Tell us about getting your diapers checked by your partner, spouse, caregiver or whomever. Whether you are an AB or DL, do you have a spouse or partner who knows and participates with you in your AB/DL life?  Does that person do random diaper checks to see if you need a change?  How do they do it, where and when?  For example, if at home do you just wear diapers around the house or do you wear pants over them?  Will your partner come up to you and pull the back of your diaper away and look