s arrival Suzy and Byrony prepared lunch (a cold slices of Chicken breast and hot Popcorn Chicken Salad, with store bought Fruit Trifles for pudding). Lisa arrived promptly, food went down well . Lisa liked the look (inside and out with Suzy giving her keys) too on Mumtruck 4, and Lisa then spilled the beans; firstly her and her husbands minibus permits had been approved; with her Father driving her kids too to work and school; in return leg the 8 seater (first Mumtruck) does a double-run with Lisa’s mother Polly drives the short walking distance with now 10 kids at school or nursery  double running is needed ; she was looking into to getting another 16 seater (Polly has grandfather rights / no permit) AND to help with going to Suzy’s too ; 12  kids will fit in with go with two bigs  too! ) has been put to  one side for them at a Ford dealer (Mumtruck 5 with Brian’s technically Granddad’s Truck!) has been put to one side/bought and paid for ; and will pick up Saturday while the 8 seater goes in part exchange in the next fortnight from a dealer ; it is a brand new Transit from the  dealership elsewhere in Dundee City all-over red; Brians one was spare after a driver traded it in ; was reseated from 12 plus wheelchair ramps and 2w/c  spaces  to 16 seats in time for  Brian’s use  in case her Lisa ended up with as big a family as Suzy has   ; she is getting close;  even Suzy and Lisa reflected on  that!!!

Lisa’s father Brian was also expanding his Taxi Empire too; last week Aberdeen-based Rainbow City Taxis joined his empire (being integrated into their systems over next 4-6 weeks  ) while Edinburgh based Southside Cars are in the process of selling too; pending a few other things too over next fortnight (their drivers all approved) ; another lot Crammond Taxi and Private Hire MIGHT be next; 3-4 weeks pending drivers etc (with the other lot discussing between each other approaching Brian rather than Business for Sale etc notices in newspapers and the like) While in two separate directions it is understood once second round managers are added over network one will do Perth one day with the other doing 2 days Aberdeen and 2 Edinburgh days with Friday Dundee person Friday in Perth reverts to a full day  Thursday Monifieth and Friday Tayport BUT Dad’s on those decision’s; no’ me!  Suzy then also checked in after that her BFF s pregnancy; going well; aside her Morning Sickness getting worse!!! 

After hearing all Lisa’s good news; (as happens 4-6 times a year between the girls): Suzy insisted on Lisa’s choice of A hot food delivery; her being in the mood of a pizza; so it was agreed on a Domino’s Pizza for around 17.30! Suzy did the ordering after she returned from the afternoon school run. 

Otherwise the day went fairly smoothly; no issues!

 

After everyone had another decent night sleep  ; the following day being Friday 15^th May .  in Suzy’s morning announcement’s she added and explained some potential Playroom Assistaints being interviewed this morning and early afternoon today, plus a couple on this coming Monday by Mummy Suyzy and also one of the relevant Agency managers arriving in Laura, so if you see us in and out the Study quite often ; now you know the reason why! . She also wished a good sleepover for Jared and Roseanne who were going to their former (housing) ‘scheme in Menzieshill too. 

Agency Laura person arrived with a couple of minutes to spare; explaining who  was coming and when;

10.00 is  Avril
10.30 is Evelyn
11.00 is Isobel
11.30 is Sophie
after lunch
13.00 is Charlotte S

WHILE on Monday
10.00 is Dot
10.30 is Charlotte J

All Friday’s interviewees arrived close to time, with a lunch stop the usual Fish Friday (Fish and Chips / Fish Fingers for Kids and a couple no fish have Sausages) with Bryony and one of her Mothers Aids getting everything ready, including helping with fresh fruit for pudding too!. Most were promising interviews; and later on  Monday after lunch a decision would be made between the Agency and Suzy too with the plan of a start two weeks on Monday. For two 8-hour shifts over Early or Late will require there or four or so; Laura already drew up provisional plans; holiday cover TBC.

After School run was done Suzy was later met all her family; Lisa’s family as well as previously preparing a couple of bags of Sleepover-related stuff for Jared and Roseanne beforehand too (Suzy asking what they wanted looked out before their school).  Dinner was a Mac and Cheese bake or three and ice cream afterwards.

Jared Smithson did arrive promptly with him intending a  couple hours at sleepover before heading home separately. This night between the home and The Annexe,  all eight bigs, 26 out of 28 kids and 2 grandkids had a decent sleep ; bar the two staying with former neighbours in Menzieshill!

 

Saturday 16^th May;  Suzy collected Jared and Roseanne from a former neighbours sleepover; who really enjoyed it! As Suzy drove all her kids ;  grandkids; her hubby and mother, Lisa and her hubby had booked a taxi to pick up their new wheels too.

 It means on Sunday no double-running OR help from Suzy or Jeff ; BUT kids in one and the other one out of Lisa and Steve driver to take the 8 seater home, not forgetting their kids  pocket money spending in town Sunday  !

Suzy’s family and her Mother all agreed it was a decent Shopping trip and a decent spin on Suzy’s and Jeff’s new wheels!  Both Lisa’s and Jeff enjoyed a couple spins in their new 16 seater (only Suzy jeff or a PSV or PCV driver can drive theirs ON PUBLIC GROUND -  but both Suzy’s  mother and Lisa were allowed spins round the council car park too!!) however they enjoyed it working well around the side roads! Dinner was Chicken Curry and Rice (packet mix) and yogurt / pudding cups from the Fridge!

 

Sunday 17^th May was  similarly smooth and as planned! After lunch (Suzy’s mother Orla’s turn to cook who prepared Roast Beef; Lisa and her lot headed to town first shot in Mumtruck 5 into town (both Jeff and Suzy gave plenty of places they could park their bigger car in town ; them now essentially experts with her Daddy Jeff also previously being on caravan holidays; so used to high sided vehicles and then some! Upon their return to Suzy’s home they thanked for their advise ; Suzy then later put on Frozen battered sausages , with  the four Jewish kids getting beef Lorne and Chips and some Fruit Salad too.

Lisa did indeed leave in the same car she came in (8 seater Mumtruck the first) while her Daddy Jeff took the other kids home in the previously day collected Mumtruck 5!!

 

 

Just spotted most of the March dates are a day out… I will later update those in another separate upload to include a few minor corrections and typos one of these days… SORTED! 

Chapter 112 – welcome to May 2026, Jeff back to work and how many school days off while Lisas fourth pregnancy (third her plus one adopted) and Helping other Mothers and Fathers too - second week of May 2026, part 1; Lisa’s family Monday 11^th May to Wednesday 13^th May 2026  (second half in Chapter 111 merged with Suzy)

In other Suzy and Helpline bits I omitted in over her side of the week (Chapters 110 and 111) , the previous weeks Wednesday 7^th  May meeting (mentioned briefly in Chapter 106) was an additional suggestion from a  previous meeting or two to proceed and set up with having a series of School Holiday family events at the office, with three or four days a week the  office is open to Family Fun Days as a drop-in thing; basic sweets and snacks etc all free;  and most days at least one bit of entertainment or some well known faces visiting in each day of the four,   for every week of the long summer school holiday weeks (which are 12.00 Friday 3^rd July until the pupils return Tuesday 18^th August 2026 ; to give a further leg up to parents All and free  juice/basic snacks ; and free baby  / long life food / sanitary  and toiletries stuff and some similar supplies to take home too (with a vacant unit in the Overgate Centre having similar supplies every day in question) , these being upstairs main office unit (someone at foot of stairs briefly minding kids and those not managing stairs  someone will grab what they need with a pick list of all stuff available)  with Brian’s fund footing the bill; parents could also make a donation (towards helpline expansion and running costs) BUT not mandatory!  Staff would not be volunteers but paid temp staff in all cases.   They already had required PLI for launch and other community events too ‘; and it as intended as more PR   and word of mouth for Helpline; and a latter extent Smith Benevolent Fund too.  The landlords have additionally the next unit (20 plus 20) AND with an external gazebo (70) so 110 can attend at once !  Saturday , Monday , Wednesday and Friday  ; starting  Saturday 4^th July until Monday 17^th August 2026 ; from 09.00 to 19.00 each day in question  ; Brown Street ten minutes walk from Overgate Centre and McManus Galleries; not far from the Kennels too ; with Gazebo covering some Car Parking ; those performing  and the like / those working the event parking BUT Overgate , Wellgate and Greenmarket as well as lots of general parking spaces within 10-15 minute walk  (with Sign Spinners being done too!!!)  . To further assist with  travel costs; those attending those travelling by bus  or train (to further help parents as all kids travel free by bus) were told to buy a relevant Adult day ticket (one of three different Day tickets depending on bus company OR ABC multi-operator on paper / smart card keep receipt / or M-Tickets (not just Dundee zone but further afield OR Coach OR Rail  day return tickets up to a maximum of £20 per Adult (kids go for £1 on ScotRail ; their £1 is included in  £20 travel cap too  upon arrival they will be repaid cost , being given back in cash upon their arrival (with large daily cash deliveries of small change and bank notes too!) This was intended as an experiment ; if successful for all this time round , then in the October school holidays it may well return! !

Lisa has previously intended to start Volunteering after her pregnancy BUT she is more than happy to help get the Summer Holiday project getting up and running , with her father allowing her up to two hours/day NOT vital meetings off her work to start and she is also  doing similar a couple of hours most evenings and some other non-working hours / days in any case! Over two weeks (or maybe a bit earlier depending on other workload  the full programme will be put in place too. 

 

Lisa’s family side

Lisa does indeed enter the seventh week of her own pregnancy , getting worse and worse Morning Sickness; and she did return to work the previous Monday from Family Leave (helping not only Miller BUT also Geraldson family settle!

Monday 11^th May Lisa was indeed at work and was additionally able to make a start on plans for the Summer Holiday Programme; with her mothers Dinner night being Sausage and mash!

 

Tuesday 12^th May was similar BUT with a workers visit at their home 09.30 – 10.30 both her and her hubby  went into work a bit later around 10.15 leaving  home (both her and her Daddy Steve ; in Lisa’s case a taxi to her work) The evening was a trust related bi-monthly formal-ish  Dinner type event;’ Lisa and Steve (all Trust members and spouses had been invited every other month as a Thank You for your help with Trust stuff with  Brian gets the bill and or is a business expenditure or something like that! This  time ;   for a change at Invercarse Hotel (Perth Road just before Dundee’s Botanic Gardens; as opposed to two months ago at Piper Dam ; as an experiment this month at the Invercarse) and Lisa (usually fine with two courses dinner but all three were on offer) so she went  for Bruschetta, a rather nice taste and looking Butterfly Chicken, finished with a warm choc cup with peppermint ice cream.  A few wines and the like did flow (Lisa pregnant on alcohol free ); while Lisa’s middle sister Anna McDonald working from 20.00 she was absent  BUT Lisa enjoyed catching with all her husband Steven Macdonald with him also discussing the three kids and Anna’s life too. It was also a decent catchup with other Trust board members and their other halves too!

 

Wednesday 13^th May was more  like Monday BUT as well as reminding her Family it was reminded there turn till Suzy’s till Sunday AND ALSO mid-afternoon Lisa  got an email mentioning her Minibus Permit application has been approved; upon ringing her hubby / Daddy Steve; he had been approved too! Dinner was  Lisas’ mum’s Lasagne, and they then indeed did discuss  with her  Mother / Father and Hubby everything over dinner, including picking up the new Transit (aka Mumtruck 5) that Saturday (paid 50/50 Lisa and Steve , other half her Father Brian!)

THURSDAY TO SUNDAY ; BOTH FAMILY SIDES IN  (PREVIOUS) CHAPTER 111

 

 

For the rest of May I will revert to  both Suzy and Lisa in one post ; thought it would work but it isn’t (working) IMHO…

Chapter 113 – welcome to May 2026, Jeff back to work and how many school days off while Lisas fourth pregnancy (third her plus one adopted) and Helping other Mothers and Fathers too – third week of May 2026, part 1; Lisa’s and Suzy’s family Monday 18^th May first half

The third week of May  was busy with appointments at both Lisa and Suzy family side , including  marking start of Lisa’s eight week of her pregnancy , So how did it work out in reality…?

Suzy’s week;

Monday 18^th May saw 07.30 DCC Fostering rung Suzy  ; long story short was knew she was largely full for now  ; after being told all the relevant bits Suzy did agree (after double checking with her Daddy Jeff) for up to five days and nights after foster family handed in permanent notice with immediate effect (we think one of their payments was mis-directed ); they were getting close to re-unification (going back to their parents) Friday.   Well behaved kids (twins Simon and Brian Wilson (12). They would be kept in one  of those room free during those times when Lisa’s family are over; with Suzy taking them with Lisa Thursday night ; Suzy double checked with her hubby who had no issues . Dropping off at  11.45 was decided. Following that a few more questions getting as much gen as was available. Jeff was happy to hear in a few minutes BUT not outing Simon as a bedwetter or Brian having High-Functioning Autism! They would of course try and support both them when they get through to their rooms ;  They might well openly talk about their situation too BUT for just now she was intending to They Have mild Special Needs, which was fine by Jeff!

This was discussed in Study, with the rest still waiting for Suzy’s announcements a bit behind the normal 07.45 Announcements with them all a little starting chanting “Why are we waiting etc” Rose then Barry , and a couple more, then Suzy walked through starting 07.52. “Morning everyone. Before I get into the rest of todays announcements  we had another fostering call for a few nights… they all know Jeff and I  are happy with  16 kids plus 2 grandkids, for now BUT the foster parents before handed notice with immediate effect, assumed to be something to do with money NOT kids behaviours , they had already intended to go back to their  own parents on Friday daytime. So from around 11.45 until Friday daytime when they will be reunified with parents after some Mental Health issues we will have twins Simon and Brian Wilson, 12 year old boys coming.  I understand that They Have mild Special Needs  and Simon is into self-defence / Karate, excuse me using a cuss word for my fellow Arabs but he’s into Dundee FC (A few boos but Sol gives a cheer) as well as running and Cats, while his twin Brian is into;  the great outdoors , WWE and AEW wrestling , Dundee United and into Dogs (apparently there are some dogs and cats both at their home you see)
Normally they stay with their Mummy Sam and Daddy Brian, not far from Lisa on Pitkerro Road less than five minutes drive from Lisa and are both first year Braeview Academy; lets not forget Schools off Friday BUT Daddy Jeff will drop off/pick up from their School ; he is in the office Thursday/Friday but on Thursday we’ll work around that (finishing earlier) hopefully as he has a decent boss! They are getting one of the Annexe rooms where Lisa’s family use on Thursday to Sunday. We used to get calls like this (short term Foster placements) before’; which with largely before we had Rose, then the rest of you  joined our family . HOWEVER the only other thing I ask is that you all be on best behaviour at all times ?? “understood Mummy” said Rose while chatting to Barry who was nodding , with rest of the Family all nodding along…

… she then went through rest of the Morning Announcements, including a few latter in the week like the Kohn family adoption on Friday (also a school holiday) , and Bryony’s birthday party (Victoria Day similar to May Day all off including Schools too!)

She discussed the week ahead plans with her hubby Daddy Jeff , as well as moving beds around he would see if his boss would allow a 14.00 finish this week to pick up kids. While Suzy deals reunification on Friday while Daddy Jeff would deal with Adoption issues in town; or other way round. BUT Suzy’s family all had fingers crossed; and then some; all goes to plan this week and kids are happy!

An email was sent round Suzy’s Inner Circle to explain all that she knew. After the Playroom help interviews came and went (with this weeks short term placement they were all made aware it would be decided not tomorrow but over the weekend, with all applicants  were happy).  In the interim Daddy Jeff’ boss Stroudo approved Jeff’s early finish; and as well as wishing them well for the week ahead AND he does not need to do extra two hours next week at work, if turns out still with you get back for more time off. 

Jeff and Suzy then discussed family plans and the like; while Suzy is currently happy currently 16 plus 2 FOR NOW ; BUT near future possibly Suzy up to 20 ; one from my own or so and possibly a few others ?  The contractors said they could put two additional two floors, and up to 19 bedrooms with two floor, or  14  bedrooms with one extra floor,  a few more for short and  long term use (as well as enough room to install a lift in The Annexe) with a few rooms spare for people growing up elsewhere in Suzy and Jeff’s Main home.  Additionally it might once again be surprised with multiple placements at similar to before ,so if there was room, we might say yes even if exceeds limits, and we worry about it / get sitters later. Jeff had no issue there before  Suzy discussed returning to Trying for Kids of her own again around the turn of the year BUT on that moment next year 39 ; at that age we might be an IVF case AND it would be nice for Suzy to put triplets delivery behind her!  Suzy promised to discuss Dr Reynolds over coming days ,if she doesn’t’ arrange to see them BUT   a few messages had come in ‘; including  aforementioned Doc R! Jeff and Suzy had to finish 11.15 with them coming around 11,30 BUT her Daddy was more than happy with whatever extra bits and bobs make his wife happy re expansion and more kids ; however if they go for soon another pregnancy or other things not 100pc yet; with them asking contractors to visit once again soon NOT sure building date yet though!

An extra sitter (who has helped both Lisa and Suzy before) in Lynda helping this week with her helping from 12.00 today then all day rest of the week for the whole day. HOWEVER it was both agreed by Jeff and Suzy to wait for the rest till after the Wilson Brothers arrived!

Around 11.25 a single car (not branded DCC this time ; Viv said her own car 6 seats) arrived,  similar to a few other kid  arrivals of late AND 11.27 another arrival was Social worker.  The worker Suzy had indeed spoke to on the phone earlier was a Vivian Gray or Viv and she is expected too, alongside a less experienced member of staff shadowing her (as  part of her newbie training) called Laura Jones, as well as the two kids in question AND In separate car their Social Worker Destiny Chambers  (ED: in real life Dundee City Council Mental Health Social Work do tend to hunt in packs (twos) for some reason I am unsure!) 

Once again Bryony answered the door and walked through to the main Kitchen table. A similar discussion to the Kohn family arrived; she welcomed them to the house etc ; asked if they are fine with discussing their conditions, to which they both discussed “Yes I still wet the bed (Steven) And my brother has high-level Autism!”  Suzy explained she has problems day and night life long so always prepared in case of a similar person; and in addition, I trust if your brother Brian needs any chill out or anything similar, he will let me know? “Yeah will do” “We will walk you to Rooms after lunch , go through the rules and stash your stuff . You will be staying with us this week Monday to Friday daytime (we go to my best friend week about so our week to go there  Thurs night to Sunday evening ; so we will go there Thursday night. We understand that you are already planning on returning to  your parents on Friday; and we will look after you this week in the interim”

After paper forms etc were all signed and the like, lunch was a Pasta Bake.

AFTER LUNCH , AND LISA SIDE , IN CHAPTER 114

 

 

Chapter 114 – welcome to May 2026, Jeff back to work and how many school days off while Lisas fourth pregnancy (third her plus one adopted) and Helping other Mothers and Fathers too – third week of May 2026, part 1; Lisa’s and Suzy’s family Monday 18^th May second half

After their lunch; and them also being given tonight’s dinner choices, it was very similar to the arrival of Smithson and Kohn families (see Chapter 75-76 for Smithson and Chapters 92-93 for Kohn) they were walked over to The Annexe, during said time ;   Suzy said she will try to go a bit easier on them, with them going through a lot!

After stowing their stuff in the room ; walking down for their Introductions at the sitting   / waiting area; explaining all the usuals , such as you only sleep here, Welcome Pack, rules in brief and Wi-Fi details and the like ; not too many questions to which Suzy explained the extra details of those things  BUT enquiring if heading home does not happen; is there a Plan B ? Suzy explained nothing else known yet; so they have fingers  crossed ! HOWEVER you will ALWAYS be welcome here to at least see us again ; as long as your parents are fine with it ? They said that was very kind of them. Suzy enquired if the situation with your parents happened before; they said a 3 or 4 times; some nice Foster families,  some not so nice families BUT this first time when we get four days away from getting home!

After walking back through the boys were in mood for some  Mexican; a couple of suggestions  but Suzy really enjoys Wee Mexico (and the Jarros soda!)  so was arranged for a teatime delivery (17.30) that evening;  with Suzy once again knowing most regular orders!    (ED: very similar to the also independently owned Nana Mexico in Cambridge, both independents; I used to LOVE their Big Ass burritos too in Cambridge) 

They proceeded through the rest of the main downstairs stuff  before having a chat with Byrony and a few others downstairs; along with Suzy leaving for the School Run (picking up nursery , primary and secondary school kids) ;  during Daddy Jeff was also introducing them to the others, including Byron’s  taxi and when Suzy arrived with the kids not still at home, he did the same for everyone. Suzy’s Mother and Father both really liked meeting, as did the majority of the rest of the home to be fair!

Inner Circle replies included a lot of wishing them well, with Dr Reynolds hoping to do a flying visit Tuesday or Wednesday after work and school…

 

Dinner arrived soon enough (Suzy’s choice a Mexi Munchy Box and a couple of Jarros sodas , afterwards ice cream from the freezer!)  

At Jeff and Suzy’s bedtime ; they said ”Can’t believe someone go awol on a kid when only four days till they go home” “ I know right Daddy”

 

 

Lisa’s side 
Not much out of the ordinary Monday bar work and responding to Suzy’s good news…

 

 

 

 

 

 

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