Monday, I had my first appointment with my new doctor. This was an appointment I made specifically with her about my mental health and "urine retention".   The appointment was on a video call so we got to see each other. It started out as normally as it could be for a video appointment: we greeted each other and I thanked her for taking the time to talk to me. She verified who I was then double checked my meds, history, and allergies.   She asked me if I was there to talk abo